(ThyBlackMan.com) Self-Projection is what can separate you from your ideal man or woman. The phrase “nice guys finish last” has been around for many years. It’s true; women don’t like nice guys unless they are planning to marrying them. But it’s only because the way that these types of guys ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) What is a friend..? So many people get so caught up in the novelty of the word “friend,” that they lose sight of what the word really means. Throughout my life I have always been a very outgoing and sociable person, and in that time I have established numerous ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) I’ve been checking out the different posts related to men on different sites around the Internet. And I’ve read some good, interesting stuff. But there’s one thing that’s bothering me about dudes I keep running across; not just on on-line, but even out in the streets. Brothers, you need ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) I have written a number of articles relating to men and the many issues they are confronted with. I recently wrote Black Father and Daughter Dance here at Thy Black Man, which expressed the significance of the father daughter wedding dance in a woman’s life. Men stepping up to the ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) Brothers, never lay down with a woman that you don’t trust with your life. If conception occurs, and the relationship ends, her hurt/pain/ bitterness will cause her to use her womb as a counter attack against you, since betrayal starts in the womb (mental) first. We have to work ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) eclecticalexandria: i’m tired of reading, seeing, and hearing lectures and panels of men sharing their opinion of why women are single and how women should portray themselves in society. true womanhood cannot and never will be defined by a man. This may be old news to some folks but I’mma ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) “Be a good girl for Mommy” was the last thing she heard her mother say. She saw him approaching her, and she looked at her mother in confusion, then in fear as he took her in the bedroom. “Mommy HELP ME!” “Be a good girl for Mommy” is what ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) Some people may say I am a thick sista or a big boned sista or the ignorant ones just call you the F-word and we all know what it means and of course, it pisses me off. I don’t consider myself any of those things even if I have ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) Hungry….why wait? The question has been blasted in our eardrums from the famous snickers commercials and too deeply engrained in the American consciousness, because now it almost completely reflects our way of life. Do everything quick and easy, for fast and instant gratification. True enough hunger on any level ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) “Yo, buff ting, ya looking nice today, still’. I walk past the bus stop, eyes focused on the crossing a few steps ahead. “Psst, psst – eh gorgeous, can I talk with you”, the thick West African accent cuts through my thoughts, and I glance to my side to ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) If you have enjoyed any of my writings some of the things you are about to hear may sound familiar from a previous articles and that’s because IT IS!! The success of relationships can easily be summed up in two words Repetition or Repeat. You have to take all ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) I have had this discussion with my husband several times. I often say “Is there any hope for my Sisters regarding marriage?” Wherever the Black Man plants his seed, he is reproduced, but what about the Black Woman? Is she in danger of becoming extinct? With the number of ...