(ThyBlackMan.com) Russell Simmons is a brilliant man, a jack of all hip-hop trades. He has leaped tall piles of money in a single bound, doing yoga one minute and rolling with Young Jeezy the next. There is part of me that respects Russell to the core, when I see him exert the kind of brilliance that could make a gangsta blush, but when I see Russell hawking problematic lending products and justifying straight up buffoonery, I want to jump out a window.
Russell Simmons, the Godfather of hip-hop, was called to comment about the vicious beating that the rapper Lil Reese laid out on a young girl a couple of years ago. The video was plastered on Youtube and featured the artist punching the girl repeatedly with the kind of redundant one-two combination that reminds you of old Muhammad Ali training videos. The artist was using the poor girl’s face as a punching bag, and it’s hard to watch the video without being flat out mortified.
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Russell Simmons noted, quite accurately, that Lil Reese’s actions were not acceptable, and neither was his pathetic apology. But Ebony.com relationship expert Sil lai Abrams took things a step further by noting that Simmons could easily be called a hypocrite on matters of domestic violence and misogyny.
Russell Simmons is one of the leading pioneers in much of the toxic, weaponized brainwashing being played on our radios every single day. Thanks to Russell Simmons and others who profit from selling black men a blue print to their own self-destruction, many of our kids don’t know the difference between a lady and a hoe, using the terms interchangeably.
In her article about the Lil Reese/Simmons incident, Abrams says that Russell Simmons needs to make his actions consistent with his words and not take the Mitt Romney approach to dealing with crises like this one.
“As the co-founder of Def Jam Recordings, Russell Simmons played a large role in the promotion of misogynistic and sexist music and videos that have helped shape many young rappers such as Lil Reese’s contempt for women. Yes, Def Jam had conscious and proud rap group Public Enemy on its’ roster…but it also had Bytches with Problems, Foxy Brown and post-Russell leadership (and co-distributed by Jive) the pied piper and golden shower lover of young girls, R. Kelly.”
Abrams continues to speak on how Russell Simmons has spoken out of both sides of his mouth when it comes to hip-hop, earning a profit from the very worst of what we are, while simultaneously claiming to push us to be our best. To some extent, Russell Simmons is trapped by the duel realities of hardcore capitalism: When you worship money as your Lord and savior, you find that the drug of money makes you do things that are deeply inconsistent with the fabric of your humanity.
I hope Russell Simmons can find peace with himself, while understanding just how deeply he and other hip-hop corporate captains have distorted the perspective of African American youth. We have far more kids headed to the club than to the library, more black men getting shot than ever before, and the disrespect for women is so blatant that even women themselves are defending it. Welcome to Black America, 2012: Where brothers and sisters have happily transformed themselves into “n*ggas and b*tches,” and self-respect is a thing of the past.
I also agree that Yes! Black women today are more masculine. By that I mean, not in their looks, but in how they act! Some of these women are really tough, even for me and I’m a black woman! But, if you look at the environment that many of us have lived in you would understand why. The environment itself is tough and many black men are not stepping up to the plate and raising their families. So that leaves the woman to do it. Black women have become in my opinion immune to that. We have developed this hard shell. Like I said, this is just my opinion, I can’t speak for everyone…
Peace!
Goodness! What a horrible video to witness! Sheesh, these young men are out of control, excuse me young BLACK men! If you watch the video in it’s entirety, you can see all she did was yell for them to get out the house. How does that provoke an animalistic like attack on her? Shame on any brothas that think it was really acceptable for this jack a** (pardon my french) to beat that woman! Go, and be with your white woman, if you feel the need to! Not like you were doing much in the black community in the first place. SMH!
Peace!
And @Anisa love your comment about college because I say the same things. People come out of college dumber than what they went in. They have you so open to anything you won’t stand for something. Good analysis on that piece I would tell people to check out this documentary on youtube call the college conspiracy. For all you dumb chicks who love to throw up in a Man’s face your degree, this documentary will show you how small you are on the totem pole.
Peace @Anisa. As I said before I honor those sisters who honor themselves and their kings and from the way you talk it’s quite clear that you do these things and we applaud you. Black women have been getting away for too long with this sickness, this madness that permeates in their psyche. I know majority of the females who read what me and Mack, and Sankofa and any other men who write what we write will not agree with us and that’s fine because like I tell dudes all the time, when you agree to be Men, and and just overall good people, you’re gonna piss people off because you don’t compromise your principles. It just comes with the territory. I say what I say to those females who are straddling the fence, who think they have to be a hoe to be with men. The ones who take pole dancing classes thinking this is gonna keep a man around. I’m saying you don’t have to do this. Instead of taking a pole dancing class, take a cooking class, since we know most of you come from a generation who never taught you how to cook. This will take you further in life with men. Black women in general need to overstand and innerstand that you can’t fuck your way into a man’s heat and definitely won’t get you married. Once a Man puts you in the jump off category, you never can make it to the wife category. If you think I’m lying females, if you’re not married to your dude and you’ll are boyfriend and girlfriend, then ask this Man how does he feel about marriage and would he marry you, something you should know anyway, but I’m sure most of you never considered asking the question. A man knows in his hear the type of woman he will marry. He doesn’t have to be with you 6 months, a year or 5 years. He knows instantly. It’s animal instinct. If you haven’t attached yourself to his heart, and only to his penis, you might as well kiss marriage goodbye. You don’t have to convince him to marry you because he will emphatically want to if you are his true companion in his eyes. Most of these females on here get mad at us but here’s the problem with their thinking. Most of these females come from single parent backgrounds. Which mean no father around usually. Because of this, they don’t have a healthy respect for men which grows stronger and stronger each year. However, instead of hating fathers for not being around, why don’t these daughters ask this question: why weren’t you and my dad married when I was conceived? This is painful for a lot of children in general. No matter how bad a female wants to say a father is for not being around, and kids in general, no one is ever questioning mom’s role and she has the decisive role in the whole matter because unless the legs go up no seed is getting planted. Question is: why was mama having sex at a young age and not married to my daddy? Why was mama in the streets at a young age? Who allowed her to do this and if the rules around her counseled her against this behavior, then why did she go against this wise counsel and have me at 14, or 15, 16? When my mother and father had me, my father was 17 and mother 19 but they were married. Now you have females saying at this age I’m too young to get married. So what you gonna be then a hoe in the meantime, then drag your slimy behind to some church thinking you’re gonna find some rinky dink dude to marry you? The girl who attacked the driver was an out-of-wedlock mother (if you can call her that). What if she came across a street dude and did that and got killed? Then her child would have been more of a burden than the kid is already now. When Men like us say something, it’s for selfish reasons why? Because we want families in a structured environment. Mothers in the previous generation have raised daughters like them (whores) and we meet them and can’t do anything with them but lay pipe to them and that gets tired after awhile. At some point a Man wants a legacy and you can’t have a legacy with a hoe. Pure and simple. Now the dudes who go the clubs and screw females like it ain’t no tomorrow, they cool with it because they’re not looking to get married. However, cats like us are not feeling that at all. I blame mothers, not fathers fpr this madness because men have a nature to plant seeds. It’s natural. Like a bee pollinating in spring. The circumstances in which these seeds are being produced is the problem. Too many out of wedlock and not in a marriage/family environment. The black woman has to much of a bitch nature instead of feminine nature. When you use adjectives to describe a black woman, is feminine the first one that comes to mind? Hell no. Strong is the first one that comes. But hell a Man is strong, but he damn sure isn’t feminine. How can a word like strong be used to equally define a man and woman? It’s not because strong should not be associated with any Woman. When we use the word strong in relation to a black woman, it’s usually in reference to her being a single mom. However, being a sinlge mom does not indicate strength, it inidcates a lack of discipline and stupidity because if a woman is gonna have a man;s child she should at least have a marriage out of him first. Why have a kid with a man who has not committed to you? I dare any female challenge me on here and show me the wisdom in that shit. And I’m trying to defend the virtue of the black woman god knows I am but damn she doesn’t have one. Most of them anyway. I have to bring the pain only because i love ya and want you’ll to do better than this shit and if you can’t (or won’t) then cool but don’t get mad when brothers make other arrangements in search of a family structure. You’ll better wake up because they look like they are gonna start cutting some of this welfare stuff real soon and if they do, these chicks with four and five kids will probably have to give up your kids for adoption to gay men because you can’t afford them which is some sick shit. This shit is real. Welfare is a policy and policies can be ended at any time especially when politicians demonize them to get votes (Bill Clinton in the 90’s). I have done my part and the Creator sees my words are sincere and from the heart and at the end of the day I can say to the Creator “I tried. I tried to warn them but they didn’t take heed.” In 50 years you might not see in America what you consider black folks. Anisa spread the word to your female counterparts that the days of being sorry are over. Generational welfare are coming to an end and instead of these black women bashing black men all the time, they need to start bashing these welfare recipients who get money from working black women paycheck before they do. Look at your paycheck. Medicaid and Medicare comes out and goes to these sorry females. If I was a black woman I would start a campaign to stop having my money get taken out of my check by lazy overly-sexed brawds. This could be money used to et aside for college or used to open a business but instead it’s used to fund a dummy’s irresponsibility. Appreciate the feedback Anisa and stay up on your game. Peace
Peace… There are soo many things that I can delve into on this article….Where does one begin?? LOL
I have to start with asking Ramses- were you a part of CME debate night in Atlanta? Listening to you “speak” on this article reminds me of a gentleman with the same name that I met while I was living down in ATL. He is a deep, fascinating brother who would always shut it down during debate night…LOL but anyway…..
