(ThyBlackMan.com) One of the things that has become common on social media and mainstream media is that there are some black women (even some within the conscious community) out here that deliberately engage in this constant black male bashing that is being pushed by mainstream feminists who talk down on black men.
Intro: Here are some reasons why some black women in America hate black men.
1. Negative Experiences With Some Black Men – They tend to generalize all black men based on a few negative experiences by saying stuff like “all black men ain’t shit“, “they take us for granted“, or they’ll even say that we can’t find any good black men out there because “all of them are either dead, gay, or incarcerated”.
2. Their fathers weren’t around – It’s no secret what The War On Drugs and mass incarceration have done to The Black Family in America and one of the most destructive consequences of those is that a some of them grew up either seeing their fathers being sentenced to prison or even in some cases seeing their fathers get shot by a suburban cop or an urban zombie. The lack of a father figure in the home had caused some black women to have a very negative view of black men in general.
3. They were abused/molested by either their father or mother’s boyfriend – Some of their negative view of black men in general comes from the fact that they were victims of sexual abuse by either their father or in many cases, by their mother’s boyfriends because their father’s weren’t in the home to protect them from this type of sexual deviancy that is rampant within our community. And I have seen this in many crime stories.
4. They are encouraged by mainstream media and extreme feminists to abandon all black men – Some black women that absolutely hate black men like to get their feminine cues from negative propaganda that black women are better off with a caucasoid guy and this is seen on shows like “Scandal” & “How To Get Away With Murder” and listening to mainstream feminists telling them those “barbaric neanderthals will never be there for you, so give up on them“.
5. Feeling Unprotected By Black Men – Some black women that I’ve seen on social media and online have stated that they will no longer fight with black men because they feel like black men won’t fight for them. While I understand where they are coming from with that, but they fail to realize that the stuff they say negatively of black men on social media and the internet plays right into the mainstream feministic views of black men as a “pack of worthless neanderthals who will never protect them”.
The Conclusion – To end this “gender war” between black men and black women, we both must step up to rebuild The Black Family in America.
Staff Writer; Joe Davis
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I will tell you, that black men are evil, based on their treatment of black women and children, the horrible conditions in which black women, children, the elderly and disabled are subjected to by black men in black neighborhoods and their uncontrolable rapey lusts. I say this as a black woman and you can delete this, but it still will not make any of this less true. Black women and children are raped, murdered, and abused daily by black men, even as they murder each other in the street. We are unsafe in our own homes due to these psychopaths. I have learned through history that white men were accurate when they created the kkk to prevent black men from raping white women and little girls. They were silenced and called racists by those who would defend black men and continually support black men.
The early historians that observed black men behaviorism was accurate and saw exactly what they were due to their treatment of black women and children. Black men had enslaved their people long before white people. Those historians were also silenced and called racists. Although there are people who will give up their life to protect and defend the image of black men to the world, I believe today that white men has saved many woman and children through their harsh and brutal punishment of black men.
I believe black men are treated by white and Asian men how they have treated the most vulnerable of their community. Black men are the worse predators to ever grace this planet. Do Not simply disregard the black male culture, what they produce in music, in media and socially. Many people have suffered great hardship, cruelty, violence and degradation but their life has not resulted in this degeneracy and pathological behaviorism that attest to their unreformable savage nature. No other men has such degenerate behavior towards women and children. No other men are so selfish and self centered, arrogant and perverse. Black women has suffered the most throughout history at the hands of others and black men but are not, unconsciousable cruel creatures such as black men. They lack empathy. They lack compassion for others, they lack charity but are good at pretending. Black men defence is always to blame others for their flaws and lie horribly about their victims to make themself look innocent.
When they can’t blame white people, they blame black women, who has been the most loyal to them, I believe due to Stockholm syndrome. Black women I believe suffer from sever trauma from abuse by black men, far greater than slavery could have ever done. I personally take it upon myself to tell nonblack people to not allow their daughters to date them, nor allow your sons to imitate them. Black men has a destructive nature and please consider the condition of black women as the example of what your children will be at risk by association with black men. I also believe God is destroying black men for their evil towards black women and children due to perpepectual false witness against black women and falsely preaching the words of God. They are distorting God’s words in pride, arrogance, vainity and usery of innocent people for fianancial gain. Black men are the worlds con artist. Do Not be deceived.
