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		<title>8 Usher Love Songs to Revisit Ahead of &#8216;The R&#038;B Tour&#8217; with Chris Brown.</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Revisit 8 Usher love songs that still resonate today as The R&#038;B Tour 2026 with Chris Brown builds major anticipation among R&#038;B fans.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) There is something about real R&amp;B that refuses to die, no matter how much the industry tries to dress it up, water it down, or chase trends. When you hear a true love record, you feel it in your chest before your mind can even process the words. That is where <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Usher</span></span> has always lived. In that space between vulnerability and confidence. Between a man who knows what he wants and one who is still learning how to hold on to it.</p>
<p data-start="459" data-end="903">Now with <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Chris Brown</span></span> riding alongside him on a 2026 stadium tour, it feels like a full circle moment. Two artists who carried the torch for rhythm and blues through different eras, stepping into a space that once belonged to giants. The announcement alone stirred something in the culture. Not just excitement, but relief. Because when voices like theirs come together, it signals that the genre still breathes strong.</p>
<p data-start="905" data-end="1212">But before stadium lights, before social media rollouts, before choreography went viral, there were songs. Songs that made you call somebody late at night. Songs that had you staring at the ceiling replaying memories you thought you had buried. Songs that reminded you love was both beautiful and dangerous.</p>
<p data-start="1214" data-end="1357">Let’s take a walk through eight of Usher’s finest love records, the kind that still hit today without needing a remix or a trend to carry them.</p>
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<h3 data-section-id="19nkkno" data-start="0" data-end="22"><em>1. Nice and Slow</em></h3>
<p data-start="24" data-end="464">There is also something cinematic about how “Nice and Slow” unfolds. It plays like a late night ride through the city, windows cracked, air warm, thoughts clear. <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Usher</span></span> was not just singing a song here, he was setting a scene. You can hear the confidence of a young man who understands timing, who knows that anticipation can be just as powerful as action. That is a lesson a lot of artists never quite learn.</p>
<p data-start="466" data-end="868">What stands out even more is how conversational his delivery feels. He is not reaching for the rafters vocally, not trying to prove anything. Instead, he pulls the listener closer. That approach creates a sense of trust. It makes the record feel personal, like something meant for one person instead of the masses. That kind of intimacy is rare, and it is exactly why the song still holds weight today.</p>
<p data-start="870" data-end="1225">There is a musical discipline here that deserves respect. The arrangement leaves space. Instruments do not fight each other for attention. The groove stays steady, almost hypnotic, allowing his tone to sit right where it needs to. That level of control shows an artist who already had a vision beyond his years. He was thinking about feel, not just sound.</p>
<p data-start="1227" data-end="1516">And when you revisit it now, it reminds you that patience in love is not weakness. It is intention. It is knowing that real connection takes time. “Nice and Slow” is not just a record, it is a statement. A young man stepping into adulthood, learning that the best moments cannot be rushed.</p>
<h3 data-section-id="1dc47ah" data-start="1523" data-end="1544"><em>2. U Got It Bad</em></h3>
<p data-start="1546" data-end="1863">There is a quiet desperation that creeps into “U Got It Bad” the more you listen. It is not loud, not dramatic, but it lingers. You can hear it in the way his voice stretches certain phrases, like he is holding on to something that is already slipping away. That subtle tension is what makes the record unforgettable.</p>
<p data-start="1865" data-end="2174">Usher taps into a truth that many try to hide. Love can make you lose focus. It can pull you away from your routine, your pride, even your sense of self. Instead of masking that reality, he embraces it. That honesty gives the song its power. It does not pretend everything is under control, because it is not.</p>
<p data-start="2176" data-end="2533">The instrumentation plays a major role in shaping that emotion. The keys feel almost reflective, like someone replaying memories in their head. The rhythm section stays grounded, giving the song a heartbeat that never speeds up, even as the emotions inside it grow heavier. That contrast creates a feeling of being stuck, unable to move forward or backward.</p>
<p data-start="2535" data-end="2877">What keeps the song alive across generations is its relatability. People may change, trends may shift, but the experience of falling too deep remains the same. That moment when you realize your feelings have gone further than you planned is something every listener recognizes. “U Got It Bad” captures that realization with grace and honesty.</p>
<h3 data-section-id="nijbt1" data-start="2884" data-end="2910"><em>3. You Make Me Wanna</em></h3>
<p data-start="2912" data-end="3236">“You Make Me Wanna” operates on a level of storytelling that feels almost effortless, but that kind of clarity takes real skill. Usher is not just describing a situation, he is walking you through it step by step. You can feel the internal conflict building as the song progresses, like a man wrestling with his own choices.</p>
<p data-start="3238" data-end="3557">There is a smoothness to the delivery that keeps the narrative from feeling heavy handed. He never sounds overwhelmed, even though the situation clearly carries weight. That balance is important. It allows the listener to sit with the story instead of being pushed away by it. It feels honest without becoming dramatic.</p>
<p data-start="3559" data-end="3873">The groove itself plays a big role in the song’s lasting appeal. It moves with a steady confidence, giving the lyrics room to breathe. Nothing feels rushed, nothing feels forced. That sense of ease makes the message hit even harder, because it feels natural. Like something that could happen to anyone at any time.</p>
<p data-start="3875" data-end="4179">Over the years, the song has remained relevant because it speaks to real life complications. Relationships are not always clean or simple. Feelings can cross lines before you even realize it. “You Make Me Wanna” does not try to solve that problem. It simply acknowledges it, and sometimes that is enough.</p>
<h3 data-section-id="c42o5z" data-start="4186" data-end="4199"><em>4. Burn</em></h3>
<p data-start="4201" data-end="4486">“Burn” carries a sense of emotional maturity that separates it from many breakup records. This is not about blame or regret. It is about understanding. Usher approaches the situation like a man who has taken time to reflect, who has accepted that some endings are necessary for growth.</p>
<p data-start="4488" data-end="4751">There is a softness in his tone that adds depth to the message. He is not trying to win the moment. He is trying to process it. That distinction matters. It shifts the focus from conflict to clarity. You are not hearing an argument, you are hearing a realization.</p>
<p data-start="4753" data-end="5047">The production wraps around that emotion in a way that feels almost comforting. The melody flows gently, creating a sense of calm even as the lyrics deal with loss. That contrast is what makes the song so effective. It allows the listener to sit with the pain without feeling overwhelmed by it.</p>
<p data-start="5049" data-end="5359" data-is-last-node="" data-is-only-node="">What makes “Burn” timeless is its honesty about endings. Not every relationship is meant to last forever, and that is not always a failure. Sometimes letting go is the healthiest choice. This song gives voice to that idea in a way that feels respectful and real. It does not dramatize the moment. It honors it.</p>
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<h3 data-section-id="qxdf9s" data-start="0" data-end="28"><em>5. Confessions Part II</em></h3>
<p data-start="30" data-end="368">There is also a weight in “Confessions Part II” that goes beyond the situation itself. It feels like a man standing at a crossroads, knowing that whatever comes next will change everything. <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Usher</span></span> does not run from that moment. He leans into it, voice steady but carrying the burden of what he is admitting.</p>
<p data-start="370" data-end="690">What makes the record hit even harder is the calm delivery. There is no panic in his tone, no attempt to soften the truth. That composure gives the story more power. It feels like he has already accepted the consequences, and now he is simply laying everything out. That level of honesty is not easy to capture in music.</p>
<p data-start="692" data-end="965">The arrangement stays minimal for a reason. It allows every word to land without distraction. The melody supports the narrative without overshadowing it. That balance is crucial, because this is a song built on storytelling. Every line matters, every pause carries meaning.</p>
<p data-start="967" data-end="1213">Years later, it still resonates because people recognize the reality behind it. Life gets complicated. Choices have consequences. “Confessions Part II” does not try to clean that up. It presents it as it is, and that truth keeps the record alive.</p>
<h3 data-section-id="vytvya" data-start="1220" data-end="1247"><em>6. There Goes My Baby</em></h3>
<p data-start="1249" data-end="1464">“There Goes My Baby” feels like a man who has grown into himself. This is not youthful excitement. This is seasoned appreciation. Usher moves through the track with a quiet assurance that only comes with experience.</p>
<p data-start="1466" data-end="1713">The way he phrases each line shows control. He is not chasing the beat, he is sitting right inside it. That kind of comfort cannot be faked. It comes from years of understanding your instrument and knowing how to use it without overdoing anything.</p>
<p data-start="1715" data-end="1975">There is also a visual element to the song. You can picture the moment clearly. A woman walking by, catching his attention without even trying. That simplicity is what makes the record so effective. It captures a feeling everyone has experienced at some point.</p>
<p data-start="1977" data-end="2234">In a time where music often leans toward excess, this track reminds listeners that elegance still matters. It proves that you do not need to overwhelm the audience to leave an impression. Sometimes a smooth delivery and a clear message are more than enough.</p>
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<h3 data-section-id="5q2z0z" data-start="2241" data-end="2278"><em>7. My Boo featuring Alicia Keys</em></h3>
<p data-start="2280" data-end="2530">“My Boo” carries a warmth that feels genuine from start to finish. <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Alicia Keys</span></span> and Usher do not just sing together, they connect. You can hear the respect in how they leave space for each other, allowing the song to breathe.</p>
<p data-start="2532" data-end="2763">There is a sense of history in the record that gives it depth. It is not about a current relationship. It is about something that once was and still lingers in memory. That emotional layer makes the song feel richer, more complete.</p>
<p data-start="2765" data-end="2980">The back and forth between the two voices creates a natural rhythm. It feels like a real conversation, not a scripted exchange. That authenticity draws listeners in, making them feel like they are part of the story.</p>
<p data-start="2982" data-end="3214">What keeps “My Boo” relevant is its honesty about lasting connections. Some people never fully leave your heart. Time may pass, life may move forward, but certain bonds remain. This song captures that truth with grace and sincerity.</p>
<h3 data-section-id="15zj0sk" data-start="3221" data-end="3279"><em>8. Lovers and Friends featuring Lil Jon and Ludacris</em></h3>
<p data-start="3281" data-end="3535">“Lovers and Friends” lives in that late night space where honesty tends to surface. <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Lil Jon</span></span> brings the energy, <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Ludacris</span></span> adds character, and Usher ties it all together with a smooth melodic touch.</p>
<p data-start="3537" data-end="3766">The contrast between the vocal styles gives the track its identity. You have the raw edge of hip hop sitting next to the polished feel of R&amp;B. Instead of clashing, they complement each other, creating a sound that feels complete.</p>
<p data-start="3768" data-end="4034">There is also a conversational tone that runs through the record. It feels like a question being asked rather than a statement being made. That approach invites the listener to reflect on their own experiences, their own blurred lines between friendship and romance.</p>
<p data-start="4036" data-end="4341">Even now, the song holds its place because the theme never fades. Relationships are rarely defined in simple terms. There are moments where feelings shift, where boundaries become unclear. “Lovers and Friends” explores that space without forcing an answer, and that is exactly why it continues to connect.</p>
