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Sperm Wars: What Happens When Females Play The Game?

December 20, 2012 by  
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(ThyBlackMan.com) Pardon me while I flow from the top of the dome with something that’s been on my mind lately…

When a man has sex with a woman, he releases millions of living sperm cells through ejaculation. The sole purpose of 99% of these sperm cells is to seek and destroy any remnants of sperm that may be present in the woman’s body from her last sex partner.

A female’s body is not designed to host two sperm donors simultaneously. Inevitably one donor will provide the champion seed that will plant it’s flag and claim victory. In this way the strongest of the two species survives and the weaker is defeated.

Similarly, a woman isn’t mentally or emotionally designed to have multiple sexual partners. When a female has sex with a guy, the act of him entering her allows his life force and energy to enter her as well. That man’s life force and energy then becomes a part of that woman’s emotional and mental character. The more of a man’s life force she takes inside of her, the more like that manMid adult couple lying in bed she becomes. She starts to take on his ideological outlook on life, and begins to reflect the essence of who that man is.

That’s why you can always tell when a female has been with dusty, ghetto acting dudes. She’ll take on the persona and low level of energy of a dusty hood dude. A female by divine design becomes a reflection of her man. Whoever is sticking it to her on the regular, that’s who’s mindset and ideologies she’ll eventually become most aligned with. And when she has multiple sex partners, she has multiple competing spiritual forces fighting inside her soul for the dominant position within her life. This duality within her ultimately leads to confusion.

This is unavoidable. *See my blog post titled The Power of Male Sexual Energy: http://www.flipthegame.net/2010/06/power-of-male-sexual-energy.html

I know some of you ladies think you can do what men do, but you have to get on your grown woman game and think like an adult. It’s time out for thinking and acting like irresponsible teenagers.You can’t do what we do. And we can’t do what y’all do. Our bodies and minds were designed differently to fulfill God’s greater purpose. So it’s time to stop lying to yourself about girl’s being ‘playas’ like men.

A man’s body is designed to give. A woman’s body is designed to receive. The very word “woman” literally means the man with the womb. Womb-man. Research the etymology of the word. 

The word “female” comes from two words also: male and fetus. Female means the male who carries the fetus, or the one who carries the male’s fetus. Either translation equates to the woman being the carrier of something that was deposited inside of her by the man.

 Some of you reading all this may think its unfair. It’s not about fair. I personally think it’s ‘unfair’ that women can have multiple and stacked orgasms, while we men can only have one at a time. So your thoughts about what’s fair or not is exactly why GOD did the creating and not you or me!

When a female has multiple sex partners in a very short period of time, she literally has a war going on within her. Not only physically as the competing sperm factions fight it out for supremacy of her body; but also mentally and emotionally. That’s why some of these females out there seem so damn looney! They literally have a biological and mental war taking place inside of them!

So for all you female ‘players’ out there: the first thing you need is to understand that you can never do what a man does. Women cannot be players; not sexually speaking. And why would you want to be? When you play, ladies, you lose. Because you only end up contributing to your own confusion.

 The only way a female can juggle several guys for any length of time is if she’s sexing more than one of them. No guy is going to hang around you in limbo for too long, waiting for a whiff of what’s in between your legs. If you don’t pay out eventually, he’s leaving.

Your biggest bargaining chip in a new relationship is a guy’s hope of tapping them panties. You know this. If he’s hanging around and he’s not gay, then he’s trying to hit it.

 If you’re going to play, you can’t do it by using what’s in between your legs. Unless of course you’re willing to become a ho. Because only ho’s profit from what’s between their thighs. But the trade-off is often mental and emotional instability. So you don’t want to go that route.

This isn’t just about morality. Its basic science. And speaking of morality fellas: even the bible warns about the consequences of having sex with multiple women. The bible specifically states that when a man has sex with a female, the two become one flesh. 1Corinthians 6:16  

Their biology combines into ONE…not TWO. The woman takes on and becomes a part of that man’s physical make-up and dynamic. In many ways you forever become a part of that woman. It’s some deep stuff!

So careful who you choose to mix your gene pool with…

Here’s an interesting fact for you ladies, courtesy of new scientific discoveries: Did you know that there is an intelligent element inside of your vaginal mucus that encourages some sperm but blocks others?

Here’s something else to consider: Did you know it’s statistically factual that a woman is more likely to get pregnant from a one night stand or an affair than she is from her regular sex partner? Interesting huh. Why do you think that is?

Perhaps it has something to do with the female’s personal desire. If a female is having a one night stand or an affair, her desire is obviously at a heightened state. And maybe this heightened state of desire sends an unconscious signal to her body that allows it to accommodate the incoming sperm.

Contrastingly, when she’s in a boring relationship that’s become stale to the point where she seeks outside adventure, perhaps she sends a signal to her body that responds by blocking the sperm of her boring boyfriend or husband.

For more on the science behind sex, check out a book titled: Sperm Wars: Infidelity, Sexual Conflict, And Other Bedroom Battles, by Robin Baker. Definitely makes for an interesting read.

Staff Writer; Mack Major ||

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57 Responses to “Sperm Wars: What Happens When Females Play The Game?”
  1. Andre says:

    Why are we sitting here trying to undo this trap? We’re missing the entire point while allowing the adversary time to ransack our home. Repatriation!

  2. Eric L. Wattree says:

    “When a female has sex with a guy, the act of him entering her allows his life force and energy to enter her as well. That man’s life force and energy then becomes a part of that woman’s EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL CHARACTER. The more of a man’s life force she takes inside of her, the more like that manMid adult couple lying in bed she becomes. She starts to take on his ideological outlook on life, and begins to reflect the essence of who that man is.”

    WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!?

  3. JR says:

    From Mack: “Its a nefarious design by those who still seek to make merchandise of ‘us’. On one hand they promote promiscuity especially among our young and middle age women. They simultaneously promote single parenthood as though its some sort of rite of passage into womanhood…which it isn’t. The combination of these two factors creates the prison class for the new prison/slave economy of the 21st century.

    Meanwhile, homosexuality is championed as a viable and acceptable lifestyle, shown primarily on TV, geared mostly toward our young college level males. And college level sisters are being groomed in the ways of feminism to hate and despise males and marriage. You see plenty of evidence of that right here on this site.

    This effectively takes out our smartest class of brothers and sisters, who SHOULD BE reproducing, over the ones walking around trying to be the next rap superstar or twerk video vixen. Now add to the mix the shoot’em up bang-bang culture of the inner cities and you have a great weapon used to control our population numbers in this country.”

    Good analogy. I would like to respond to this from each paragraph…

    1st – Like Ahmad said: “Back in the days, when I was young I’m not a kid anymore”…well, when I was a kid and in the early teenage years, the subject of promiscuity and sexual expression was few and far between…and when it was on the TV, you didn’t see it unless it was around that time when you’re supposed to be sleep. Yes, it did happen in public, but it was rare (one) and if your parents/adults were around you, they’d make sure you weren’t going to see it or that you weren’t supposed to see it. Compare that to the last 15 years. Single parenthood, promiscuity, and other means of family/relationship bashing is at an all-time high…and yes, it is leading to the increase of the “new” slave: the prisoner. (The 13th Amendment is why the word new is in quotations)

    2nd – From the change in fashion to the change in language/terminology, homosexuality WAS slowly being infused into Black society. Now it is one of the most outwardly expressed forms of behavior in our society, and there does not seem to be a stop to it any time soon…and yes it is being directed at college-age males PLUS high schoolers. I have seen this in predominantly black high schools and in HBCUs across the east coast. In reference to the feminism deal, it has been redefined to be destructive instead of constructive. Instead of being a means to gaining respect and recognition as a woman, it has been overblown to an extent that the female is “independent”…that is way off as no one is independent in my book.

    3rd – It does take out the smartest class of our people…it limits the intellectual growth of them and stunts their future potential. Now the crazy part is the next thing you said…The next rap stars and video vixens? Heck, some people can’t or won’t be able to tell the difference who they are. Some of those rappers and video chicks ARE the ones in the college campuses and have been for years (David Banner). Add to the fact that the rap music and culture is ingrained in some of the HBCUs and black college organizations, and there’s a gonna be a huge problem in the next 5 to 15 years.

  4. Me2013 says:

    Highest divorce rate is between black men and black women, the next highest is between black men and white women, the lowest is between black women and men of other races. Any black man who says he can’t find a black woman not worthy of marriage has issues.

  5. Ramses says:

    That’s why I’m forming lodges with my brothers…I don’t have time for shenanigans with negroes. They are shucking and jiving themselves to an early grave

  6. Mack says:

    Thx JR and Myra, much appreciated.