I must say that not all of us females agree with this dusty ass behavior that is seen running rampant throughout the black community. I’m not signing a damn petition about this. That is the dumbest thing I’ve read throughout this entire thread…A petition…LOL..It’s like a disease!! I actually ABHOR IT. It makes me sick to my stomach to see a feMALE (emphasis on the MALE) jump all in a man’s face & exude NOTHING BUT TESTOSTERONE & then get mad when you get slapped back down into reality. As a female you have NO place getting in a man’s face. Stand up like a man get beat down like a man. When you ACT LIKE A LADY & THINK LIKE A LADY (not like a MAN) guess what…you get treated as such. When will these dusty chicks learn? Probably NEVER…. But let me tell them from a female’s perspective…You will NEVER be held in high esteem…You will NEVER be treated like a QUEEN- No man worth HIS weight in salt will want you- want you to bear his seed because you ARE a PARASITE!! You make real WOMEN like MYSELF look BAD! US REAL WOMEN have to work even harder to show that we dont think that way or act that way because there is this common theme that seems to run amongst a good portion of the “sistas”.
Some of these comments the women sound pure stupid to me. You cannot honestly think that if you stand up in a man’s face, threaten him or actually place your hands upon his person that he is going to just “walk away”. That is STUPIDITY… So as a female if someone (male or female) was in your face threatening you.. you would walk away?? RIIIIGHHHHTT I dont know who you think you are tryin to fool- us or yourself.. I say the latter!! LOL
FYI: I’m not signing a damn petition about this. That is the dumbest thing I’ve read throughout this entire thread…A petition…LOL..waste of energy
Dusty ass females tend to attract DUSTY ASS dudes. We tend to attract what we are or those who are a reflection of a part of us. I attracted a good strong BLACK man because of who I am. I would never embarrass or degrade his masculinity in front of others or even behind closed doors. I lift him up & he does the same for me. But if & when I need to give him critique it is done in a FEMININE WAY- where he thinks about what he did/said & can take his own corrective actions. I understand my role- correction i OVERstand my role in his life & his in mine & I must say we have quite a symbionic relationship. Many times strangers have come up to us as a couple & commented on how beautiful a couple we are- in our interactions..yo can see a genuine love & respect for one another- we exude it. So no one can tell me that there are no good strong black men out here!!
Its a shame that I had the pleasure of reading only ONE FEMALES comment (Deann) that actually made sense. The rest are coming from a purely EMOTIONAL stance without ANY logic attached sounding like a bunch of hystrionic NUTS (look it up if you dont know what it means LOL)…& there in lies another huge problem. We as women ARE the EMOTIONAL counterpart to what is supposed to be the STRONG OPINIONATED black man. This is not a WEAK position ladies( only speaking to the REAL ladies- not the hoodrats, dusty chicks, or the fe-MALES) if you know how to approach it PROPERLY- you actually HAVE THE POWER in playing your role (anti-feminism). But it has to be used WISELY & that is something our community is lacking as a whole..WISDOM…
Just like Ramses said…the QUEEN is the BADDEST player on the board- but her DUTY is STILL to PROTECT THE KING!! The game is OVER when he is captured! If you play chess you OVERstand each piece has a role & a position to play. Only when the positions are played PROPERLY is the GAME WON!! That is how Life is… So for those in a FOG- WAKE UP! Know your role, play your position!
There is a whole generation of grandmotherly wisdom missing in the community- due to the uprising of young girls becoming mothers too soon & making their mothers grandmothers while yet still being in their 30s. What are these grandmothers teaching their grandkids? How to twerk it in the mirror?? Its a mess out here.
I actually LOVE to see & hear educated STRONG BLACK MEN speak on a variety of topics. Talk about a turn on!! The brain is the SEXIEST ORGAN!! It doesnt matter whether or not he is “college-educated” because as a college educated female the one thing I KNOW to be true is….I’ve learned MORE about life, the REAL world, relationships etc etc OUTSIDE the confines of a classroom. If you are a TRUE LIFE STUDENT then you know that learning is a continual thing….it doesnt happen within a few short years. That is the delusional way of looking at things.
And I am really curious to know where you received your degree…umm Penn Foster?? LOL Its usually good before throwing around the “fact” that you have a “degree” that you spell check, edit & proof read your work. And lets not mention that for someone who says they have a “law degree” your arguments were quite weak, and not well articulated. I expect soo much better from someone who is soo “well-educated”.
I agree with Mack, Ramses & Sankofa… I LOVE IT BROTHERS!!! It’s wonderful to see some of my brothers able to hold it down- conversationally, in a debate… I APPLAUD ALL THREE OF YOU!! Keep speaking the truth out here!!
http://www.flipthegame.net i just read this bruh….enough said…they can kick rocks it ain’t even them anymore….black women are not even feminine enough to get my attention like a man would like in order to marry them. every white chick i have ever dealt with always showed reverence. I remember in the ninth grade a white chick bought me a carnation. I never forgot that. In 98 i was messing with this white chick at Emory university and she and her roommate only dealt with brothers. I asked them if they dealt with white boys and they looked at each other and laughed. There are too many women in the world to lose your existence to a chick who is not loyal to you…this article is good because it’s honest. It’s not white male or black woman bashing: it’s an honest assessment of how this white woman really feels. America doesn’t like to hear this from a white woman or black man. i approached a white girl and she was so bashful and stunned that I approached her she couldn’t even hardly speak. She was so bashful and shy it was so attractive and feminine it made me want her more. As opposed to a brawd who thinks she all that and think she’s upgrading you (Beyonce). She didn’t even want to reveal she had a boyfriend either. Black women don’t want brothers to recognize their real value in the world because if they did, it would be the death knell for the american black woman. period!!!!
You already know how i do mack….they’ve been running better game than pimps on us. I wasted my twenties trying to teach them how to be better women. That’s not our job Family. They made their choices a long time ago. I show these degenerate brawds no mercy. I used to and that’s how I got burned too. I had a professor at georgia state who fits the same characteristics as i speak on here and it was interesting to see how when i called her out for cheating on her husband and being a whore, she came to me so humble. With all her ph’d’s and all that when i judged her off the ancient principles, it broke her whole ego down. The black woman is a hoe. Period. No matter if she is in corporate america, education, the hood, etc. Then she tries to hide it by going to church that cater to her weak ass nature. With the man she met in the club the previous night cum smell on her breath. And what makes it so sad is that they expect you to marry them which means they have no shame. Shame used to keep females in line now they are so far gone shame doesn’t even work anymore. Gutter ass chicks fam. I wouldn’t marry most black women in north america to continue the human race and my ex-wife was haitian and thought she was different but the same just in a different form.