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<p data-start="4348" data-end="4580">As Usher steps into this next chapter alongside Chris Brown, these records stand as proof of his impact. Not just as a performer, but as a storyteller. As someone who understood that music is not just about sound, but about feeling.</p>
<p data-start="4582" data-end="4774" data-is-last-node="" data-is-only-node="">And when those stadium lights rise in 2026, these songs will not just be played. They will be felt all over again. Because real R&amp;B does not fade. It lives on in every memory it helped create.</p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">Staff Writer; <strong>Jamar Jackson</strong></p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">This brother has a passion for <strong><em>poetry</em></strong> and <em><strong>music</strong></em>. One may contact him at; <strong><a href="mailto:JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com">JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com</a></strong>.</p>
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		<title>Did Gucci Mane Snitch? Pooh Shiesty Arrest Sparks Explosive Hip Hop Debate.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 05:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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Did Gucci Mane snitch on Pooh Shiesty? Here’s everything we know about the FBI arrest, robbery allegations, and the truth behind the rumors shaking hip hop.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) There is always that moment in Hip Hop when the music fades and the streets start talking louder than the speakers. That moment don’t come with a beat, it comes with whispers, accusations, and paperwork. And right now, that moment belongs to <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Pooh Shiesty</span></span> and <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Gucci Mane</span></span>.</p>
<p data-start="324" data-end="479">The headlines say one thing. The streets say another. And the truth, like it always does, is sitting somewhere in the middle, waiting on time to expose it.</p>
<p data-start="481" data-end="857">The FBI got involved. That alone tells you this ain’t no regular rap beef or contract dispute. When federal agents knock on your door, it’s already deeper than music. It’s deeper than pride. It’s about freedom now. And for Pooh Shiesty, a man who just came home trying to reclaim his position, this situation feels like a brutal reminder that timing in life can be everything.</p>
<p data-start="859" data-end="991">Let’s be clear about what actually happened, because too many people online just running with whatever sounds the most entertaining.</p>
<p data-start="993" data-end="1329">According to federal authorities, Pooh Shiesty, real name Lontrell Williams Jr., along with eight other individuals, including his own father and Memphis rapper Big30, got hit with serious charges. Kidnapping. Conspiracy to commit kidnapping. That’s not light work. That’s the kind of charge that changes lives permanently if it sticks.</p>
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<p data-start="1331" data-end="1719">The allegations paint a picture that feels almost like a movie script, but with real consequences. Prosecutors claim there was a setup. A business meeting in Dallas. A supposed discussion about contract terms. That’s how it was presented. That’s how the victims allegedly walked into the situation. Thinking it was music business. Thinking it was negotiation. Thinking it was opportunity.</p>
<p data-start="1721" data-end="1800">Instead, what they say happened inside that studio was something else entirely.</p>
<p data-start="1802" data-end="1820">An armed takeover.</p>
<p data-start="1822" data-end="2237">Guns drawn. Doors blocked. Jewelry taken. Contracts forced to be signed. One man allegedly had a weapon put to his head. Another reportedly choked to the point of near unconsciousness. And if that wasn’t enough, investigators say the whole thing was tied together with evidence that doesn’t just disappear. Surveillance footage. Cell phone records. Travel logs. Even ankle monitor data placing Shiesty at the scene.</p>
<p data-start="2239" data-end="2269">That last part hits different.</p>
<p data-start="2271" data-end="2502">Because this wasn’t a man moving freely with no oversight. This was someone already under federal supervision, already walking a tightrope between rebuilding his life and falling back into a system that rarely gives second chances.</p>
<p data-start="2504" data-end="2524">And now here we are.</p>
<p data-start="2526" data-end="2768">The raid came early April. FBI moving in heavy. Flashbangs. Evidence bags. Multiple arrests across states. Memphis. Dallas. Nashville. Atlanta. This wasn’t random. This was coordinated, just like the crime they’re accusing them of committing.</p>
<p data-start="2770" data-end="2834">Now let’s talk about the part that got the internet in a frenzy.</p>
<p data-start="2836" data-end="2858">Did Gucci Mane snitch?</p>
<p data-start="2860" data-end="2938">That question alone tells you everything about the culture we’re dealing with.</p>
<p data-start="2940" data-end="3167">Because instead of focusing on the seriousness of the charges, instead of asking how a man fresh out of prison ends up back in federal custody, the conversation turned into street politics. Loyalty. Codes. Who told. Who didn’t.</p>
<p data-start="3169" data-end="3209">And that’s where things get complicated.</p>
<p data-start="3211" data-end="3552">In the paperwork, there’s a line that shook people. It suggests that someone identified as R.D., widely believed to be Radric Davis, Gucci Mane’s real name, described Pooh Shiesty’s clothing during the alleged incident. That detail alone was enough for social media to run wild with the narrative that Gucci Mane cooperated with authorities.</p>
<p data-start="3554" data-end="3609">But here’s the thing about paperwork and street rumors.</p>
<p data-start="3611" data-end="3649">They don’t always tell the full story.</p>
<p data-start="3651" data-end="3897">There have also been claims that Gucci Mane is not cooperating. That he won’t testify. That investigators didn’t even directly get information from him. Some reports suggest others involved in the situation may have been the ones talking instead.</p>
<p data-start="3899" data-end="3912">That matters.</p>
<p data-start="3914" data-end="4184">Because in Hip Hop culture, the word “snitch” gets thrown around too easily. It’s one of the most damaging labels you can put on someone. And sometimes it gets applied without proof, without context, and without understanding how real life works outside of street codes.</p>
<p data-start="4186" data-end="4225">Let’s pause for a second and talk real.</p>
<p data-start="4227" data-end="4473">The street code says don’t talk. Don’t cooperate. Don’t give statements. But what happens when business and street life collide? What happens when millions of dollars are on the line? When contracts, ownership, and legal obligations are involved?</p>
<p data-start="4475" data-end="4506">That’s where things get blurry.</p>
<p data-start="4508" data-end="4730">Because Gucci Mane isn’t just a rapper anymore. He’s a businessman. A label owner. A man responsible for investments, artists, and his own legacy. That changes the way situations get handled, whether people like it or not.</p>
<p data-start="4732" data-end="4784">At the same time, the streets don’t care about that.</p>
<p data-start="4786" data-end="4815">The streets only see loyalty.</p>
<p data-start="4817" data-end="5130">And that’s where Pooh Shiesty’s situation becomes bigger than just a legal case. It becomes a reflection of a pattern we’ve seen too many times. Young artists rising fast, carrying the weight of their environments, trying to transition into a different life, but still being pulled back into old ways of thinking.</p>
<p data-start="5132" data-end="5386">Pooh Shiesty had momentum. Real momentum. Before his first incarceration, he was one of the hottest voices coming out of Memphis. His energy, his delivery, his presence, it all felt authentic. That rawness connected with people. It made them believe him.</p>
<p data-start="5388" data-end="5405">Then prison came.</p>
<p data-start="5407" data-end="5630">And when he got out, there was anticipation. Fans wanted that same hunger, but with growth. With maturity. With focus. His single “FDO” hinted at that. It sounded like someone who understood the opportunity in front of him.</p>
<p data-start="5632" data-end="5678">But life don’t always give you time to adjust.</p>
<p data-start="5680" data-end="5747">Sometimes the past catches up quicker than the future can be built.</p>
<p data-start="5749" data-end="5852">And now, instead of talking about chart positions or new projects, we’re talking about federal charges.</p>
<p data-start="5854" data-end="5879">That’s the tragedy of it.</p>
<p data-start="5881" data-end="6134">Because Hip Hop has always been about transformation. Taking pain and turning it into power. Taking struggle and turning it into success. But when the lines between the street and the industry stay blurred, that transformation becomes harder to sustain.</p>
<p data-start="6136" data-end="6178">Now let’s get into the uncomfortable part.</p>
<p data-start="6180" data-end="6259">Why do so many rappers still hold onto a street code that doesn’t protect them?</p>
<p data-start="6261" data-end="6320">That’s the question nobody really wants to answer honestly.</p>
<p data-start="6322" data-end="6545">The idea of not snitching comes from a place of survival. It was built in environments where trust was limited and cooperation with law enforcement could literally get you killed. That history is real. That context matters.</p>
<p data-start="6547" data-end="6638">But what happens when that same code starts hurting the community instead of protecting it?</p>
<p data-start="6640" data-end="6694">What happens when silence allows violence to continue?</p>
<p data-start="6696" data-end="6810">What happens when loyalty to a code outweighs responsibility to your own future, your own family, your own people?</p>
<p data-start="6812" data-end="6868">That’s where we need to start being real with ourselves.</p>
<p data-start="6870" data-end="6910">Because not every situation is the same.</p>
<p data-start="6912" data-end="7126">There’s a difference between telling on someone for personal gain and speaking up about actions that harm others. There’s a difference between protecting your circle and enabling behavior that leads to destruction.</p>
<p data-start="7128" data-end="7167">And too often, those lines get ignored.</p>
<p data-start="7169" data-end="7495">In this case, the conversation about whether Gucci Mane “snitched” feels almost secondary to the bigger issue. A group of men allegedly used violence and intimidation in what was supposed to be a business setting. That’s not street survival. That’s a breakdown of understanding how to move when you’ve reached a certain level.</p>
<p data-start="7497" data-end="7574">Business disputes are supposed to be handled in courtrooms, not with weapons.</p>
<p data-start="7576" data-end="7628">Contracts are supposed to be negotiated, not forced.</p>
<p data-start="7630" data-end="7684">And when those lines get crossed, consequences follow.</p>
<p data-start="7686" data-end="7723">That’s not snitching. That’s reality.</p>
<p data-start="7725" data-end="8010">At the same time, we can’t ignore the systemic side of this. The way young Black artists are often put into positions where they’re expected to navigate complex business structures without proper guidance. The way labels can exploit talent while presenting themselves as opportunities.</p>
<p data-start="8012" data-end="8037">That tension is real too.</p>
<p data-start="8039" data-end="8136">And it creates situations where artists feel like they have to take matters into their own hands.</p>
<p data-start="8138" data-end="8175">But that doesn’t justify the outcome.</p>
<p data-start="8177" data-end="8214">It just explains part of the mindset.</p>
<p data-start="8216" data-end="8276">So now we’re left with a situation where nobody really wins.</p>
<p data-start="8278" data-end="8323">Pooh Shiesty is facing serious legal trouble.</p>
<p data-start="8325" data-end="8416">Gucci Mane is dealing with accusations that could affect his reputation in certain circles.</p>
<p data-start="8418" data-end="8499">Fans are divided, arguing over loyalty instead of focusing on the bigger picture.</p>
<p data-start="8501" data-end="8605">And the culture itself is once again having to confront the same questions it’s been asking for decades.</p>
<p data-start="8607" data-end="8632">Where do we go from here?</p>
<p data-start="8634" data-end="8694">Maybe it starts with redefining what loyalty actually means.</p>
<p data-start="8696" data-end="8778">Maybe it means understanding that growth requires leaving certain mindsets behind.</p>
<p data-start="8780" data-end="8907">Maybe it means recognizing that the same code that once protected people can also hold them back when the circumstances change.</p>
<p data-start="8909" data-end="8982">Because at the end of the day, freedom is more important than perception.</p>
<p data-start="8984" data-end="9069">Building something that lasts is more important than proving something in the moment.</p>
<p data-start="9071" data-end="9144">And protecting your future should always come before protecting an image.</p>
<p data-start="9146" data-end="9275">This case is still unfolding. Court dates are coming. Evidence will be examined. Stories will change. More details will come out.</p>
<p data-start="9277" data-end="9308">But one thing is already clear.</p>
<p data-start="9310" data-end="9359">This isn’t just about Pooh Shiesty or Gucci Mane.</p>