    @ Ramses: You know it. And if we think white folks did us wrong, what do you think Chinese will do to us? Feel sorry for us? White folks, at least the ones running things, they know how they’ve schemed and manipulated us into the condition we’re in. But Chinese will only see a group of people who serve absolutely no purpose whatsoever except to be enslaved or decimated. You see how ‘merciful’ they are on their own people: a 2 child maximum per household for decades. What do you think they’ll do to Quaneesha and Quintara, with all those babies running around on section 8?! Them chicks will be the first ones confined to ‘the camps’ and exterminated. Right along with their babies. And niggas won’t fair any better, because we don’t even have a militia to fight in an organized manner. So its imperative that we smell the salt and wake the hell up, before we find ourselves a day late and a dollar short.

  7. Mack says:

    JR: I agree. It will most likely take a while to fix. Its a nefarious design by those who still seek to make merchandise of ‘us’. On one hand they promote promiscuity especially among our young and middle age women. They simultaneously promote single parenthood as though its some sort of rite of passage into womanhood…which it isn’t. The combination of these two factors creates the prison class for the new prison/slave economy of the 21st century.

    Meanwhile, homosexuality is championed as a viable and acceptable lifestyle, shown primarily on TV, geared mostly toward our young college level males. And college level sisters are being groomed in the ways of feminism to hate and despise males and marriage. You see plenty of evidence of that right here on this site.

    This effectively takes out our smartest class of brothers and sisters, who SHOULD BE reproducing, over the ones walking around trying to be the next rap superstar or twerk video vixen. Now add to the mix the shoot’em up bang-bang culture of the inner cities and you have a great weapon used to control our population numbers in this country.

    War has always been one of the best methods of population control; and many of our hoods have existed in a constant state of urban war since the race riots of the 60’s.

    Whats worst than all of this is our own complicity in it. The plan wouldn’t work if so many of us didn’t help it along. Basically right now, they literally have us by the balls. And not by force; but because we’ve placed them firmly into their hands. Until we ‘man up’ both individually and collectively and take back our dignity, we’ll continue to exist at the level of servants when we should be ruling as kings and queens; especially in this land.

  8. JR says:

    This is a very good article and and interesting back and forth dialogue going on. It pretty much shows what is happening out there when it comes to relationships and the status of black men and women getting together…and it’s not looking good. Many statements that have been made are true, i.e. women not respecting men that treat them like they should, many males ending up in bad relationships or dating outside of the race, and worst yet that homo crap that is running rampant throughout Black America. This is a huge problem because it is destroying us from the inside. What’s the craziest thing about it? The presence of it is becoming more and more visible in public. Something that is morally against the prolonging of our existence is being accepted yet many are going against fixing the issues so that we can build better relationships between our men and women.

    There has to be a few things done so that it can get better for us. However, this needs patience because this will take a long time to fix.

  9. Ramses says:

    Coons like Kanye get whores pregnant

    http://is.gd/N5hBct

  10. myra says:

    Wow…this is amazing but true. The Word of God warns that fornication is sinning against our own body. This makes perfectly good sense. It appears that Science is aligning itself with the truth! Praise GOD!

    1Corinthians 6:18 “Flee fornication (sexual immorality). All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body.”

    In my lifetime I’ll have to say that I haven’t found a person who has lived life freely with multiple sex partners come to a good end. Later in their life, after their heighten sexual desire has dissipated, the women are usually searching for a husband, have different baby daddies or simply look and appear “worn” out. Both the woman and man may have encountered some type of sexual disease at one time in their life, and yes, they are lonely.

    And you are most certainly right. A woman can’t do what a man does. Women are emotional and hold on, whereas, men hits it and moves on to the next target. A woman is more loving and searches for love, even when she tries to play the game. However, a man will live life to death being an uncounscience whoremonger.

  11. Ramses says:

    Well said @Mack…it’s show and prove time….better get your shit together real fast…this celebration of stupidity will keep putting black men and women in jail (lot of black women are starting to be incarcerated as well). We are verbally putting our foot up black people’s ass on here because they need it. Black people need to really get their heads out of their asses or they won’t have to worry about a white man’s boot up their ass, they’re gonna look up and that boot is gonna be distributed by a Chinese or Indian

  12. Mack says:

    Since of you negroes and negrellas will only consider this seriously if it comes through a white source, I’ve made an accommodation for you:

    http://youtu.be/SC4horRfoVg

    This lady drops some excellent info on the subject matter.

    To the real brothers who get it: keep chopping up that good game gents! You’re teaching and instructing a larger audiance than the few comments on here represent. How many young men’s lives are you keeping from destruction just by being willing to discuss these issues openly? As always, much appreciated.

    To the real sisters and the ladies who get it: You represent what remains of the light within this experiment called the African-American woman. As long as you are around, they’ll never force us all into darkness. Thanks for keeping it real. You give us hope.

    To the rest of you: Either get educated on the pertinent topics, or get left behind. A fundamental question I like to ask myself every now and then is: After slavery, who needs black people? Think about it: we were brought here for one purpose only: free labor for the enrichment of others. Period. Now that slavery has been over for 150 years, what purpose do we now serve?

    This helps keep things in perspective. The truth is: we are still needed for free labor, and little else. Except we no longer call it slavery. Today its called incarceration. Welcome to the new slavery of the modern era. This onslaught of ratchet tv shows and deprecating movies is just another part of the plan to legally steer more and more black folks down the path towards incarceration/slavery. Single mothers are needed. Studies have proven that the leading cause of adult incarceration is being raised in a single parent home. Hence why there’s such a strong push to ‘liberate’ black women from black men.

    And a picture is worth a thousand words. That’s why more shows that promote the lowest common denominator among us are pushed to the forefront, creating a strong visual connection and assimilation. Our young men aspire to be Shawty Lo’s, and young women aspire to be WITH dudes like him. Very insidious plan, and very effective.