@Ramses: Ya dropping some gems man! I feel everything you’re saying. I was down in Atlanta for 20 years. So I know the scene you described quite well. I married a sister from there: church going girl with a kid already. Comes from a two parent household. Working. Higher educated like my girl Steph preaches. Decent looking.
But my life took a turn for the worst the day I made it official and said ‘I do’. I never knew a human could make my life that miserable. Six years, two kids, a divorce and crazy child support payments later, I have my peace of mind back. And I won’t give it up for nothing in this world. Chick didn’t want to see me happy and at peace after the divorce, even though she admitted to making my life miserable while married. She even held my kids hostage for months at a time, attempting to squeeze more money out of me; not out of need, but out of spite.
I’m not even mad at her, you know why: because I should’ve vetted the situation better before going into it. Lesson learned.
Since then I’ve dated several other sisters seriously. One was even a Caribbean female who I later found out swung from both sides of the fence, if you catch my drift. Not a dusty chick even. A college educated corporate jawn. She just liked practising her Gettysburg Address skills on another female’s body every now and then. That crap is rampant in Atlanta! They talk about down-low brothers: somebody needs to talk about all those down-low SISTERS out there! Its actually worst.
I say: if you’re going to date a black woman here in the States, best to find one who’s either from the Islands or Africa. And make damn sure she grew up with a father she actually respected, and a mother she admired. That’s huge.
Check out her friends real closely too. If any of her homegirls seem even the least bit suspect, best to let her go.
I agree with you though bruh: you gotta go with what makes you happy at the end of the day. ALL, and I mean ALL the brothers I know married to chicks of another race are happy and content. Can’t say the same for the ones married to sisters. Very disturbing.
I keep sisters at arms length now. I still date them; got one now I’m kicking it with. One of the few brothers I know who does. But I refuse to rush into marriage again with anyone: I dont’ care if its the merry damn Queen of England.
Dudes be trying to live by some bygone era rules of engagement when it comes to these females: and that’s what got me hemmed up with the biscuit I married. Listening to the older folks who grew up in an era when they had morals. Those rules ain’t working now. Now you have to think strategic about dating and marriage.
Brothers gotta watch out for THEMSELVES; that should be the first rule of so-called ‘Black Power’. We stand to lose too much by hooking up with the wrong chick nowadays. I’m reminded of that everytime I go online to make another CS payment…
@Mack i remember you putting something up on Tawawa House and saw some info…but damn didn’t know they were whispering the secrets of revolt in ‘Massa” ear like that but it doesn’t surprise me at all. I see them being disloyal now….south america popping like crazy I’ve seen chicks down there named Anubis fam….ancient names…..passport game is a must….and the thing about latinas they love Machismo…they revere papi chulo….the caucasian with power and the black woman in north america played cruel trick on the black man…while he was defending the race, his woman was going behind his back selling him out while they both laughed…look at tyler perry’s movie “The Family That Preys.” The dynamics in which we speak of are present in that movie. I was watching the tv show “Scandal” with Kerry Washington and the brother on the show sho wants her said I pursue you but you never tell me to stop. Do you want me to stop?” She says no I don’t want you to stop pursuing me. But I am not ready to open up to you in that way.” Now it’s interesting to note that her love interest in the show is a white male who happens to be president! You have an available brother that happens to be a Senator I might add, so it’s not like he doesn’t have status. But the sister is not ready to be with him because she is locked on a Man who is unavailable. Mind you the show was created by a black woman and the character is based off a real black woman in washington. The dynamics of the black woman and white male relationship are on ful display in this show and it also shows how the black man is on the outside looking in not knowing what’s going on. This female would rather be someone’s mistress than wife. Sounds familiar? I’m telling brothers to stop with this undying loyalty for “The Strong Black Woman.” Just love Woman. When she comes your way and presents herself to you in the proper form, noo matter pigmentation, give her chance. I’m not saying don’t give black women chances. But the ones who turned their backs on you, which is alot, don’t give the time of day. And I don’t mean the ones who dealt outside of their race cause this is not hatred. I mean the ones who sold you out for feminism. The ones who purposely chose weak dudes so they could control them, but when they came across strong men tried to break them down. The ones who sold you out for corporate America. Ask questions. If a Woman is in her thirties and has either never been married or has never been asked to be married, then a red flag should go up instantly, especially if she’s really attractive. And for all these sisters who read this who have something negative to say. I give you back your words. You all say there are no good black men out here right? Well if that’s the case you shouldn’t get mad at those who think like myself decide to go elsewhere in the world and get wives from different women of the world. You won’t be missing much anyway right? You’ll notice how the topic of marriage concerning black women didn’t come into play until the economy started going sour? Remember in then nineties when black women had good jobs and had their own houses and cars? I didn’t hear anything about getting married then from them. However, when the economy goes bust, now women all of a sudden know what a Man’s role is being that in their mind a Man’s role is to take care of a wife. No that is not his job. A man supports his wife, he takes care of kids. On an essence blog in 2009 i think, a black chick said her grandmother told her that “a black man and white woman together is nothing, but a white man and black woman together can rule the world.” While you brothers have put your lives on the line for them, look at how they were thinking behind your back!!! A gay black chick told me in 2008, when I was heavily on my pro-black stuff that when i expressed my values to her, she told me you won’t be with a black woman. I was stunned. I said why? She said ‘most black women can’t deal with a black man like you.” She said “you’re confident, you know what you want out of life, and you don’t need a black woman leading you. Most black women can’t handle a man like you. Gay chick had no reason to lie cause she knew she had no chance with me. She said to me, and I’ll never forget it, she said “I didn’t think Men like you existed anymore.” Most black females are shocked to even hear that I’ve never went to a strip club. These females expect to be exploited. When you don’t they look at you like something’s wrong with you. The scriptures talk about a remnant of people being put in a position to receive God’s blessing. There will be a few women from this group who will be saved but the rest are ashes already. Destruction is not coming, it’s already here. Brothers need to wake up. Why you think you can’t find wives? It’s not because you are worthless like your so-called woman likes you to believe just because she’s an administrative assistant (such a glorious title). You are not married because your Creator won’t allow you to wife something so degenerate as these females. You’re actually being showed mercy. When you have females who are notorious for using men’s seeds against them what’s their excuse? Don’t make excuses for them either. These females are so hateful that they will use a Man’s seed to bring him down, as if he’s wrong because he chose not to be with her because she wouldn’t respect him. Is that honorable? And I don’t want to hear a sob story either about being a single mom either because A virtuous woman would not allow herself to become a baby mama in the first place. It didn’t used to be like this in this society. Now you have a society who rewards women for irresponsibility, yet like men up for what they say is irresponsibility as well. Females who have eight kids by 5 dudes and this is what we should defend and make excuses for. If there are men as clowns in society, it’s only because their are clown women and black women are the only females i know who go to clubs, strip clubs, pimp other black women, and church all at the same time. You don’t see chines women trying to serve two masters. Or Korean women. The problem with the black women can be best explained in the game of chess. The most important piece on the chessboard is the king. However, the most powerful piece on the board is the queen because she can move in any direction. However, what the black woman attempts to do is play both sides of the chessboard, causing all types of confusion. She defends the caucasiian with power (i make the distinction because all caucasians don’t have power and think like those with it) yet gives the impression that she’s on the side of the black man. But my ex said it best a few years back. She said “it’s like we (black women) really don’t want you’ll but we don’t want you’ll to go anywhere else and be happy.” Isn’t that sick. My ex, who is a black woman said that we (black woman) don’t really want you’ll but we don’t want you’ll to be happy. Think brothers. Are you gonna be loyal to someone else over your own happiness. Hell black women don’t even do that. When they get with a white man, the first thing they say to you is “well you’ll ain’t got your shit together.” Lol. Why it can’t be the same for them? Hell i’ve even heard black females say that when they decide to turn gay. a woman understands them better. Is this joke or what? The most insulting thing for me to see is a black female who knows she’s not gay, but does it out of bitterness and then blames men for her conversion. If a brawd is gonna be gay then do your thing. But then when you try to say it’s because black men don’t have their shit together!!! You deserve to lose all your teeth for saying something like that. You gay because you just weak. To me homosexuality from them is them saying I am not woman enough to go through the battles with my men. Feminism is a backwards way of trying to get Men to be comfortable with homosexuality because the woman is essential in the family making process in terms of the traditional family and you take her out of that construct, which was a construct that kept her in line, you have a society full of imbalanced kids as the result and each generation who subsequently comes get weaker and more susceptible to these new age notions of womanhood, and manhood. And to make it worse, I see women in Atlanta who will get with a gay chick, and the same respect that Men ask for and she denies him, she will give this respect to the gay dude looking female. For you cats who are not up on game, you do not want to deal with no chicks from Atlanta like that unless you outright paying for the drawls on backpage.com. I have been here since 88 and I’m telling you I would never date, let alone marry a chick from here. They are probably the worse chicks on the planet. Good to look at and play with, but that’s about it. They are nothing but toys you discard with after they get old. Holla
@ Ramses:
“Think about it: they chose feminism over race but want us to stay committed to them based on race!!! And we fell for it.”