<p data-start="9361" data-end="9401">This is about a culture at a crossroads.</p>
<p data-start="9403" data-end="9474">And the decisions made in moments like this will shape what comes next.</p>
<p data-start="9476" data-end="9619">So before we rush to label someone a snitch, before we pick sides based on incomplete information, maybe it’s time to ask a different question.</p>
<p data-start="9621" data-end="9662">What does real loyalty look like in 2026?</p>
<p data-start="9664" data-end="9751">Because if it still leads to situations like this, then maybe it’s time for a new code.</p>
<p data-start="9753" data-end="9813">And that’s something the whole culture needs to think about.</p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">Staff Writer; <strong>Jamar Jackson</strong></p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">This brother has a passion for <strong><em>poetry</em></strong> and <em><strong>music</strong></em>. One may contact him at; <strong><a href="mailto:JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com">JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com</a></strong>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2026 08:51:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[NBA Ben 10, an affiliate of NBA YoungBoy, was reportedly shot during a violent incident inside a Houston restaurant. Early death rumors were denied as details emerged from the chaotic scene.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) There is a certain kind of silence that falls over Hip Hop when the music and the streets collide again. Not the manufactured silence you get from PR teams or label statements, but the real kind. The kind that makes you sit back and ask yourself how many times we have watched this same story play out. This time the name attached to that silence is NBA Ben 10, a Baton Rouge artist tied closely to <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">NBA YoungBoy</span></span>, and a young man whose music has always sounded like it came with consequences.</p>
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<p data-start="518" data-end="1014">The reports out of Houston hit fast and messy. One moment social media was declaring him dead, the next there were corrections, denials, and confusion. What we do know is this. Ben Anthony Fields, known in rap circles as NBA Ben 10, was shot during a violent incident inside Confessions, a restaurant that quickly turned into a war zone. Two people were hit. Both in critical condition. And somewhere in the middle of that chaos, you can hear the echoes of the music he has been making for years.</p>
<p data-start="1016" data-end="1337">OG Monique, mother of OG 3Three, stepped in quickly to shut down the rumors. She made it clear Ben 10 was alive, alert, still here. That matters. Because in today’s rap landscape, we have gotten too used to waking up and finding out somebody did not make it. Too many names. Too many candles. Too many unfinished stories.</p>
<p data-start="1339" data-end="1833">Houston police laid out the scene like something out of a movie, except this is real life. A confrontation over chains. A struggle. A robbery attempt that turned physical. Then more people jumping in, fists flying, bodies piling up. Somewhere in that moment, the man being attacked pulls out a pistol and starts firing. No aim. No control. Just reaction. That is how two people end up fighting for their lives in a restaurant where people came to eat, laugh, and forget about the world outside.</p>
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<p data-start="1835" data-end="2066">And if you have been listening to NBA Ben 10’s music, none of this feels disconnected. That is the uncomfortable truth. His records have always lived in that space where paranoia, loyalty, and survival sit right next to each other.</p>
<p data-start="2068" data-end="2518">Take “Play Wit Me.” That record does not sound like a commercial single built for radio rotation. It sounds like a warning. The beat is stripped down, almost skeletal, leaving room for his voice to carry the tension. He raps like someone who expects something to happen at any moment. When you listen to it today, especially after hearing about this shooting, the lyrics hit different. They do not feel like performance. They feel like documentation.</p>
<p data-start="2520" data-end="2927">That is what separates artists like Ben 10 from a lot of the industry. He is not trying to clean it up for you. He is not trying to package the streets into something safe. His delivery is raw, sometimes uneven, but always real. You can hear Baton Rouge in his cadence. That Southern drawl mixed with urgency. It is the same energy you hear in YoungBoy’s early work, but Ben 10 carries it with his own edge.</p>
<p data-start="2929" data-end="3246">Another track that stands out is the kind of record where the beat almost feels secondary to the message. The kind where he is talking more than rapping, letting you into a mindset that most people only see from the outside. Those songs do not age the way club hits do. They sit with you. They grow heavier over time.</p>
<p data-start="3248" data-end="3667">Listening now, after what happened in Houston, you start to realize how thin the line is between the artist and the life he is describing. Too often, we treat these records like entertainment without understanding they are rooted in something real. When Ben 10 talks about watching his back, about not trusting people, about how quickly things can turn, he is not reaching for metaphors. He is speaking from experience.</p>
<p data-start="3669" data-end="3840">And that brings us to the larger question. What has happened to rap music. Or maybe the better question is what has always been there that we refused to fully acknowledge.</p>
<p data-start="3842" data-end="4235">Hip Hop has always been tied to the streets. From the days of <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">N.W.A</span></span> telling stories about Compton to the rise of Southern rap documenting life in places like Baton Rouge, Memphis, and Houston, the music has always reflected reality. The difference now is the speed. The immediacy. The way incidents like this travel across the internet before facts even settle.</p>
<p data-start="4237" data-end="4484">Back in the day, you might hear about something weeks later. Now you see it in real time. Videos. Reactions. Rumors. Corrections. All within hours. That changes how we process it. It also changes how artists move, or at least how they try to move.</p>
<p data-start="4486" data-end="4768">But the core issue remains the same. Success in rap does not automatically remove you from the environment that shaped you. In some cases, it puts a bigger target on your back. Jewelry becomes more than fashion. It becomes a symbol. And in certain places, symbols attract attention.</p>
<p data-start="4770" data-end="5123">The Houston incident started over chains. That detail matters. It tells you everything about the mindset involved. Chains are not just accessories in Hip Hop culture. They represent status, success, identity. Trying to take someone’s chain is not just robbery. It is disrespect. It is a challenge. And once that line is crossed, things escalate quickly.</p>
<p data-start="5125" data-end="5358">Ben 10 found himself in the middle of that escalation. Whether he was the intended target or caught in the crossfire, the result is the same. Bullets do not care about intentions. They do not sort out who started what. They just hit.</p>
<p data-start="5360" data-end="5663">And now the conversation shifts to <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">NBA YoungBoy</span></span>. What does this mean for him. How does he respond. Because if you know anything about YoungBoy’s history, you know he does not take things lightly. His music is built on loyalty, on protecting his people, on responding to threats.</p>
<p data-start="5665" data-end="6038">There is a certain tension that comes with that. Fans start speculating. They wonder if this will lead to retaliation, to more violence, to another chapter in a story that never seems to end. That is the dangerous part of this culture. The line between music and real life becomes blurred, and sometimes the response to real life events ends up fueling the music even more.</p>
<p data-start="6040" data-end="6188">But stepping back for a moment, you have to look at Ben 10 as an artist beyond this incident. Because that is where the real conversation should be.</p>
<p data-start="6190" data-end="6542">His catalog might not be as polished as mainstream stars, but it carries a certain authenticity that cannot be manufactured. You hear it in the way he structures his verses. There is no overthinking. No trying to fit into a formula. He raps like someone who has something to get off his chest and does not know if he will have another chance to say it.</p>
<p data-start="6544" data-end="6804">That urgency gives his music a replay value that is different from traditional hits. You are not coming back to it for a catchy hook. You are coming back to it because it feels real. Because it puts you in a space that most people only hear about in headlines.</p>
<p data-start="6806" data-end="6938">And that is why incidents like this hit harder when they involve artists like him. It feels like the music was warning us all along.</p>
<p data-start="6940" data-end="7285">There is also something to be said about the environment. Houston, Baton Rouge, Atlanta, Memphis. These are not just cities on a map. They are hubs of a certain kind of rap energy. A sound that is rooted in struggle but also in resilience. When artists from these places collide, whether in collaboration or conflict, the stakes are always high.</p>
<p data-start="7287" data-end="7489">The phrase the streets meet music again is not just a catchy line. It is a reality. And every time it happens, we are reminded that Hip Hop is still deeply connected to the environments that birthed it.</p>
<p data-start="7491" data-end="7700">You cannot separate the art from the context. You cannot listen to a track like “Play Wit Me” and ignore the mindset behind it. And you cannot read about a shooting like this and pretend it exists in a vacuum.</p>
<p data-start="7702" data-end="7967">The footage from the restaurant tells its own story. People scrambling. Tables overturned. Panic in every direction. That is not something you expect when you go out to eat. But it is something that can happen when tension follows you into every room you walk into.</p>
<p data-start="7969" data-end="8107">And that is the burden many of these artists carry. Fame does not turn off the pressures of the streets. In some cases, it amplifies them.</p>
<p data-start="8109" data-end="8137">So where does that leave us.</p>
<p data-start="8139" data-end="8421">It leaves us with an artist who is still here, still breathing, still with a chance to tell his story. It leaves us with questions about how things got to this point and whether they can change. And it leaves us with the music, which now carries even more weight than it did before.</p>
<p data-start="8423" data-end="8645">Listening to NBA Ben 10 after this incident is not the same experience it was before. Every line feels closer. Every warning feels louder. Every mention of violence feels less like exaggeration and more like foreshadowing.</p>
<p data-start="8647" data-end="8784">That is the double edge of authenticity in Hip Hop. It makes the music powerful, but it also ties it to realities that are often painful.</p>
<p data-start="8786" data-end="9026">As for what happens next, that is something no one can predict. Investigations will continue. Details will emerge. Stories will shift. But the core of it will remain the same. Another moment where the line between music and life disappears.</p>
<p data-start="9028" data-end="9184">And for those who have been listening closely, it will not feel like a surprise. It will feel like something we have heard before, just in a different form.</p>
<p data-start="9186" data-end="9425">The hope is that Ben 10 recovers. That he takes this moment and turns it into something that moves him forward rather than pulling him deeper into the cycle. Because the music is there. The voice is there. The story is still being written.</p>
<p data-start="9427" data-end="9612">But Hip Hop has seen too many stories end too soon. And every time something like this happens, you can feel the culture holding its breath, waiting to see which direction it goes next.</p>
<p data-start="9614" data-end="9753" data-is-last-node="" data-is-only-node="">For now, all we have is the music and the reality behind it. And sometimes, that is more than enough to understand what is really going on.</p>
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<p class="adgrid-ad-target">Staff Writer; <strong>Jamar Jackson</strong></p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">This brother has a passion for <strong><em>poetry</em></strong> and <em><strong>music</strong></em>. One may contact him at; <strong><a href="mailto:JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com">JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com</a></strong>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 02:42:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Offset and Lil Tjay have been linked to a reported Miami shooting incident as Offset recovers from non life threatening injuries. Here is what we know so far as details continue to emerge.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) There is a certain kind of exhaustion that comes with seeing the same headline over and over again. Another rapper. Another shooting. Another night that was supposed to be about money, music, and success turning into something else entirely. When reports started circulating about <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Offset</span></span> being shot in Miami, with <strong><span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Lil Tjay</span></span></strong>’s name quickly pulled into the conversation, it did not feel shocking. It felt familiar. Too familiar.</p>
