Evelyn Lozada, Meet the Domestic Basketball Whore.

by Staff October 25, 2012 34 Comments Archive-Ent-Stuff

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(ThyBlackMan.com) Evelyn Lozada began her career as a domestic and ended as an abused domestic visually on-screen for reality buffs. I say this was for reality buffs, because this is what she wanted you to see. We all make choices in life. And, she made her bed—the consequences are always to lay in it regardless of how big it is.

Evelyn Lozada is an epic fail in regard to being a star or even being married. She martyred the idea of even being married. Not only did she jump on tables to beat up women, threw bottles, and curse like she had a degree in the field… Ms. Evelyn Lozada had the nerve to pull the trump card after getting knocked up side her head by ex-husband (for less than a month).

Now you tell me if I’m wrong for calling her out on her mess. It is one thing to handle a situation with another woman on national television about a situation… and it is another to threaten, bully, and conjure up lies for ratings and fame. When Evelyn Lozada appeared on Basketball Wives she made sure that she showed the world her frame which produced assets by sexing the best. Now why in the world would she even think that the world would take her seriously about the fiasco that she had with Chad Johnson.

Evelyn Lozada is the domestic whore from hell that needs to return. It is only truth people. I’m not trying to hate on her, I just think that you always get coming to you.

The way that she punked Jennifer on the show and her friends came back to haunt her in a major way. Since being engaged in interviews with different media outlets about her domestic issues with Chad Johnson has gone with the wind. It is one thing to be in the right and make a case for yourself –and it is another to be a villain and feel that good will come out of it regardless of your situation or any that you have been involved in.

Evelyn Lozada has paid the price for wanting fame and getting her riches by sleeping with men in the NBA and NFL. She is now a trophy whore versus a wife that stood for what was right in the end.

And, if you want to say that she was right in claiming the domestic abuse card then you need your azz whipped too. Evelyn Lozando needs therapy not for critical acclaim; she needs to realize mirrors never lie.

Staff Writer; atlas brown

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34 Comments

F Walker says:

March 25, 2014 at 8:29 pm

Walk is all the hype about with this woman? She is all weave, plastic surgery, and a few years down the line will need surgery to keep up the figure. This is what black men obsess over?

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Ramses says:

October 31, 2012 at 5:55 pm

I remember when a female said all men are dogs and I said “in order for him to be a dog he had to have a bitch to lie down with right?” You know what her response was? “Don’t you think that’s a tad bit harsh?” Herein lies the problem. No ones saying that Chad if he did step out on her was not wrong. However if you know anything about ancient society you would all know based on your status, since sisters love cats with status, men of wealth and prestige have always had free run on women of a lower class. For example, this is something I found recently:

Ruth Karras, author of Common Women: prostitution and sexuality in medieval England, discusses how some bishops ran and owned brothels in England during the fifteenth and sixteenth centuries. “Ecclesiastical institutions and individuals owned brothels . . . Several individual clerics also managed brothels in London and Westminster.”[4] [10] She mentions also that they were not only owners, but many were clients as well.[5] [11] Karras is not the only one to show that the clergy were clients of prostitutes. “. . . in the cases of procuration and brawling in the brothel or the bathhouse, members of the clergy are listed as present, named and given as residents of the city . . . clergy still made up twenty per cent of the clientele of the bathhouses and the private bordellos of Dijon.”[6] [12]

Not only was the Church involved in ownership, but in France during the mid thirteenth century, they accepted alms from prostitutes.[7] [13] “In accepting the prostitute’s alms, the Church recognized that she had acted out of necessity.”[8] [14] The Church supported this institution because they believed it to be a necessity. They owned and ran brothels, accepted money from prostitutes, and used Mary Magdalene as an example of a prostitute who redeemed herself by repenting. Many were tolerant of prostitutes by acknowledging them as a future Mary Magdalene.[9] [15]

The church followed the philosophy regarding prostitution as a “necessary evil” and often participated in it, since it had been justified. The medieval public followed the same philosophy. They kept and welcomed prostitution into their communities.

Professor where I found one account : http://cla.umn.edu/rmk/

. . . .In medieval Europe, the Catholic Church not only condoned prostitution, but allowed it to be run out of the monasteries and convents. The phrase, “get thee to a nunnery” had nothing to do with a convent of “nuns” but rather the “nunnery” was a brothel. The exhortation was given to young men to keep them from trying to corrupt the virgin daughters of the townspeople.

