(ThyBlackMan.com) Last week, I was among the millions of people who were angry about the racist chant by members of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon (SAE) fraternity. The song, with the chorus, “There’ll never be a n*gger in SAE,” was heard around the world, leading to the University of Oklahoma cutting all ties to the fraternity.
That’s a decent start, even though we know that racism goes deeper than dealing with one stupid chant by a few drunken white guys. The fact is that most of the racists in America know better than to sing a song like that. So, rather than singing out their feelings, they just put thousands of black men in prison, deny us jobs, brainwash us with the media and let cops shoot our kids in the street.
I was proud of seeing the rapper Waka Flocka Flame (aka Juaquin James Malphurs) take twist into social commentary by appearing on CNN to explain that he was “hurt and disgusted” after seeing the video. He even gave up the money he was going to make by performing on the campus. Good move brother, I’m proud of you for taking a stand. Too many people in the entertainment industry have been trained to think that money matters over integrity, and it’s led to the decay of our soul as black people over the last 30 years.
But here’s the thing.
While Waka Flocka is on television telling whites how outraged he was about hearing white teenagers using the n-word, he also has a song with Gucci Mane called “Young Niggas.” These white kids obviously look up to him, or they wouldn’t have offered him thousands of dollars to perform. Many of them listen to his music everyday in the frat house and have memorized his lyrics. Also, they’ve probably not been educated on the subtleties of racism and America’s history of hatred and violence toward black people. That’s just not what rich white people tend to do.
So, you can only imagine how confused a white teenage Waka Flocka Flame fan is going to be when he finds out that simply REPEATING the lyrics of the artist he idolizes is somehow inappropriate. That’s like a football player saying that he’s offended that you just called him an athlete. It just doesn’t make any damn sense.
We all know the long debate over using the n-word with an “er” vs an “a.” Most black people know the difference between the two. We also know that the context of the word matters, along with who is saying it, when they say it, and why they’re saying it. But do you expect a rich white boy at The University of Oklahoma to be able to know the difference? Come on, that’s just stupid.
So, here’s the thing about the N-word. Maybe there are better ways for black men to address each other without using even a snippet of the word that white men used when justifying why they burned us alive, castrated us in public or hanged our siblings from trees.
Perhaps we can call each other “brother” or “king,” rather than entertaining white people by referring to each other in ways that are derogatory, inaccurate and debilitating.
Some rappers have earned boatloads of money by celebrating black genocide, encouraging black men to stay high and drunk, promoting sexual irresponsibility and basking in the glow of perpetual ignorance. The power of hip-hop is strong enough to brainwash the masses, we know how amazing the art form can be. Maybe it’s time to use hip-hop for something uplifting rather than putting the gun in our own mouths.
Mr Malphurs (Waka Flocka) actually showed some genius, maturity and conscientiousness by taking the time to appear on CNN to express his view on an important social issue. Now it’s time to run the ball all the way into the end zone and accept the idea that maybe….just maybe….black men aren’t born to be a pack of weed-smoking, gun-toting niggaz.
Staff Writer; Dr. Boyce Watkins
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition. For more information, please visit http://BoyceWatkins.com.
Man fuck these niggas
I, I’m a spare everything but these niggas
I flip the gun and gun butt these niggas
Take the knife off the AK and cut these niggas
Yeah and fuck these bitches
I swear I care bout everything but, but these bitches
I, I don’t care I “so what” these bitches
And I put Young Moula baby way above these bitches
If it ain’t broke don’t break it
And if he ain’t shook I’m gonna shake ’em
Hope I don’t look weak, cause when the wolf cry wolf
you still see that wolf teeth motherfucka’
The term “Black” while used often on this website among others is the most hated word among some black people. It’s even considered worst than the word nigger/nigga. While we all know that there are many things that are black in color, the word black will continue describe a people. Just like the terms African-American, colored, and Negro. I’m just waiting to see what the new term’s gonna be.
sorry one more thing. I think this is a pretty good approach to someone calling me or anyone else something that may be offensive to most people…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7zYopq-dFs
by the way…I am white, and i refer to myself as white, because if i were to be politically correct, i would have to say something like irish-german-english-dutch-scottish-austrian-croation-jewish-american. People can refer to me with whatever racial/ethnic term as long as there is no animosity behind it…if there is anomosity…its their problem, not mine.
Marque-Anthony…How am I supposed to keep up with what certain people wish to be called? All this political correctness just tangles the lines. There was a James Brown song that included “Say it louder, I’m black and I’m proud”. Black to me doesn’t mean anything other than someone who is mostly of African descent. To me, it doesn’t mean all that other stuff you say. I’m sorry you are offended if I refer to you as a black person. There is no agenda behind my use of the word. I say all this sincerely. I am not interested in arguing with emotions. Regarding your second post, I would never say “whats up [insert ethnic background]” to any stranger, no matter their ethnicity. I think “hello sir” is what i more commonly use. Also, I think “Native-American” is the current politically correct word for “Indians”, and “Hsipanic” is the current politically correct therm for “mexican”…kind of hard to keep up with isnt it?
Why do you think they don’t call the Asian man yellow man?
Why do you think they don’t say “what’s up red man” to an Indian?
Why do you think they don’t say “what’s up brown man” to a Mexican?
All of them, including Africans, are know by their nationality or tribe.
And none of them are defined by color, nobody but us.
And we accept it being projected on us. WAKE UP PEOPLE!
Let’s stop calling our people “black” people. Black is the color of your car tires, not the color of your skin. When you were a child, you were taught our color was brown. Understand that Caucasians are not white and we are not black. They have perpetuated this lie so hard that most of you are repeating it and ignoring the facts. They wanted to draw a contrast during the slave trade between white and black as light and dark, good and evil. And if we keep saying we are a color we are not, defined by racists who wanted to degrade us – it is just the same as taking the word nigger and trying to use it as a positive or term of endearment towards each other. READ MY ARTICLE ON THIS SITE ENTITLED “I DONT KNOW ANY BLACK PEOPLE”.
If I were black, and I wanted to make a point to the black youth about the reason why this word needs to be eliminated, i would say the following. Imagine the black men and women who contributed the most to the civil rights movement…The most respectable black men and women who risked so much…faced police dogs, fire hoses, death threats, etc….imaging them sitting at a dinner table, or at a lounge having a cocktail, and ask yourself if you think they would call each other n****r or n***a…These people fought to eradicate the word (among other things obviously). This word has no place in a progressive society. As long as it is around, and being used by blacks, the path to a better culture is steeper.