And that right there is the crux of the matter.
I just posted something on my blog http://www.flipthegame.net where I went in on how sisters have always shared a secret relationship with white men since slavery. I mentioned something on here before about the Tawawa House Resort and such. When it was time to kick off a slave revolt, it was often the sister who shared a bed and special privileges with ‘massa’ who whispered in his ear and told about the plans.
But just to play the devil’s advocate a bit: I fault these thirstyass dudes for much of this whoredom we see today. They are the ultimate enablers of hoodrats, Aunt Tomassina’s and skuzzbucket women. Tricking off money in the strip clubs, chasing groups of hoodrats through the parking lot after the club, over-hyping them on their dating profiles and whatnot. Especially in Atlanta! A lot of these females would do better. A woman’s natural tendency is to follow the leading of the men around her; even if she ‘claims’ to be independent. But the thirsty negroes in their vicinity keep them on some low-budget thinking tip.
It might be time for upwardly thinking brothers to get their passport game on deck.
And right about now, Africa’s on and popping big time. Some of the finest women in the world are in Africa. Plus their minds are right! I’m plotting a trip to South Africa next year myself. If all goes well I’ll be hitting up S. America too. #thinkingoutsidethebox
@Mack i watched both of those stories and i remember them when they happened….they silly yo. These women cops, soldiers, only prove that you are not dealing with women at all. I don’t even like going downtown atlanta because you have either gay cops now or women cops and i ain’t with that dumb shit…this country could have been a beautiful place but degenerates keep getting voted in office and messengers either get isolated of killed, no matter their color…funny how the news coverage of the cracker barrel shit got scarce once it was revealed she spit on the dude
Peace @Sankofa…we have to deal with the science on this….it’s tyrannical for these people to ask people like ourselves with a conscience not to say what we say. I’ve had a female on here who says don’t air dirty laundry!!! So it wasn’t that I was not saying the truth, but she didn’t want the truth to be heard. And what am I really saying? Think about this Sankofa. As a Man, I am basically saying that I don’t want females to make themselves so easily available for sex if they consider themselves respectable. You’re gonna always have whore don’t get me wrong. However, when the average female is such, then you serious problems in terms of the outlook in society. I am basically saying as a Man that I don’t want easy sex!!! I am basically saying I have more of a standard for these females that they do for themselves!!! I remember about a year ago, a female stop talking to me literally because she said “you know more about women that we know about ourselves.” I actually thought this was a positive but it wasn’t because since I knew what a woman’s purpose was, it didn’t leave her room to avoid accountability. So she stopped talking to me. This “new Age” woman, androgynous in her nature (Baphomet) is destroying Mankind including herself and her men and children with these grandiose notions she needs neither one of them. Like I said before, when was the last time you heard a black woman say she want to raise a family. I had a conversation with a young black female yesterday in which she said she doesn’t have time for a man. Girl was like 20 and already saying she doesn’t have time for a Man! I say all the time you can think like a Man all you want, but you will respond like a female. That’s what these females don’t overstand. Their response to bad relationships they initiate will cause them to be an emotional wreck. I blame the black woman for the high rates of sexuality, the high rates of criminal behavior of her sons and daughters cause it’s alot of black females locked up, and I blame her for the high rates of homosexuality in her children because of her willingness to isolate her Men away from the family. What are Black Men supposed to do with a Woman who doesn’t desire family? Women throughout the world find their identity through the family structure, whereas the black woman finds her identity through independence. I pass Hindu temples where I see Indian women dressed in their traditional garb, with their families, but if you go to church you see black women they dress like they are at the club. Men going to church to get in touch with their Creator, only to be subjected to ass in their face in church and pastors say nothing. This is tyranny. Men are subjected to females who have become their mortal enemy and are expected to take the abuse. It’s good to see grab their balls and hold them like gorillas. In terms of Caucasians are concerned I let that hate white folks stuff go because i feel it was a tool for ruling elites to keep us divided which they play off of every time they want a vote. They get their position and we are left fighting each other while they make billions. i won’t ever allow myself to be duped by racism and won’t ever practice it against a group of people based on their pigmentation. I see a lot of whites raising their consciousness more than I see some black folks who claim to have a direct phone line with ‘God.” Alot of the hate we have towards whites is learned hate; Malcolm taught us that. I see black people out here who act like they in a dark ages of their own, just like europeans went through in the europe of old but if you notice europeans, especially the younger generation got love for blacks….we’ve been lied to by our own leadership we thought were fighting on our behalf when they were taking checks behind our backs to keep s in line. It was a process for me to get off of the hate white folks doctrine but it was the best thing for my spirit to do so. Hate is too unbearable for me to hold inside….I will say this again, liyalty needs to be based on values, not race. There are people in your families who will stab you in the back quicker than strangers on the street. Once you judge people on their values, then the true picture of them is revealed. These females don’t want to be viewed through the lens of values, they want us to feel sorry for them based on this notion of race that they shunned in favor of feminism themselves. Think about it: they chose feminism over race but want us to stay committed to them based on race!!! And we fell for it. Have you all ever noticed how if you see oldr cats who fought in wars overseas (Vietnam, Korea, Germany) they have foreign wives. These men found wives fighting against their so-called enemies. What would make these men not want to marry the black women around them during the times they were fighting these wars? This is the argument that Cornel West had with Melissa Harris Perry, who he felt was fighting more on the behalf of women than the black community. I tell brothers embrace the world and stop thinking locally. it’s not your job to save people, the hardest thing to save is your damn self. Black men need to get out of this notion of saving their people and correct themselves. Black women have made their choices and have to deal with that karma individually but it doesn’t stop black men from elevating unless they allow it. The only race we owe is the human race to be better. if black women don’t want to be better for the human race, then they will continue to be isolated from it. No group of people want to be around angry, bitter women, especially when the reason for these women and their anger and bitterness is their decision to turn their backs on their men. Like I said before, until black women unlearn this self-hate, they will never be able to love or be loved by men, unless it’s white men and that’s only because they want to be white. This has been happening since the times of Cleopatra, not slavery. My personal belief is that they are too far gone to change them and that’s ok….learn the world and once you do black men you will realize what your place is in the world. A Indian girl told me in 2003 that Indian women love black men…black men have to stop feeling guilty for being happy with women other that black women just because their mother is black. You’re not marrying your mother hopefully brothers. You marry a woman who has the values your mother had (hopefully positive ones). These values don’t have to be from someone who comes from your group. I have heard black men find happiness in other women and let it go because they were not black women. Your sense of loyalty is your biggest problem. These females have to answer for their own indiscretions. Life is too short to be unhappy with a group of females who don’t have the sense to not be whores. That’s basic. We are dealing with a female cult that enjoys destroying their men through hypersexual videos, strip clubs, etc etc. Walking around with tights on showing the fact that sometimes they don’t even have drawls on. This is what you want to defend. Good luck bros.