In 1254, King Louis IX of France, decreed that all prostitutes be regarded as outlaws after it was discovered that a Parisian prostitute sat next to the queen of France in Church, and the queen, as was her custom, bestowed a kiss on her.When the identity of the woman reached the ears of the king, he decided that the only way to prevent future incidents was to outlaw prostitution throughout his kingdom. . . .

“Prostitution: An Illustrated Social History ” Vern&Bonnie Bullough/ Crown Books 1978

Prostitutes were accepted in medieval society as a necessary evil to keep men hands off the virgin girls!!! Now I know the notion of virginity has become something of a foreign concept to black women but in the eighties it wasn’t. In the eighties and early nineties brothers would not sleep with a chick unless she was a virgin. Matter my true first girlfriend was a virgin. How many men who read this forum can honestly say they ever had sex with a virgin. If you haven’t let me tell you it’s a big difference in terms of the resistance you get as opposed to going all the way to a chick’s back walls? And I am not apologizing for being descriptive because we are all adults on here and if you need someone to hold your hands get off the site. First and foremost, my major fault with Chad is that he tried to honor a female of her caliber with marriage in the first place!!! This chick is noly fit for a brothel. The problem in America is that people are trying to blur the lines between a whore and a righteous woman and there is nothing to blur!!! One is worth and one is not!!! Simple. We all know what a Man’s role is but when it comes to a Woman we get all confused. Well for starters how about not being a whore and if you are gonna accept the role, then accept the consequences. When men don’t accept the responsibilities for being men they end up being bums on the street right? well same thing for a woman. However it shows what type of women who are on these sites who actually defend this train wreck chick. I don’t give a damn if he head-butted her…with all the bullying she has done and shit talking, she should be able to defend herself but once again the contradiction of the independent female rears her ugly head once again. You’re independent until you get your ass whipped and then you have to go get another man to defend you, which is ironic because you’re indefensible because if your man headbutts you then that’s all we need to know about you as a woman. There have been men in war who have kidnapped Virgin princesses from other groups of people but would not touch them without their approval because they had enough honor to know you don’t violate virgin, high-quality women. The problem with the american male is he has allowed this so-called social sciences reconfigure the image of Woman into a modern daw whore and has accepted a concubine as a wife. Most black women are whores of this generation, just like evelyn. Just listen to what toni braxton said “oral transaction.” Corporate whores. Evelyn should never be defended. Black women would you want your son to marry a woman like her from a personality perspective? i won’t say fro a beauty perspective because most of you’ll would hate on her from a beauty perspective and really not consider her one of you! My teacher who taught my African-American Male and Female relationships class at georgia state said ti best “When you talk about black people, you are talking about a sick people.” And what’s so said is the fact that, if chad had slept with some other black chick, no one is criticizing the black chick at all!!! How many black females sleep with other black women husbands? Put booty in his face and tempt him on purpose. That’s why you had codes of conduct and dress for women to keep their ass in line but when you got black women walking around with the crack of their ass showing I guess these rules are antiquated huh? The woman I am with at the present time is 48 years old. I’m 33. It took for me to get with a woman 16 years older than me to find someone who relates to me on values. She has been married twice and outside of the past four year, has spent her entire adult life as a married woman. How many of you women can say you have spent majority of your adult life as a married woman? The black woman and the white male are the only two people in america that get a free pass on abuse. When a brother does something he’s just supposed to know to do better. But let a white boy do something reprehensible, they want to find out his life story and say he need psychological help and he avoids jail time. When a black chick does dome shit, now you got people going into her background making excuses for her being a bully. Which one is it? Either you’re responsible or you’re crazy Can’t be both. American culture is vulgar and black women are at the top of the scrap heap in terms representing the worse of it. That’s just truth. Say what you’ll want about Beck but at least Becky knows when to turn off the hoe meter. She might slut it out in college for a minute but she knows at the end of the day that’s not a recipe for a bright future. You got black women going to strip clubs throwing money on other chicks! Lol

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Jen says:

October 31, 2012 at 1:52 pm

OMG, someone finally hit it. If anyone here is a whore it’s that dirty piece of shit Chad. He cheated numerous times with scrubs from his tweet account and the night of the altercation Ev found a receipt for condoms in her newly married man’s car. She confronted him and not only did he cheat he had to put his dirty hands on her. CHAD IS THE WHORE AND THE PIG!

