(ThyBlackMan.com) Masturbation.
Self-pleasure is an act that allows a person to explore their fantasies and sexuality without judgment from a sex partner. There are people out there who still feel that masturbation is an unclean act because it gives you that
Sexual exploration is important step in getting to know one’s self, because without it, how can you know what your sexual likes and dislikes are? Only you can find out what your kinks are through masturbation.
Besides it being a lesson in self-exploration, masturbation is also a healthy way to have your ‘little death’ without having to experience actual life threatening diseases, such as HIV. !!!
Also, you are getting freaky all alone, after all, so you also don’t have to deal with battling with your morals. It’s guilt-free!
There are a few ways to get in the mood to masturbate:
Porn videos– Porn has to the the best guilt-free way to explore auto-eroticism, as you can type in just about anything and find people engaging in that act. Genres such as granny porn, taboo incest, old/young, BBC, ebony, interracial, LGBT, amateur, fetish (hairy armpits, smoking, Amazon women, balloons, etc.), BDSM, etc…are all online and can be accessible to you at anytime. Try Pornhub.com or XVideos.com.
Heck, you may even find my secret fetish clip on there. Who knows?
Erotic Literature– Erotic literature is definitely for the literate. If you like long reads that will take you off to La La land in a sexy way, try liteerotica.com or asstr.org, where you will find the same genres as porn videos, but as they say, reading is fundamental so you are also stimulating your mind as well as your genitals. As far as actual books go, try the Penthouse collection, which are written by everyday people who share their sexual escapades with readers. You can find them at Barnes & Noble.
Adult Stores– You know those stores set off on dark secluded streets hold a gold mine of kink and freak for those of us on a journey of sexual exploration. Everything from porn movies of all kinds, sex toys, erotic literature, clothing and accessories are available to the person who wants go outside of their comfort zone sexually. Try out Hustler or any of those stores with the 4 movies for $20 deals in your area.
You– Yes, that’s right. Though this could be placed in the porn video category, filming yourself is a great way to know your sexuality, by yourself. Consider masturbating on your webcam,then watching it alone. You may find out that your body has an awesome shape, parts of your body just stands out and turns you on. A personal video recording you yourself really can open you up to what turns others on about you. After watching yourself, you may even decide to go it alone and keep all of that body to yourself.
Essentially, your mind can be a better sex partner than any person, if you just let go of your reservations and go beyond missionary and monogamy. There’s no cheating involved (unless you have a favorite porn star, then you would have a fantasy partner) and watching porn shows you new ways to ‘do it’.
Masturbation opens you up to a whole new world, and helps you to evolve sexually. No matter what you masturbate to, no one will ever know and you will never feel guilty about falling asleep right after your orgasm…and you don’t have to keep going after an orgasm to help some one else reach climax.
It’s okay to be selfish with your sexuality, and as the the old, wise women say: And it harms none, do as thy will.
Now go on, and have fun…with yourself!
