(ThyBlackMan.com) It’s that time of the year again, mistletoe, holiday cheer, Christmas trees, beautiful lights and most importantly, presents.  If you are an engaged, devoted, loving single dad, you will definitely come face to face, often, with your children’s mother. No matter how long it has been since you separated, ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) I have written a number of articles relating to men and the many issues they are confronted with.   I recently wrote Black Father and Daughter Dance here at Thy Black Man, which expressed the significance of the father daughter wedding dance in a woman’s life. Men stepping up to the ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Quality education is one of the most important factors in determining one’s future prosperity and destiny.  But for Black American parents and students the issue will affect not only our overall quality of life, but also will determine how we will achieve to the fullest extent actual freedom, justice, equality ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) While checking my Yahoo email I came across a video of a father and daughter wedding dance.  The dance was an interesting one which consisted of a medley of hip hop and R and B tunes.  They danced to everything from KC and the Sunshine Band, The Stanky Leg, ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) ‘…but recently I’ve done some uncharacteristic things as father that if I didn’t feel as though I could report them to her, I’d really need a brother who had my back to talk out how I’d lost my temper with my five month old daughter…’ The above excerpt comes ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Life is filled with situations and circumstances that many children have no control over. It is disheartening to see children suffer from abuse and neglect. The reality of the matter is, as your read this post, there are children who are being exposed to irresponsible people, being abused, and ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) When an unplanned pregnancy occurs, sometimes both parents feel that they are unprepared for parenthood.  In this case both may agree to give up their rights to raise a child and choose adoption as an alternative.   In most cases when this does occur, the acknowledgement of both parents is ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) I wonder: What kind of person must he have been back then, to abandon twin baby girls, just as beautiful as they were strong? My father was out of me and my twin sister’s life by the time I was three years old. The man and woman who parented ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Sometimes—especially with sons—you have to “play hardball.” If you’re a father of boys, you have my prayers. They’ll make you proud, but they also may make you crazy. One of the key areas you need to address with your sons is their aggressiveness. I saw it in my sons ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Being a good man and a good dad are not entirely mutually exclusive. The days of “Do as I say and not as I do” are over. Today’s kids who are always-on, tech-savvy, and have 24/7 Internet access to information which they can use to dispute you. The following ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The day has come when you realize that your child is growing up.  Your baby is no longer a baby.  They are maturing and coming into their own.  They are also asking questions that you may or may not be prepared to discuss.  The discussion I am speaking of ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Corporate men have made a nice run of fatherhood but their time is waning.  There is a new breed of father on the scene that deserves respect due.  I don’t mean to discredit the contribution of the former type of father whose head of household status was reinforced by ...