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chrissy23 says:

October 31, 2012 at 6:54 am

No matter whether a woman is a whore, there’s absolutely no excuse for domestic violence. And on that note Chad is a whore too for cheating on his new wife.

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Mack says:

October 30, 2012 at 7:49 pm

@Ramses:

You’re right bruh. Sometimes my righteous indignation gets stirred up and I can’t keep silent. My man Sankofa warned me about going back and forth with certain types on this site. You can be making all the sense in the world, and they’ll come with something totally silly and borderline retarded. Lol

I just want to see my sisters drop the excuses and come get on the ball. It’s time out for deflection and time for introspection.

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Ramses says:

October 30, 2012 at 5:22 pm

Mack these coons will never get it….these people don’t respect men at all. Moors history is extensive but they will never get what you’re talking about…Just cause her people’s oppressors were spanish now she’s not black or original…black people are silly in their thought process

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Arisa Dark says:

October 30, 2012 at 4:49 pm

well then, atlas brown, whoever you are, i guess i need my “azz whupped too”, because i believe that she did have the right to claim domestic abuse. what happened to her with chad johnson had nothing to with what she does on basketball wives.

i agree that evelyn was a bully and she used threats on the show, but after reading up her, i found out things that may have led to her being the way she was. maybe not a good enough excuse, but it is what it is none-the-less. she admitted her mistakes and the things she’s done, including her behavior with jennifer. honestly, i don’t think she cares what you think about her, or anyone else for that matter.

you say you don’t want to hate on her, but that’s exactly what you’ve done by writing this piece, i’d say you’ve accomplished what you set out to do.

i believe her last name is lozada, not lozanda.

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Mack says:

October 30, 2012 at 4:12 pm

@ C. Maureen

Latino isn’t a race. It’s a culture. And Eve is as black as most Cubans, Dominicans and Puerto Ricans, whether they claim ‘black’ or not. The average so-called Latino is part black, part Amerindian, and part Spanish. And if you’re really a student of history you’ll know that the Spanish have a lot of black already mixed into their bloodline, thanks to the Moors who conquered and occupied Spain for hundreds of years.

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Rahkeem says:

October 30, 2012 at 12:55 pm

Evelyn is sexy, I would marry Evelyn and have kids with her. Me and her would make some sexy babys. She not no hoe, Evelyn was the only basketball wive that kept it real. She have alot of morals and I love Evelyn attitde. I’m a 24 year old 6’4 185 stong man that can handle Evelyn. It I was rich an not a barber I would wife her up. But she want a guy with money. I know I have the looks I just need the cash.

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Glo says:

October 30, 2012 at 6:12 am

She is a bully and an embarrassment to the latino community. I’ve had the displeasure of meeting bullies like her in the work environment in my experience those are the most insecure woman that usually rely on their promiscuity to get ahead and push other woman down.
Shame on her,shame on him I beg the media to stop portraying this scum as representatives of a community,lets work hard to put positive,hard working role models out there.

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C. Maureen says:

October 29, 2012 at 10:04 pm

Geesh!! Based on this comment section, this has become the blame the black woman blog. This type of nonsense makes me so tired. And for the record, Evelyn Lozada is NOT a black woman.

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keith says:

October 29, 2012 at 3:02 pm

she is a bitch….

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Ramon says:

October 29, 2012 at 8:17 am

The situation with Evelyn & Chad was the case of mismatched or incompatibility to a certain extent. No man should put his hand on a woman and no woman should put her hand on a man. There is no excuse for it either way. A woman should not put her hand on any woman either. Chad cheated on Eve with a selection of women ranging from unnatractive to downright repulsive, all seemed to have an IQ of 0. You have to ask ourself why a guy who could have done so much better chose these women. Also Eve herself is extremely masculine, not a choice you would expect from someone like Chad. It seems that he has extremely low self esteem and his relationship with her did nothing to help that. She has strong masculine characteristics, a tendency to bully and a seemingly low mentality, put all of this together and ou cannot be surprised at the outcome. These two need to take time off from the spotlight and work at being happy complete human beings.