<p data-start="627" data-end="1006">Not long ago, these were the stories hip hop used to escape. Now they are the stories following it. <strong>Offset</strong>, one of the key voices behind <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Migos</span></span>, is reportedly recovering from a gunshot wound to the leg. Non life threatening, thankfully. But let’s be honest, the fact that we even have to say that says everything about where things are right now.</p>
<p data-start="1008" data-end="1337">This is what makes moments like this hit different. It is not just about one incident. It is about a pattern that refuses to break. A cycle where success does not always mean safety, where making it out does not always mean staying out, and where the same energy that fuels the music keeps spilling into real life consequences.</p>
<p data-start="1339" data-end="1750">You got a man who made it out. A man who turned ad libs into art, helped redefine flow in modern rap, and built wealth, family, and legacy. And yet somehow, some way, the environment still finds him. Or maybe he never fully left it. That is the part nobody really wants to sit with. Success in hip hop does not always mean escape. Sometimes it just means you are shining brighter in the same dangerous spaces.</p>
<p data-start="1752" data-end="2199">Then you got<strong> Lil Tjay</strong>, a younger voice in the game, representing a different era but facing eerily similar realities. Even if his involvement in this specific situation remains unclear, the fact that his name can even be placed next to a story like this tells you everything you need to know about the current climate. This is a generation that came up watching the last one lose too many of its stars. And somehow, the lessons are not sticking.</p>
<p data-start="2201" data-end="2244">What is going on with rappers these days?</p>
<p data-start="2201" data-end="2244"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-139154" src="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know.png" alt="Offset and Lil Tjay Connected to Miami Shooting Here Is What We Know." width="816" height="612" srcset="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know.png 1600w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know-300x225.png 300w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know-1024x768.png 1024w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know-768x576.png 768w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know-1536x1152.png 1536w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know-280x210.png 280w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know-560x420.png 560w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know-450x338.png 450w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Offset-and-Lil-Tjay-Connected-to-Miami-Shooting-Here-Is-What-We-Know-780x585.png 780w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 816px) 100vw, 816px" /></p>
<p data-start="2246" data-end="2627">That question gets asked a lot, but most people do not really want the real answer. Because the real answer is uncomfortable. It is not just about music. It is about environment. It is about ego. It is about trauma that never got addressed. It is about money coming faster than wisdom. It is about people carrying street rules into spaces that were supposed to be business moves.</p>
<p data-start="2629" data-end="2893">Hip hop has always had a relationship with danger. From the early days to the rise of gangsta rap, the music has reflected real life. But there used to be a line. There used to be a separation between the art and the actions. Now it feels like that line is gone.</p>
<p data-start="2895" data-end="2998">Too many artists are living exactly what they rap about, not in a poetic sense, but in a literal one.</p>
<p data-start="3000" data-end="3039">You cannot build longevity like that.</p>
<p data-start="3041" data-end="3347"><strong>Offset</strong>’s situation, whether all details are confirmed or not, is another reminder that fame does not equal safety. In fact, sometimes it brings more attention, more jealousy, more problems. You become a target not just because of who you are, but because of what you represent. Money. Status. Visibility.</p>
<p data-start="3349" data-end="3498">And in a place like a casino in Florida, where money is already flowing and tensions can rise quickly, it does not take much for things to go left.</p>
<p data-start="3500" data-end="3560">But here is where the deeper conversation needs to happen.</p>
<p data-start="3562" data-end="3657">At what point do we start holding the culture accountable for what it continues to normalize?</p>
<p data-start="3659" data-end="3977">Because it is easy to blame individuals. Easy to say this rapper should move different, that rapper should know better. But when the entire ecosystem rewards aggression, when disrespect gets more clicks than growth, when beef sells better than peace, you are dealing with something bigger than one person’s decision.</p>
<p data-start="3979" data-end="4025">Hip hop today is caught in a dangerous loop.</p>
<p data-start="4027" data-end="4336">Artists come up from environments where survival means being tough, being ready, being respected at all costs. They make it. They get money. They get fame. But the mentality does not always change. And the industry does not exactly encourage that change. If anything, it profits off keeping that edge alive.</p>
<p data-start="4338" data-end="4415">So now you have millionaires moving like they still got something to prove.</p>
<p data-start="4417" data-end="4448">That is a deadly combination.</p>
<p data-start="4450" data-end="4726">And the fans, we have to be honest, play a role too. Not all, but enough. The same audience that mourns when something tragic happens is often the same audience that fuels the energy leading up to it. Hyping beef. Picking sides. Turning real life tension into entertainment.</p>
<p data-start="4728" data-end="4750">Until it turns real.</p>
<p data-start="4752" data-end="4816">Then everybody wants to post prayers and say it needs to stop.</p>
<p data-start="4818" data-end="4866">It needed to stop before the shots were fired.</p>
<p data-start="4868" data-end="5131">There was a time when hip hop felt like it was growing into something more balanced. You had artists talking about ownership, mental health, generational wealth. You had glimpses of evolution. But stories like this remind you that the foundation is still shaky.</p>
<p data-start="5133" data-end="5193">Because you cannot build something lasting on instability.</p>
<p data-start="5195" data-end="5237">And let us be real about something else.</p>
<p data-start="5239" data-end="5557">The question of whether rap music is coming to an end gets thrown around every time something like this happens. And the answer is no. Hip hop is too powerful, too global, too influential to just disappear. But what can happen is a decline in quality, a loss of direction, a culture that eats itself from the inside.</p>
<p data-start="5559" data-end="5653">That is how genres fade. Not overnight. But slowly, through repetition of the same mistakes.</p>
<p data-start="5655" data-end="5863">When violence becomes a recurring headline instead of a rare tragedy, it changes how the world sees the music. It changes how the next generation approaches it. It shifts the focus from creativity to chaos.</p>
<p data-start="5865" data-end="5895">And that is not sustainable.</p>
<p data-start="5897" data-end="6123"><strong>Offset</strong> being alive today is a blessing. That cannot be overstated. A leg injury could have easily been something worse. We have seen it too many times. Names we still speak with pain. Careers cut short. Families left behind.</p>
<p data-start="6125" data-end="6168">So yes, we are thankful he is recovering.</p>
<p data-start="6170" data-end="6212">But we also have to ask what comes next.</p>
<p data-start="6214" data-end="6237">Does anything change?</p>
<p data-start="6239" data-end="6399">Or does this become just another story that fades after a few days, replaced by the next headline, the next incident, the next cycle of the same conversation?</p>
<p data-start="6401" data-end="6464">Because if nothing changes, then the outcome eventually will.</p>
<p data-start="6466" data-end="6490">And not in a good way.</p>
<p data-start="6492" data-end="6777">The reality is hip hop does not need to end. It needs to evolve again. It needs artists who understand that growth is not weakness. That moving smarter is not selling out. That leaving certain environments behind is not forgetting where you came from, it is honoring it by surviving.</p>
<p data-start="6779" data-end="6828">There is nothing strong about dying over pride.</p>
<p data-start="6830" data-end="6922">There is nothing real about losing your life or your freedom when you already made it out.</p>
<p data-start="6924" data-end="7059">And there is definitely nothing beneficial about fans constantly consuming that energy like it is just another form of entertainment.</p>
<p data-start="7061" data-end="7221">This is a moment. Another one. And like all the ones before it, it can either be a turning point or just another entry in a long list of missed opportunities.</p>
<p data-start="7223" data-end="7268"><strong>Offset</strong> is recovering. That is the headline.</p>
<p data-start="7270" data-end="7353">But the real story is bigger than one man, one incident, or one night in Florida.</p>
<p data-start="7355" data-end="7473">It is about a culture standing at a crossroads, again, asking itself the same question it has been asking for years.</p>
<p data-start="7475" data-end="7508">When are we going to do better.</p>
<p data-start="7510" data-end="7559">Because at some point, surviving is not enough.</p>
<p data-start="7561" data-end="7602">At some point, we have to start living.</p>
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<h3 data-start="7561" data-end="7602">I ask you this, is Lil Tjay a b@tch for attacking Offset? Speak up!!</h3>
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<p class="adgrid-ad-target">Staff Writer; <strong>Jamar Jackson</strong></p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">This brother has a passion for <strong><em>poetry</em></strong> and <em><strong>music</strong></em>. One may contact him at; <strong><a href="mailto:JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com">JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com</a></strong>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 00:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[An in depth look at the reported Gucci Mane and Pooh Shiesty dispute, how it impacts the recording contract, and what it says about Hip Hop, business, and young Black artists navigating success.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) This is the part of Hip Hop that never feels new, no matter how many times we see it play out.</p>
<p data-start="214" data-end="479">It starts with momentum. A young man gets hot, not just for a season, but in a way that feels like it could last. The streets recognize him. The industry backs him. The numbers line up. The fans lock in. For a moment, everything is moving the way it is supposed to.</p>
<p data-start="481" data-end="503">Then something shifts.</p>
<p data-start="505" data-end="815">Not always overnight, but fast enough that you feel it. The music is still there, the name is still buzzing, but the focus starts drifting. The business gets complicated. The pressure builds. And somewhere between the expectations of the streets and the demands of the industry, the foundation begins to crack.</p>
<p data-start="817" data-end="842">That is where we are now.</p>
<p data-start="817" data-end="842"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-139150" src="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/2026Gucci-Mane-and-Pooh-Shiesty-Dispute-What-Happens-to-the-Recording-Contract-Now.jpg" alt="Gucci Mane and Pooh Shiesty Dispute What Happens to the Recording Contract Now." width="750" height="422" srcset="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/2026Gucci-Mane-and-Pooh-Shiesty-Dispute-What-Happens-to-the-Recording-Contract-Now.jpg 750w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/2026Gucci-Mane-and-Pooh-Shiesty-Dispute-What-Happens-to-the-Recording-Contract-Now-300x169.jpg 300w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/2026Gucci-Mane-and-Pooh-Shiesty-Dispute-What-Happens-to-the-Recording-Contract-Now-450x253.jpg 450w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px" /></p>
<p data-start="844" data-end="1121">The situation involving <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Pooh Shiesty</span></span> and <span class="hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline"><span class="whitespace-normal">Gucci Mane</span></span> is not just another headline to scroll past. It is not just gossip. It is not just another “rapper in trouble” story for folks to debate for a day and forget by the weekend.</p>
<p data-start="1123" data-end="1192">This one cuts deeper because it touches business, power, and control.</p>
<p data-start="1194" data-end="1540">A reported dispute tied to a recording contract has now turned into something much darker, something that forces you to look at the entire system around these artists. Because when things escalate to this level, you are no longer just talking about music. You are talking about decisions that can change lives, careers, and legacies in real time.</p>