  13. Ramses says:

    Sankofa I feel you brethren. No matter the age range, I’m seeing good brothers disillusioned by black women at a rate that should be scary for them. I’m seeing brothers developing a serious level of hate for them that I never thought I would see. Like I tried to tell this sister the other night, when men don’t desire you anymore you can’t get them back. She said there are angry men out here and I said “of course there are. When your woman has betrayed you the way black women have you’d be pissed too.” I mean I have heard black women say there are no good brothers out here. And I’m like “what!” I know I’m good. Loving and all that. But I will not hesitate to lay down the law. That’s some disrespectful shit to say as far as I’m concerned. I have been out here dealing with chicks since I was 17 and I have not met more than 2 black women that were marriage material and I am not lying either. I’ve come across plenty of those who looked good enough to screw, but marriage? Pleeeeeeease. And when you say stuff like that black women look at you like you’re being over-the-top. They have no clue how to relate to a black man. My business partner told me he went to see Django yesterday. He said every black man needs to see it. He said after the movie his chick he dealing with (an obnoxious black woman) said “I’m sorry.” Black women not only don’t see the black man’s struggle to just exist and stay sane, they don’t care to see it. Then have the nerve to say you’re “conditioned” by the media when you get with a caucasian chick who actually loves you while at the same time she’s trying to look like the caucasian chick!!!! My whole crew is on this southeast asia and south american tip when it comes to good women. Check out this documentary that talks to brothers young and old in brazil http://braziltravelcenter.wordpress.com/2012/10/14/frustrated-black-american-men-in-brazil-documentary/. It encapsulates what i talk about. i don’t hate black women. My desire for them is just not what it was in the nineties and early 2000’s. They did it, not me. I got tired of speaking to them and not getting replies. I got tired of opening doors and not getting thank you’s. I got tired of saying “smile” and getting a snarled look like a rabid dog. From a numbers perspective alone it’s not enough here for us. Think about it. Atlanta has a large population of single women who you would think would bend over backwards for men so they could settle down with. However, the opposite happens. Because the dudes are so pussy struck, they chase these hoes down, making it difficult for cats like ourselves to get respect when we command it. These chicks would rather deal with dudes they can control than have to submit to. Then when they get 40, then marriage means something to them then only because they’re looking for a man they feel can help them with their debts. Give you a prime example. A friend of mines homie wife divorced him in like 2007. He married her with her two kids (by a white guy). he had no kids, ex-military, real estate business, garbage business, and lawn care business and worked at post office. She came to him one day and said she wanted to quit her job and get into real estate like him. He said cool. The first she made over 200,000. Now you would have thought that this chick would have said damn we can build even more wealth together by working together even more. Yeah right. She eventually told him she wanted a divorce. he said let’s get counseling but she rejected that. A month later she marries another dude. So you know she was fucking this nigga while she was still married to this dude. However, this just goes to show how these niggerish hoes don’t pay attention to shit. 2008 we saw the bubble burst in the housing sector, which affected people like her in real estate. After seeing the dude she married wasn’t hitting on shit, she tried to come back to her ex-husband. Now because he actually loved her, he entertained it initially, until he found out she was still married to the dude. He was like “hell nah bitch.” But you want to know the real reason why she came back: it was because her money was tight because of the housing market. She was an old ass bitch who thought she didn’t need this black anymore and ended up playing her damn self out of a good thing. She tried for years to get back with him and he eventually told her “I’m not mad at you. i actually want to thank you because if it wasn’t for you, i would never have known my true value and worth as a Man.” To me this chick is the typical black woman. I’m telling you don’t become disillusioned. That’s what they want. A man without confidence is a carcass ready to be picked by these crows and vultures. I met this chick in Oublix a few years back and I could tell she was Colombian. She looked like a mixed black chick. Absolutely gorgeous. I asked her hometown but I can’t remember the name. I asked her how the women were where she was from. She said loving. This was the first word that came to her mouth when I inquired about the women where she was from. I asked “do you think i could find a wife there” although I knew I could based on my research. I just wanted to see what she had to say and she said “a Man like you would have no problem finding a wife there.” She said “it wouldn’t take you a week to find a wife from where I’m from.” In the United States, Black Men don’t get respect from black women and now that these black women are being exposed for who they really are, now they want black men to come to their defense and say things like “black men don’t love us and they don’t defend us when the media tears us down.” That’s that bullshit because when I was on that problack shit, I was on it hard and they never stepped up to the plate even then. Getting a southeast Asian seemed to work out very well for Earl Woods (Tiger Woods father) and doesn’t seem like he hated himself. Just because you don’t pick a black woman to be with, doesn’t mean you hate yourself or your mother. You only want a woman who exhibits positive characteristics that your mother should exhibit (speaking to black men in general). A lot of brothers moms were whores so why should they want a woman just like their mother? That’s asinine. I’m not the only brother who thinks like this. I’ve been researching this the last 3 years and brothers everywhere are realizing their worth and value as men. Now obviously, for a lot of black women, this leaves them in a peculiar, vulnerable position. They have to ask themselves the question “who will want me?” I’ve never had to ask myself this question. I have always been able (and not scared) to date other women from different ethnic groups. But one thing I do know is is that beauty is colorblind. If you’re fine you’re fine. And if you’re fine and your personality matches that then what else do you need as a Man? You’re just a tired black man. Join the club. It’s not about being angry anymore. At the end of the day, you got more black women wanting to be Nicki Minaj instead of Michelle Obama. That is truth. As far as the dudes who are slaves to the pussy, I would be careful about being around dudes like that. Dudes who have to fuck 50 chicks a month to me are trying to prove they are not gay a lot of times. They are trying to convince themselves they aren’t gay buy running through chicks. Don’t get me wrong, you have to practice your technique on those who are target practice, but I’m too old to be just running through chicks like that and dudes better be careful because they are saying men are getting throat cancer from having oral sex with chicks with HPV!!!!! Real talk. American women, for the most part, especially black women are disgusting in their behavior and I laugh at those who demand marriage. They might catch a scary ass nigga with that game but not I. If you aren’t a virgin then I’m trying t see how many partners you had. BUT REALLY i COULD CARE LESS!! My overall view of black women are that they are hoes. 80% of kids born out of wedlock proves this. When I asked a sister “what does 80% of our kids being born out of wedlock tell you about our women?” She didn’t want to answer because she knew that pretty much sums everything up in a nutshell. They just had Nia Long on I think Ebony celebrating being a single mother. Now if you a head from the nineties, you couldn’t get any better than Nia Long. I mean that skin tone was and still looks immaculate. Ass for days too. Just a stunning piece of beauty. And this chick can’t figure marriage out? We assumed she was high caliber but in the end, she is just like the rest of these corporate minded black females. And I will be honest, I have no respect for niggas saving these reject ass black women. And I have no respect for those who sit there and take abuse from them, then go out in the streets and take out there frustrations on brothers because they are scared to put a foot up their chicks ass. And I have no respect for a bitch who would disrespect your manhood and then call the police on her man when he flexes his muscles on her ass. These chicks get on here and talk shit, just like they do to their men, yet if their men slapped the taste out of their mouths they would be on that phone with the police, showing you who they really respect. They don’t respect the law you have as a Man given to you by your Creator, they respect man made law. This corporate state law. And they derive great pleasure from turning black men into the state. To me the real slave catcher out here is the black woman because the more the black man tries to get free, the more she tries to contain him. I was at a ameeting some onths back and this 65 year old black woman was berating her own granddaughter for the way she disrepsects her boyfriend as her boyfriend sat there. The elder black woman said “I get sick and tired of seeing the black woman emasculating the black man.” She said “if you have a problem with your man, you don’t berate him in public. You wait until you get home and you deal with it then in a respectful way.” She cautioned the brothers in the meeting and said in fron of other black women and her granddaughter “there is no woman more conniving than the black woman. I’m telling you’ll brothers you’ll better leave her alone.” She said “You’d be hardpressed to rind a good one in the States. You better off going overseas and finding you someone else than deal with them.” She said “I know blackwomen who have gotten black men locked up child molestation charges when they knew the men never touched their children in that type of way.” Dude when she said that shit bruh I paid close attention. Mind you this was a dark skinned female saying this and she didn’t hate herself either. This was an elder black women telling black men to leave black women alone. I don’t say shit out of hate of them. I say it out of knowing who the fuck they are at this point in time. Could they change? Maybe. However, you are what your nature is. An alligator has a nature. We can’t get mad at it for killing (out of hunger) because that’s what it does. The nature of th black woman right now is very self-destructive. And we act like there are 100 million black women here in the states. Relatively speaking, there are not that many available when you take into account things like obesity rates and other health care concerns. The numbers reduce dramatically when you start putting these numbers with the group and that’s why brothers are having a hard time. It’s a numbers game. There aren’t many good black women in the small pool we have here to choose from. There are more women of African descent in Brazil than the States. Look it up. Go online and start researching. They love us. I saw a Malcolm X carnival float in Brazil in 2005 and I am still trying to find this footage. They love us down there because they look at us as family. Black women cut themselves off from family because they don’t look at Brazilians as brothers and sisters at all and black men let them convince them to do the same. If you think black women have a problem with the black women over here that are fine that they hate on. Just imagine them seeing these women over there. And most of the time when someone hates another person (especially women hating other women) it’s because deep down, they know the other women has more to offer than what she can. I had a friend in the ninth grade that had a girlfriend that was Mexican. Girl was fine in the eight grade Family. This black chick asked him “why you with her (girl name was Leah)? You know you need to stick with your own.” So like a dummy, my friend just stops calling the chick. Never broke up with her or anything just pulled some nigger shit. But, the sad thing is, the black chick that told him he needed to stick with his own, never gave him any ass herself. As we got older, she was fucking older dudes in the upper grades and got pregnant in the 10th grade. You know what was even more sad, Leah never spoke to my friend again after that. Even in later years when he tried to speak she would completely look at him with disgust because I think she really liked him, but my dude let a black hood rat, cum dumpster ass chick talk him out of a good girl. Leah ended up getting with this dude name Ivan, who seemed pretty cool, although lame. Black men are a walking credit card outside the US and black women know it, they just don’t want you too because if you ever realized what you are on this planet, they would end up being your slaves for real. This black chick, who is a C.P.A., who I met twice, wants to get with me so bad and just can’t understand why I won’t give her a chance as a black woman. We’re into similar things as far as the economic piece but I’m not interested in her. Black women don’t make me excited. Now you get me a Latina, I’m on some 5th grader shit again. The best woman I had was a Puerto Rican and ever since then, I was hooked. I tried to lie to myself over the years but eventually came back to latina women. Their loyal, submissive, trustworthy, and you don’t have to worry about them taking you to court using your children as weapons against you. They cook, clean and support their men. Black women had me, a very confident man, thinking I was inadequate at one point, although briefly. I was questioning myself and even got counseling and the Ethiopian counselor at my college said to me after hearing me talk “there’s nothing wrong with you at all. I keep hearing you say repsect throughout the sessions.” She said “you just want to be respected as a Man that’s all.” That was it for me. Black women will make you doubt yourself when there is nothing wrong for a Man to say he wants his woman to be respectful. We act like that’s some rocket science shit. No it’s not. What does slavery have to do with a black woman disrespecting a black man in 2012? It might have held weight back then, but now? Pleeeeeeease. Nah. I’m not buying that. And if you want to be techinical, a Man can force a Woman to respect him by sheer force. But we don’t that as real men. We sit here and try to compromise with them within reason. They don’t try to compromise with us. It’s either do it my way nigga or I will upgrade you. Well I’m here to tell black women right now, what we upgrade to, you can’t even compare. if we go on the beauty attributes alone, it’s not even a fair fight. Then you get to the qualities necessary for a woman to have that will convince a Man to commit to a woman, that takes it to another level. Western women in general are very spoiled and are being slowly replaced with third world women because these women are much more traditional(family oriented) in their ways of thinking. Black value jobs, careers, and money (status symbols too). Eastern women value family first, and then all that other stuff secondly. You can have family and not be rich. Black women weigh their options and decide those Minolo boots are more important than a Man in bed next to her. DOn’t get down Sankofa, it’s cats who are retiring from the military moving to south america living quite well on their pensions. It’s never too late for men. Never. Not the same for a ran through woman. A ran through woman is a waste of time and resources as well. If I got to pay for pussy I might as well buy a bride online and get a longer term investment.