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Yola says:

October 29, 2012 at 6:19 am

The problem with Evelyn is that she promotes herself as a whore, conducts herself as a whore and boasts about being a whore. She preys on weak minded men like Chad and Antoine and she bullies them into submission just like the women she so callously abuses on tv. She does anything for publicity, has a foul mouth, and discusses her sex life with no regard for the fact she is a mother of a teenager and at the time, a wife and stepmother to A bunch of little girls. In addition, she has a following of young women, her daughter,Chads daughters and those young women all read about her and her anal sex/salad tossing nonsense and see her beating and abusing women. That is simply terrible beyond belief….she did it anyway. She also used Chads kids to get publicity… With no regard for them. So she can’t now that she sees that her career is ending try to back peddle to save her ass. She deliberately destroyed Chad with no remorse. The bad karma that woman has coming to her is no joke ! She chose to behave like a lunatic, so she can’t pretend to be a saint now for some thirsty BS.

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Ramses says:

October 29, 2012 at 4:16 am

Like I said black women, not just here, but globally want to be white women….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RUV33jRdywU&feature=related

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Christine says:

October 29, 2012 at 12:42 am

LOL@Susan, you was bored and just googled her. More like you’re probably a closet stalker. And for your wager, I am none of the above I am just another female who has experienced some of the things in life that are discussed in the article and comments. I put my opinion out there stating to give the girl a chance. I will 100% side with some like Ev rather than a writer who calls women such foul words and condones azz whippings. She did what she did but I’m not going to let any man think it’s ok to use the terms “azz whipping”, ” I’ll knock a b@tch out”, ” a real man would hit the hell out of a hood rat” so loosely it is disgusting and degrading to ALL women.

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Ramses says:

October 29, 2012 at 12:27 am

It’s a reason why words like whore exist. People get their panties in a bunch when you use such words but if people actually look in their scriptures, the same type of words are used. Like i said before, the notion of the “strong black super woman” leaping tall buildings in a single bound is being eviscerated before our very eyes through the way of social media. In the early 2000’s you could go on sites like blackvoices and meet some of the sluttiest black chicks you could find. The only difference is you didn’t have facebook, myspace, twitter and other social media sites disseminating info in such a rapid fashion. When I was in high school I used to wonder why black chicks would pick weak dudes. I never was considered ugly so don’t think that I’m one of those dudes who couldn’t get chicks and i’m complaining cause it’s not the case. But i used to see black chicks in high school far too often be willing to be doormats on a consistent basis and the insulting thing is is that when those sorry relationships ran there course, they would come back to a quality man like myself, knowing i was a quality dude, thinking they could be the virgin mary even though i knew they were ran through back then. I recognized black females had a mental problem in high school but just wasn’t mature enough to put it in its proper perspective. Now, being 33, i’m saying the same thing!!! So i know it’s truth. How many black women are willing to sell themselves for a purse, a pair of high heels, or jewelry? A lot of people are self-delusional by being unwilling to call a spade a spade. If it’s a black man acting a fool, we are all too quick to jump on his case whether we’re male or female but when it’s black women we are always willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. Black women like evelyn only see marriage as justifiable way of hiding the fact that they are whores. They see a dude mentally weak ac chad and they circle them like sharks. I learned long time ago from my dad that you can’t make people want what you want. We want black women to have a higher standard for themselves we really do but they don’t want to. Let me give you a prime example. In 2010, i got into a heavy debate with people affiliated with the African American Studies dept…I chose to go on facebook and call out those people i felt were fraudulent. There was this one female professor who had power over that whole dept. She was veluptuous. Had big booty and all that. Now this woman was sleeping all around with people students, male and female as i later learned. However, one of her students that she mentored, who she slept with as well, we got into it. And the reason why i had a problem with him was not because he was sleeping with whores. I told him that i was not defending the whores he slept with because i know you can’t defend that. However i said to him “i’m calling you out for the innocent black chicks who come to college not knowing anything about their history and they get here and are vulnerable to people who can be academic pimps.” So I said “deal with the whores all day but the young ladies coming through who are trying to get knowledge of self, hands off.” Now you would have thought that these people would have been proud of me for standing up for black women and holding a brother accountable to these very women and the so-called “community.” Please. These people not only supported him, they stop talking to me and i’m not talking about those who i directly rejected. I’m talking about those who were loosely affiliated with them as well. That’s when i realized how sorry black women were. They were comfortable supporting a weak dude like the one i criticized and people actually were trying to get me and my brethren be quiet because they were scared whitey would fire they’re asses. Black people always want white folks to be accountable to them but they never want to be accountable to each other. That’s why they love jesus so much because black people are all to glad in allowing someone to sacrifice for their lack of responsibility. A book black people should all read is “A Wine of Astonishment.” It is a book that gives insight to black people. I used to hate white folks until i started looking at our people, most notably our woman. We can give whatever excuse we want but the sick reality is is that black women need a fundamental change spiritually, psychologically, educationally. From a spiritual perspective, they think a white messiah will save them. From a psychological perspective, she thinks that she doesn’t need a man (the black man). And educationally, she thinks that a degree will save her economically. If she doesn’t rethink these notions, in a serious, thoughtful manner, she will be her own undoing and ultimately destroy herself, which it’s looking like an inevitability. It’s so funny how black women always claim how independent they are, yet they have not created anything to prove their independence (small percentage have businesses). Food for thought sistas: think about other black women on welfare and how it’s funded. Single working women get taxed at a higher rate because they are not married. Ths money goes to these dependent females and pay for them to lay up and have more babies, pay for their weed=smoking, thug sex toys while you go to work. So before you see the money you work for, these females see your money before you do!!! So the next time you criticize the black man, think about the black woman who uses you on a paycheck-to-paycheck basis. If i was a black woman, i would start an organization based solely on sorry ass black females like evelyn. the only thing that gets her by is her decent looks but hey when i was 19, i had chicks in their thirties and forties hollering at me because they couldn’t find men (cougars). Now being a cougar is honored now so maybe she will find her a young cat who just happy to hit something. wake up people