<p data-start="1542" data-end="1603">And the question that keeps coming back is simple, but heavy.</p>
<p data-start="1605" data-end="1688">How does a man get this close to having everything and still end up risking it all.</p>
<p data-start="1690" data-end="1702">This is sad.</p>
<p data-start="1704" data-end="2048">There is a certain kind of hurt that comes when talent and self destruction collide in public. Not the usual disappointment you feel when an artist drops a weak project or misses a moment. This is deeper than that. This is the kind that sits heavy because you can clearly see the opportunity, but you can also see how fast it can all slip away.</p>
<p data-start="2050" data-end="2264">The situation surrounding Pooh Shiesty is bigger than headlines. If the allegations are even halfway true, then this was not just about ego or street tension. This was about business. Contracts. Ownership. Control.</p>
<p data-start="2266" data-end="2344">And once business gets mixed with street pressure, things tend to spiral fast.</p>
<p data-start="2346" data-end="2641">By any real measure, Pooh Shiesty had positioned himself to win long term. Even after prison, his name still carried weight. His music still moved. His fan base was still there, waiting. That kind of second chance does not come often in Hip Hop. Most artists lose momentum and never get it back.</p>
<p data-start="2643" data-end="2658">He got it back.</p>
<p data-start="2660" data-end="2695">That is what makes this hit harder.</p>
<p data-start="2697" data-end="2908">Because when a man still has value, still has demand, still has the machine ready to profit off him, you start asking a real question. Why does success fail to protect the very people it was supposed to elevate.</p>
<p data-start="2910" data-end="3010">People will say it is just bad decisions. And yes, decisions matter. But that is not the full story.</p>
<p data-start="3012" data-end="3315">Hip Hop has always rewarded proximity to danger. That is the uncomfortable truth nobody wants to fully sit with. The culture tells young artists to make it out, but never fully detach from where they came from. Stay real. Stay connected. Stay official. But also be a businessman, a brand, a corporation.</p>
<p data-start="3317" data-end="3350">That contradiction breaks people.</p>
<p data-start="3352" data-end="3632">You are expected to think like a CEO but still move like you have something to prove. You are supposed to be polished enough for endorsements but raw enough for credibility. And when you are young, coming from pressure, coming from survival mode, that balance is not easy to hold.</p>
<p data-start="3634" data-end="3664">It is almost designed to fail.</p>
<p data-start="3666" data-end="3756">Now when you look at the contract side of this situation, things get real cold, real fast.</p>
<p data-start="3758" data-end="4039">If a contract or release was allegedly signed under pressure or fear, that document does not hold the same weight as a normal agreement. Business law does not respect deals made under intimidation. That is not negotiation. That is force. And force does not create a clean contract.</p>
<p data-start="4041" data-end="4148">So even if something was signed in that moment, it likely would not stand as a legitimate exit from a deal.</p>
<p data-start="4150" data-end="4229">That means the original recording contract could still technically be in place.</p>
<p data-start="4231" data-end="4264">But here is the part people miss.</p>
<p data-start="4266" data-end="4349">A contract being alive on paper does not mean the relationship is alive in reality.</p>
<p data-start="4351" data-end="4550">Trust is everything in the music business. Once that is broken, especially in a situation like this, the paperwork becomes secondary. Labels are not just looking at clauses. They are looking at risk.</p>
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<p data-start="4552" data-end="4665">Can we release music<br data-start="4572" data-end="4575" />Can we promote safely<br data-start="4596" data-end="4599" />Can we put money behind this artist<br data-start="4634" data-end="4637" />Can we depend on stability</p>
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<p data-start="4667" data-end="4703">Those are the questions that matter.</p>
<p data-start="4705" data-end="4951">And if the answer to those questions starts leaning toward no, then the label will move accordingly. They might suspend the deal. They might try to terminate it. They might just sit back and let the legal system play out while the momentum fades.</p>
<p data-start="4953" data-end="4993">Because momentum is everything in music.</p>
<p data-start="4995" data-end="5042">And once it slows down, it is hard to get back.</p>
<p data-start="5044" data-end="5127">That is where the real loss comes in. Not just money. Not just contracts. Momentum.</p>
<p data-start="5129" data-end="5254">Albums get delayed. Features disappear. Opportunities dry up. The public moves on. And in today’s game, people move on quick.</p>
<p data-start="5256" data-end="5293">That is the part that hurts the most.</p>
<p data-start="5295" data-end="5322">Because this was avoidable.</p>
<p data-start="5324" data-end="5624">Back in the day, there was more structure around artists. Not perfect, but better. You had people in position who understood that protecting the artist was part of protecting the investment. There were mentors. There was guidance. There were people who would step in before things got out of control.</p>
<p data-start="5626" data-end="5722">Now it feels like the machine is fine watching things fall apart as long as it can profit first.</p>
<p data-start="5724" data-end="5746">And that is dangerous.</p>
<p data-start="5748" data-end="5935">Because young Black men are stepping into million dollar situations without million dollar guidance. They are expected to navigate contracts, fame, pressure, and expectations all at once.</p>
<p data-start="5937" data-end="5958">That is a heavy load.</p>
<p data-start="5960" data-end="6152">And when there is no real support system, when there is no one pulling them aside and saying slow down, think, move different, then situations like this become more common than they should be.</p>
<p data-start="6154" data-end="6188">This is not just about one artist.</p>
<p data-start="6190" data-end="6214">This is about a pattern.</p>
<p data-start="6216" data-end="6348">Too many talented young men get the opportunity, but do not have the structure to sustain it. They make it out, but cannot stay out.</p>
<p data-start="6350" data-end="6383">And that is the real lesson here.</p>
<p data-start="6385" data-end="6538">The goal is not just to get on. The goal is to last. The goal is to build something that cannot be taken away by one moment, one decision, one situation.</p>
<p data-start="6540" data-end="6624">Because once everything starts crashing, the contract is the least of your problems.</p>
<p data-start="6626" data-end="6672">Contracts can be fixed. Reworked. Fought over.</p>
<p data-start="6674" data-end="6749">But lost time, lost freedom, lost momentum, that is harder to recover from.</p>
<p data-start="6751" data-end="6821">And that is why this whole situation feels bigger than just a dispute.</p>
<p data-start="6823" data-end="6895">It feels like another reminder that in Hip Hop, the opportunity is real.</p>
<p data-start="6897" data-end="6913">But keeping it</p>
<p data-start="6915" data-end="6942">That is the real challenge.</p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">Staff Writer; <strong>Jamar Jackson</strong></p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">This brother has a passion for <strong><em>poetry</em></strong> and <em><strong>music</strong></em>. One may contact him at; <strong><a href="mailto:JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com">JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com</a></strong>.</p>
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		<title>Why Independent Restaurants Create the Best Food Scenes.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 06:02:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Independent restaurants play a major role in shaping food culture, supporting local communities, and creating unique dining experiences that chain restaurants cannot replicate.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) In nearly every city known for great food, the most memorable meals rarely come from large restaurant chains or corporate dining groups. They come from independent restaurants. These are the places where menus are shaped by personal experience, cultural influence, and creative freedom rather than strict brand guidelines.</p>
<p>Independent restaurants are often the foundation of a city’s food identity. They introduce new flavors, preserve traditional cooking methods, and create the kind of dishes that people go out of their way to try. When someone says a city has a strong food scene, they are almost always referring to the influence of its locally owned restaurants.</p>
<p>From Detroit and New Orleans to Houston and Atlanta, independent kitchens continue to define what makes American food culture so diverse and interesting.</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-139115" src="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Why-Independent-Restaurants-Create-the-Best-Food-Scenes.jpg" alt="Why Independent Restaurants Create the Best Food Scenes." width="624" height="416" srcset="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Why-Independent-Restaurants-Create-the-Best-Food-Scenes.jpg 624w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Why-Independent-Restaurants-Create-the-Best-Food-Scenes-300x200.jpg 300w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Why-Independent-Restaurants-Create-the-Best-Food-Scenes-450x300.jpg 450w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 624px) 100vw, 624px" /></p>
<h3><strong>Independent Restaurants Prioritize Flavor Over Consistency</strong></h3>
<p>Large restaurant chains are built on consistency. Every location needs to produce the same menu items in the same way, regardless of location. While this creates reliability, it also limits creativity.</p>
<p>Independent restaurants operate with a completely different mindset. Chefs and owners are not tied to standardized processes in the same way. They have the flexibility to experiment with ingredients, adjust recipes, and introduce new ideas whenever they want.</p>
<p>This freedom often leads to better food. Dishes are refined over time based on customer feedback, seasonal availability, and the chef’s own evolving style. A meal at an independent restaurant feels more intentional because it reflects real decisions made in the kitchen rather than a fixed corporate recipe.</p>
<p>Menus also tend to evolve naturally. A dish might start as a special, gain popularity, and eventually become a signature item. This kind of organic development is one of the reasons independent restaurants feel more dynamic.</p>
<h3><strong>Personal Backgrounds Shape the Menu</strong></h3>
<p>One of the biggest differences between independent restaurants and chain establishments is the influence of personal history. Many restaurant owners build their menus around recipes and techniques they grew up with.</p>
<p>These dishes often reflect regional traditions, family cooking styles, and cultural influences that are difficult to replicate in large-scale operations. In many cases, the food tells a story that goes beyond the ingredients on the plate.</p>
<p>This connection to personal experience makes independent restaurants more memorable. Customers are not just eating a meal; they are experiencing a specific perspective on food that comes directly from the chef or owner.</p>
<p>Over time, these restaurants become known for signature dishes that cannot easily be found anywhere else. That uniqueness is what drives people to recommend them, revisit them, and share them with others.</p>
<h3><strong>Local Ingredients Lead to Better Food</strong></h3>
<p>Independent restaurants are also more likely to work with local suppliers. Instead of relying entirely on national distribution systems, many small restaurant owners build relationships with nearby farms, fisheries, and specialty producers.</p>
<p>This approach improves both quality and freshness. Ingredients can be sourced at their peak rather than being shipped long distances and stored for extended periods.</p>
<p>It also allows chefs to design menus around what is available in their region. Seasonal vegetables, fresh seafood, and locally produced goods often play a bigger role in independent kitchens.</p>
<p>As a result, menus feel more connected to the local environment. Diners are not just eating food; they are experiencing flavors that reflect the area they are in.</p>
<h3><strong>Menus Are More Flexible and Creative</strong></h3>
<p>Another advantage of independent restaurants is their ability to adapt quickly. Owners can test new dishes, adjust portion sizes, and introduce entirely new menu sections without needing approval from a corporate structure.</p>
<p>This flexibility encourages experimentation. Chefs can combine different culinary influences, try new cooking techniques, and respond to trends as they emerge.</p>
<p>It is common to see independent restaurants blending cuisines in ways that would not typically appear in traditional dining settings. These combinations often lead to entirely new dishes that gain popularity within the local food scene.</p>
<p>Because of this, independent restaurants are usually at the forefront of food trends. What starts in a small kitchen can eventually influence menus across an entire city.</p>
