Raising His Righteous Nature…

(ThyBlackMan.com) “The World Teaches You How to Make His Nature Rise; I’d like to Teach You How to Make Him Rise into His Nature” Sisters I know that Ebony, Cosmo and whatever other magazine that you faithfully read tells you how to seduce a man, how to drive him crazy sexually, how to entice him and they lead you to believe that... [Read more...]

Let’s Stop Playing The Parent Blame Game!

(ThyBlackMan.com) A number of newsworthy events have transpired within the past week that have shaken our confidence in parents and children of urban, uncultured hood rats, as some see them. Take another look. But by the grace of God, some of us would see our own reflection. How many of you have subscribed to the notion that, “It takes a village... [Read more...]

The AA Woman (Assertive Aggressive) – Real Talk Relationships.

(ThyBlackMan.com) It has been awhile I know… I apologize… We on a new year while most things remain the same some things are changing.  I’m not going to expect everyone to agree with what I say. Everything just ain’t for everybody. I truly am one man with an opinion.  You don’t have to agree. You don’t even have... [Read more...]

Black Women: Badges of DIS-honor….

(ThyBlackMan.com) Here are a couple of titles that we as Black Women need to stop wearing like they are a badge of honor. 1. Baby Mama 2. Miss Independent 3. Jump off 4. Wifey 5. Bi** and the Baddest one at that! Baby Mama-Too many of us not only proudly wear this title, but we also STRIVE to be one! This seems to be the new occupation on the scene.... [Read more...]

The 411 On Dating and Single Parenting…

(ThyBlackMan.com) Rules?  Yes rules.  There are rules when you are single, raising children and dating. These rules are not difficult, deep or hard to understand.  Raising children is a priority for most parents.  Even though we are taking care of our children on a daily basis we may sometimes need a short time out from diapers, bottles, crayons... [Read more...]

Free to be Me, Please?

(ThyBlackMan.com) Reality Television. Blogs. Magazine. Facebook. Twitter. We live in a society that is overrun with the details of other people’s lives. And while one could argue that these are all just ways to communicate with the world and stay abreast of the changes that are taking place in the world. A person, can also lose themselves in the... [Read more...]

If What Black Men Say is True, I’m A White Woman…

(ThyBlackMan.com) “I think that is true, white women are much easier to get along with,” a long time friend said to me over lunch. “White women will stick with the man they love, they know how to hang in there while he builds. A black woman will pull the plug in a minute. White women,” he said looking me straight in the eye, “understand the... [Read more...]

Black Is Beautiful vs. The Lightest You…

(ThyBlackMan.com) Black is Beautiful and the Lightest You, which do you choose, or do you really have to? In the old Eddie Murphy movie, Coming to America, a young African prince comes to America to find a mate. Does he find one? Yes. She is attractive, and has a light complexion. Her sister is also attractive. However, she has dark skin and an evil... [Read more...]

She’s A Hustler Homie…

(ThyBlackMan.com) I remember speaking with a 14 year old over the summer, and asking her what type of career path did she want to take, and her response was that she wanted to have children, so she could collect child support like her mother does.  I also saw a YouTube video where a young Sister was pregnant and rubbing her stomach, singing about... [Read more...]

By Invitation Only…

(ThyBlackMan.com) I recently saw a picture on facebook that had the following words: “If you wouldn’t make her a wife then don’t make her a mother.” I got the message, but to me this yet again another escape from accountability as women. “Make” Really? Make? My perspective is, “If he isn’t willing to MAKE... [Read more...]

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