(ThyBlackMan.com) You want to share your life with someone special, but you’re so busy that you can’t seem to find the time. Sound familiar? Yes, dating is time-consuming, but here’s how to refocus your time so you can date more. 1. Ask Yourself How Much Time You Really Have To ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) That sound you’re hearing is millions of social contracts being torn up simultaneously! There are members of your Facebook Fam that need to have their branches removed from your family tree. I’m not talking about your Mama or Auntie that like every photo you post or leave heartfelt, but ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Some of us are born to be big brothers or the eldest among the siblings. Some are born the youngest. Some are born the proverbial middle child. Regardless of birth order, being a brother often entails a big responsibility, especially if you are the eldest. Most of the time, ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) I’m a relationship coach, so any time I meet someone new, I have to ask “Are you seeing any one?” Some people cringe when I ask this, as the pain of a recent break up crosses their face. Others roll their eyes, exhausted at the thought of having to ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) In every relationship you will get stressed, and that stress is a gift. It’s a gift because it’s here to tell you that something is wrong, and you need to get to work to figure it out. According to Zohar Adner, author of ‘The Gift of Stress,’ “We crave ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Are you living a high tech lifestyle? Are you plugged into the internet 24/7? Do you update your Facebook status several times a day? Must you tweet your every move? Has your BlackBerry become an extension of your arm? Do you blame work every time you take a hit ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The most powerful force we have on this planet is love.  Back in the day the way my grandmother and grandfather displayed love for one another was a thing of beauty.  As one studies Black America today it is impossible to overlook the lack of love many of us ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Too many couples settle for mediocrity in their marriage, when they would never settle for second best in other areas of their lives. A marriage that is a true union of souls—a connection of love, respect, romance, and spiritual oneness—sounds like a fairy tale. But it’s possible to build ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) You just spent a year planning the wedding of your dreams. You donned a gorgeous white dress, straightened your bowtie, walked down the aisle, said your ‘I do’s’, smeared wedding cake on your face, toasted with champagne, thanked family and friends for an assortment of kooky gifts, and rode ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Here are several questions you should answer before you try to get back together with someone you love. There is a chance to salvage your relationship if both of you want give each other a chance again, so ponder on these questions before trying it all over again… Hopefully, ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Have you recently gone through a breakup and now trying to win her love back? Was she the one you wanted to go to bed with and then wake up to the next morning? Nothing can be more hurting when someone you have loved decided to walk out of your ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The rate of divorce is alarming. Many people you meet or someone you know is a child of divorce. For those who have been through divorce as a child and vow to never go through it in their own marriage, there are ways how to be a good husband. The ...