<h3><strong>Neighborhood Restaurants Create Stronger Communities</strong></h3>
<p>Independent restaurants often become central parts of their neighborhoods. They are not just places to eat; they are gathering spaces where people connect with each other.</p>
<p>Regular customers build relationships with staff, chefs, and owners. Over time, these interactions create a sense of familiarity that is difficult to replicate in larger chain environments.</p>
<p>Many independent restaurants also collaborate with other local businesses, host events, and participate in community initiatives. This involvement strengthens their connection to the area and helps build a more cohesive local economy.</p>
<p>Because of this, independent restaurants often reflect the personality of their neighborhoods. Each one contributes to the overall identity of the city’s food culture.</p>
<h3><strong>Great Food Cities Depend on Independent Restaurants</strong></h3>
<p>Cities known for their food scenes almost always have a strong base of independent restaurants. Detroit, New Orleans, Houston, Atlanta, and Philadelphia are all examples of cities where local chefs and small business owners drive culinary innovation.</p>
<p>These cities offer a wide range of dining experiences because independent restaurants are constantly introducing new ideas. Some focus on traditional comfort food while others explore modern techniques or global influences.</p>
<p>The diversity of these restaurants creates a more interesting and dynamic food scene. Diners can explore different styles of cooking, discover new flavors, and support local businesses at the same time.</p>
<p>Many of these restaurants are built around cultural traditions and personal cooking styles, which adds even more depth to the overall dining experience.</p>
<p>For readers who want to explore more of these locally driven food scenes, Huffity has put together a curated guide to <strong><em><a href="https://huffity.com/black-owned-restaurants/">black owned restaurants across major U.S. cities</a></em></strong>, highlighting independent spots that contribute to the character and diversity of their local food communities.</p>
<h3><strong>Independent Restaurants Take More Creative Risks</strong></h3>
<p>One of the reasons independent restaurants stand out is their willingness to take risks. Without corporate oversight, chefs can experiment with bold flavors, unique presentations, and unconventional menu ideas.</p>
<p>Some of these ideas may not work, but many of them lead to standout dishes that define the restaurant. This trial-and-error process is part of what makes independent dining so exciting.</p>
<p>It also encourages innovation across the broader food scene. When one restaurant introduces something new and successful, others may adapt or build on that idea.</p>
<p>Over time, this cycle of experimentation pushes the entire food culture of a city forward.</p>
<h3><strong>Authenticity Is What Makes Food Memorable</strong></h3>
<p>At the core of every great food scene is authenticity. People remember meals that feel genuine, whether that comes from traditional recipes, creative expression, or a strong connection to local ingredients.</p>
<p>Independent restaurants are uniquely positioned to deliver this kind of experience. Their menus reflect real decisions, real stories, and real creativity rather than standardized processes.</p>
<p>This authenticity is what keeps customers coming back. It is also what drives word of mouth recommendations, online reviews, and social media attention.</p>
<p>When people search for the best places to eat in a city, they are usually looking for restaurants that offer something different. Independent restaurants consistently deliver on that expectation.</p>
<h3><strong>Why Independent Restaurants Will Continue to Lead Food Culture</strong></h3>
<p>As the food industry continues to evolve, independent restaurants will remain a key part of what makes dining experiences interesting. Their ability to adapt, experiment, and connect with local communities gives them a lasting advantage over larger chains.</p>
<p>While corporate restaurants will always have a place in the market, they are unlikely to replace the creativity and individuality that independent kitchens provide.</p>
<p>For anyone looking to explore a city’s food scene, the best starting point is almost always locally owned restaurants. These are the places where new ideas are tested, traditions are preserved, and memorable meals are created.</p>
<p>In the end, independent restaurants do more than serve food. They shape the culture of the cities they are in, one dish at a time.</p>
<p>Staff Writer; <strong>Fred Parker</strong></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) It is hard to imagine that anyone who has access to a screen — of any size, at any place, at any time — has not seen comedian Druski’s ubiquitous parody of “Conservative Women in America” (his phrase). Even though Druski, <em>née</em> Drew Desbordes, never says anyone’s name in the video, Erika Kirk, widow of Turning Point founder Charlie Kirk, believes that he was specifically targeting her.</p>
<p>In any case, Druski’s use of “whiteface” in the parody has sparked controversy in some conservative circles. Charges of “hypocrisy” have been leveled at the comedian in particular, and at Black folks in general. Those who object to Druski’s skit draw facile comparisons between his performance and its ostensible parallel to the racist history of “blackface.”</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-139081" src="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Druskis-Whiteface-Parody-Sparks-Backlash-But-the-Blackface-Comparison-Falls-Apart.png" alt="Druski’s Whiteface Parody Sparks Backlash But the Blackface Comparison Falls Apart." width="661" height="378" srcset="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Druskis-Whiteface-Parody-Sparks-Backlash-But-the-Blackface-Comparison-Falls-Apart.png 1329w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Druskis-Whiteface-Parody-Sparks-Backlash-But-the-Blackface-Comparison-Falls-Apart-300x171.png 300w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Druskis-Whiteface-Parody-Sparks-Backlash-But-the-Blackface-Comparison-Falls-Apart-1024x585.png 1024w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Druskis-Whiteface-Parody-Sparks-Backlash-But-the-Blackface-Comparison-Falls-Apart-768x439.png 768w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Druskis-Whiteface-Parody-Sparks-Backlash-But-the-Blackface-Comparison-Falls-Apart-450x257.png 450w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Druskis-Whiteface-Parody-Sparks-Backlash-But-the-Blackface-Comparison-Falls-Apart-780x445.png 780w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 661px) 100vw, 661px" /></p>
<p>Such criticism does not hold water. In fact, its logic is as leaky as a sieve. Small children often play games that teach them the principle of “this is not the same as that.” That principle abundantly applies in this instance.</p>
<p>Blackface traces its roots back roughly two hundred years in America. It also became a popular export to England. White performers created this “art” form as a way of derisively portraying Black people. By using exaggerated facial features, mocking Black speech, and wearing tattered clothing, whites performed as “Black” people in an extremely dehumanizing manner.</p>
<p>Such performances were not executed in a sociological vacuum; blackface was specifically designed to perpetuate white dominance over Blacks by portraying us as immoral, stupid, lazy and cowardly. Our humanity became discounted, if not negotiable. Blackface was, quite explicitly, used to justify slavery, Jim Crow laws, and all manner of domestic terrorism against Blacks. When you dehumanize people, you have the license to treat them inhumanely.</p>
<p>The manufactured controversy regarding Druski calls to mind another false comparison. A few decades ago, the phrase “Black people self-segregate” became popular. Perhaps the most famous examples were “Black lunch tables” at colleges, as well as Black Student Unions and other cultural safe spaces. Beverly Tatum, President Emerita of Spelman College, authored a popular book titled “Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?”</p>
<p>So-called “self-segregation” was a direct result of actual race-based segregation that was enabled by culture, encoded in commerce and enforced by law — not to mention extralegal means. It had absolutely no resemblance — in motivation or practice — to <em>de jure</em> segregation. Comparing the two is as nonsensical as it is intellectually dishonest.</p>
<p>The same “logic” is true of blackface vs. whiteface. As is the case with blackface, whiteface has its origins in minstrelsy, albeit with fewer racist implications. Interestingly, whiteface literally comes from… clowns. Initially, whitefaced clowns were considered to be smart and refined — almost to the point of negating “clownishness.”</p>
<p>This contrasts with “auguste” clowns, whose faces were typically pink or brown. These were “foolish” clowns who were considered to be more boorish and less intelligent than their whitefaced counterparts. In fact, whitefaced clowns sometimes became offended that auguste clowns were referred to as “clowns” at all. Today, such distinctions are rarely made unless they are being taught as a history lesson.</p>
<p>In any case, whiteface is about characters; blackface is about caricatures. Blackface whitewashes racial violence. Blackface is ultimately about enforcing racial discrimination; behind the laughter is a dedication to erasing the humanity of Black people.</p>
<p>By contrast, whiteface has always — and only — been intended to make people laugh. There is no pernicious intent to demean white people. Whiteface has never been serious; it is satire. No one who has seen the Wayans brothers’ movie “White Chicks” views it as anything other than a farce that was designed to entertain in a decidedly non-offensive way.</p>
<p>Not long ago, Druski came under fire for his parody of ostentatious Black “prosperity preachers” of mega churches. As in the case of “Conservative White Women,” I found that skit to be laugh-out-loud funny. However, as a devout Christian, it also saddened me. That was not because it is false; it’s because it is true. Of course, as with the Conservative White Women video, some people were offended.</p>
<p>As the aphorism goes, “A hit dog will holler.”</p>
<p>Written by <strong>Larry Smith</strong></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[Rapper Afroman won a lawsuit filed by Ohio deputies after he used security footage from a police raid in parody music videos. The case raised major First Amendment and free speech issues.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) In August 2022, seven officers from the Adams County Sherriff’s Office in Ohio executed a search warrant on the home of the Grammy-nominated rapper known as Afroman. Afroman was not home at the time, though his wife and young children were. The home’s security cameras recorded the officers’ actions.</p>
<p>The warrant was granted in order to find evidence of marijuana, drug paraphernalia, drug trafficking, and even kidnapping. The officers found no such evidence and no charges were ever filed against Afroman.</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-139017" src="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/afroman-trial.jpg" alt="Rapper Afroman Police Raid Lawsuit Becomes Free Speech Victory." width="686" height="386" srcset="https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/afroman-trial.jpg 686w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/afroman-trial-300x169.jpg 300w, https://thyblackman.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/afroman-trial-450x253.jpg 450w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 686px) 100vw, 686px" /></p>
<p>In 99% of such cases, that would have been the end of the story. But this particular case involves an artist who possesses a sharp and sardonic wit. Thus, while the search was routine, its aftermath was anything but.</p>
<p>Afroman, who was born Joseph Edgar Foreman, is best known for his song “Because I Got High”. (2026 marks the song’s 25<sup>th</sup> anniversary.) As one might expect from a rapper who is known to be eccentric, Afroman turned the raid into an ever-increasing series of hilarious music videos.</p>
<p>Specifically, the videos poke fun at the officers who were involved in the incident. To date, they have been viewed as many as 20 million times on social media. One video, “Will You Help Me Repair My Door?”, features deputies violently taking down Afroman’s door. The officers then search his shoes and even his suit pockets.</p>
<p>The latter action inspired the artist to wonder, in a rhyme that could have come from Dr. Seuss:</p>
<p><em>“Are there any kidnapping victims inside my suit pocket? You crooked cops need to stop it. There are no kidnapping victims in my suit pocket.”</em></p>
<p>Perhaps the most famous scene in any of the videos features an officer longingly eyeing a cake on a kitchen table. In the appropriately-titled “Lemon Pound Cake” (which Afroman sings to the tune of The Drifters’ “Under the Boardwalk”), he intones:</p>
<p><em>“The Adams County Sheriff kicked down my door/Then I heard the glass break/They found no kidnapping victims/Just some lemon pound cake…Mama’s lemon pound cake/It tastes so nice/It made the sheriff wanna put down his gun/And cut him a slice (of what? Of what?).”</em></p>
