Evelyn Lozada, Meet the Domestic Basketball Whore.

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• I'm sorry...just can't get past those big ass dentures....that's all I see.

• Agree with Mack, she looks for trouble and when there is none, she creates it. This is one sick woman, I feel no sympathy for her, she is a whore in every sense of the word. I guess if she was making even the slightest (non televised ) attempt to be better it would be different....but she puts out all her vagina And anus business so what does she expect ? Chad has got to be the biggest pus**y out there to have even considered this woman as anything serious....Eve...get some help , take some time off, take an acting class, take a business class, take a class on etiquette , learn to dress properly and to speak without cussing. Hey, you never know, you can still make somthing of yourself without sleeping with someone.

• I tried to stay out of this one, but some of the comments really started vexing my basic sense of intelligence.

  The writer of this article called it just what it is. And its high time black women, including you so-called feminists, know how and when to choose your battles.

  This Lozada chick is nobody's saint. And she's nobody's victim. How dare any of you compare her to a truly abused and traumatized woman! The brawd is boisterous, pugnacious as a wild pitbull, and conducts herself like a 14 year old project chick...even though she's damn near 40! How the hell can any of you take up for that?!

  To say a so-called 'real man' would never hit a woman, you're right. But just having a vagina doesn't make one a woman. One has to also have the mentality that goes along with 'real' womanhood. A real man will hit the hell outta hoodrat though! And rightfully so. Thats right, I said it!

  As for Chad Johnson: use your brains for a minute. You don't just randomly walk up and headbutt a person. Headbutts are usually used when one's hands are tied up. As in trying to hold back a wild woman scratching and clawing at you. I even heard someone mention that a headbutt is basically a defensive move. So based on the history we have available to us, who was MOST LIKELY the aggressor in that incident? I'll let you decide.

  Besides that, the dude is a fool for wifing up a chick who was only fit to be a jumpoff anyway. This isn't Rosa Parks we're talking about here. Its the chick known for throwing bottles across the room at other females...the one who would use her 6 inch heels as weapons and jump across tables on national tv to intimidate other females she knew she could beat.

  Amazing to me how many black females and ballsless dudes will even cosign for this foolish woman!

  And to those who say its wrong to judge another: spoken like a true fool. If you have no sense of judgment, you can't even make basic right decisions for your life! Hence why so many of you ladies end up with several kids by dusty-ass dudes, angry and bitter at the world for YOUR poor dating choices.

