(ThyBlackMan.com) Anyone who has sat in on one of my lectures can attest to the fact that I go to extreme lengths to involve the audience. This effort is a tactic targeted at keeping the audience engaged as I discuss pressing issues affecting Black America. Of all the topics that ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) When provided the benefit of hindsight, so many things become absurdly ironic. One of the most ironic items is my beloved mother’s constant refrain that there were some crimes that Black people did not commit; it actually became a running joke between us. When a crime was reported on ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) There is an intangible element called the “Black Tax” that many Blacks cite as the cost of being Black in America. I am sure that many are wondering what the “Black Tax” is? Well, I will tell you that it is an extra cost of doing business in America ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Michael Jackson called them “dangerous”.   BBD called them “poison”. Then Usher came along and enabled them by sounding desperate. Janet made it about what we have to do for them.  Beyonce’ pushed the female domination over men. Feminism made it all the man’s fault. And the Me-Too movement launched the ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The moment that the trailer for If Beale Street Could Talk began, my spirit leapt for joy as I realized that the story unfolding on the screen was James Baldwin’s classic story of Love and Blackness in a nation that routinely seeks to stomp out the latter in a desperate ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Today, the swirling aka interracial relationship agenda is being heavily pushed by the corporate mainstream media whether it be in commercials, ads, TV shows, or movies. Another thing about the swirling agenda is that it’s also being promoted and encouraged by a small sector of people in the black community ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) I am always suspicious when someone asks, “May, I ask you a question?” So, I hope it is understandable when a caller into the blog talk radio show “Who Did It To You?” issued that specific request that I prepared for the worst. It has been my experience that the ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) It is estimated that more than 40 percent of women are now the breadwinners for the families and that the number of women who are staying home full-time has drastically decreased. In fact, many of the women who are stay at home moms, have found companies from which they can ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) For years we have been sold the logic that the government uses child support to keep the black man down. That the government forces black mothers to remain single by setting restrictions in place that will ensure the black man can not live in the home with the black mother, ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Every black dad on this planet is powerful beyond measure. In our struggle against the demonization of who we are and what we represent, here are five (among many) things every black dad should know. It’s Not How Much Time You Get It’s What You Do with It That Really ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The holidays are coming up and that beautiful woman you’ve been dating is ready for you to meet the family.  You’ve been thinking about taking things to the next level anyway but you’re a little nervous about meeting her family.  Don’t be, unless you’re a jerk, just be you.  We ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Women are coming to the realization that they are worth having a partner that is supportive, loving, successful, driven and uplifting. They don’t have to settle for the brother with no vision. They don’t have to deal with mental, emotional, spiritual nor physical abuse. They deserve to be respected and ...