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Suzanne says:

October 28, 2012 at 9:11 pm

I was bored….I googled Ms. Evelyn and #1 was this article…I love it. FINALLY someone calls her out on her behavior. The show is like a train wreck… I can’t help but look! Outrageous that grown women behave like this, outrageous that Shawnie Oneal promotes this crap. I use to think Shawnie was a classy lady. Evelyn is simply reaping what she sowed. I hope she loses every dollar she made off of this behavior being promoted. Young women see this and think this is cool? This is acceptable? Sad and pathetic and I have no sympathy for her WHATSOEVER. She is a horrible person, an embarrassment to women everywhere, and a disgrace to those of us who call Miami home. She was not sorry when she went on that show to talk about her behavior, she’s just trying to keep the gravy train rolling.

p.s I’ll wager that azz whoppin that “Christina” is Evelyn’s manager/publicist/whore monger….another pig.

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Jen says:

October 28, 2012 at 8:50 pm

That is what’s wrong. You think it’s ok to man handle and put your hands on a woman and use your degrading nicknames. You put your hands on a woman you will pay the price just as Chad Johnson is, deservingly so!!!

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Terrell says:

October 28, 2012 at 7:27 pm

Calling a whore because violent behavior is so unnecessary.A whore or (ghetto people terms ho or hoe) is a woman sleeps with random men without knowing them or is not in a relationship with that person.Some of you “men” that talk nasty about her sound like women.Do you personally know Evelyn?no.So how can you say she got her riches by sleeping with men.You black blog sites are ghetto are horrible.You should be ashamed at yourself you sound like an ass!

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Yola says:

October 28, 2012 at 7:26 am

I’m sorry…just can’t get past those big ass dentures….that’s all I see.

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Lena says:

October 28, 2012 at 6:06 am

Agree with Mack, she looks for trouble and when there is none, she creates it. This is one sick woman, I feel no sympathy for her, she is a whore in every sense of the word. I guess if she was making even the slightest (non televised ) attempt to be better it would be different….but she puts out all her vagina And anus business so what does she expect ? Chad has got to be the biggest pus**y out there to have even considered this woman as anything serious….Eve…get some help , take some time off, take an acting class, take a business class, take a class on etiquette , learn to dress properly and to speak without cussing. Hey, you never know, you can still make somthing of yourself without sleeping with someone.

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Mack says:

October 27, 2012 at 9:14 pm

I tried to stay out of this one, but some of the comments really started vexing my basic sense of intelligence.

The writer of this article called it just what it is. And its high time black women, including you so-called feminists, know how and when to choose your battles.

This Lozada chick is nobody’s saint. And she’s nobody’s victim. How dare any of you compare her to a truly abused and traumatized woman! The brawd is boisterous, pugnacious as a wild pitbull, and conducts herself like a 14 year old project chick…even though she’s damn near 40! How the hell can any of you take up for that?!

