(ThyBlackMan.com) Having a child is one of the greatest gifts that life can give to a family. Children are the continuation of a family line, a constant source of wonder, and bring a sense of love unmatched by any other feeling in this world. This isn’t to say that the process of raising a child is an easy task, only that having a child can be a blessing on a variety of levels.
For parents, having a child is a big step in their relationship. There will be times where nerves are frayed, and relationship strain is common, but to work hand in hand to raise a baby into a productive member of society is its own reward. The simple act of creating a child with another person is an intimate experience, creating a special bond between these two individuals, which can’t be broken.
As a father, you might want to show the mother of your child how much you appreciate her. Yes, you had a hand in creating the child, but after that, it all falls on the mother for the next nine months. She’ll carry the child, nourish the child while in the womb, and ultimately must go through the strenuous and difficult process of childbirth. Throughout this process, the mother of your child is the most important person on the face of the earth, and you should find a way to show that to her. Below are some gift ideas to show this appreciation.
1. Pump Bras and Nursing Bras
Many women choose to breastfeed their children, but not all are able to feed on demand or produce enough milk initially. A breast pump can help express excess milk, increase breast milk supply and simply pump breast milk that allows you, her partner, to feed the baby so she can get some rest.
If a woman is using a breast pump, pump bras will make her life a whole lot easier. Pump bras and nursing bras make the whole process of breastfeeding more comfortable for your child’s mother. Hands-free pumping bras allow her to pump breast milk and read or watch TV at the same time.
2. Burping Cloths
Newborn babies spit up and throw up a lot — it’s just a fact of life. The best way to be prepared for such occurrences is to have as many burp cloths on hand. This helps to keep the mother clean, and not having to change shirts every time their child spits up.
3. New Jewelry
Jewelry can help to show a person that they are appreciated. Rings, earrings, bands, and even anklets with precious gemstones are treasured keepsakes that women wear for all occasions. A nice gift to give to the mother of your child can include the perfect ring with turquoise or rose gold. If you’re wanting to take the next step in your relationship, and propose to the mother of your child, why not look at rustic engagement rings. Natural diamonds and rose gold in an engagement ring setting will take her breath away. Jewelry is a great present for new mothers.
4. A Diaper Bag
A diaper bag is essential for new mothers. Having a way to carry around these items helps to keep a mom prepared for baby accidents which may happen anywhere and allow her to leave the house comfortably. You can also utilize a nice tote bag, or even a designer bag to act as a diaper bag. If the bag can hold diapers, a changing pad, a change of clothes, wipes, pacifiers, and toys, it doesn’t matter what type of bag it is.
5. Scented Candles
Scented candles are great gifts for new mothers. In addition to providing a home with sweet-smelling aromas, these items can also provide stress release. When raising a newborn child, stress is at the forefront of many days. Being able to simply light a candle and have some of that stress relieved is a great gift to provide for new mothers.
Staff Writer; Karl Washington