  SMH

• not to be funny Sam but Leviticus 21:7 says: Man, do not wife a whore. These are in the scriptures for those who call themselves Christians, which nowadays doesn't mean to be saying much when you look at the shepherds. Now you say Atlas can make a more positive change by changing his attitude toward females. Really brother? One of the problems and reasons black men don't get respect right now is because of that type of attitude right there. Black men get called sorry, shiftless, weak, unprotecting, and all types of different adjectives but when we put the spotlight on the Black Superwoman, then all of a sudden, it's a controversy. Black women and their behavior in general (much respect to the ones who carry themselves with dignity) is very trashy. Over the past few years I have heard black women say there is a conspiracy in the media to place black women in a negative light!!! Lol...Are you f...ing kidding me? When are black women going to take responsibility for how they conduct themselves? No one is making black women be whores. There are countless universities, technical schools, businesses that can be started, etc as to where black women don't have to sell themselves literally. Matter fact black women are all too comfortable in selling themselves in a negative light, even if it means it gets them paid. So why you criticize the sister who wrote the article, why are you not as condemning of the behavior? Black people, including black men have a reflex when it comes to black men criticizing black women and it's called "being negative." Everytime a black man critiques black women and their behavior, and he begins to hit nerves, he's labeled as being negative. Or the angry black man! Lol...What a joke. Black people are not looking for change, but to be coddled. And their reflex when their BS is called into question is slavery and jim crow. As a Moor (by way of Kemet) I am tired of negroes using this excuse. It's tired and played. I keep trying to tell Black people or whatever term they want to used this year (African-American, Nigger, Negro, Colored) to stop being loyal to each other based on racial lines and start being loyal to each other based on positive cultural values. You'll can say what you'll want but I wouldn't want to bring this type of female into my family. She is a coon. A monkey. And is quite comfortable in the role. Too many black men fear the black women and as a Man i know this is truth and it took me a long time to come around to this conclusion because to be quite honest, if a female like Evelyn has acted like this her entire adult life, being disrespectful to people including men, and has never gotten her behind whipped, it shows how weak we are, most notably the men. Because my motto is I would never hit a Woman (Lady), but i'l knock a B..C.H. out. My mother had a mouth on her and I'm surprised she never got her behind tore up or maybe she did and didn't say anything. And if she would have disrespected men and they whipped her behind I would have been on the men side instead of hers because I respect order and discipline and no woman with any sense of self-respect ever should disrespect her man or men in general. My ex years ago said Black men don't have any standards when it comes to women and she was black. I disagreed at first only to have men confirm it for me the next day in a conversation in the gym. And to those who like to use the notion that the excuse of legitimate domestic violence and conflate it with a black chick being a nigger is ridiculous. And to be honest I don't even have mercy on that because look at Jennifer Hudson's family. Her family was allegedly killed by her sister's boyfriend. You women are so poor in your choice of men that you can cause an entire family to be killed. When have you heard of an ex-girlfriend killing an entire family of her used to be boyfriend? Noe evelyn is an abuser herself. It was so bad that there was a petition being signed trying to get people to pull advertising for the show because they felt the show promoted bullying. There is no conspiracy going on concerning black women. this stuff has been taking place too long and people have been too silent. I remember when my ex went into the bank to get some money and came back out and said after bad customer service with a black chick and said "I see why black men get with white women." And I was shocked and she told me the chick was basically disrespectful to her early in the morning. The avergae black woman is Evelyn. Disrespectful and a bully and i called black women years ago and these so-called reality shows are only lifting the veil. A brother from Sudan told me bout a year ago that you'll (Black Men) are the problem. He said you'll let your women get away with anything. He said our women wouldn't even think to raise their hands against us let alone disrespect u with their tongues. And he's right because there are no domestic violence laws in these countries because there are no reasons too because women know to shut their damn mouths and not disrespect their men because there is no law to save them, and even their families would support them getting their behinds whipped if they got out of line with their husbands! They don't baby mamas in these countries! As men we need to go back to the old days (80's). Brothers wouldn't have sex with loose women like evely, let alone marry her back then. You would get clowned by your homeboys if they found out you had sex with the neighborhood mattress! lol. Dudes need to look towards marrying virgins again who are pure of body and thought. How can you value a woman who deosn't value herself. You got women in church who have sex with more partners than men nowadays and then have the nerve to ask someone to marry them. The fact that Chad married this vile chick proves how weak brothers are. You can see a chick be a ho on tv and still marry her and claim you love her! The reason why I had problems with black chicks over years because i checked their behinds. It's always been my way period! I allowed room for discussion, don't get me wrong, but when it's time to make a decision I made it. Which is very interesting because even though my exes didn't really like me, they never left. Why? Because they respected me as a man. I always ended my relationships, including my marriage. But in terms of Evelyn.For her to go on Vanzant's show as if that's gonna clean her mess up!!! you got to be kidding me. These brauds got Oprah, a woman who has never showed the ability or demonstrated she could be a married woman as their role models living with Gayle, which is suspect to me as if they are experts on relationships. I've been married longer than Oprah! This is why black people get no respect. They are the entertainment of the world. I would never marry, date, a female like evelyn. Matter fact, she ain't even worth having sex with. Just like most of these females. Men stop honoring these hoes. Too Short and the Bible says don't do it and you'll going against ancient law. As long as they think you want them it gives them a sense of credibility. These girls come from college where they are in sororities doing all types of things you wouldn't imagine. I knew Q Dogs who told me stories. They come from the hoods doing the same type of stuff then want to smile in your face with the next man's cum on her breath! I'm not trying to be vulgar but real. This is not racial this is cultural. My grandmother told me the other night when they were coming up (40's 50's) that other black people when she lived in alabama thought our family was uppity and had standards. These issues have been going on for a long time. A good majority of black peole don't have standards and you can't let them in your family. Hell we still have issues with the light skin dark skin crap. Females perming their hair, weaves, fake eyelashes, nails, making koreans rich just from self-hate..but when chrish rock brings it up he was condemned for being negative even though he did it because he wanted his daughters to feel beautiful! These women like evelyn are lost causes. I respect whores on the corner and on backpage.com because at least they're honest ones. These chciks think cause they put on gucci it makes them classy. Question is how did they get it? Most of the time it's because they slept with a man for a purse. What trash! These females don't deserve quality things because they aren't quality. Do you people even know how serious marriage is? Girlfriend and boyfriends are not quality terms to use in relationships. Husbands and wives are. America has turned into a place where men from other countries come buy women (including black women) for sexual excursions. You'll dudes better wake up. this article is right on sorry for the length but damn!!