Greetings Mack and Ramses
@Mack. brother I am just chilling doing my part to educate men where I am situated. I don’t really mess with educating women, because I find the men tend to be responsive more so than the women. However, when i do come hard noth the males and females get uncomfortable as Ramses says, because they have to be responsible and they don’t want to be that. As for those two links you put up Mack…I don’t even want to read them, especially the wal-mart shit, because I might retain some anger and express it openly in public to some random Caucasian (something I am working on bettering). I bet you won’t see that shit circulating on youtube and any of these females getting all uptight and such? No! because it’s open season on African MEN and our community is willing to settle for bullshit than to take responsibility for their failings.
Ramses…Ghanaian gay pride? really? smdh! I cry for my people!
I am enjoying you two brothers putting it down and laughing my ass off at those people who can’t see the forest for the trees.
For the record, no disrespect, but I’m not one of those Kemetic Moors who bow down to Africa like that because this world is older than Africa and the Africa I see is not the Africa of old (See Ghana Gay Pride festivals). Negroes think because they put on a daishiki then all of a sudden their fortunes will change. It goes deeper than that. Before these so-called women will get better, they have to divorce themselves from this sick self they have adopted. Females have this notion in their brain that they can be more Man than men, this is the imbalance that Earth is experiencing. For example, I saw black women who considerd themselves Nu=African and refer to themselves as Goddess this and that, wearing Ankh’s and the like, a symbol of the union of man and woman, yet at the same time these same females were feminists!!!! How can you wear an Ankh yet be a feminist? Man and Woman are to be in unison and this is why the black woman, but women in general in america (atlan, amexem, turtle island) are having a hard time co-existing with their male counterparts. This is not academics people, it’s science. One thing my great grandparents knew how to do was co-exist. They didn’t have alot of money but they were wealthy in terms of their family structure. Youtube is exposing this corrupt female in our so-called community for what she has devolved into. This you cannot blame on the black man either. Let’s get that clear. Countless organizations were out here teaching women how to conduct themselves properly yet these women, yes our black woman shunned these organizations, because they wanted independence and freedom. See what you people have to overstand and innerstand is, and please listen up black woman and stop trying to win a damn argument on here cause this is not law school, when you choose to turn your back on Man, you turned your back on yourself. Your man balances you. It’s science. The Holy Trinity is Man, Woman, Child. The family unit comprising of three elements that are conducive to a good society. When you women chose to betray your men, and let’s call it what it isbetrayal, you betrayed yourself as well because you allowed some devils (and I don’t mean caucasians only every devil is not pale) separate you from the essence of what you are supposed to be; Mother and wife. Tell me what job is more important for a Woman than Mother and Wife? What job is more honorable than that? This is why black women are so imbalanced and are never happy as a collective because they are missing the very thing that balances Women throughout millenia: A Man and children. Yet to make yourselves feel better about your decision you made, you come up with a term like single mother, which leads people to believe you are stronger than what you are and that you are in control which is hogwash. There is no such thing as a single mother. If you are on welfare, or getting help from family or church, even the job you have it does not make you independent in any capacity. That’s the biggest misconception out here. The same females who claim this independence if you went out with them to dinner, when the bill comes, would never reach in their purse to pay for any meal. See you cats on here who are black women apologists are the biggest problem in my opinion because you allow them to believe they are justified in their behavior when clearly these females are out of order. So when we say what we say on here as Men what are we really saying? Like I’ve said before, I wanted to be married since I was 17 but couldn’t when my chick cheated on me when I was 19 and got pregnant by another dude, it put a damper on my plans and this was a chick i had planned to marry. And even despite this betrayal, I was willing to marry the chick and forgave her for doing what she did. I was 19 like that. How many people in their 30’s or 40’s will be willing to do that? Some chick said we are on here whining on here and got our panties in a bunch because we want black women to be respectable and present themselves as marriage material. A black woman insulted us because we want black women to marry. damn how real is that. We get insulted because we want “our” women to be better than what they are. The sacred feminine principle is based on what the black woman used to be. Look it up. Go to Europe and in their cathedrals there plenty of figurines in church of the black woman holding up the baby jesus (which is a story that comes out of Kemet better known as Egypt). So my criticism is justified and sugar-coating it is a waste of time. Now if you all are comfortable with black women staying strippers, and being video hoes, and welfare recipients then cool that’s on you. But don’t get on here with this docile ass tone trying to get brother’s like myself and Mack to shut up just because you all are too weak to hold the black woman accountable to herself and her people, if she still considers her people her people, which I sincerely doubt. Because when you got black women out here fighting for the right to marry each other, instead of trying to fight to marry their men, then clearly there is a screw loose. You mean to tell me black women need vibirators instead of men? And we all know that is the highest form of objeictivication but we don’t talk about that. If you have to resort to those lengths as a woman, then clearly your lack of a mate is your own weakness cause 80% of your children being born out of wedlock does not cuggest you can’t find pipe. Now that’s what i call saidIf you are 25 and older and as a woman you still use the term boyfriend or refer to yourself as someone’s girlfriend, there is something wrong with you. This is bigger than videos showing chicks getting their behinds whipped. you people are just scared to talk about the real issues. I’m not. If you don’t be careful you women are gonna look up in 50 years and be apart of some Arab’s harem, which for some of these chicks fits more to what they are anyway and if that’s what you choose to be, then my word mean nothing anyway. But you can’t serve two masters. Don’t be a hoe all through your twenties then in your thirties when your attention you used to gets wanes and now marriage means something to you. Why didn’t marriage mean something to you at 18 when you were fresh? Well at least some of you were. How many females on here can honestly say they left high school virgins? I tell women all the time you want a provider and all that ok cool no problem, but on one condition: are you a virgin? What if men start going back to these principles and they are trust me they are can women live up to these expectations? remember there are cultures in the world that still check women to see if they are virgins before they lay down wit the woman. so you can be this new age woman if you want hiting men and that silly type of shit if you want but ask yourself, if black men decide they don’t want you, what men in the world will? remember because you put yourselves on videos lke prositutes, they look at you lustfully. there women are not on tv like sluts, it’s black women. however, when it’s time to marry you think an arab will want you like that? or an indian? it was a story in atlanta a few years back where an indian father killed his black daughter-in-law that was married to his son! is that love for black women? this dude would rather go to jail for life than see his son marry a black woman! these discussions are meant only to show how out of order you black chicks are and they aren’t meant for all of you don’t get me wrong. I know some of you are so far gone you aren’t ever coming back and i’m not shedding a tear either. however, if a young woman or a woman of high caliber reads these things she will know that she doesn’t have to be a hoe to get a good man’s attention. if she’s virtuous it’ll actually increase her chance of a viable mate…if you a hoe like most of the other chicks how will you stand out. and trust me men do not want hoes raising their children… they want honorable women…if what I’m saying is wrong then I know without a doubt this group of blacks is finished.
WOW
This is another example of the destruction of the Black family. We are so divided on one of the most important issues we face now and in the future. This is yet another example of the remnants of the slave mind and how it continues to keep us divided. We have to go back to our African principals and think as a community. We don’t even know our roles anymore, which is why we’re having so much trouble with each other. This is because of following behind people outside our community. We need to re program ourselves to the roles we are born into so we know what is expected of us. Until we do this, we will continue to have these problems and it will get worse. Divide and conquer is one of the oldest rules of war, and there’s a reason why that is.
Black Unity means financial independence and happiness
@ Ramses and All Others:
What you just said is so real. Thoutht I’d share a few interesting articles that tie in deeply with this subject. They are newsclips about 2 separate incidents involving black women. In one incident a sister jumped bad at some white dude in the lobby of a restaurant and got the beatdown of a lifetime.
In front of her daughter and other patrons might I add.
http://www.truecrimereport.com/2010/10/troy_dale_west_trial_was_racis.php
The 2nd story involves a black woman in a Walmart who ALLOWED a random white dude to approach her and slap her kid in the face because he was crying too loudly. Can’t make this stuff up.
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5284681-504083.html
Funny how some sisters are quick break bad on a brother, but won’t do ish when its a white dude DESERVING an asskicking.