To say a so-called ‘real man’ would never hit a woman, you’re right. But just having a vagina doesn’t make one a woman. One has to also have the mentality that goes along with ‘real’ womanhood. A real man will hit the hell outta hoodrat though! And rightfully so. Thats right, I said it!

As for Chad Johnson: use your brains for a minute. You don’t just randomly walk up and headbutt a person. Headbutts are usually used when one’s hands are tied up. As in trying to hold back a wild woman scratching and clawing at you. I even heard someone mention that a headbutt is basically a defensive move. So based on the history we have available to us, who was MOST LIKELY the aggressor in that incident? I’ll let you decide.

Besides that, the dude is a fool for wifing up a chick who was only fit to be a jumpoff anyway. This isn’t Rosa Parks we’re talking about here. Its the chick known for throwing bottles across the room at other females…the one who would use her 6 inch heels as weapons and jump across tables on national tv to intimidate other females she knew she could beat.

Amazing to me how many black females and ballsless dudes will even cosign for this foolish woman!

And to those who say its wrong to judge another: spoken like a true fool. If you have no sense of judgment, you can’t even make basic right decisions for your life! Hence why so many of you ladies end up with several kids by dusty-ass dudes, angry and bitter at the world for YOUR poor dating choices.

SMH

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Ramses says:

