(ThyBlackMan.com) Let’s be real and keep it 100, no matter how proficient you think you are, every now and then, you could use a little boost to improve your sex life and satisfy your partner. Try these simple, sex tips with your lady love tonight.
Talk about sex. As time passes in a relationship, it’s easy to get into a rut and just go through the motions, rather than express what you really want (and need) in bed. Ask each other, ‘What do I need in bed from you?‘ Get back to the communication you used to have.
Eat healthy. This doesn’t sound like a sex tip, but treating your body right with good nutrition helps the whole body, including your libido. Eat healthy foods to reduce cholesterol and keep your cardiovascular system humming. This will ensure that circulation is at peak performance for the ‘southern hemisphere.
Do your chores. Want to put your wife in the mood for better sex? Help around the house! The best foreplay happens outside the bedroom. By helping with chores and errands, you make them feel valued. Go pick up her grocery list, the dry cleaning or wash the dishes. Watch your lady unleash when the kids are down for bed.
Exercise. Few things will get you ready to satisfy women quite like getting in regular exercise each day. Even as little as 15 minutes of exercise daily will improve self-esteem, self-image, and libido. Exercise makes the physical aspects of sex more enjoyable. Furthermore, making exercise a habit promotes cardiovascular health, which is necessary for normal erectile function.
But don’t overdo it. Too much exercise can have the opposite effect. Being in an overtraining state produces general feelings of fatigue and low energy and can disrupt sleep patterns and change mood. This is hardly a good combination for wooing a romantic partner.
Work out together. If exercise is good, then exercising with your lover is an even better sex tip. Working out together ensures that both libidos and endorphins will be up. Since you’re both already sweating, take it to the next level. Stretching together is also a good idea.
Abstain a bit. Abstinence as a sex tip? Believe it or not, it’s a surefire way to improve sex and make your next encounter with your lover even more exciting. Practice abstinence for a couple of days, a weekend, or a week. Abstinence does make the heart grow fonder and makes you lust after forbidden fruit.
Plan for sex. It may not sound that romantic, but it’s a great way to improve your sex life and satisfy the women. Construct a plan for having sex, setting aside time or arranging opportunities for sex is very important, especially for busy couples or those with children. Don’t let the frequency of sex dwindle due to fatigue or the inability to find the ‘right time.
Make use of technology. Want to keep her in the mood for sex later that night while you’re stuck at the office? Use your cell phone or e-mail. Send her sexy messages throughout the day.
Compliment her body. Want a foolproof way to drive her wild and ensure better sex? Compliment her nice ass and hips, that’s why she is in the gym so much, to have a great ass! Smack it and compliment it!
Fellas we want to hear from you. What tips do you use to get the engine going? Comment below!
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