Let’s Stop Playing The Parent Blame Game!

(ThyBlackMan.com) A number of newsworthy events have transpired within the past week that have shaken our confidence in parents and children of urban, uncultured hood rats, as some see them. Take another look. But by the grace of God, some of us would see our own reflection. How many of you have subscribed to the notion that, “It takes a village... [Read more...]

Black History Month: Being A Mighty Man…

(ThyBlackMan.com) With the arrival of yet another ‘Black History Month’, I wanted to provide a column with some meat! African-Americans truly have been blessed by our forefathers; those men who have ‘gone before us’ in America. Our forefathers did exploits, braved challenges, and suffered in the face of adversity. Some of them were whipped... [Read more...]

An Anointing Message for Fathers in 2012…

(ThyBlackMan.com) Going into the new year Pastors, Bishops, Apostles, Priests and others of religious faiths should pray over all fathers. Now more than ever in history do we need spiritual guidance, wisdom and protection. I’m a father, educator and mentor, I want to inspire and motivate fathers, step-fathers, grandfathers, fathers to be, divorced... [Read more...]

“The Wire” Star Tray Chaney Celebrates Fatherhood Through Hip-Hop in New Video…

(ThyBlackMan.com) In a time when Fatherhood is a hot button issue in the African American community and beyond actor/rapper Tray Chaney releases a music video for his new song titled Fatherhood that hits the mark. Many will recognize Chaney from his role as Poot Carr on HBO’s hit show The Wire. The video which was directed  by Blackandmarriedwithkids.com CoFounder... [Read more...]

Provocation of the Black Son pt.2

(ThyBlackMan.com) “… a foolish son the bitterness of his mother” After my father left, when I was around 8yrs old, I would often stare out of windows hoping one day he would come back home. I waited day after day for his return that would never happen. As the days went by what was sadness became anger that would eventually become hatred and ultimately... [Read more...]

Are You Really a Single Parent?

(ThyBlackMan.com) I came across a topic on Facebook regarding single parenting.  The following question was posed.  If a father has a child for the equal amount of time or more than the mother even when the child is living with the mother, is the mother truly a single parent?  I thought this was an interesting question and of course the Facebook... [Read more...]

Ten Things Teachers Wish Parents Would Do…

(ThyBlackMan.com) *If you can read this line: Thank a teacher! In a perfect world all teachers would be dedicated to their profession, keep long school hours, be involved with community endeavors unrelated to school events and basically be concerned with the welfare of their students. The good news is; that model fits most teachers. However, there... [Read more...]

Being a Better Parent in 2012…

(ThyBlackMan.com) 2012 is now coming to an end.  Many of us have lined up our resolutions for the start of the New Year.  We have plans, agendas and good intentions to make positive changes.  They may consist of improving our finances, losing weight, becoming debt free, going to church, finding new jobs and a host of other things.  I know you can... [Read more...]

Child Support needs to be reformed…

(ThyBlackMan.com) I was on 1380 WAOK in Atlanta for an interesting interview this morning.  The conversation revolved around child support payments and the “Financial Abortions” concept that my Senior Editor, Kirsten West-Savali, brought to my attention just a couple of months ago.  The conversation expanded to child support in general, and I... [Read more...]

Top Ten Holiday Survival Tips for the Single Guy with Kids…

(ThyBlackMan.com) It’s that time of the year again, mistletoe, holiday cheer, Christmas trees, beautiful lights and most importantly, presents.  If you are an engaged, devoted, loving single dad, you will definitely come face to face, often, with your children’s mother. No matter how long it has been since you separated, ain’t no mountain high,... [Read more...]

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