October 27, 2012 at 4:08 pm

not to be funny Sam but Leviticus 21:7 says: Man, do not wife a whore. These are in the scriptures for those who call themselves Christians, which nowadays doesn’t mean to be saying much when you look at the shepherds. Now you say Atlas can make a more positive change by changing his attitude toward females. Really brother? One of the problems and reasons black men don’t get respect right now is because of that type of attitude right there. Black men get called sorry, shiftless, weak, unprotecting, and all types of different adjectives but when we put the spotlight on the Black Superwoman, then all of a sudden, it’s a controversy. Black women and their behavior in general (much respect to the ones who carry themselves with dignity) is very trashy. Over the past few years I have heard black women say there is a conspiracy in the media to place black women in a negative light!!! Lol…Are you f…ing kidding me? When are black women going to take responsibility for how they conduct themselves? No one is making black women be whores. There are countless universities, technical schools, businesses that can be started, etc as to where black women don’t have to sell themselves literally. Matter fact black women are all too comfortable in selling themselves in a negative light, even if it means it gets them paid. So why you criticize the sister who wrote the article, why are you not as condemning of the behavior? Black people, including black men have a reflex when it comes to black men criticizing black women and it’s called “being negative.” Everytime a black man critiques black women and their behavior, and he begins to hit nerves, he’s labeled as being negative. Or the angry black man! Lol…What a joke. Black people are not looking for change, but to be coddled. And their reflex when their BS is called into question is slavery and jim crow. As a Moor (by way of Kemet) I am tired of negroes using this excuse. It’s tired and played. I keep trying to tell Black people or whatever term they want to used this year (African-American, Nigger, Negro, Colored) to stop being loyal to each other based on racial lines and start being loyal to each other based on positive cultural values. You’ll can say what you’ll want but I wouldn’t want to bring this type of female into my family. She is a coon. A monkey. And is quite comfortable in the role. Too many black men fear the black women and as a Man i know this is truth and it took me a long time to come around to this conclusion because to be quite honest, if a female like Evelyn has acted like this her entire adult life, being disrespectful to people including men, and has never gotten her behind whipped, it shows how weak we are, most notably the men. Because my motto is I would never hit a Woman (Lady), but i’l knock a B..C.H. out. My mother had a mouth on her and I’m surprised she never got her behind tore up or maybe she did and didn’t say anything. And if she would have disrespected men and they whipped her behind I would have been on the men side instead of hers because I respect order and discipline and no woman with any sense of self-respect ever should disrespect her man or men in general. My ex years ago said Black men don’t have any standards when it comes to women and she was black. I disagreed at first only to have men confirm it for me the next day in a conversation in the gym. And to those who like to use the notion that the excuse of legitimate domestic violence and conflate it with a black chick being a nigger is ridiculous. And to be honest I don’t even have mercy on that because look at Jennifer Hudson’s family. Her family was allegedly killed by her sister’s boyfriend. You women are so poor in your choice of men that you can cause an entire family to be killed. When have you heard of an ex-girlfriend killing an entire family of her used to be boyfriend? Noe evelyn is an abuser herself. It was so bad that there was a petition being signed trying to get people to pull advertising for the show because they felt the show promoted bullying. There is no conspiracy going on concerning black women. this stuff has been taking place too long and people have been too silent. I remember when my ex went into the bank to get some money and came back out and said after bad customer service with a black chick and said “I see why black men get with white women.” And I was shocked and she told me the chick was basically disrespectful to her early in the morning. The avergae black woman is Evelyn. Disrespectful and a bully and i called black women years ago and these so-called reality shows are only lifting the veil. A brother from Sudan told me bout a year ago that you’ll (Black Men) are the problem. He said you’ll let your women get away with anything. He said our women wouldn’t even think to raise their hands against us let alone disrespect u with their tongues. And he’s right because there are no domestic violence laws in these countries because there are no reasons too because women know to shut their damn mouths and not disrespect their men because there is no law to save them, and even their families would support them getting their behinds whipped if they got out of line with their husbands! They don’t baby mamas in these countries! As men we need to go back to the old days (80’s). Brothers wouldn’t have sex with loose women like evely, let alone marry her back then. You would get clowned by your homeboys if they found out you had sex with the neighborhood mattress! lol. Dudes need to look towards marrying virgins again who are pure of body and thought. How can you value a woman who deosn’t value herself. You got women in church who have sex with more partners than men nowadays and then have the nerve to ask someone to marry them. The fact that Chad married this vile chick proves how weak brothers are. You can see a chick be a ho on tv and still marry her and claim you love her! The reason why I had problems with black chicks over years because i checked their behinds. It’s always been my way period! I allowed room for discussion, don’t get me wrong, but when it’s time to make a decision I made it. Which is very interesting because even though my exes didn’t really like me, they never left. Why? Because they respected me as a man. I always ended my relationships, including my marriage. But in terms of Evelyn.For her to go on Vanzant’s show as if that’s gonna clean her mess up!!! you got to be kidding me. These brauds got Oprah, a woman who has never showed the ability or demonstrated she could be a married woman as their role models living with Gayle, which is suspect to me as if they are experts on relationships. I’ve been married longer than Oprah! This is why black people get no respect. They are the entertainment of the world. I would never marry, date, a female like evelyn. Matter fact, she ain’t even worth having sex with. Just like most of these females. Men stop honoring these hoes. Too Short and the Bible says don’t do it and you’ll going against ancient law. As long as they think you want them it gives them a sense of credibility. These girls come from college where they are in sororities doing all types of things you wouldn’t imagine. I knew Q Dogs who told me stories. They come from the hoods doing the same type of stuff then want to smile in your face with the next man’s cum on her breath! I’m not trying to be vulgar but real. This is not racial this is cultural. My grandmother told me the other night when they were coming up (40’s 50’s) that other black people when she lived in alabama thought our family was uppity and had standards. These issues have been going on for a long time. A good majority of black peole don’t have standards and you can’t let them in your family. Hell we still have issues with the light skin dark skin crap. Females perming their hair, weaves, fake eyelashes, nails, making koreans rich just from self-hate..but when chrish rock brings it up he was condemned for being negative even though he did it because he wanted his daughters to feel beautiful! These women like evelyn are lost causes. I respect whores on the corner and on backpage.com because at least they’re honest ones. These chciks think cause they put on gucci it makes them classy. Question is how did they get it? Most of the time it’s because they slept with a man for a purse. What trash! These females don’t deserve quality things because they aren’t quality. Do you people even know how serious marriage is? Girlfriend and boyfriends are not quality terms to use in relationships. Husbands and wives are. America has turned into a place where men from other countries come buy women (including black women) for sexual excursions. You’ll dudes better wake up. this article is right on sorry for the length but damn!!

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Christine says:

October 27, 2012 at 2:37 pm

We all know how she portrayed herself. We all know how she acted on BBW. We all know how she attacked her long time girl Jen. WE GET IT!! Now what I’m saying is she saw this behavior while she was married and began working it. Give the girl a chance and let’s see if she does change. If she was still married and the headbutting incident never happened you wouldn’t be talking this crap when her cry out for helped aired. She has shown thus far that she is making changes.