Peace @Sankofa i echo mack’s sentiments…..this website is confirmation of the immaturity of most black women…this sample of responses confirms our thoughts as real Men like ourselves. Your story of the black woman only being interested in self-destructive type dudes is indicative of how stupid most are. My friend Emmanuel in 2007 said it plainly: it’s pure stupidity. Sometimes we get too deep on shit and try to make an academic argument about basic matters when the truth is, like Chris Rock said “what happened to just plain crazy.” These i can’t even call ’em sisters anymore, are crazy. if you are a female and think you can put your hands on men or disrespect men without any consequence then you’re crazy. The fact that you think you can do it without any repercussion says alot about what they think about you as men. black women are telling them on a consistent basis are saying to the black man we don’t respect you when will you get it through your thick skull. At the end of the day the conflict black women allowed to come between her and her Men has her in a precarious position because her men are not seeing her in the same light anymore. Most females on here do not want to hear this. Alot of the arrogance they display on here and in general is a masking agent for the hurt they feel. Female like shorty probably does wear the pants which is said because males like her husband are the reason why you can’t have brotherhood with most brothers out here. they tend to be more feminine than the female.
@ Sankofa:
Wasup bruh. Where ya been? Good to have your input. And you’re right about sharing too much personal info. I basically did it to shut down the tired old responses females give when they have weak arguments: ‘He must be gay…he’s been hurt by some woman…he’s single…blah blah blah.’ Pure deflection from the topic at hand.
Good to have another man who ‘walks upright’ in the room. 😉
Man…I was gonna jump in on this, but after Mack and Ramses laid it down, I feel like I would be committing corporal punishment on a deceased equine. Personally I think you two gave way too much personal information to people who would give a fuck about your stability. Hate and bullshit will be here today, tomorrow and will be around with the cock roaches at the end. Whether on likes the visual of that beat down or not the fact is insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different results. I am talking to you Mack and Ramses, because I only talk to sensible people. You would probably get a more positive response from some of these wack females if you clinch your asses, wear skinny pants and limp your wrist. I have been called a cave man, uncouth and worse and am proud to say I will beat down anybody that fucks with my karma….and I am kinder and gentler as I advance in years.
For the record just because a woman is married don’t mean shit. It’s what kind of marriage is she in. Is she wearing the pants? Well that can’t work, because she, as Mack said will soon get tired of that bitch as man. I know a brother that got told by a fine physical specimen of femaleness (note I didn’t say femininity) who rejected his overtures because she likes “bad men”, gun men. Sucker was confused until I told him that not only was she sexing the a gun man who was with another bad as chick, I had the unenviable place of trying to get between them trying to kill each other on my work property, which was a city run recreation centre. Then dud got up and shot to death by, I guess cats that were rougher than him. Bottom line is you reap what you sow, fuck off with y’all hypocritical bullshit and be consistent. If I am to be held accountable for any bullshit I put down, you should too.
Cynthia: And for the record: I’ve been with the same conscious black woman for more than 2 years. So you’re 0-3 on your prediction skills. In other words: you suck at it.
@ Cynthia:
You said: “I see two black men going back and forth about why life isn’t fair.”
I would like to focus on that word MEN. See MEN don’t whine and sob. MEN don’t wear panties. Perhaps you are confusing Ramses and me with the kind of dude that would sit there with you and laugh at our comments, when secretly he agrees with everything we’re saying. I’ll let that soak in for a minute…
You demonstrate by your comments the main issue sisters that think like yourself have: they have no clue what constitutes REAL manhood. You think manhood is simply allowing an immature woman to have her way, being quiet and going along to get along. When nothing could be further from the truth.
As for your husband: if he thinks our comments are absurd as you claim, I’m predicting it won’t be long before you get tired of him and decide to leave him for a real man who hasn’t given his balls to you for safe keeping.
Here’s some more ‘comedy’ for you and your husband to laugh at: I won’t go tit for tat with a bunch of insults. Your comments have already shown your immaturity and lack of understanding. Plus, like my grandmother use to say: ‘If someone sees you at a distance arguing with a fool, they don’t know which one of you is the fool.’
I therefore leave you to converse with yourself…
and for the record, american society hates yet loves black men but worldwide, black men get love everywhere why do you think so many can go to other spots and find wives….we can go to India and marry an Indian why? cause we have family there. They don’t hate us because when they look on their cave walls, they see pictures of Krishna (Hindu God) who looks blue black. Imagine, a religion where their god looks Black!!! Instead of a religion where the image of your deity looks like something you can never be. Hmmm. You act as if educated men in this society care what people think here. Why when you can go globally and get better. it’s so funny how black women get so offended about being rejected when they spend so much time not wanting to be black with all the billions they spend with the koreans on beauty products. but i’m the problem. mack’s the problem. We are the ones who care because we are the ones that are something. However, there is gonna come a time where brothers won’t say anything. You’re just gonna see the availability of them dwindle and then it’s gonna dawn on you. Professor griff said something on one of his lecture where he said “black woman, why are so many of your affluent men gong with the enemy?” Professor griff from public enemy, who mde socially conscious music, says he wants black women but he said “you’ll don’t want me.” He said I’ll take you with your kids and all of that. I don’t like seeing black females out here being the way they are. It does not give me pleasure. But I will say something when I see something out of order because that what Men do.
@Cynthia….there is nothing emotional about what I’m saying on here….and for the record I am not single I’m with a Moorish woman….but see like I said before there is a built in reflex in the black “community”, if you can call it that, that whenever you criticize black women, then automatically you kill the messenger. I’ve seen black women on here right articles giving the same type of criticism towards black women and they get the same response….and then you try to mock me and my brethren like we’re the crying type!!!As if we’re weak. Look dear there’s nothing weak about me. I am a balanced man. Compassionate when I need to be and aggressive when I need to be. But won’t hesitate to check a brawd when she gets out of line. And by the way my woman has kids with a weak dad who i try to teach how to be young men. So before you judge me dear know what you’re talking about. But the fact is most black women are used to castrated black meen who don’t speak their mind. Used to their men being docile and malleable, compromising on principle things, etc. Now I’ve had women on here agree with me which means there is a small slice who have some sense, but most don’t because most are so far gone from the type of women they are supposed to be, that they wouldn’t recognize the proper role of a woman if God himself spoke it to them in their ear. Once again let me reiterate, for those sista who know what order is and live honorably, my statements are clearly not meant for you. But like my ex said years ago a hit do will holler. And it’s clear that something i said must pertain to you or friends or family. But see this is how principled I am, if the same things I am saying applied to family members or friends i would say the same thing. Why because it’s principle. And it’s interesting too to note that I’ve been married before at 22, when most of the black females around me were running the streets and none of my exes broke up with me, I’ve always ended my relationships because if you don’t “Act” according to principle then I will get rid of you. Even though they hated me they loved me and respected me cause I was Man enough to tell them what they needed to hear instead of what they wanted to hear. I’m 33 woman is 48 going on 49 this month very mature and unlike most women out here, my woman has spent majority of her adult life in marriage…how many females can say that? See I’m not like steve harvey and your church…i’m not gonna hold back the truth cause i want your dollars….i’ve been in churches where the pastor was hitting people with the truth so hard that men and women, black i may add, they walked out of the church. My panties in a bunch? You have no idea who you are talking to and i don’t blame you because some people come from certain backgrounds that are unlike mine. And I’ll just leave it at that. But I commend you on being a married woman, most black females don’t show the capacity in this generation to commit to a man so you at least show exceptional quality. I’m impressed.
And black men wonder why society thinks the way they think about them. I see two black men going back and forth about why life isn’t fair. Are you two crying as you type? So emotional! “We don’t get this!” “We don’t get that!” “Life isn’t fair!” “Most females are horrible!” “I’ve got to post a random youtube video to attempt to prove a point…” WAAAA,WAAAA,WAAAAA……! Both of you sound like two sobbing, panty wearing idiots! Let me guess…single right? And why do you assume all of the comments are from “sistas”? My husband and I were sitting here laughing at the absurdity of your comments. Please keep ’em coming. PURE COMEDY!!
