(ThyBlackMan.com) They say a man is never truly happy until he’s married. And then it’s too late! However much you agree with that statement, more marriages are ending in divorce these days, and yours might be among them. This is going to be a very difficult time, possibly the most emotionally trying period of your life! Due to this, it’s very important to handle it sensibly and responsibly. Here’s some of the mistakes some men make which could ruin your life.
First and foremost, try not to flaunt your new girlfriend. Like a lot of men, you might have been considering divorce for a long time. Now that it’s actually happening, you might feel an overwhelming relief and sense of freedom. This cathartic period is usually accompanied by a lot of socializing, and possibly a new girlfriend. It may feel good
to flaunt the new lady in your life. However, it can really come back to bite you. Seeing all those pictures of you with the new girlfriend on social media could aggravate your ex, and cause her to adopt a more aggressive legal strategy. This, in turn, can be a massive strain on your finances. Have fun with your new freedom, but keep it on the down low until everything is finalized.
On the subject of the law and your money, another big mistake you need to avoid is trying to cover up your personal finances. Sure, you may have a heavy legal battle ahead of you, and the prospect of it may make you fearful and paranoid. Obviously you’re afraid of losing your money, but don’t hide it in an offshore account or under your mattress. You might some out on top if you’re never found out. However, if the court finds that you’re lying about your assets, you’re going to have a very hard time getting the judge on your side through the remainder of the proceedings. There are still ways you can protect your assets without lying in court. For more, contact a family law firm like Skillern Firm for your divorce needs+.
Finally, don’t offer to move out. As soon as you find yourself staring down the barrel of this divorce, you may feel a strong inclination to move out. That’s the man’s traditional role, after all. Whatever your gut is telling you, spend a long time considering the move before you actually follow through. If you and your partner are both living in the house, don’t offer to move out immediately. In the long run, it’s going to cost you more money. You’ll not only have to pay rent for a new place, but also have to support the household you’ve left.
Your financial obligations may change once the divorce is finalized. However, while you’re still having to contribute to the original household’s upkeep, don’t add more expenses into the mix. Unless the tension is totally unbearable, try to remain living with your spouse. Aside from the financial side, it may also make mediation a little easier.
Staff Writer; Corey Dudley