(ThyBlackMan.com) Being in a romantic relationship is a full time job, just as parenting is. Relationships require optimal balance for success and longevity. You are an individual yet one with another. You must focus on your personal growth as well as the growth of your relationship. We are mirrors, clear reflections of the partner we have attracted.
Most relationships are unproductive and toxic in nature because most people choose to point fingers rather than working on themselves. We often attract romantic partners who are different on the surface yet the same at the core. That means, that which you 
hate or dislike about your partner is most likely a trait you hate within yourself. Same goes for what you love.
Respect. Respect is the foundation of a healthy, fulfilling relationship. When we respect our partner, we choose our words wisely as not to cause pain. We honor their boundaries by giving them the necessary space to tend to their personal needs. Respect instills the ability to compromise to ensure the relationship is balanced and both partners are able to reach a mutual agreement where both win.
Communication. Effective communication equally involves speaking and listening. If your voice is the only one you hear, you certainly aren’t communicating clearly. Listen to what your partner is saying and allow them to fully express themselves. Ask questions if you need to but never make assumptions or attempt to interpret your partner’s feelings, thoughts or actions based on your past experiences.
Commitment. A relationship is not about seeing what will happen and where they will go. A relationship requires a vision and goals just like any other goal we set. In order for a relationship to work, both parties must be committed to the success and longevity of their relationship. No one person can carry a relationship alone, it requires the commitment of both.
The desire to simply be with a person is not enough, you must be committed to your personal growth through self-reflection as well. The more you are willing to work on yourself, the more you are able to give to your relationship.
Blessed Loving.
Staff Writer; Dina Tuff
333rd Eye Healing Temple
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