In my opinion, it boils down to a huge misunderstanding between both genders within black culture. What one black man does should not define what other black men represent. What is sad is that there is so much ignorance within the black community and unnecessary hate, and honestly all those reasons listed to me are not good enough reasons to hate ALL BLACK MEN because the same things black women accuse black men of women do as well. So to find a common ground, maybe both should set their egos aside, stop being quick to shift a blame on one another, and most of all, people need to stop having such high standards for others that they themselves do not even meet. It’s enough going on in this world with black people struggling to stay afloat in this world ran by the white man and we attack each other instead? It’s ridiculous and it needs to cease!! Nobody wants to talk about their flaws and what they could possibly be doing wrong, people just want to point fingers everywhere and think they are always right, then it’s all of a sudden a black lives matter when they are not treated unfair in their eyes.
Black Men are the most abusive terrible colorstruck disgusting individuals alive.Any Black Woman still dealing with any of you deserves the bullshit she deals with. I hate Black Men.
Hi there
I thought to give you all a perspective from a fellow black female from Europe.
I am a black female in her 20s and I find it difficult why the majority of black women are wasting their energies and strength on black men’s existence and choice of dating interracial. I am very offended by how The society is so quick to strongly describe black women as destructive to the black race and create all sorts of scornful, degrading and dehumanizing images of black women to the reason why black males chose to be interracial romantic. It is very offensive and aggressive to label the entire existence of black women as destructive to their community. I am offended because my experiences and life does not in anyway reflect this as truth. As defined by the society and specifically black men and women, I am black. Even though I myself defines myself as simply an individual, the society is constantly fighting me for being an individual and forcing on me an identity called the “black woman”. To be honest, I really don’t care about the issue of race and views everybody as individuals, but the overall society specifically the black community will not let me do this by constantly labeling me as black and forcing on me the identity of black which I myself do not understand. I personally do not like black men and really don’t give a shitt about them. This is not because of their skin color, but because of the hatred , disrespect and scorn they are constantly subjecting black women to. As a 26 year old, I have never seen on tv, heard on the radio, read in magazines or newspapers or even met a black man who cares about the vulnerabilities of black women in the society. When a black woman is a victim of racism, black men are nowhere to be found. When a black woman is raped or killed by a white man. Black males do not start up demonstrations and campaigns about racism, they 99% of the time has nothing to say!. I have ever since a child been seeing black men disrespecting, hating and stigmatizing black women to the most degrading and dehumanization of character and existences as possible. They do this through their hip hop/rap songs, youtube videos, speaking dishonorably and destroying the reputation of black women as a whole to their friends and acquaintances. They are also constantly racially discriminating, humiliating and scorning black women to their faces during personal encounters. Regardless of the visibility of this hatred black males has towards black women in the society. The society blames black women for the dysfunction of the black community, when the males who are supposed to be rulers and guardians are accepted to destroy the mothers of the black community. The society yet expects and forces black women to be loyal to these black men who show in all ways they hate black women to the core an considers their lives valueless. Because of this, I don’t give a shitt about black men and stays far away from them and will never get romantically involved with them. Nobody can or even should force me to like something or a group who has been making it very clear for decades they passionately hates me to the core simply because I am a female with a black skin!
Research shows that some African American women hate African-American men because they wanted the man to be the Savior and rescuer to fix all of their problems, including the ones that were inside such as insecurity. Sometimes these women hate black men because they got it from their mom who hated their dad.
Cami your comments show your ignorance and your immaturity. It’s not just about who somebody wants to bang, it’s a lot deeper than that sociologically and psychologically. We all are connected together and what one does affects the other one. Clearly your comments show you do not understand that. Did I talk too fast you go too deep or do I need to draw it in crayon for you
To Cami, first of all I am not vilifying all of any group of people so read a little more closely or learning how to read. Second of all black women have been devastating to black man and you should read books like the one written by shahrazad Ali, a Muslim African American woman who told the truth. Third of all, African American women need to start looking in the mirror and being accountable for their own mistakes including the men they chose who they thought were the best thing since sliced bread. Sometimes the woman tried to play games and the guy played the game back on her period sometimes the woman after that and the guy flipped the script. And sometimes the guy was a little boy. Try looking at all sides of the issue instead of just making it seem like I am not doing that. I look at all sides and I have been a family relationship counselor for over a decade now, successfully counseling men and women and families. What do you do? What impact have you made? You are simply trying to divert the issue instead of looking in the mirror and that means you are likely the exact type of woman that I am speaking about. Maybe you need counseling more than trying to voice your opinion online.