  14. sankofa says:

    @Terrence Amen…thanks and will do

    @Ramses..I feel you African. I just split from a woman of 22 years whom I thought was my compliment only to find out that she was bat shit crazy, controlling obsessive compulsive and paranoid. Actually let me correct myself and say that the signs where there but i ignored it, because she talked a good game and looked good…and she was a good home maker and such. But her mother was bat shit crazy, her aunt was bat shit crazy and most of the females in the family ended up divorced or wore the pants in their respective houses. Now fortunately or unfortunately I learned to work through difficulties from my parents who were married for over 60 years before my father passed, so cutting and running was not a first choice. I reveal that to say I now choose to go through a period of detoxing from women and work on reassessing what manhood is and what true value I bring to the table and what I will not compromise on.

    Brother, the shit I see out there is not only scary, but right now I am close to giving up and feel resigned to a monks life. Pussy is cheap out there! That’s the crux of the matter. I have cats–whores in their own right–who will tell me about some fine ass woman doing the most hoish shit, without blinking and then turn around and act like that pussy, those emotion, that intelligence is a valued commodity. Well crack can be called a valued commodity too. I got cats mad at me because I don’t try to fuck anything that moves, they can’t overstand the discipline, primarily because it shows up their own lack of discipline and slavishness to vagina. And they admit this to me..Lol! Then you have the females who call me angry, because I tell them what time it is, without compromise and with authority. I have come to realize that getting involve with a knee-grow female right now is an exercise in futility. The old ones are broken down and used up, bitter and tainted….and those are the few in a relationship. Those not in a relationship are bio-hazardous. The young ones are fucking stupid, misguided and are constantly participating in pussy politics that often ends badly. On top of that there are so many narrative in my city of brothers earning jail records, losing their homes and apartments, jobs and lives, for getting involved with these knee-gresses who themselves turn around and complain about our issues? It’s like a twilight zone episode or five.

    The misguided among us claim this is a man’s world, but if we want to regain it we as men have to work on the young brothers and get them straight, because while no nation can rise no higher than their women, there will be no nation if we have simps, manginas and fags, representing what a true man is. Many of these females are like retarded children, doing any and everything to get attention and when corrected throw a tantrum. Many of these males are effeminate versions of these females and they both deserve each other. I believe we are in a war and as such there will be collateral damages. I totally agree with you and that’s why I only ride with those willing to ride with me. I won’t be a captain save-a-ho; I won’t be throwing pearls at swines feet. All it takes is one or two similar minds and intent to get rolling, so I am casting my lot where I stand.

  15. @ Sankofa

    Hey Brother Sankofa, just click on my name above this comment and it will direct you to my site where you can email me and we can talk further.

    Black Unity means financial independence and happiness

  16. Ramses says:

    I commend you for your efforts and wish you much success in your endeavors….as for me I’m working with a small group of men to do major work. The smaller the better because it means more accountability. People have shown that organizations don’t work well with us as a collective because of lack of accountability. We’re constructing our own think tank(s) which will put us in a supreme position moving forward. Pleading with “our” people to get it together has played itself out with me. They are still doing the doll tests on black children and they are still choosing caucasian dolls over themselves and that’s pathetic at this point. I never knew how powerful self-hate was until I really start seeing this silly reality tv BS with these black women who make a fool of themselves on these shows. Weaved out, fake eyelashes, colored contacts in the eye still. It’s 2012 and black women still on that!!! Low self-esteem is very powerful. I remember in 2001 when I was with this chick, who had been raped twice and we were talking. And she just broke down crying. I was like “what’s wrong?” She said “I know you want me to be good towards you and treat you a certain way but I don’t feel like I’m good enough for you.” I consoled her and said “it’s ok you have value and worth to me.” She also wrote me a letter saying that I put too much pressure on her placing her on a pedastool. But before my Dad passed he told me after seeing what I was going through with this chick “son, I see you trying hard and I’m proud of you. But you can’t make anybody do what they don’t want to do no matter how much you want them to.” One thing personal relationships have taught me about people in general is that even if it’s the right thing to do, if people are emotionally lazy, they won’t do the work. No matter how much you want it for them, if they don’t want it for themselves, it’s not gonna happen. Black people talk a lot of shit but really have a lot of low self-esteem, including men. Until that issue is dealt with, then everything else is moot. I spent so much energy with this chick in 2001 (knew her since 1997) that I eventually broke up with her. I was emotionally drained. However, she did tell me that she didn’t think she was good enough. It was me trying to throw on a cape that cost me valuable time. And therein lies the black man’s problem. He spends so much time trying to save the world, he loses himself. As Men, we have a natural tendency to want to protect and that’s fine if you have something to protect. But as we can see, do we have something to protect? I mean I know your emotions will tell you yes. But what does your eye (third eye) logic tell you? Go on the internet right now and type in black women porn. And just go through those links. Look at the amount of black women in porn. These women would be better off with a broke man, than in porn spiritually. Yet what do they choose and don’t say it’s because of post-traumatic slavery disorder either. Laurence Fishburne’s daughter wanted to get into the acting business using a sex tape (Kim Kardashians model) as the bridge to do it. Damn if your father can’t get you connected that’s sad. These same chciks you see on the porn on the net live around you. This is not in Asia, or South America. It’s right in your neck of the woods. matter fact, go on backpage.com right now and just go to the Atlanta section for escorts. And look at all those links. Look at the different cities where these females sell sex from. From Decatur to Sandy Sprngs to Jonesboro, to Cobb County, these black chicks are beyond repair. Why you think virginity was such a prized possession in days of old? Because it told you the discipline that this particular woman had. There are plenty of poor women in the world, in way worse conditions than black women in the States, who don’t sell their bodies. They would rather starve than become whores. You mean to tell me black women are better off selling sex than being with a broke Man? I challenge any female on here to make that case. And these chicks not only are online selling sex, even their profiles state they only want white men!!!! You have women who would rather sell the vagina to the white man, than be a wife to the black man!!!!! If that doesn’t seal it for you then I don’t know what will. But i know what makes a lot of us scared. It’s called cognitive dissonance. As a collective, we have never been in this position before. We have never been in a situation where we’ve had to contemplate not working with one another. We have never had to contemplate not being on the same side. Even during slavery, our very survival forced us to work with each other. Now, it’s different. Women have jobs and for the first time in human history, are in a position to not need men to survive. Not only that, some men have been placed in positions where they need to lean on women to survive, which has totally screwed up the power dynamics. Even if you look on tax forms, it has Head of Household on it, but now a woman can fill that slot in, when in earlier days, it was no question as to who ran the household. I really want you to take a look at the porn sites and just go through it and see all these black women, who more than likely you have approached not knowing they were hoes. Look at these chicks. Bangbros, Ghetto Gaggers, and a whole host of others. These dudes go to all types of cities, especially in the south but it’s everywhere. I live in Atlanta and I don’t know if you;ve ever been here but it’s hoe central. Atlanta, when it comes to black women, is the epicenter of hoe behavior. Every direction you face you see hoes. You don’t see ladies but hoes. They might put on corporate suits and mask it but hoes all the same. Tell me how a city full of attractive women can have such a high rate of single females, especially the ones who look good? If the chick looks good here, more than likely she’s bad. That’s sad but true. You want to know hwy I’m backing off? It’s because our people don’t respect Men like you, or me, or Mack, or Sankofa. They just don’t. But let you get locked up. Mamas mortgage the house to get the knuckleheads out of jail, yet show no support to the responsible sons out here. That’s our people in a nutshell. we feel sorry for the knuckleheads and make excuses for them, and get mad at those who speak on the knuckleheads negative behavior. Look at all the backlash I receive on here. You would think people would be really supporting what I’m saying because all I’m really saying is for black people to step their game up. But you know what I get: hate. The truth hurts and that’s why our people reject truth tellers. See black people all for you taking a bullet for them but boy, when you tell them about their own behavior, then the nigger really reveals him/herself. Notice how when I bring up the hoe behavior of black women, they get quiet? Now they will bash black men all day but when the lens gets placed on them, especially on that hoe behavior, you hear crickets. I will give you an example that illuminates this. A friend of mine dude he knew got married a few years back. The dude was 25 years old and still a virgin. Now, before he married the girl, he asked her did she have any debts because he wanted her to get her credit in order so they could do the things married couples do (like get houses). He paid off her debts and all that. Mind you this is a black man. Now, she had a best friend who was gay, which should have been a clear sign of something wrong right there. I would never be with a woman who had a gay best friend no matter if the best firend was male or female. I don’t play that Glee bullshit. Now come to find out after he marries the chick, he finds out that the chick was in the porn industry and had slept with other females too!!!! Lol. Now it get worse. When he went off on the chick says “I don’t understand why you acting this way. How can you judge me so harshly?” Lol. Now I’m not lying to you, fuck all that black love shit. I would have beaten the brakes off that chick had that been me. I would have gladly taken that charge that day. The bitch was so primitive and uncouth, she couldn’t understand why he would have a problem with her previous behavior. And what makes it worse, her family knew she was a hoe. They passed off this slimy ass brawd onto this Godly dude knowingly and said nothing. If that was my cousin, and I knew she was a hoe, out of Man law I would have pulled that dude to the side and told him about this chick. You don’t do any Man like that, no matter his ethnicity. But people think they can do that shit to Black Men because like the little loyal niggers we try to be, we take shit like that, and that’s why even our women don’t respect us. But what if we started saying we don’t want black women anymore huh? WHat if we start speaking out on the dumb shit niggas do in the group? Look on Tommy Sotomayor’s twitter page and look at all the black people who (including some black women) who give this brother support. There are a remnant of black people who are sick of the nigger shit. Either you’re gonna straighten up or we will allow you to stay behind while we chart a new course cause that daishiki wearing, african medallion of the 80’s, fight the power shit has not worked at all. If you can look at the porn sites and backpage.com and make a case for these clowns, more power to you but God has destroyed nations for similar behavior. These porn sites are filled with women who are absolutely gorgeous. From a physical standpoint, men would love to make them their wives. And of course you’re gonna have those who say “well there are black men on their too.” My response is “I don’t have sex with black men dummy!” And if you didn’t make yourselves available to the porn industry, they might be on camera, but it just wouldn’t be with you. This dude, a spiritual Man, lost his virginity to a whore that he married. It’s one thing to lose your virginity to a whore;it’s another thing to do it under marriage. i wouldn’t do a woman like that. When i got marriage counseling a few years back, the pastor said that we are dealing with a sexual demon out here, something I had said something to my girl at the time. These women have turned into sexual beasts out here. Its bad when even men are getting tired of easy sex. I implore you to go to these sites. Don’t reject it because you want to believe in the righteousness of the black woman and all that bullshit. Turn off that race shit for one second and turn on your Man Meter. What does your Man Meter tell you when you look at these black women and the future of your people. especially when the best way to destroy a group of people is through their women. We can say they devised strategies to do this stupids shit but that’s all it is: strategies. Satan tempts you but never lays a hand on you and makes you do anything. Black people were freed from bondage and 140 years later proved all the negative stereotypes caucasians had to say about them valid. And if “whitey” is in your head so much that you work against yourself, then maybe you are his property after all. If someone can get you to go against yourself, don’t they own you? In sports, when someone says “that person is in your head” what do they say after that? They say that person owns you. If you allow anyone to permeate your self conscious to the point you do self-destructive thigs that go against your survival and ability to thrive, then they own you and if black people are content (which they seem like they are for the foreseeable future) being owned “by the white man” then who am I to argue with their choice. I’m not dealing with an 1865 ex-slave. I’m dealing with a 2012 freed slave who has asked “Massa” to come back home. I’m getting out that niggas way because there is nothing like a slave who fights for “massa.” I’m connecting to a higher source (The Gods in the Sky) and asking them to guide me and protect me. For years, black people have made me feel like a Man without a people and when that happens it’s over. If i was a bitch nigga or homo I would be right up black people’s alley. i would be weak enough to control and dumb enough to entertain. But because I’m neither, me and black people, as a collective, don’t mesh. It’s ok. As a Man, I can accept what I can’t change. If I can’t change the people around me, then I need to change the people around me. Simple.

