Wednesday, February 28, 2024

The Importance of Self-Care in Nurturing Healthy Relationships.

February 14, 2024 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationships, Tech/Internet, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( In the tapestry of human connections, the thread of self-care is woven with golden resilience, fortifying the intricate bonds of affection. Imagine a visual metaphor, an abstract image capturing the essence of two souls flourishing in their own right, yet intertwined in a harmonious dance of growth and support. Two individuals... [Read more...]

Beyond #Adulting – Embracing Responsibility in the Age of Hashtags and Hype.

February 11, 2024 by  
Filed under BM, News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( I happened to be informed of a ‘cute’ term recently. It’s called #adulting. Or, just ‘adulting’ for short. I Googled the term, and found that this term had been around since the mid-teens. In short, it means that our millennial generation young men and young women are to get ‘credit’ and ‘warm fuzzies’ for doing... [Read more...]

Social Media: Monitoring Your Children.

Tweet ( Recently the Congress of the United States held a hearing regarding the damage social media is causing. They had no problems, slamming companies like TikTok, Facebook and Instagram and it’s always easy to blame somebody else. I am not here to defend those social media companies. But I am writing this article to tell the rest... [Read more...]

Black Americans Comedian Katt Williams is a Reminder: Drama Sells.

January 18, 2024 by  
Filed under BM, Ent., News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( This 2024 year has begun with scorching drama. Instead of talking about resolutions and what we want this year to be about, we’re discussing Katt Williams and all the tea he spilled on “Club Shay Shay” with Shannon Sharpe. In an interview that was close to three hours long the comedian gave his unfiltered position on many... [Read more...]

Black Americans, Asian Americans, Mexican Americans and White Americans: Stop Half-Stepping Through Life.

January 7, 2024 by  
Filed under BM, Business, Health, Money, News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( As an Advanced Life Coach, I often teach that life is about 20% of what happens to you and 80% of how you see it and what you do about it. Even so, I see people all around me half stepping through life. Mediocrity has become the norm. Excellence has become the enemy. Poverty has become the excuse. If you are lazy, it’s up to... [Read more...]

Navigating Divorce Assets.

January 7, 2024 by  
Filed under Business, News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( Divorce is a difficult and emotional process, and one of the most challenging aspects is dividing assets. Whether you have been married for a short time or many years, the division of assets can be a complex and contentious issue. In this comprehensive guide, we will explore the various aspects of navigating divorce assets and... [Read more...]

Top 10 Rules and More of Courtesy for 2024.

January 5, 2024 by  
Filed under BM, Health, News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( As children, we were consistently taught various etiquette and courtesy rules of behavior to grow up and become well-mannered creatures. With time, we may forget or overlook some of these societal norms. As such, a quick refresher course on them is always helpful. If the elementary school children in my afterschool mentoring... [Read more...]

Will Smith & Jada Pinkett Smith: The Double Standards in Accountability — A Call for Fairness in Toxic Behavior.

December 30, 2023 by  
Filed under BM, Ent., News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( I believed in fairness, hence why I am an egalitarian. I don’t support  men subjugating an abusing women, furthermore I don’t support women doing said things to men. There has been a push to hold men accountable for their abusive ways [ which I agree with], but we are not sold on holding women accountable for the same trashy... [Read more...]

Rethinking Blame in Relationships: The Impact of Image and Self-Awareness.

November 24, 2023 by  
Filed under BM, News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( When the subject of relationships come up the men tend to blame the women, and the women tend to blame the men. Very rarely does one look at self and say I am the problem. It’s so much easier to lay fault at the feet of others knowing one will have an entourage that will agree with our placing of blame. The problem is, in... [Read more...]

Beyond Visibility: Challenging Misconceptions and Embracing the Truth of Black Men in America.

November 14, 2023 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet ( To be honest with you, baseless commentary by a segment of Black women about Black men puts me into a state of disbelief because I understand that their emotional accusations spewed toward Black men do not reflect Black men in America. I do my best to sidestep such discussions. I realized long ago that such opinions are anecdotal... [Read more...]

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