(ThyBlackMan.com) “I don’t want no scrubs, A scrub is a guy who can’t get no love from me.” There is nothing sadder than seeing a man fully committed to his late 40’s wearing clothes that were designed for someone 20 years younger than him. Actually, watching him walk, or rather, ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Being a black man in America is not for the weak, in fact, I can’t think of another group of men that would be able to withstand the torment that we face daily. Let’s see, where shall we begin? First of all, many of us are born into this ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) We have seen the images floating through our media before. A woman’s physical superiority over any given man to demonstrate the perception of a woman’s physical dominance (if only they are determined or skilled enough). This exhibition is typically promoted in our media to enforce themes of women’s empowerment, ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) It is fair to begin this discussion by saying everything that will be mentioned can apply to men.  The problems that stem from entering a relationship with a married person are pretty universal.  With that being said I’m a woman, and my address is to women. Many of us ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Ladies many of us aspire to get married at some point in our life. However, sometimes we are in too much of a rush to get to the alter. Marriage can be a wonderful state, but it cannot fix hurt nor cover pain. Some of us come from family backgrounds ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Churches proclaim divorce to be a sin with certain exceptions. These exceptions depend on which church you attend. Some believe divorce is a sin unless there is sexual infidelity, but what about abuse or neglect of a spouse? Most would say that sexual infidelity may warrant a divorce, but ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Every generation is blessed to have examples of poise, character, strength and class. Every role model has had challenges to face that can seem larger than life at times; it is how they manage and overcome said challenges that make people want to follow them. Black history is filled ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Receiving negativity from others is difficult to deal with. Being the object of constant ridicule can have a devastating effect on one’s self image and that of generations to follow. The situation shifts from outside attacks to self-inflicted harm rather quickly. As black women we must ask ourselves if we ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) When you marry a woman, guys you marry into her family. Therefore, whether you like it or not, the mother-in-law is part of the package deal. But what you don’t marry into is a life of your wife’s mother making your life difficult much of the time and Hell the ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) It can be argued communication is one of the cornerstones of a relationship. To be more specific, positive communication would be best. Far too often we think of expressing ourselves more honestly with attention to tone and empathy when positive communication comes to mind. However, how we receive the ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Black Love, a term that has garnered much attention and discussion, is a powerful force that goes beyond just romantic relationships between Black individuals. It is a multifaceted concept that encompasses love, support, and unity within the Black community. In this article, we will dive deep into the meaning ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The term “hoe” is a derogatory term often used to shame or demean women who are perceived to engage in casual sexual relationships or promiscuous behavior. This article will not perpetuate these harmful stereotypes or encourage disrespectful attitudes towards women. Instead, we will focus on fostering healthy communication and ...