  17. sankofa says:

    Ramses and Terrance…as Mack said, your dialogue is good. I see both your point and do agree that you are just both sides of the same coin. I intend to conduct a series of workshops, the next three month, with males on first countering the negative media images of us and to work on improving or reconstituting that image in OUR eyes of functional African men. I am going to take both of your path and hopefully show them fellas how to fish. Once they learn to fish, they can then develop pride in self, the economics and their roles as men. This way the will have boots on the ground and hands on the till, as they move towards a more dynamic and self fulfilling/self sustaining lives. I am grateful to have your wisdom. Also Terrence, please direct me to where I can get your books in bulk. The practice of Ujamaa, starts where we stand.

  18. @ Ramses

    The last two paragraphs you wrote is exactly what I’m trying to do, which is to bring the right people together in order to create opportunities for ourselves. Most people are followers. They need to be lead. But we aren’t being led and if we are, it’s in the wrong direction. That’s how I know who the real leaders are. If they aren’t talking about us doing for ourselves and instead telling us to rely on the government for the solution, I know they don’t really want to see change.

    You haven’t read my book, but the first half talks about exactly what you’re talking about when it comes to utilizing the money we’re already spending to build our own infrastructure. The other half of the book talks about the main reason why we aren’t doing this, which I believe is because of the slave mind that we still haven’t dealt with. So we are on the same page. I just want to work on a larger scale and with my people here first before we start working with others. I guess I want to be one of those people who wants to do as much as I can to bring our people together. I know it won’t be easy, but I believe it will be worth it

    Black Unity means financial independence and happiness

  19. Ramses says:

    Peace@ Terrance….I choose to let those who choose to stay behind stay behind. I’m not leaving anyone behind at all. What’s our excuse? Have we not had our own schools since slavery? Yes. Have we not had our own communities with businesses? Yes. I bring Malcolm X and Marcus Garvey up on purpose because these two men, along with Booker T, exemplified what we should have been doing in terms of building. Malcolm was strong in his defense of black people and Garvey and Booker T were about getting money. What better way to defend your people than being economically sound? The caucasian is not guilty of every crime against us. This Arab bastard was way worse than the European in terms of slavery trust me. It was the Arab who started the slave trade and did so much damage to our people. Why you think Africa is having so much problems now? You think it’s just because DeBeers and Western companies? Who you think helped weaken Africa to the point Caucasians could take control over it? Look at what’s taking place in Sudan. Those are filthy Arabs who have been massacring Africans for centuries and who still practice slavery and rape over there. At least the European had enough civility to stop at some point. The Arab won’t fucking stop. And to be honest, I’m enjoying the fact that the Jew is whipping his ass. I hope he puts a big KKK bootprint on his ass for real. Fuckers raiding our ancestors tombs and tearing off the noses and lips to hide our history. The arab has not contributed shit to civilization at all but war. Like John Henrik Clarke said, they are not even a BC culture. They don’t have ay ancient culture whatsoever. Mofos haven’t built shit. The caucasian might hide your history but at least he gives you enough credit to say you have a history worth hiding. arab don’t give you any credit. The same fucker who got his religion from the catholic church. The same whitey the arab hates received his religion from the vatican. Black people go to Meccas like Mecca some holy place when meccas was the major trading place for slaves. even if you’re an african muslim those fuckers still don’t respect you. Nah i’m not gonna blame it all on the white man. He’s an opportunist but he is not as bad as the fucking arab. I’ll join his ass to whip the arabs ass anyday. these the same mofos who rail against the west yet come over here and buy white women on the daily as prostitutes spr their harems. I don’t have anything against concubines but they claim to hate the west so much. Why do you assume whites introduced that light skin dark skin shit into our relations with each other? You don’t think it’s possible we did it long ago? Even if they did, have we not had ample information researched by scholars to affect us positively moving forward? How many Malcolm’s, Garveys, Booker T’s do we need to get it together? The people you think want your help might not want your help. If they could kill Malcolm in front of his wife and children, what do you think they will do to you? Look at the stuff I say. Tommy Sotomayor was criticizing gang activity (murder) in Chicago and niggas from Chicago started threatening to kill him because they didn’t like what he had to say!!!! There is nothing more to say to black people as a collective. This is where smart Men move out the way and let God do what needs to be done. We have more family in the world. You think just because they speak Spanish in South America that’s not family? I’ve seen women in those jungles with the name Anubis!!!! Ancient Egyptian name right there. I don’t need a blood test to tell me who I am…I claim who I am. The elements that are in the Universe are in our DNA so when I claim to be a descendant of the Neteru. I mean it. The fact that I have melanin proves I am original to the planet, even according to Caucasians and there science. Slavery was a blip on my radar because I’m claiming the glory of my ancestors, not the ass whippings. But i am humble enough to study Caucasians and utilize things that make sense they do that brings success. I can give them credit, without paying homage to them like they are the pinnacle but i respect a civilized Caucasian before I respect an ignorant nigga any day. I don’t owe black people in the states no more than Malcolm, Garvey, Booker T and countless others who made a sacrifice on their behalf. Black people are always looking for a Messiah because they have a Messiah complex. They always need someone to bail them out. That’s why they love Jesus so much. Who wouldn’t praise a deity who dies for your sins. That’s right up black people’s unaccountable asses!!!!! LOL. Just the image of someone dying on the cross for something someone else did is the epitome of an unaccountable belief system. That’s why I love commerce because it’s about the bottom line. Negores can tell me about Egypt, Songhai, Mali, Cush but can’t tell me anything about how to make some money. Niggas are deep in knowledge, yet deep in debt. How the hell does that go together. In the lamentations of Jeremiah, he starts out defending God’s people, but by the end, he asks God to destroy the people he initially defended. They said when Malcolm was shot, he didn’t even run. It’s as if he was almost expecting it to happen. Malcolm was against the State yet his own people at the same time. Positive black people have to go against their perceived enemy, while not realizing their biggest enemy is staring them right in the face. Black people have a hatred for themselves that ultimately they project on those they consider black as well. This is 2012 and it’s worse. And this is after Malcolm and Garvey, Dr. John Henrik Clarke and a whole host of major figures who attempted to resurrect a mentally dead people. Most of our Prophets died miserable deaths. Lonely and isolated. You’ll always want to look in the Bible for messengers. The last hundred years have given you messengers who really deserve sainthood. Last time I checked, the Catholic church didn’t make Martin Luther King a saint. Whether you agree with his approach or not, he did die for the cause. The reason I claim Moor is because only a Moor would read the books I’m reading. Niggas don’t read trusts books like i do. So it means we can never be the same. While a nigga is in the strip club, I’m in these pages. I’m not here to argue with a female who wants to strip at a club. For her, that’s probably as far as she could go in life. And who am I to stop her from her goals. If our people are miseducated, it’s our fault. Plain and simple. No more excuses. As far as I’m concerned. niggas excuses ran out when they killed Malcolm. I always view our people through his lens and when I think about how them niggas almost bombed his little girls like cowards, it makes me have no sympathy for niggas seriously. Ponk ass niggas gonna do some ponk shit like that (just like drive-bys). Nigga got the gun and yet still scared to run up on somebody. They shot Malcolm like he was a dog and our people didn’t do anything about it. We should have broken in the jails and killed them niggas ourselves. If black people really want to move forward they will start investing, farming, banking, learning how to manufacture things so they can sell some products instead of being consumers all the time. Tell black people to put heir money where their mouth is. Tell black people around you to save 100-200 a month and after a certain amount of time you’ll will have money to invest. Pick someone to be your trustee to handle your investments on behalf of the beneficiaries (those who invested) that you all trust so negroes won’t have any excuses. And issue trust certificates detailing who has a share (beneficial interest) in trust property and have a detailed account of expenditures and trust income coming in and distribute income accordingly based on the terms of the trust. If niggas don’t put their money in, and go by Jordans instead, then you will know that niggas ain’t shit. These are the conversations our people need to have because our people are not financially illiterate, they are financially retarded. If you got disposable income to the point you can buy $170-180 pairs of shoes, then you have money to invest. If a chick can amass 75 pairs of shoes in her closet, then she has money to invest. I don’t even want black people talking to me about God. Keep it to yourself. How can you help generate income is the question on the table. Wealth accumulation and wealth preservation is the topic at hand. This separates the real from the fake

