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Saturday, August 23, 2014


Psychological Torture: Angry Lover or Mental Terrorist?

July 7, 2014 by  
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Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) With this article II want to go into a subject that is close to my heart because this has happened to me personally ( But I have found a Solution ). Everyone has heard the phrase ” Women using kids as Weapons to hurt the father “ . At one time I did not fully understand what that meant but now I fully understand the... [Read more...]

When Singer Chris Brown sings “These hoes ain’t loyal” on BET: Should women be offended?

July 5, 2014 by  
Filed under Ent., Music, News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) This week, I was thinking about Chris Brown, BET and the performance of the song with the chorus “These hoes ain’t loyal.”  I’ll admit that I’m left confused by some of the feminist scholars who took issue with my article on black male sexual responsibility, yet had nothing to say when Chris Brown, Lil Wayne and BET... [Read more...]

The Silly End of Racism.

July 2, 2014 by  
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Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) To truly understand the levels of racism in the human mind will drive a person insane and I”m sure it has done that to many. But I will attempt to try an make it clear as it applies to black people. To start I have to say that the root of racism is ” Low Self-Esteem ” on both sides. For one , the idea of black... [Read more...]

Secrets Of The Deflecting Sisterhood.

June 30, 2014 by  
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Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) As we know the Sisters of Deflection roll deep! In order to become a deflector, here are some roles one must master. 1. The Coy Manipulator- Coy is is defined as: (Especially with reference to a woman) making a pretense of shyness or modesty that is intended to be alluring. *using coy tricks to attract attention* As women, ... [Read more...]

Starting A Relationship Is Like Starting A Business And Black People Are Failing At Both.

June 28, 2014 by  
Filed under Business, News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) When I wrote my book, Financial Lovemaking, I did it because I found that there are a huge number of similarities between money and love.   So, when teaching Finance to my students at Syracuse University, I would often explain financial concepts to them in ways that related to their day-to-day lives, not just the humdrum stuff... [Read more...]

The Happiest Facebook Pages Can Sometimes Mask The Pain Of An Unhappy Life!

June 24, 2014 by  
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Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) I’m almost 100% sure that psychologists are losing business big time to the surreal world of cyber space, social media and Facebook pages. It’s Not only The shrinks that are losing business, But all types of counselors have to be noticing a void in their day in having more time to take two hour lunches Because of lack... [Read more...]

“Jeremy Meeks…Give Us That Thug Love”

June 20, 2014 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) You know there are some days where I’m embarrassed to be a woman. Today is one of those days. The mugshot of Jeremy Meeks has gone viral and the comments from WOMEN are vulgar and disgusting.  On some sites his picture has gotten 45K likes and even up to over 200K likes. His charges are as follows: “The 30-year-old... [Read more...]

Seven Commandments Of Baby Mama It Is.

June 20, 2014 by  
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Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) As I prepare for a Fatherhood panel being held in Washington DC by former NBA star Etan Thomas (Saturday, 6/21, 10 am at the First Baptist Church of Glenarden), I am led to reflect on the impact that the fatherhood dilemma has had on the African American community.   The recent documentary, “72%” highlights the fact that... [Read more...]

Killing Daddy’s Little Girl.

June 18, 2014 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) With this Article I want to address the nation-wide seriousness of the Dead Beat Father Syndrome. This is a sickness that has destroyed generation after generation of young girls without any justice being given to these children. And yes it affects young boys as well, but boys have a stronger tolerance for pain than girls.... [Read more...]

Anti-Effeminacy in the Black Community.

June 17, 2014 by  
Filed under News, Opinion, Relationships, Weekly Columns

Tweet (ThyBlackMan.com) Words like sissy and f** can often be heard in the black community to describe a man who falls outside the comparatively restrictive confounds of black male masculinity.  However, why black men in particular focus on masculinity more than their other racial counterparts is often misunderstood.  Two theories seek to explain... [Read more...]

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