<p>Amidst the playfulness, however, Afroman makes some serious allegations. One is that the officers disconnected his security cameras – and gave him the middle finger while doing so. Afroman also alleges that the officers stole $400 from his home during the raid. (The Sherriff’s Department said that there was a “miscount” but never returned the money.)</p>
<p>In response to the videos, the seven officers who executed the warrant – four deputies, two sergeants, and a detective – sued Afroman for defamation in 2023. They argued that the videos humiliated them and their families, caused them reputational harm and inflicted emotional distress. They sought $3.9 million in restitution.</p>
<p>The case calls to mind the free speech trials of other public figures (<em>e.g.,</em> Larry Flynt, Luther “Luke” Campbell, Howard Stern), in that it raises questions of free speech – in this instance versus officers’ right to privacy while performing official actions.</p>
<p>During the three-day trial, Afroman was famously clad in a suit that was comprised entirely of images of the U.S. flag, bringing new notoriety to “Old Glory”. (Notably, he also wore sunglasses with the same pattern.) In his testimony, Afroman said he had the right to tell his friends and fans what police had done. He also testified that the raid traumatized his children, who were 10 and 12 at the time.</p>
<p>The jury ruled in favor of Foreman.</p>
<p>They agreed that Afroman’s use of his security footage in the videos is protected parody and social commentary. Thus, he may continue making videos – and making fun of the officers.</p>
<p>Following the verdict, Afroman said, “Police officers shouldn’t be stealing civilians’ money. This whole thing is an outrage.” It is strange indeed that the officers seem to be more concerned about being ridiculed than they are about being accused of theft.</p>
<p>Afroman fought authority. Authority didn’t win. There is poetic symmetry between the officers breaking down his door and his trial breaking down barriers to the First Amendment. And if anything is more sacred to America than free speech, it is capitalism. Afroman employed his creativity to poke fun at what he admitted was a traumatic experience – and made money in the process.</p>
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<p>In an interview, Afroman said, <em>“All of this is their fault. If they hadn’t wrongly raided my house, there would be no lawsuit… my money would still be intact. I didn’t win; America won.”</em></p>
<p>If Afroman had lost the case, the financial consequences could have been devastating for him. His net worth is reported to be roughly $200,000 – far less than the officers were seeking in damages.</p>
<p>Afroman lives in Winchester, Ohio about 50 miles from Cincinnati. Perhaps he’ll stop by and talk about the trial with another Ohio resident – Dave Chappelle. One wonders what they could come up with together.</p>
<p>Written by <strong>Larry Smith</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 04:06:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A look at 8 TLC songs one should check out including No Scrubs, Waterfalls, Creep, Diggin On You and more as TLC prepares for the It’s Iconic tour with Salt-N-Pepa and En Vogue.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) When people talk about the greatest female groups in music history, TLC always sits at the table. Not on the side. Not in the hallway. At the table. What they did in the 90s was more than just hits on the radio. They changed how groups looked, how they talked, how they dressed, and how they spoke to young women and young men at the same time. They could be playful, serious, street, smooth, and heartfelt all in the same album.</p>
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<p data-start="669" data-end="988">Now with TLC heading out on the <strong data-start="701" data-end="753">“It’s Iconic” tour with Salt-N-Pepa and En Vogue</strong>, it feels like the 90s is about to ride again. That tour right there is a time machine for a whole generation. Three groups that helped shape R&amp;B and hip hop soul all on one stage. That is history walking and singing at the same time.</p>
<p data-start="990" data-end="1310">TLC was never just about love songs. They talked about self-respect, relationships, mistakes, growing up, and learning the hard way sometimes. Their music still plays well because the messages still apply. People still dealing with the same relationship problems, the same growing pains, and the same search for respect.</p>
<p data-start="1312" data-end="1388">Let’s talk about some TLC records that still ride smooth when you play them.</p>
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<h2 data-start="1312" data-end="1388"><em>1.</em> No Scrubs</h2>
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<p data-start="165" data-end="444">“No Scrubs” is one of those records that didn’t just become popular, it became a phrase people still use. That record dropped and suddenly everybody knew what a scrub was. TLC had a way of making social commentary sound like something you could dance to, and that was their gift.</p>
<p data-start="446" data-end="745">This record really spoke on self-worth. It wasn’t just about men without money. It was about men without ambition, men without direction, men who wanted to ride on someone else’s success. That message still applies in every generation. Nobody wants to carry someone who refuses to walk on their own.</p>
<p data-start="747" data-end="996">What made this record special was the confidence behind it. It wasn’t angry. It wasn’t bitter. It was matter-of-fact. Like someone sitting on the porch telling you the truth while sipping sweet tea. Sometimes the calm truth hits harder than yelling.</p>
<p data-start="998" data-end="1248">Musically, the production was smooth and futuristic for its time. That late 90s R&amp;B sound had space in it. It wasn’t crowded. The beat let the group ride the rhythm instead of fighting it. That’s why the track still sounds clean when you play it now.</p>
<p data-start="1250" data-end="1453">You can still ride down the highway with this playing and it fits the moment. Windows down, warm air coming through, and that beat rolling in the background. Some records age. This one just kept walking.</p>
<p data-start="1455" data-end="1724">Another reason this record still connects is because the message wasn’t really about men or women. It was about standards. It was about knowing your value and not settling just because someone is around. That’s a lesson people keep learning over and over again in life.</p>
<p data-start="1726" data-end="1998">Back when this came out, you heard it everywhere. Radio, clubs, cars at stoplights, house parties, college dorm rooms. It became part of the culture. And when a record becomes part of everyday conversation, that’s when you know it crossed into something bigger than music.</p>
<p data-start="2000" data-end="2214">Even now, when that beat starts, people don’t just listen, they react. They start smiling, pointing, laughing, singing along. That’s when you know a record has lived a long life and still got some miles left on it.</p>
<h2 data-section-id="k6yet0" data-start="2221" data-end="2251"><em>2.</em> Creep</h2>
<p data-start="2253" data-end="2577">“Creep” was one of TLC’s most controversial records when it came out because it flipped the script. Instead of the usual story about men cheating, this record talked about women stepping out because their man wasn’t treating them right. That conversation made a lot of people uncomfortable, which is exactly why it mattered.</p>
<p data-start="2579" data-end="2825">But if you listen closely, the record isn’t really celebrating cheating. It’s talking about neglect. It’s talking about what happens when someone feels ignored, unwanted, or unappreciated. It was more of a relationship warning than anything else.</p>
<p data-start="2827" data-end="3023">The groove on this record is smooth like a late night drive through the city when the traffic lights are blinking yellow. It’s not fast. It’s a glide. The kind of beat that lets the story breathe.</p>
<p data-start="3025" data-end="3223">This is one of those records you don’t play loud at a party. This is something you play in the car at night, thinking about life, relationships, and mistakes people make when they don’t communicate.</p>
<p data-start="3225" data-end="3488">TLC had a way of making complicated relationship topics sound simple, and that’s why their music still connects with people. Relationships haven’t changed that much. People still want attention, respect, and honesty. When those things disappear, problems show up.</p>
<p data-start="3490" data-end="3701">What made this record stand out was the honesty. Most records try to make one side look perfect and the other side look wrong. This one just showed a situation and let the listener decide how they felt about it.</p>
<p data-start="3703" data-end="3915">There’s also a quiet sadness in this record if you really listen. It doesn’t sound like someone proud of what they’re doing. It sounds like someone who wishes things were different but doesn’t know how to fix it.</p>
<p data-start="3917" data-end="4115">That’s why this record still holds up. It’s not just something catchy. It’s a story about what happens when communication breaks down and people start drifting apart instead of fixing what’s broken.</p>
<h2 data-section-id="1vzwdf" data-start="4122" data-end="4166"><em>3.</em> Ain’t 2 Proud 2 Beg</h2>
<p data-start="4168" data-end="4455">This was early TLC right here. Baggy clothes, bright colors, high energy, and that New Jack Swing era still hanging in the air. When this record came out, TLC looked different from other female groups. They dressed like the girls you saw at the mall, not like they were headed to a ball.</p>
<p data-start="4457" data-end="4710">This record was bold for its time. It was confident and playful at the same time. TLC wasn’t trying to act shy or quiet. They were saying what they wanted and saying it loud. That confidence helped redefine how female groups presented themselves in R&amp;B.</p>
<p data-start="4712" data-end="4960">The beat on this record still hits because it has that early 90s bounce. That era had drums that knocked and bass lines that walked instead of rushed. You can still play this at a cookout and people will start moving without even thinking about it.</p>
<p data-start="4962" data-end="5196">What I always liked about this record was the personality. Each member brought a different flavor. Left Eye had that edge, Chili had that smooth presence, and T-Boz had that cool voice that sounded like she was always telling a story.</p>
<p data-start="5198" data-end="5343">This record still works because confidence never goes out of style. Every generation understands confidence, boldness, and knowing what you want.</p>
<p data-start="5345" data-end="5548">Back in the early 90s, music videos mattered a lot, and TLC videos always had personality. They looked like they were having fun, not just performing. That energy made people connect with them even more.</p>
<p data-start="5550" data-end="5749">This record also reminds people of a time when R&amp;B and hip hop were starting to blend together more. You had rap verses, R&amp;B hooks, and dance beats all in one track. That sound defined the early 90s.</p>
<p data-start="5751" data-end="5978">When you hear this now, it feels like summer. It feels like block parties, roller rinks, school dances, and radio countdown shows on the weekend. Some records don’t just play, they bring back memories, and this is one of those.</p>
<h2 data-section-id="1ibehfo" data-start="5985" data-end="6033"><em>4.</em> What About Your Friends</h2>
<p data-start="6035" data-end="6283">This might be one of TLC’s most important records and it doesn’t get talked about enough. Everybody sings about relationships, but not enough people talk about friendships. And friendships can hurt just as bad as relationships when they fall apart.</p>
<p data-start="6285" data-end="6513">This record is about loyalty. About finding out who really rocks with you and who just around when things are going well. Everybody has had a moment where they realized everybody smiling in their face wasn’t really their friend.</p>
<p data-start="6515" data-end="6680">The record has a warm sound to it. Not sad, not angry, just reflective. Like sitting on the porch thinking about old times and old friends you don’t talk to anymore.</p>
<p data-start="6682" data-end="6832">The message still hits because loyalty is still rare. People still learning the difference between associates and friends. That lesson never gets old.</p>
<p data-start="6834" data-end="7044">This is one of those records you play when you’re thinking about life, not when you’re trying to party. TLC always balanced fun records with records that made you think, and this was one of those thinking ones.</p>
<p data-start="7046" data-end="7281">As you get older, this record actually hits harder than it did when you were younger. When you’re young, everybody feels like your friend. As you get older, your circle gets smaller and you start understanding this record a lot better.</p>
<p data-start="7283" data-end="7498">The record also talks about how people change when relationships get involved. Sometimes people disappear when they start dating someone. Sometimes friendships fade because life moves people in different directions.</p>
<p data-start="7500" data-end="7713">This piece of music is really about loyalty, time, and growth. About who stays around when life gets hard and who disappears when things stop being fun. That’s why it still feels real when you hear it years later.</p>
<p data-start="7715" data-end="7846" data-is-last-node="" data-is-only-node="">TLC had a lot of hits, but this might be one of their most honest records. And honest records usually last longer than hit records.</p>