But let me say this: black people, especially black women better be glad I don;t run government. White man is way more lenient that I would be. Welfare? Please. I would cut that shit off tomorrow. Section-8. Please. You think I would let females lay up for free like they are stay at home wives while responsible women go out here and work? I’d have your behinds on the corner prostituting with your baby in the baby stroller right next to you just so other women could see what would happen to them if they stepped out of line. That’s how societies stay functional. when people see there are clear consequences for their heathen type behavior. In america you get rewarded for heathen behavior and criminalized for civilized behavior. It’s embarrassing to be connected with this generation and some previous ones too of black people.
I thought you were crazy but you’re in your right frame of mind. Food Stamps for single men and women should be discontinued, LOL.
Damn bruh I didn’t even take into account those incidents with naomi campbell and the other dummies…..they are never accountable fam…..but it’s fair because these same trolls will not get wifed up and even if they find some dim-witted bruh who can’t see between their lies it will be undone by them because they can’t help it. Black women, for the most part, are like Jean Grey on the X-Men the one in which she killed professor xavier. They have alot power but when untamed can destroy you if you let her. Jean Grey destroyed the very man who was their to help her harness her power in a positive way. I hear niggas in the street bumping nicki minaj. Natural selection is taking place as we speak but me I hold my balls in my hands as a proud silverback gorilla and I don’t mind being compared to a gorilla because they are fierce and will kick yo’ ass. lol…rather be compared to that than p diddy, or lil wayne kissing men in the mouth type clown, or drake…..you chicks ought to be ashamed of yourselves and the fact that you aren’t, signing petitions for bum bitches means this is your standard, I knew back in high school based off my values that majority of black women were beneath but i didn’t want to admit it. the only way i could deal with them was if i lowered my standard…however, now that my standard is at its highest level it’s ever been, majority of them couldn’t deal with me…nothing personal just truth. most don’t even come from a background where if you married them they have a father to give them to you…blame the so-called mothers for that…if you depend on welfare you can’t call yourself a mother either…mothers raise kids with fathers as their husbands instead of welfare as the de facto husband….this is a cesspool
@ Ramses:
Bruh you hit it on the head when you spoke about ACCOUNTABILITY. The lack of it when it comes to our sisters is to their complete undoing.
Think about it: when a black man gets out of line, we are forced to be accountable for our actions. That accountability is called jail. Or like Tupac called it: ‘Anger management like a mofo.’
If a man doesn’t work, who’s gonna feed him? He starves. If he doesn’t take care of his kids, he goes to jail, whether he’s working or not. A woman can take her kid and drop it off on a hospital doorstep and not even be charged with any crime! Thats actually a law in California. But if a black man abandons his responsibility as a father, he gets debtor’s prison.
A black man can rarely if ever go out and get on public housing or section 8. If he can’t maintain rent at the market price levels, he basically goes homeless. Not black women. She can just run down to the county, sign some papers and be given all the help and support she needs whether she works anytime soon or not. Then has the nerve to turn her nose up at brothers who are struggling.
As for this stupid chick claiming I support the beatdown of women: I’ve never known a rowdy female that a good asswhooping didn’t save. And by rowdy I mean someone like this hood chick in the video who got exactly what she was bargaining for when she tried to fight another hood nigga. Bet she’ll think twice before she makes that move again.
As for that petition: I’ll wipe my arse with that jawn first. And I’ll tell you why:
*I didn’t see sisters sending out petitions when actor Christian Bale was accused of beating up his wife and his mother. They didn’t boycott Warner brothers movies. Black women still went out and supported Batman and anything else dude plays in.
*I didn’t see any petitions being signed on behalf of those women who were victims of Evelyn Lozada’s violence on Basketball Wives. Nope: sisters made that wack show the most popular thing on TV.
*No petitions were passed around whenever Naomi Campbell goes upside somebody’s head with her cell phone. Look at this rapsheet:
-In 2008 she pled guilty to attacking two police officera at London’s Heathrow Airport;
-a year earlier, she was sentenced to community service for throwing a phone at a maid;
-in 2005, an assistant accused her of slapping her and beating her with a Blackberry.
-In 2000, she pled guilty to a 1998 case involving an old assistant — who claimed Campbell assaulted her with a telephone and threatened to throw her out of a moving car.
Where’s the petition for this crazy abusive witch?! or the one to boycott the products she models? I’ll be the first to sign it!
I can’t hear you sisters…
And where the hell were the petitions when singer John Meyer told black women his dick was basically prejudiced? I looked online and saw black women actually DEFENDING the bastard! Still going to his concerts and buying his music.
So when you get a petition going boycotting some of the dumb sh!t sisters do on a daily basis…like the Brat bussing chicks in the head with bottles at clubs…again, no petition was asked to be signed boycotting So So Def records when that happened…then I’ll revisit this conversation. Until then: miss me with the blatant hypocrisy…
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just for you chicks who think some females don’t deserve a beat down
seeing the responses mack proves my theory: black females prefer weak black men. it allows them to justify their silly notion of superiority over them. I would never go on a battlefield to defend these losers. They are losers and this is not self-hate either. I don’t perm my hair or wear contacts or weaves etiher or lighten my dark skin either. What is so hard for people to understand that as a woman you need to practice judgment when you think you can win a physical confrontation with a man. Everytime when we see a brother do something we considered stupid, people always say, including men that he should have used better judgment. However, when a black woman does something as equally as stupid, we don’t say the same things. We live in a completely stupid society where women are taught they don’t have any responsibility in their situations they find themselves in. Now I see why democrats get all of black people’s votes because it’s the party of unaccountability. You people can see uncivilized black women in your face and still make excuses for her time and time again. Other words that go along with uncivilized:
. uncouth, gross, vulgar, coarse, philistine, churlish, brutish, unsophisticated, beyond the pale, boorish, uncultivated, unpolished, uncultured, unmannered
most women nowadays exhibit these things yet want respect. you’ll must be crazy. My great granddad told my my grandmother that he felt like the enemy was gonna infiltrate our family when she was younger and he said it might be through the his grandkids (my father’s generation). The enemy was not white folks either: it was uncivilized black people and that’s exactly what happened. A dummy like this would not have petitions signed for her in the rest of the world. They would take her dumb ass to the square and get a few lashes for being out of order. No female should carry herself like a man and then don’t think that energy will come her way. How stupid. pastor Manning said black people are not inferior just crazy as hell. I’m starting to wonder. I gotta get out of this country. This land has become saturated with filth and decadence and it starts with the females first. Most are pathetic. For the ones who carry themselves admirably may you be blessed with your kings but for the rest of you trolls, kick rocks. Now I support eugenics. Black people had a legacy and let feminism destroy it. Are you’ll satisfied? How well did women being equal to men work out for us? Lol. You’re right @Mack they don’t want to hear the truth. But let me say this: black people, especially black women better be glad I don;t run government. White man is way more lenient that I would be. Welfare? Please. I would cut that shit off tomorrow. Section-8. Please. You think I would let females lay up for free like they are stay at home wives while responsible women go out here and work? I’d have your behinds on the corner prostituting with your baby in the baby stroller right next to you just so other women could see what would happen to them if they stepped out of line. That’s how societies stay functional. when people see there are clear consequences for their heathen type behavior. In america you get rewarded for heathen behavior and criminalized for civilized behavior. It’s embarrassing to be connected with this generation and some previous ones too of black people.
