(ThyBlackMan.com) The holidays are coming up. And for some, family get-togethers mean family tension. But you can defuse that tension with a little advanced planning. 1. Decide in advance how you will respond. There is a difference between reacting and responding. A “response” is based in wisdom, which requires forethought. A ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) The reason why I feel that men particularity black men cringe at the thought of marriage when a woman brings it up is because of the fear of being treated like a child rather than a grown man. Allow me to clarify I know we all have seen some ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) By now I’m sure you’ve seen the caricature-esq impersonation of Serena Williams performed by Caroline Wozniacki. If you haven’t here’s what happened. During an exhibition match in Brazil, Danish tennis player Wozniacki stuffs her bra and shorts to increase the size of her breast and apple bottom during her match ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) Washington Redskins quarterback Robert Griffin III (aka RGIII) has been asked to respond to those who wonder if he’s “black enough.” As if we need more of this conversation in the black community, a commentator on ESPN chose to take Robert Griffin III to task, wondering if he’s as black ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) In a period of seven days two 25 year-old NFL players have senselessly lost their lives. Last week Jovan Belcher died in an unforgettable violent act of murder-suicide. Then on Saturday morning at 2:21 Jerry Brown died in a violent automobile accident. Brown, a practice squad player for the ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) First let me start off by saying this a fictional writing and has nothing to do with the actual writer herself. I hated her, despised her thought she was the worse woman on this earth until one day I realized that my own arc enemy had become me. Now ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) Yeah, I said it. I do actually agree that monogamy isn’t natural. However, when using this argument to justify or hold oneself faultless for cheating on a spouse or significant other, it doesn’t hold water. Many, especially men, use this argument to alleviate the guilt and shame associated with infidelity, ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) Dallas Cowboys defensive lineman Josh Brent has been charged with intoxication manslaughter after he was involved in an accident this weekend that killed his teammate, Jerry Brown. This is the second tragedy that has hit the NFL in recent days. Most of us know about the death of Jovan ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) An argument followed by deadly gunshots. The victim – 22 year old Kasandra Perkins – murdered by her 25 year-old boyfriend Jovan Belcher. Approximately 15 minutes following the 7:50 a.m. shooting came yet another round of gunfire from Jovan; that single shot resulted in Jovan succumbing to the same ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) The murder-suicide involving Jovan Belcher of the Kansas City Chiefs was, without question, a tragedy among tragedies. I feel terrible for this family and as a father myself, I wish that Jovan Belcher and his girlfriend, Kassandra Perkins, had sought the help they needed to survive such a terrible ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) Next to “why did Adam eat the apple?” I swear this is the oldest question in the world. “Why did he cheat?” Like to hear it; here we go. One. There must be a woman willing to cheat with him (that’s easy). Two. He must give in to temptation. ...
(ThyBlackMan.com) Blacks don’t commit suicide or so it was thought. In the wake of the murder suicide of NFL player Jovan Belcher it makes one wonder what in the life of anyone could be so bad that they would seek out death as a form of comfort. Unfortunately we will ...