(ThyBlackMan.com) Recently in Clayton County Georgia, Atlanta Pastor Craig Lamar Davis failed to tell a woman that he was HIV positive as they began to indulge in unprotected sex.
Ms. Ronita McAfee, one of the most visible “so called victims” stated for her that “it has been an ongoing nightmare, ongoing, waking up out of my sleep with anxiety, uncontrollable shakes, thinking that I was HIV positive.”
Luckily thus far, Ms. McAfee has tested negative for the HIV virus.
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Pastor Davis was convicted on two counts of “Reckless HIV” which is a felony, and refused to admit that he was HIV Positive or even had these affairs as a married man until I guess he was backed up into a corner.
While in court, Ronita McAfee expressed a desire for Pastor Craig Davis to receive the full 20 year sentence, but even though she didn’t her full wish ultimately, this is what she said in court before the final sentence was written in stone:
“My smiles are empty, my laugh’s are empty, my hello’s are empty, my hugs, kisses touches are empty”
Davis finally admitted his guilt in a weak attempt at receiving mercy from the court by stating:
“I take full responsibility for everything that has gone on, my heart truly goes out to her daughters, um, bad decision, very very bad decision. And I opened the door the door for a lot of people to be hurt.”
Good try Pastor.
Also, it was reported that Pastor Craig Davis “was already a convicted felon for cocaine possession”, so with such poor integrity and bad judgment, how is it that he could become a Pastor without this
information being known?
Sure God forgives, and I would even look past the cocaine charge if the circumstances fit a particular profile – young dumb decision or committed many years ago – but at this point this incident should be a wake up call to everyone that everyone who claims holiness doesn’t always possess the holiest of intentions at all!
Now we all know of the pimp preachers who steal the money of the congregation for their own personal shopping sprees as well as their harem of women that are always on post just a phone call away 24/7 waiting to satisfy the every sexual fetish possessed by a man possessed by something else other than the spirit of the Lord!
We know of those types and surely this case of congregational deception won’t be the last, and while I feel for anyone who has to go through this as a victim, didn’t Ronita McAfee helped to open the door wide just as much as her Pastor did?
Does she bear the weight of SOME of the responsibility of this situation?
Let me ask the readers and I’m not inquiring from the standpoint of being insensitive because I do feel for everyone, but what if this HIV aspect of their affair didn’t come out in the light to make this situation highly visible?
Wouldn’t Ms. McAfee be considered the worst of the worst to sleep with a married Pastor knowing that he has a Wife?
No, I’m not relieving him of his contributions to this sad story, I’m merely focusing on her part of it.
If the HIV aspect didn’t arise then she – and whomever else he was sleeping with, because she wasn’t the only one – would have gotten no sympathy for giving up the goods right up under the nose of the Pastor’s Wife and would have been considered a well decorated official senior Certified Church Whore.
Am I wrong?
If you think so then that’s just my point of view because while Ms. McAfee took the stand seeking sympathy for her “midnight shakes” and uncontrollable anxiety”, she didn’t care for the Wife of Pastor Craig Lamar Davis when she sought to have her “midnight shakes” and “uncontrollable anxiety” relieved on a sexual level when she spread those thighs wide to have him “cum” on in.
I believe that all would have been cool in the neighborhood if they were still creeping together unbeknownst to the unsuspecting Wife who is THE REAL VICTIM here!
Sure, I consider the daughters of Ms. McAfee to be the true victims in this also because they have to bear the embarrassment of having to deal with such a high profile situation that was blasted all over the television and internet which exposed the carnal conundrums of their “hot to trot” mother.
The situation simply backfired on her and point her in an unfortunate position.
The bottom line: The BOTH are guilty of violating the very divine spiritual principles that they so falsely pretended to uphold.
It’s not as though Pastor Davis put a gun to her head to GET some head because she was down to do what they did.
Nor did they have sexual relations in broad daylight on Peachtree Street on the middle of the road on the double yellow line in 5 o’clock rush hour traffic while being recorded by the evening news cameras!
NO!
They did their dirt in secret because they KNEW IT WAS WRONG!
You want to play the game? Then pay the price and the penalty when the hand that was dealt to you comes up short!
Go did NOT have anything to do with this situation at all, your disobedience to what God’s law commanded is what did it!
Lesson learned! If Ms. McAfee and Pastor Davis kept their minds on what they went to church for then NONE OF THIS would have happened at all.
Temptation here is not the problem, it’s the acting OUT on that temptation that will bring disastrous results to the lives of those involved as well as mushrooming out in a constant wave of pain for years to come to the innocent Wife and mutual families.
I have spoken.