Blah, same ol vilifying narrative…all black women aren’t going around butthurt and slandering you guys. I had a father, married to a black man (who I uplift daily and I’m educated. (Did I mention that I don’t have any illegitimate kids?)
Long story short, stop making black women out to be the bad guys and cut to the chase. If you want to bang non black women, just do it. Like what you like and stop trying to come up with cop outs.
There’s other narratives to write about, you know with you guys being murdered by the police and all…
As a family and relationship counselor I must say I am tired of the one-sided blaming of black men without factoring in trifling, demanding, materialistic and negative black women. A complete perspective must take into account the role of black women to play the new slave masters in black men’s lives. Control, dominance, verbally abusive and the list goes on when it comes to so many black women who think it is all about them.
African American men do have many problems but an examination of the origin of those problems can easily identify societal racism, lack of support and encouragement from many black women, a government that rewards the woman with government services when the man is not in the home and the feminist idea that women think they don’t need a man.
Roles are no longer clearly defined. Men don’t know how to be men, women want women and the lie that the woman can be the father and mother to the child is prevalent. True nobody made many men be irresponsible in failing to take care of their families. But nobody made those same women who picked those men to keep opening their legs and cranking out babies. Lets be fair and tell the whole story.
The issue is much more complex than this article covers. This society blames black men at the drop of a hat. But when it honestly identifies black women who are the problem, that is ignored.
For example domestic violence points to men, even though there are almost as many men abused a year as women – using the same federal government stats. When women have to pay child support, their stats are worse than those of men, but this is kept quiet. When it comes to custody, over 90% of the time women are given the children, even though federal government stats show custodial moms have a 16% higher rate of child abuse than the custodial parent men. Didn’t know that did you?
Should brothers settle down? Or should we ask with whom? There is a reason so many brothers have married outside of their race. And though I did not, I completely understand why. Let’s tell the whole story author of this article. Address the issue of millions of bi-polar women, insecure women, bitter women who are mad at the last guy – the guy they picked. Too many women never look in the mirror. They simply blame the black. And while many black men are at fault, many black women are as well.
The Reggin needs to know:
DENIAL IS NOT A RIVER IN EGYPT!
He is only a stone’s throw from the “bruthers” in Africa:
3 PLACES BLACK CANNIBALS EXIST
Heading to a foreign places usually sounds amazing, unless you’re heading to one of the places on this list. This list may help you avoid some situations you may not want to be in…like having your body parts served up for dinner or even a pre-battle snack.
1.PAPUA NEW GUINEA
Papua New Guinea Cannibals
If you don’t want your penis to be made into soup, don’t head to Papua New Guinea. Last year, police arrested 29 members of a cannibal cult who ate their victim’s raw brains and made penis soup. They did this because they believed their victims were sorcerers guilty of extorting sex and money from villagers. There is currently a group of 1,000 dedicated to the war on “evil sorcerers.” If you don’t want to get into the middle of this war, steer clear of Papua New Guinea.
2. DEMOCRATIC REPUBLIC OF CONGO
Democratic Republic of Congo Cannibals
Cannibalistic rebels in the Congo were condemned by the UN in 2003 for eating members of communities they massacred and then forcing victims to eat their families. More recently, the Mai-Mai militia has been eating captured tribal leaders because they believe by doing so they will gain special powers which protect them from bullets.
3. LIBERIA
Liberia Cannibals
According to Vice’s documentary on The Cannibal Warlords on Liberia, “A large percentage of the population (of Liberia) has eaten human flesh.” Dead bodies on the streets and shores of Liberia are often found to have their genitals removed. This is because they are believed to be a source of power, and many believe female genitals are the perfect shape to carry around in a wallet. The documentary also looks into Ex-General Butt Naked and his child soldiers who all fought naked and participated in cannibalism. Learn more by watching the video The Cannibal Warlords on Liberia, on You Tube.
Black Americans went to LIBERIA, in a Back To Africa Experiment, in 1847. These Cannibals are descendants of those Black Americans!