(ThyBlackMan.com) So I get an anonymous email stating that I am “Patriarchy’s Bottom Bitch” because I promote submission. If we as women really understood the definition, beauty and power of submission there would be no need for rebellion. The fact of the matter is, submission is NOT slavery. As long as God is leading him then he should be able to lead his wife or family. When you think about it, it doesn’t make sense. You will sleep with this man, have children with him, but submission is the issue? As women we don’t seem to realize that every time we sleep with a man we are SUBMITTING to him. Maybe we should all reflect and think about the various leaderships we’ve been “under”.
Whoever sent the email went on to say that I am a bad example for women, I set women back, women are not slaves, are now more independent, more educated and really don’t “need” a man because this is the time of the woman. That right there….gave me everything I needed to know about whoever sent
me the email. What I find most ironic and hypocritical…is that I am accused of being “Patriarchy’s Bottom Bitch“….but clearly the person who sent me the email doesn’t mind being Willie Lynch’s Bottom Bitch!
Let me explain in greater detail how many of us as Black Women have willingly accepted that role or are fighting one another for it. A bottom girl is defined as:
A prostitute who sits atop the hierarchy of prostitutes working for a particular pimp..
Oh yes Big Willie is a pimp and his pimp hand is strong. We are walking billboards, our words come right out of the Willie Lynch Handbook, the ones that try to deny or refute his existence make his BEST mouthpieces.
A bottom girl is usually the prostitute who has been with the pimp the longest and consistently makes the most money.
How long have we been with Big Willie? What? A good four hundred years now, and we have proven to be very loyal to him. How do we keep his pockets laced? Well, we keep the child support office in business, we don’t mind getting on tv which is the new H** Stroll, and give the world an international view of Black Women that engage in ratchet behavior, that are uncouth, ill mannered, women that are unable to articulate themselves without inserting a curse word, women that throw bottles, that fight each other, that proudly call themselves Bitches, then in the next breath turn around and call another Black Woman a bitch as an insult, brag about the “ballers” they’ve bagged, and talk about their potential prospects.
On television you will be led to think that Black Women are unable to work together without there being some form of cattiness, or drama. But the irony of it all, is that these type of shows stay in production because we ENJOY seeing ourselves in the worst light, we continue to create shows in which we tell the world we are a mistress, jump off or side chick with pride. On youtube there are several videos of us a Black Women twerking, or teaching our daughters how to twerk, and all of this keeps Big Willie FILTHY rich…emphasis on “filthy.”
Being the bottom girl gives the prostitute status and power over the other women working for her pimp; however, the bottom girl also bears many responsibilities.
What are the responsibilities required by Willie Lynch? The main one that we have excelled at is keeping our children indoctrinated (especially our FEMALE children) with his agenda. The wombs of our women have proven to be the most effective way to keep the torchlight of superiority passed among Black Women and the inferiority of Black Men.
I know the language in this article may be harsh to some. It is not my intention to be insulting and degrading, but instead to showcase how we have kept an unshakable loyalty to an agenda that never has and never will have the best interest of the Black Family in mind.
Here is a point to reflect on, two creatures that are the MOST loyal to their masters are DOGS…..and Slaves.
