(ThyBlackMan.com) Pardon me while I flow from the top of the dome with something that’s been on my mind lately… When a man has sex with a woman, he releases millions of living sperm cells through ejaculation. The sole purpose of 99% of these sperm cells is to seek and ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Last week I wrote an article titled “There Are Two Reasons He Cheats”. Before you go assuming the post is all about male bashing, it is not. I suggest reading it. Within that article I listed “4 F’s” ladies must embrace in order to accommodate the most basic of their ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The holidays are coming up. And for some, family get-togethers mean family tension. But you can defuse that tension with a little advanced planning. 1. Decide in advance how you will respond.  There is a difference between reacting and responding. A “response” is based in wisdom, which requires forethought. A ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The reason why I feel that men particularity black men cringe at the thought of marriage when a woman brings it up is because of the fear of being treated like a child rather than a grown man. Allow me to clarify I know we all have seen some ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) In a period of seven days two 25 year-old NFL players have senselessly lost their lives. Last week Jovan Belcher died in an unforgettable violent act of murder-suicide. Then on Saturday morning at 2:21 Jerry Brown died in a violent automobile accident. Brown, a practice squad player for the ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) First let me start off by saying this a fictional writing and has nothing to do with the actual writer herself. I hated her, despised her thought she was the worse woman on this earth until one day I realized that my own arc enemy had become me. Now ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Yeah, I said it.  I do actually agree that monogamy isn’t natural.  However, when using this argument to justify or hold oneself faultless for cheating on a spouse or significant other, it doesn’t hold water.  Many, especially men, use this argument to alleviate the guilt and shame associated with infidelity, ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) The murder-suicide involving Jovan Belcher of the Kansas City Chiefs was, without question, a tragedy among tragedies.  I feel terrible for this family and as a father myself, I wish that Jovan Belcher and his girlfriend, Kassandra Perkins, had sought the help they needed to survive such a terrible ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Next to “why did Adam eat the apple?” I swear this is the oldest question in the world. “Why did he cheat?” Like to hear it; here we go. One. There must be a woman willing to cheat with him (that’s easy). Two. He must give in to temptation. ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Blacks don’t commit suicide or so it was thought. In the wake of the murder suicide of NFL player Jovan Belcher it makes one wonder what in the life of anyone could be so bad that they would seek out death as a form of comfort. Unfortunately we will ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) Black Love.  It begins simply enough: you are everything he says he ever wanted.  You are smart, independent, charming, sexy, and a suitable representative of the two of you. You are able to bring thoughts, opinions, and ideas to the union. You are not dead weight that he has ...

(ThyBlackMan.com) I was thinking to myself the other day – I have NEVER been hit on at church.  Real, genuine churchgoing men are like unicorns, so why when I take my seat in the pews seeing all manner of men before me like I’ve just landed at the other end ...