Sasha a petition really? We have to understand what this really is. If you go into an alligator’s environment, what will it do? Eat your ass up. Why? Is It because it’s mean? Now. Because it has a nature and it’s true to it’s nature. Men are no different. We are the lawgivers and law enforcers. So when you break law (natural law which is the highest law) then you will be reminded of what your place is. That’s Maat (truth, balance, law, order, morality, justice). American women live in this environment where they can call the police on a man, even when most of the time they are the main instigators of the conflict, and because they can do this, they think and have allowed themselves to believe (sometime resulting in their death) that they can put their hands on a man like the jerk in cleveland. As a Man who has been physically attacked by a female in a past relationship, and had to practice natural law (Maat) on her, I will never co-sign a woman putting her hands on a man. However, a woman wouldn’t: only a bitch would. Get off this we are the world people. Lesser life forms are just what they are: lesser life forms. My motto is i would never hit a woman, but i’ll lay a bitch out. It’s up to a female to decide what she wants to be and from there the relationship will take it’s course. Females don’t get blanket coverage because of their gender. You fight with a man now all of a sudden you a woman now!!! You females can’t be serious. But most of the females who do support this chick are the types who will do this behavior themselves. Women need supervision, whether young or old because most of the times when they aren’t, they find themselves in positions like these: where they are getting flames knocked out their behinds because their sorry mothers did not properly train them to be ladies. And the scripture says that a daughter is a reflection of her mother. A petition…you sound silly for that. In some cases I got more respect for pimps than “talented tenth” niggas cause at least the pimps are not scared of females. Dudes with degrees these days tend to be more docile and scared to say what’s on their minds when it comes to females violating natural law thinking that sisters will hold out on them for speaking truth. Damn if you gotta hold your tongue because you scared you won’t get “some” then is the some worth getting. The sad thing is, women globally respect this type of man: the one who is willing to lay down the law. I used to wonder why women would stay with a man who would beat their behinds but I had to look into it deeper than the abuse. Not advocating violence against females but these women have a respect for these dudes and their willingness to put them back in order. Now the problem is so many woman re so out of order that sometimes it takes for fists to do the job that’s just real talk. These women respect, even to a sickening level men who kick their behinds, because deep down they know they are out of order. The point is to respect someone who can take your life with their bare hands women because i’m not like most dudes who wanna throw on a cape and this is for family member too: You choose the dude, you deal with the consequences of that choice. I will not defend a female only to have that female run right back to the dude who you think is abusing her. This dude and this chick had an altercation with one another and since men and women are so equal then she was quite fit to handle her own private affairs…she just lost that’s all
@Sasha, I signed your petition a few days ago. Thank you for starting it.
@Mack: Just because you have a computer, opinion, and a forum doesn’t mean that you are correct in your assessment of this particular situation. Your lengthy justifications for what took place in this video make me uneasy about social media. You wrote that sorry explanation for anyone who happens to read this article to see and then had the nerve to put a picture with it. Ladies steer clear of Mack if you ever run into him. He believes that if a man feels disrespected, she should immediately be beaten. And it doesn’t stop there ladies. After you pick yourself up off the floor, there should then be a dialogue about what you could’ve done differently!
What did the woman in this video do to deserve to be so brutally beaten? Do tell. We’re not talking about a woman who abused a man and the man defending himself (bus driver video). Why does she “…..need training from older women who have their minds right.” Why are you not going hard on lil reese for what he did? You seem angry.
“Females need to be taught how to be women again. And they need to be taught NOT to put their hands on men. Focusing solely on his behavior without acknowledging hers ensures we will see plenty more of these types of videos.”
Your words Mack!
Please tell me this behavior of hers that we need to focus on. You mean wanting these men to leave her home? Talking back to him? Being threatened and threatening in return?
If there are any teenage boys who come on this site and read these comments, please don’t take what Mack said as correct. You have every right to defend yourselves. You do not however have the right to beat down a female (or person for that matter) because you don’t like the way she looks at you, talks to you, reacts to you, etc. When you do to women what was done in this video, when you defend the behavior captured in this video (like our friend Mack) attempting to place any part of the blame on the female, you have ceased to be a man, but a lowly, cowardly PUNK!
I tell you! Things you come across on the internet these days…SMH.
BTW: Dr. Watkins, this was a great read :).
Please support the petition below. Think about your daughters, mothers, and sisters. We need the support to keep the momentum going. I am sure there are other pressing issues at this moment but a quick signature will solidify that lil reese’s and Def Jam’s actions are unacceptable.
Thank you,
Sasha Johnson
http://www.change.org/petitions/boycott-def-jam-artist-lil-reese-def-jam-should-not-support-any-artist-who-abuses-women#
@ Ramses:
LOL @ “weak bati boy type dudes”
“when you decide to raise your hand against a man as a female, then at that moment, you become an adversary, not a woman” EXACTLY!
@ Deann D:
Thanks for providing a balanced perspective. Much needed.
There is a simple statement that all women would do well to remember: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. A man does not lose his right to self defense because his assailant — yes, assailant — is a woman. Now, given the strength difference, a man can usually accomplish his defense against an unarmed woman without administering a full beatdown. But restraint requires maturity, and neither the atmosphere nor the behavior of the two parties suggests that maturity was anywhere on tap. BOTH parties are wrong, the woman for stupidly starting a fight she couldn’t win, and the man in his rage for taking it farther than it needed to go.
You know what’s taking place Mack: black women are getting scared. See it’s one thing when you have pimps and thugs who advocate knocking flames out of a chick. However when you got educated men saying the same thing, then that terrifies them because they’ve never heard this before. Men will never tolerate abuse from females in any era of time. No matter if he is educated or not. Now weak bati boy type dudes will and this is what these sisters want you to be. when you decide to raise your hand against a man as a female, then at that moment, you become an adversary, not a woman
@ Nikki:
Nobody’s justifying anything. But apparently you are. You’re justifying the young female’s behavior by refusing to address her stupid behavior. Let me tell you what you missed in the video: it was a gang party in a gang neighborhood. Notice how the chick had on the same COLORS as the young dudes. He didn’t kick the door down; someone let them in. As for her father: I doubt if he’s anywhere to be found. Dusty dudes usually make hoodrat babies with hoodrat mothers. Any female willing to go toe to toe with another guy is obviously used to that ish.
What I’m saying is simple: STOP TAKING UP FOR AND JUSTIFYING FEMALES LIKE THIS. They don’t need protection: they need training from older women who have their minds right. When you excuse her behavior you place your stamp of approval on her actions. Females need to be taught how to be women again. And they need to be taught NOT to put their hands on men. Focusing solely on his behavior without acknowledging hers ensures we will see plenty more of these types of videos. Hold on, wait a sec: I’m looking at one now with Juvenile’s son stomping some chick in the street…
Smh
@Mack..I can’t believe what I just read. How can you justify the way that boy beat up on that girl. You are saying that she came at him the wrong way but what happened to freedom of speech. From looking at the video, he entered her home uninvited and was asked to leave. He was the one that got physical with her first. That don’t have nothing to do with where that little monster comes from. It has to do with his lack of manhood. A real man would’ve turned and walked his butt out of the same door that he so rudely decided to enter, uninvited. I would love to know what the parents have to say about this, both his and hers. And I guess that girls father would have been in the wrong if he would have retaliated against him….Smh. You know today’s society is so completely screwed up when people start justifying behavior like this.
I’m a little tired with the skewed way we seem to view things within ‘our’ community. I don’t co-sign on anybody catching a beatdown like that: male or female. Though some definitely ask for it.
Some of you watch the video and all you see is a man beating a woman. Similar to the bus driver incident. I look at it and see a man beating someone that to him was another man. She may have ‘looked’ like a female, much like many drag queens do today. But her actions and mannerisms were absolutely masculine to the core…hence why he had no problem stomping a mudhole in her.
This is a street dude. This ain’t Webster or Carlton we’re talking about here. Rocking the red outfit he had on in Chicago tells me he’s most likely a Gangster Disciple. And the chick who chose to tussle with him knew this.
This is a different mindset from the shielded lives many of you come from. Do you think a male lion cares if the other lion who’s ass he’s shredding is a female one? She challenges his masculinity and she’ll bear the brunt of that offense.
For those who say he has no respect for women; bullsh!t. I bet he has all the respect in the world for his mom and grandmother. Though you can imagine the kind of environment they raised him in.
Again: I don’t cosign on this. But coming from that world and just having common basic sense, I understand why it went down the way it did. And for the love of God man, this was NOT domestic violence! We have to stop calling every case where a female jumps up in a guy’s face and catches a beatdown domestic violence. Saying that does a great disservice to the thousands of women (and men)throughout America that suffer under REAL forms of domestic violence.
R.I.P. Lil JoJo.
Dey all weak. Reese, Keef, and all da lame wanna-bes. Wish dey try ta pull dat on me
I’m couldn’t believe it. I watched the video and then shared it with my sons ages 27 thru 13. We couldn’t believe it. It is clear that this man has no respect for women and I am seriously hoping that he is brought up on charges