• We all know how she portrayed herself. We all know how she acted on BBW. We all know how she attacked her long time girl Jen. WE GET IT!! Now what I'm saying is she saw this behavior while she was married and began working it. Give the girl a chance and let's see if she does change. If she was still married and the headbutting incident never happened you wouldn't be talking this crap when her cry out for helped aired. She has shown thus far that she is making changes.

• I personally don't like the word whore for a woman but someone who admits to sleeping around with different dudes shouldn't be surprised when tjat word is thrown at you. Evelyn is vulgar, trashy, and a bully. Now im not saying she deserved what she got but im not altogether certain that I believe her side of tje story. I dont believs dhe was a victim. She thpight she was all big and bad dating "ochoctnco" defended him by cussing out her bestfriend but at the same time claims that the whole time he was a violent person?? I just dont believe her. I think she did it solely for selfish gaion

• It's crazy how all these people is taking up for Evelyn, number one she portrayed herself as someone who wants to be a billy bad ass and a woman who sleeps around. It's one thing if what these people are saying about her isn't true but we all have seen the type of person she really is, and because she goes on Iyanla Vanzant show for a few episodes to so call talk about the situation that makes her the victim... UM I THINK NOT !!!!!! Now ask yourselves after watching her cry and claim to want to be a better person for herself and her family is she still doing the same things and the answer will probably be yes !!!!! Noone changes over night, in a week, or even a month, so that alone tells me she is still full of bs!!!! Noone is saying its ok to abuse a woman or for that matter a man its all about morals and that she DO NOT have. We all have passed judgement on someone at one point and time so pls stop acting like yall dont do it because I'm sure as everyone sat and watched BBW's some judgement was passed on not just Evelyn but on all the women !!!!

• Ev did make her bed and she did lay in it. Ev did make horrible choices which made people question her character and yes she did portray herself as somewhat of an attention whore, but she began to own it! Whore; a person considered as having compromised their principles for personal gain. While Ev was "married" she reached out to Iyanla Vanzant for help as she found herself disgusted by her actions and wanted to change. She wanted to become a role model her daughter and new step children could look up to. The first half of the episode was taped prior to the headbutt incident and Ev never "played" the domestic abuse card. In the heat of the incident she ran for help and another "man" felt that she needed medical attention and he chose to involve the authorities. Chad is paying the price for the "incident" solely. Shame on your for using your means of reaching out to many many people and saying it is ok to physically hurt a woman. Now that I have sided with Ev I challenge YOU to give me the azz whooping your say I so call deserve!!!

• Your article is pure trash and based solely on what you have seen on t.v. What makes you qualified or entitled to pass judgment on someone else? And, why are you so adamant on calling a woman a whore? Do you know her personally? Are you calling her a whore because she now has a failed marriage? Regardless, no woman deserves to be called a whore by someone whom she probably dosent know. And, no one deserves to be physically or verbally abused whatever her past may have been. I feel sorry for you and feel sorry for your sad outlook on life. If you are calling her a whore because she has slept around before getting married then i guess you probably believe there are a whole bunch of whores out there. In any case, you are being disrespectful to a woman by calling her this name and claiming she deserved to get an uppercut. You have just lowered yourself to those Basketball Wives standards you were supposed to discredit in your article. You can make a more effective and positive change in our culture by changing your own attitude against females and by writing and article that actually makes sense.

• You sound like a bitter simple minded buffoon. Two wrongs don't make a right and you cannot justify domestic violence. You put your profession to shame when you write articles without educating yourself. Your ignorance comes through crystal clear in the matter of domestic violence. Do yourself a service and read up on how many women stay in violent situations because of small minded thinking like yours.