  20. Mack says:

    @ Andrew: one more thing. I never ‘presumed’ to know your race. My comments about knowing one’s history is all encompassing. If you are really up on history and not fiction, you’ll know that wherever you go in this world, so-called blacks were at the forefront of everything. That transcends race. But not everyone is ready to accept that.

  21. Mack says:

    Well said Sankofa!

    Ramses and Terrance: I like the dialogue you two are having. Both of your perspectives are very enlightening and thought provoking as always. I see your views as two sides of the same coin.

  22. Mack says:

    @ Andrew: I love it when people kick themselves in the mouth with their own foot. Not that it matters because if you wanted to have a real dialogue on the issue, you would’ve actually read the article before commenting on it; but I referenced info in the article for you to look up and build upon, including the title itself which comes from a popular book on the subject matter. This topic has been discussed within scientific circles for some time now. Reading is fundamental!;-)

    Here’s more for you. Not even for YOU Andrew, but for those truly interested in building on their knowledge of the subject:

    Sexual Biology: New Scientist, 18 May 96 (p. 52)

    Semen Displacement as a Sperm Competition Strategy in Humans.
    Gallup Jr., Gordon G.; Burch, Rebecca L.
    Evolutionary Psychology, Vol 2, 2004, 12-23.

    http://www.minds.nuim.ie/~buffy/dissertation_research/pregnancy.pdf

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kamikaze_sperm

    http://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007%2F978-0-387-28039-4_1?LI=true#page-1

    http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1991-12464-001

    http://books.google.com/books?hl=en&lr=&id=FhvmHW972mAC&oi=fnd&pg=PP2&dq=sperm+competition+in+humans&ots=Ns5fTXIzYY&sig=s1MASFSRLQdH–3yogjDCOPwO44#v=onepage&q=sperm%20competition%20in%20humans&f=false

    That should be good for now.

  23. @ Ramses

    Let me first start by saying I agree with about 80 – 90% of what you said in your last comment to me because you speak the truth. Yes we are the original people and we are all Africans, yes we did have slaves, yes our African ancestors sold our people into slavery, yes some free Blacks enslaved their own people here in America, yes Kemet was the educational center of the world. Where we disagree is, I don’t hate white people, it’s a waste of time and energy that can better be used for loving and working with our people. It’s sad that whenever Black people talk about working together to help each other overcome what was done and still being done, in the sense of the slave mind to create opportunities within our own community, just like every other ethnic group, we’re told we hate white people. If you look at my past comments and even in my book, I talk only about whites creating the problem we’re in as far as not being a united people.

    So I only blame them for creating the problem, but because of our negative programming and these fake so called leaders directing us to the government to solve our problems, we have continued the problems we’re in today. You must remember we were stripped of our language, culture, history, religion and anything else that connected us to our mother land. This is the foundation of any community. This happen nowhere else on the planet, and the major difference from slavery of the past. This is and the fact that we were programmed to not like where we came from, the color of our skin, and all the other positive attributes connecting us to Africa. I wonder why? The fact that we’re having this conversation is proof of that.

    You choose to claim your Moorish/Kemetic heritage and I can respect that, but unless you took one of those DNA tests which still might not be accurate, you really don’t know where you came from because as you said we are all over the world. I only use this as an example of how the white man stripped us of who we are. I have no problem calling myself African because it is the birth place of civilization. It may not be the proper name, but it is the name we use because we really don’t know where we’re from. The European doesn’t recognize we are his parents. To admit to that would mean he would have to admit to all the atrocities he has done against us here and all over the world because as you said and I agree, we are the original people all over the world. Some have like the Germans to the Jews, but for the most part, it hasn’t been done. Now that we consider ourselves separate people, Europeans are the smallest group on the planet and must use any way they can to preserve their group.

    They are creators of these divisions because they know if you divide a people, you have a better chance of controlling them. It’s one of the oldest rules of war. You must also remember we’ve only been so called integrated or able to have the opportunities we have now for only 50 years or less. You can’t negatively program a people to hate themselves for 400 years and expect them to change in 100 years or less, especially when we haven’t dealt with the psychological effects of slavery. To this day we haven’t given this the attention it deserves. This is why, unlike other groups who still have their culture, language, and history intact are more successful as a community, while we’re too busy trying to assimilate in order to be respected and be like the people who put us in this position in the first place. No I don’t hate the white man; I hate what he did to us and will never forget it. Yes I did see the documentary by Dr. Gates about Africans in South America. The bottom line, we have to come together as a people before we can get together with other people. This is where our power lies and why it is so hard to come together. You gave examples of Marcus Garvey, but he started with his people in Jamaica and then started with our people here in America. The nation of Islam started with our people and continued to grow, The Black Panthers started with our people and continued to grow.

    These organizations failed because of the white mans fear of a United Black people and because we continue to worship the leader rather then what the leader is talking about. We support the messenger rather then the message, so when the messenger is killed, we forget about the message and have to start all over again, looking for another messenger. Some of our leaders did try to work with other groups, but they first had their own group first. As you said Harriet Tubman had to force some of our people to be free, which is a perfect example of the slave mind. She didn’t give up on them, neither did Malcolm X, neither did Marcus Garvey, Huey Newton, and the many others not mentioned here, neither will I. So I guess we will have to agree to disagree.

    Black Unity means financial independence and happiness

  24. Andrew says:

    Mack you take a defensive position in your comment. You ignore criticism based on the presumed race of the person commenting and you ask us to be careful questioning your “Science” when in fast you never link to any kind of study that you can base your claims off of.

    You’re a fraud.

    Just because you’re butthurt about the race of the person who developed the scientific method doesn’t mean that you are held to any less bar standard when presenting “Scientific Evidence”. There is no Science here, just the musings of a hyper-sexualized victim. One through his own lack of power wishes to dominate the empowered women around him.