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tina says:

October 27, 2012 at 10:39 am

I personally don’t like the word whore for a woman but someone who admits to sleeping around with different dudes shouldn’t be surprised when tjat word is thrown at you. Evelyn is vulgar, trashy, and a bully. Now im not saying she deserved what she got but im not altogether certain that I believe her side of tje story. I dont believs dhe was a victim. She thpight she was all big and bad dating “ochoctnco” defended him by cussing out her bestfriend but at the same time claims that the whole time he was a violent person?? I just dont believe her. I think she did it solely for selfish gaion

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Kym says:

October 27, 2012 at 8:16 am

It’s crazy how all these people is taking up for Evelyn, number one she portrayed herself as someone who wants to be a billy bad ass and a woman who sleeps around. It’s one thing if what these people are saying about her isn’t true but we all have seen the type of person she really is, and because she goes on Iyanla Vanzant show for a few episodes to so call talk about the situation that makes her the victim… UM I THINK NOT !!!!!! Now ask yourselves after watching her cry and claim to want to be a better person for herself and her family is she still doing the same things and the answer will probably be yes !!!!! Noone changes over night, in a week, or even a month, so that alone tells me she is still full of bs!!!! Noone is saying its ok to abuse a woman or for that matter a man its all about morals and that she DO NOT have. We all have passed judgement on someone at one point and time so pls stop acting like yall dont do it because I’m sure as everyone sat and watched BBW’s some judgement was passed on not just Evelyn but on all the women !!!!

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Christine says:

October 27, 2012 at 6:28 am

Ev did make her bed and she did lay in it. Ev did make horrible choices which made people question her character and yes she did portray herself as somewhat of an attention whore, but she began to own it! Whore; a person considered as having compromised their principles for personal gain. While Ev was “married” she reached out to Iyanla Vanzant for help as she found herself disgusted by her actions and wanted to change. She wanted to become a role model her daughter and new step children could look up to. The first half of the episode was taped prior to the headbutt incident and Ev never “played” the domestic abuse card. In the heat of the incident she ran for help and another “man” felt that she needed medical attention and he chose to involve the authorities. Chad is paying the price for the “incident” solely. Shame on your for using your means of reaching out to many many people and saying it is ok to physically hurt a woman. Now that I have sided with Ev I challenge YOU to give me the azz whooping your say I so call deserve!!!

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sam says:

October 26, 2012 at 8:43 pm

Your article is pure trash and based solely on what you have seen on t.v. What makes you qualified or entitled to pass judgment on someone else? And, why are you so adamant on calling a woman a whore? Do you know her personally? Are you calling her a whore because she now has a failed marriage? Regardless, no woman deserves to be called a whore by someone whom she probably dosent know. And, no one deserves to be physically or verbally abused whatever her past may have been. I feel sorry for you and feel sorry for your sad outlook on life. If you are calling her a whore because she has slept around before getting married then i guess you probably believe there are a whole bunch of whores out there. In any case, you are being disrespectful to a woman by calling her this name and claiming she deserved to get an uppercut. You have just lowered yourself to those Basketball Wives standards you were supposed to discredit in your article. You can make a more effective and positive change in our culture by changing your own attitude against females and by writing and article that actually makes sense.

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Elena Parker says:

October 26, 2012 at 5:23 pm

You sound like a bitter simple minded buffoon. Two wrongs don’t make a right and you cannot justify domestic violence. You put your profession to shame when you write articles without educating yourself. Your ignorance comes through crystal clear in the matter of domestic violence. Do yourself a service and read up on how many women stay in violent situations because of small minded thinking like yours.

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Keisha says:

October 26, 2012 at 10:15 am

GTFOH!! Why is everyone always so quick to judge? For any REAL man to say a women deserved to get hands put on them….is beyond me! What If it was your MOTHER, DAUGHTER, SISTER, NEICE, AUNT, COUSIN and hell it could also be your BROTHER! No one deserves this, I don’t care how many bitches I beat the breaks off! All you hoes on here co-signing, I hope your home life is real because one day you could receive a phone call about a loved one that may not have a chance to tell their story! When you do get that call REMEMBER these comments your writing about someone’s MOTHER! So why you mad?!?!

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Lloyd says:

October 26, 2012 at 7:06 am

Every time I see or hear about Evelyn Lozada, the phrase “scum of the earth” comes to mind.

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WIlli says:

October 25, 2012 at 7:31 pm

A woman with no morals, character or sense of right and wrong, a compulsive lier, violent and foul mouthed…. This is not someone that needs to be encouraged.

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R Shelton says:

October 25, 2012 at 6:17 pm

Finally someone in the media calling a ho a ho!!! LOL well written simple and plain.

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