    Let go of your anger. Let go of your vitimization. Don’t write off entire branches of study because of the cultural influences and descrepancies that are inherent throughout history. Just bust your ass trying to make yourself as strong and as smart as you can and use those benefits on the community around you(regardless of race).

    Or maybe just link to some study material next time..

  25. Ramses says:

    No doubt Mack enjoy the time with your family…be safe Family same to you Sankofa

  26. Ramses says:

    @Terrence the fundamental difference between me and you is that you use the slave experience as your base of operations…I don’t….You consider yourself black/african american…I don’t…I claim my Moorish/Kemetic (Egyptian) heritage which is way more positive than the slave experience. I figured you’d reject the article because we all want to believe that it’s caucasians that have done us wrong when this is clearly not the case. In Mel Gibson’s Apocalypto the quote in the opening titles stated that “A nation’s demise doesn’t begin from without first, it starts from within.” Now we have clear evidence of our greatness but what explains our fall? How did a people, who exhibited such greatness, descend so badly? Well the same nuclear wars that caucasians (Jews) instigated against were fought back in the days of Egypt of old. The sahara used to be filled lush vegetation but due to nuclear warfare, rendered the atmosphere into a state in which radiation polluted it so bad that rain doesn’t fall there. Then when it comes to slavery, who do you think started slavery first? We did. We enslaved caucasians first. We were going into Europe getting 100 virgins each year as tribute. You think these fathers didn’t miss their daughters? You think your Creator just allowed something like this to happen to your people just because? The black people you love so dearly are paying a Karmic debt. The story of Yakub, whether you take it as myth or truth, talks about this black scientist trying to graft out the most evil parts of himself and that’s how the caucasian came into being. So metaphorically, or actually, when the black man looks at the caucasian he’s looking at himself. Hating this caucasian (Jew) will not get you anywhere. In 6000 years, he has gone from cave to planets. You got to give him some credit. The knowledge we have held for years can civilize even the most uncivilized. Even Cheikh Anta Diop said there’s no superiority in skin tones. He said they are conducive to the environments they live in. Romans and Egyptians have been fighting for centuries and have gotten nowhere doing it. We have laid waste to them and vice versa. In terms of humanity, we have a debt on both sides to each other. Even in the Bible it talks about how you’re not supposed to abuse our slaves. They will have to pay for their abuse towards the ancestors just like we had to pay a debt towards them when we harmed them and if you’re black, reading this, and think your people are innocent, you better think again. That is a naive fairytale that you better wake up out of real fast. Don’t reject the books because it’s diametrically opposed to what you’ve been taught in their schools. I’ve learned a whole lot more outside their conditioning schools than in them. I don’t descend from slaves. I descend from the sky people (Neteru) and that’s where my heritage lies. If you really want to focus on slavery, focus on how not to ever get yourself put back into because like they say, history repeats itself. Noble Drew Ali said the European would be left around long enough for the black man to learn government again. Do you know what it takes to run government? It first of all takes some Men who form brotherhood to keep the rest of society in line and that comes under threat because their are gonna lawyas be some people who have that childish need to rebel. people wanna wear che gueverra t-shirts and black panther t-shirts because they think rebellion is cool. How did things turn out for them? Not so great. A lot of you’ll think too emotionally while men in fraternal orders run the world just like they did in Kemet with the mystery systems. You’re either a slave or an owner. Take your pick. There is no in between. I used to be (key pharase used to be) like you years ago when I went to Georgia State. I was ready to mow every cracker I seen because of what I thought they had did to us. But boy when I start finding real history, and was able to see our culpability in things, it made me become a humble individual. I read books on masonry all the time and actually have one showing Egypt being the cradle of it. So when people get on youtube all mad about illuminati this and that I laugh. The same people who get mad at them cannot organize enough with themselves open up a lemonade stand!!! lol. Damn even a 5 year old child sees the power in going into business. What’s black people’s excuses? Masons are organized. You aren’t and therein lies your dilemma. If you can’t organize your family (because of their own willingness to be ignorant) I suggest you find some other people to link up with. Abraham Lincol didn’t free your people. Your Creator did. Harriest Tubman had to pull the gat on niggas to get them to be free. Imagine you having to threaten to shoot someone for not wanting to run away towards freedom!!! Lol…But even though black people snitched on brothers who plotted rebellion they still were freed. And after over 140 years, this is the best your people can do. The 20th century was filled with strong leaders and even Garvey talked about linking up with other groups of people. Malcolm talked about linking up with Brazilians and Venezuelans and Cubans to form alliances with. Instead of learning slavery all the time, pick up a book concerning banking. You can’t run a nation without an economy. Egypt couldn’t be what it was without a stable economy. All nations have had slavery at some point in time and to be honest, it’s necessary because everyone doesn’t want to be conscious. America proves it. This experiment shows you that a nation with the most access to information can still be made dumb. The dumbing down of America (and I do admit it was intentional) couldn’t have taken place w/o willing participants. You know what made NEO more powerful than the agent in the “Matrix?” When he stopped fighting him and accepted him. When he did this, he was able to incorporate the strengths of his enemy and use it to his advantage. The only thing to defeat is your own ignorance of knowledge of self. Egyptians said that the pursuit of knowledge was the highest virtue in Man. So imagine what our ancestors would think about those who look just like them would think about them? They would enslave their asses too!!!!! Know this. The question is how can you prevent yourself, and your future lineages from being enslaved? Not the whole of black people because that experiment has shown its futility so maybe you need to start small. How can you leave this world without leaving your children debts? How can you leave this earth without your children starting at ground zero? If your people can’t come together in terms of making money, then they will never come together. What’s the use of being highly spiritual and broke? What’s the use of being super wealthy and negative spiritually? Black man and woman, better figure out a way fast to balance both or quite frankly won’t exist. It’s not like you’ll getting paid off this hate/blame whitey kick. It kind of remind me of radio raheem in do the the right thing. They go into the Italian establishment blasting the radio asking the italian why aren;t there any pictures of famous black people. Lol!!!! What kind of shit is that? You are so poor that you need someone elses to validate your existence!!!! If you want your existence validated, then open up some schools like Jews, to teach your people about themselves so they won’t get indoctrinated in these brainwashing schools. People with melanin owned other people with melanin. How you think a lot of your people got enslaved in the first place? Yeah the big elephant in the room is the fact that plenty of African tribes sold other people they were at war with into slavery. And we all didn’t come from Africa either. Some of our people were here already. Look at the stone heads of my Olmec ancestors in Mexico. With helmets on an cornrow braid underneath them. Even caucasian archaeologists state that Olmec civilization predate Mayan and Aztec culture and if you look at the totem poles that our Mayan and Aztec brothers have constructed you will see an Olmec head at the top of the totem siginifying the source of Mayan and Aztec knowledge and civilization. In Henry Louis Gates “Black In South America” he interviewed a girl in Mexico who looked like the mexicans we see over here and he asked her what did she consider herself and she said “Negra.” I bet you didn’t know the second President of Mexico was a brother (Vicente Guerrero). Blacks in America have learned the same racism from their masters (not mine) and have used this to cut themselves off from their human family and a lot of the healing they need could take place if they learned to embrace their human family again (including those we consider caucasians). If all humanity comes from the womb of a black woman, wouldn’t that make us all black? I left hate at the doorstep and walked through the door of love. Simple. I hmble enough to sya I’ve gotten my ass kicked and I don’t want to feel it no more. I choose to be the change in the world I want to see. I don’t have to hate white people to love myself. We make fun of white people who get tans and thick lips but hell some of them want to be black more than those who have it naturally. Go figure. We always talk they want to be us but most of the time we don’t want to be us

  27. sankofa says:

    I know it has been covered but @JayJ implied that this is “YOUR” theory. This is the reason why intelligence is lost on some people. In your article you referenced your Caucasian source, but no….you are being attacked for shit you didn’t even say. This assures me that the most stupid of people are the ones that can’t keep their mouth closed. Then there are those who have problem with reading comprehension who always fail to develop proper reading skills outside of counting the words. Likewise @sorryIreadthis…you are really a sorry tool, to come here with your concern about what Caucasians think about us. I am at a loss to overstand why knee-grows, uncle Ruckus/aunt Jamima types, still insist on coming around intelligent discourse and pollute it with the white daddy, knee-grow bed wench attitude.

    As men we have to be careful about giving certain people access to us, because they mean only to sow discord between each other and among the family.

  28. @ Ramses, Mack and JayJ, and anyone else who reads this.

    I have to start by saying, I don’t know why you wrote this comment Ramses, but I guess you’ll explain after reading my comment. I read the article on the link you left, about the first slave owner was a Black man. I totally don’t believe it, considering the article was written by a white conservative group who sounds like a tea party affiliate, and who have Ann Coulter, Pat Buchanan, and Ron Paul as columnist. These people are totally not interested in helping Black people. They have their own agenda and we’re not part of it. But even if it’s true, that doesn’t take away from the fact that whites have enslaved our ancestors, physically and mentally for 400 years. Not just here but in Africa as well. PBS talks about this same person, but there is no mentioned that he owned slaves. Here is the link, http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/aia/part1/1p265.html

    The other link that you show is a book about a negro (this is what some freed mixed colored people liked to be called to separate themselves from Black slaves according to this book) who owned slaves. From the little that I read, (just couldn’t read anymore) he sounds like the same house negros and boules that walk step in step to be just like massa. People that continue to keep us divided to this day, but act like they have our best interest in mind. I do realize their were free Blacks during this time, and as the book says, the majority of them were poor, probably because they didn’t want to enslave their own people. I don’t know this for sure because I didn’t read the book and don’t intend to. I do believe we are all the same, we just don’t think the same, which is the problem. From your comments, I believe you think Black people should team up with other groups and build from there, or at least that’s what you said you want to do.

    I think this is a mistake because it weakens our group and strengthens others. You don’t hear other groups leaving their people to join ours, but they will utilize everything we have to help their communities. I don’t know how long it will take for Black people to come together, it may never happen, but I will not take what I think is the easy road and only think about myself and my family. This is our problem now and the cause of it stems from 400 hundred years of negative mental programming, that we still haven’t dealt with to this day. I love my people too much. I wasn’t born this way I developed into this once I found out about our great hidden history. I’m very proud to call myself Black, African American, considering it was our people who made this country great. If Black people never came to this country, it would not be the great country it once was and that’s a fact. So if we put a tenth of the energy to make this country great, think of what we can do for ourselves. For information on the boule, here is a link http://daghettotymz.com/rkyvz/articles/bouleseries/boule1-3roster/boule1/boulept1.html
    Also look up Dr. Amos Wilson, especially, African relationships, but all his videos are great.

    Black Unity means financial independence and happiness

  29. Mack says:

    Ramses: Thanks for the drop. And Happy ‘Nimrod’ Day to you! 😉

  30. Mack says:

    @ JayJ:

    The essence of a man is not just biological, as in semen. Its also quite ethereal. In other words, it has a very spiritual aspect to it as well. One bonds with your body; the other bonds with your soul. So wearing a condom won’t stop an emotional bond from forming.

    How many women do you know can repeatedly sleep with the same guy over and over again, enjoy it, and not form some type of powerful emotional bond with him? But men can do it quite easily, which just underscores my point: women can’t do what men do. We’re built differently, and we’re just not the same.

    And when did I ever hint at saying ‘real men sleep around?’ If thats what you got from reading my article, that was a massive jump to conclusion because I never said it. If a man sleeps around, ultimately it is to his shame. Who wants to be a 50 year old dickslinging giggalo…? And consider this: there would be a lot less men sleeping around if more women DID keep themselves pure, by simple fact of there being a lot less women available to sleep around with.

  31. Ramses says:

    Hey Mack…here’s a heads up….for all these “black” people who think we all come from slaves they might want to check out this article…http://cofcc.org/2012/03/americas-first-slave-owner-was-a-black-man/

    So when I say these people come from uncivilized backgrounds I don’t just talk out my ass!!!! lol….we all the same is a fallacy for real…I suggest you people really do the science on who you think are your people….here’s another book as well too…..http://www.amazon.com/Black-Masters-Family-Color-South/dp/0393303144

    no more games

  32. JayJ says:

    So according to your theory all a woman needs to do to protect herself from taking in the “essence” of a man is have her male partner wear a condom.
    In addition, riddle me this, you are saying women need to stop trying to be like men, so are you saying that real men sleep around? If men are free to sleep around without shame who should they sleep around with if real women are to be pure and untouched?

  33. Ramses says:

    Here Mack and Sankofa…long for sure but deadly when you read its contents….enjoy..you know i only read long books!!!! lol

  34. Mack says:

    @ AHawkins and SorryiReadThis: can you dispute the science in my article? Be careful when you try, less you end up looking as foolish as those who disputed the existence of a round earth versus a flat one. I challenge you to dispute the science, if you dare. As for what I care about how another race views me or what I write: contrary to the how your envious mind desires to be accepted by folks of another race, I understand that whites don’t hold a patent on knowledge. If you knew your history, which I’m sure you have no real interest in knowing, you would know where they got their knowledge from over the years.

    Here’s a hint: all things in our modern society point back to ancient Egypt. I know you probably think modern society began with Rome or Greece, or perhaps even England. Hate to burst your bubble but it didnt. All of it: from science to religion to architecture to engineering to medicine to language arts to art itself: it all originated in Africa. Without exception. So what makes you think I gives a damn what any other race thinks about me, when everything they know came through me…?!

  35. Ramses says:

    Why don’t you say how we think? Why is that you worry about how they view you but don’t value how civilized people from your own view you? White people’s view of black people only matter? And when you say whites you mean white men so be clear because white women don’t exercise power, white men do. I wish there were two groups that existed: civilized people of color and those who are not and those who make excuses for them. If this was the case, I would never say anything. But by default i get judged for being black because of how I look (although I go by Moor) and even black people think we have an allegiance with one another based on this black fiction they never chose for themselves nor defend. I implore people to judge your people off of their acts, not their color. A nigger is a nigger, no matter his color or ethnicity.

  36. sorryIreadthis says:

    I somehow got linked here. Is this really the sort of thing black people think? No wonder white people think blacks are dim-witted. It’s because you are.

  37. Ramses says:

    Yeah Mack you know we hold our balls firmly in our hands….no doubt Sankofa…they are being exposed…and this chick is a negro writing it

  38. sankofa says:

    Damn! This article made me laugh! A lot more women are getting it. thanks for the link.

  39. Mack says:

    @ Ramses and Sankofa: I just found and read that article this morning. Love that it was written by a female too. Not that it will matter to those still suffering from a massive case of truth-denial. Thanks for holding it down as usual fam… Real brothers to the fullest.

  40. Ramses says:

    Word @Sankofa

  41. sankofa says:

    Immediately upon reading this….”Pardon me while I flow from the top of the dome with something that’s been on my mind lately…” I knew it was you African. After reading it , I could feel the hate coming on. Thank you Ramses for putting it down on A. Hawkins, as a real man should. Men, I have concluded that if manginas never existed, real women and men would have healed our white surpemacist created rift and practice Uhuru as Terrance Amen preaches. Also we, as real men and women, would have brought those lost sheeps home and detoxed them from stage two feminism and the cult of self destructive behaviours.

  42. Ramses says:

    @AHawkins are you actually advocating women be hoes? I mean you made no reference to the gist of his article which was to tell women not be hoes. WTF is wrong with you’ll niggas? Mack gave it in an academic fashion by giving you a thesis and giving you books (Bible and the Scientific Book Sperm Wars) to back up his claim. i wish people would identify their genders on here when they comment too so we can know who the bitches and the bitch niggas are. He gave you spiritual science and you’ll niggas aren’t still satisfied. Fucking losers. Now if it’s a female commenting then I understand because once a hoe always a hoe and you have to fight that label as much as you can. We all know at the end of the day most hoes don’t regard themselves as hoes and want respect as ladies!!!! lol. They think that their college degree and corporate job makes them different than the hoe in the projects. Lol… I’ve laid the pipe to plenty of corporate ass black women who sucked my phallus on the first night when I wasn’t even looking for sex. i was just trying to get to know them and really got to know them!!!! Hoes since ten years old

  43. Ramses says:

    http://www.evolbiol.ru/large_files/spermwars.pdf

    I’ve been telling dudes for years they’ve been at war with chicks because of the sperm these chicks allow to come into their bodies..they never listened to me

  44. A. Hawkins says:

    This the most sexist ignorant thing I have heard in a while. This is worse than that clown who says a woman’s body shuts down when there is a rape and won’t get pregnant. It makes no sense. There is nothing scientific that says a woman takes on the essence of everyman she has sex with and men’s sperm fight for supremacy. Who is this clown?

    a few seconds ago ·

  45. Ramses says:

    This is why I keep saying this is not racial animosity but genetics, science, and spiritual values. These black chicks are losing because they lack and reject knowledge in all three phases. Any woman who has children with weak men, naturally ensures her lineages destruction. And that’s “mother nature” talking. When we talk of nature, we attach ‘mother’ to it so they have no excuse for their fuckery. I salute you Mack for hitting them with the science because science is God and God is science and I dare any of these negro wenches to try to refute either one. I have enough melanin and I’m going to share some with my fellow women of the world who are in need of some darkness!!! lol…Boy if I knew how powerful science was or got into when I was in elementary school no telling where I would be right now. Science shuts you the fuck up and only a hoe would argue with it

  46. @divinelystamped says:

    Excellent article. Education on this topic is a must. I give thanks to Di most High for this article and the embedding of scripture in this post.

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