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<p data-start="187" data-end="430">You really can’t talk about TLC without talking about “Waterfalls.” That record wasn’t just a hit, it was a moment in music history. It was one of those records that made people stop and listen to the words instead of just dancing to the beat.</p>
<p data-start="432" data-end="711">It talked about street life, drugs, HIV, and chasing dreams the wrong way. Those were heavy topics, especially for a group that people first saw as colorful and playful. But TLC always had depth behind the image. They weren’t afraid to talk about real life and real consequences.</p>
<p data-start="713" data-end="997">What made it powerful was that it didn’t sound like a lecture. It sounded like someone telling a story about people they knew. Everybody knew someone who went down the wrong path trying to get money fast or trying to live too wild. That’s why the record connected with so many people.</p>
<p data-start="999" data-end="1235">Musically, the track had a smooth, almost floating feeling to it. The chorus felt like it was drifting across water, which matched the title perfectly. It wasn’t rushed. It moved at its own pace, and that gave the story room to breathe.</p>
<p data-start="1237" data-end="1423">Even now, when you play “Waterfalls,” it still feels important. The problems in that record didn’t disappear. Different decade, same struggles. That’s why it still hits when you hear it.</p>
<p data-start="1425" data-end="1659">What also made this record stand out was how serious it was without losing melody. A lot of artists try to make message records and they end up sounding like speeches. TLC made a message record that still sounded beautiful and smooth.</p>
<p data-start="1661" data-end="1892">The storytelling in this record is what really carried it. It wasn’t just one idea repeated over and over. It was different stories, different people, different mistakes, all connected by one message about choices and consequences.</p>
<p data-start="1894" data-end="2114">When this record comes on now, it still makes people stop what they’re doing for a second. That’s when you know something became more than just radio rotation. It became part of the culture and part of people’s memories.</p>
<p data-start="2116" data-end="2271">This is one of those records that parents played and then their kids grew up hearing it too. Not many groups make music that crosses generations like that.</p>
<h2 data-section-id="1ezuwuv" data-start="2278" data-end="2312"><em>6.</em> Red Light Special</h2>
<p data-start="2314" data-end="2569">“Red Light Special” showed TLC’s grown side. Not the playful side, not the message side, but the mature and intimate side. Every great R&amp;B group eventually makes something for the late night hours, and this was one of TLC’s smoothest records in that lane.</p>
<p data-start="2571" data-end="2792">This wasn’t loud or dramatic. This was a quiet room, low lights, slow conversation type of record. The production was soft and warm, and everything just glided from beginning to end. No rushing, no extra noise, just mood.</p>
<p data-start="2794" data-end="3024">What I always respected about TLC was that even when they made romantic material, it never felt forced. It felt natural. They didn’t try to be something they weren’t. They just stepped into a different lane and drove smooth in it.</p>
<p data-start="3026" data-end="3221">This record still works when you play it now because a good slow jam never goes out of style. A good slow record is like a good conversation. If it’s real and honest, it will always have a place.</p>
<p data-start="3223" data-end="3426">This is one of those records you play late at night when the world is quiet and you’re just letting the music ride. Every group needs records like this, and TLC delivered one of their best with this one.</p>
<p data-start="3428" data-end="3679">Another thing about this record is the patience in it. Nothing feels rushed. The beat moves slow, the vocals sit comfortably, and everything feels relaxed. That’s something you don’t hear as much anymore. A lot of music now feels like it’s in a hurry.</p>
<p data-start="3681" data-end="3888">Back in the 90s, slow jams were important. People played them on late night radio, in the car, at house parties when things started winding down. This record fits right into that tradition of late night R&amp;B.</p>
<p data-start="3890" data-end="3992">It’s smooth, calm, and confident without trying too hard. That’s why it still sounds good years later.</p>
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<p data-start="4029" data-end="4283">This one surprised a lot of people when TLC recorded a Christmas record, but they made it their own. They didn’t make it sound old and traditional. They gave it that TLC bounce and made it feel like Christmas in the city instead of Christmas in the snow.</p>
<p data-start="4285" data-end="4456">This is the kind of holiday record you play while decorating the house, cooking, or riding around looking at lights. It has energy but it still feels warm and comfortable.</p>
<p data-start="4458" data-end="4647">Holiday music is hard to remake because people love the originals so much, but TLC gave this one personality. It didn’t feel forced. It felt natural, like they were just having fun with it.</p>
<p data-start="4649" data-end="4844">The thing about TLC was they could step into different styles and still sound like themselves. Whether it was a love record, a message record, or a holiday record, their identity stayed the same.</p>
<p data-start="4846" data-end="4977">Every December when this comes on, it still feels good. Some holiday records feel dated, but this one still feels alive and upbeat.</p>
<p data-start="4979" data-end="5172">What I like about this record is that it feels joyful without being overly dramatic. Some Christmas music tries too hard to sound emotional. This one just feels like people enjoying the season.</p>
<p data-start="5174" data-end="5433">It also reminds people of a time when holiday music came on the radio and everybody in the car just let it play instead of changing the station. It brings back that feeling of the end of the year, family, food, and cold weather outside while it’s warm inside.</p>
<p data-start="5435" data-end="5550">That’s what good holiday music is supposed to do. It’s supposed to remind you of a feeling more than anything else.</p>
<h2 data-section-id="1y8yvhg" data-start="5557" data-end="5588"><em>8.</em> Diggin’ On You</h2>
<p data-start="5590" data-end="5827">Now this right here is one of the smoothest TLC records ever made. This is a night time record. Not a rush hour record. Not a morning record. This is a late evening, slow driving, city lights reflecting off the windshield kind of record.</p>
<p data-start="5829" data-end="5997">This record showed TLC could slow things down and still hold your attention. The production was clean, the melody was smooth, and everything felt relaxed and confident.</p>
<p data-start="5999" data-end="6243">This is about interest, curiosity, and getting to know someone without rushing everything. That’s something that feels almost lost now. Everything moves fast now. This record comes from a time when people actually took time to learn each other.</p>
<p data-start="6245" data-end="6372">When this plays, it feels like summer at night. Warm air, music low, conversation easy. That’s the feeling this record carries.</p>
<p data-start="6374" data-end="6520">TLC had big hits, but this record showed their smooth side. Every great group needs records like this, ones that don’t shout but still speak loud.</p>
<p data-start="6522" data-end="6674">Another thing about this record is how calm it feels. Nobody sounds like they’re trying too hard. Everything just flows naturally from beginning to end.</p>
<p data-start="6676" data-end="6884">This is also one of those records that sounds best in the car. Not on a loud speaker, not in a crowded room, but in the car at night when the roads are open and you’re just driving with nowhere special to go.</p>
<p data-start="6886" data-end="7037">It represents a time when R&amp;B had patience, space, and groove. It wasn’t trying to impress you in the first five seconds. It let the mood build slowly.</p>
<p data-start="7039" data-end="7107" data-is-last-node="" data-is-only-node="">And sometimes the records that move slow end up lasting the longest.</p>
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<p data-start="89" data-end="294">TLC made the kind of music that didn’t disappear when the radio stopped playing it. Their records were about real life, real relationships, and real lessons, and that’s why people still go back and listen.</p>
<p data-start="296" data-end="483">With TLC, Salt-N-Pepa, and En Vogue heading on tour together, it feels like a reminder of a time when groups had identity and their own sound. Not copies, not trends, just their own lane.</p>
<p data-start="485" data-end="520">And TLC drove their lane just fine.</p>
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<p>Staff Writer; <strong>Jamar Jackson</strong></p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">This brother has a passion for <em><strong>sports</strong>, <strong>poetry</strong></em> and <strong><em>music</em></strong>. One may contact him at; <strong><a href="mailto:JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com">JJackson@ThyBlackMan.com</a></strong>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(<strong>ThyBlackMan.com</strong>) “The jury was bombarded with uncharged, unproven accusations, turning the proceedings into a trial of Mr. Cosby’s character.” That was the claim disgraced entertainer Bill Cosby made immediately after a jury awarded Donna Motsinger nearly 60 million dollars in damages in a civil trial loss in a Santa Monica, California court. He immediately announced that he would appeal.</p>
<p>The hefty award was the latest in a seemingly never-ending parade of lawsuits, settlements, and judgements against Cosby. They all stem from his alleged decades of sexual abuse, drugging, and victimization of a legion of women claimants over decades.</p>
<p>This was hardly the first time Cosby screamed legal foul play at continually being hauled into court. He did it when he claimed there was a racial motive behind the dozens of women who claimed he drugged, raped, and sexually abused them for years.</p>
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<p>Cosby is hardly the only one screaming that the case against him is take your pick: the white man, white establishment, or a sensationalism driven media establishment trying to bring down a wealthy, prominent Black man. Thousands of other Blacks, and many Cosby fans, shouted the same thing virtually from the moment the accusations of sexual rapacity started flying against him. They endlessly cited prominent, wealthy celebs, from Woody Allen to Charlie Sheen to Bill O’Reilly, to bolster their contention that there is a vicious malignant, racial double standard in hammering Cosby while letting the other big-name white sexual miscreants skip away relatively untouched.</p>
<p>Cosby was tried, convicted, and served three years in a Pennsylvania prison for sexual assault. He had the deep pockets to get the best legal team money could buy. They made sure they got the best jury he could get. That ensured that he would be found innocent or guilty based on the evidence, not because he was Black. Given the sheer number of alleged victims, the similarity of their accusations, and that many of them were white women, the wonder was that Cosby was not hauled into a court earlier in his career. He could thank his fame, name, and money for that. Something few Blacks could ever dream of.</p>
<p>But Cosby did pay a price. He served real prison time. He was and is <em>persona non grata</em> in the entertainment industry. His legacy is forever stained. But can Cosby make any kind of case that he is continually being subject to legal persecution, mountainous judgements, and character assassination. In his statement of protest of the latest verdict against hm he called himself “a symbol.” The implication had a clear, though unstated, racial edge.</p>
<p>It’s true that legions of big-name celebrities like Cosby have wound up in a court docket. Mike Tyson, Michael Jackson, and of course, O.J. Simpson. They all to varying degrees loudly hinted that race had much to do with their legal woes.</p>
<p>Cosby didn’t say it directly, but many others note that Black celebrities, professionals, business leaders, are hauled or slammed to the curb and arrested at any time no matter their status or appearance. Supposedly, it’s their very prominence that stirs resentment, jealousy, and harassment. It’s the old uppity Negro syndrome spruced up in modern day resentments over the wealth and success of prominent Blacks. Many Cosby defenders continue to reflexively claim that he became a marked man when he floated the idea of buying NBC in 1992. The very notion of a Black man owning a mega media outlet was supposedly considered racial heresy.</p>
<p>There’s no proof of any racist conspiracy to nail Cosby because of this, or because of his fame. The Cosby-NBC rumored deal came almost a quarter century before his indictment in Pennsylvania. It came about a half century before the verdict against him in the Santa Monica courtroom. During those years, Cosby was lauded, feted, and praised as the nation’s number one dad.</p>
<p>Even after the accusations against him mounted up of sexual misdeeds, and he confessed to giving drugs to one woman and getting drugs for other women he wanted to have sex in an affidavit he swore to in 2005, legions of legal experts either defended him or claimed there were no legal grounds to prosecute him because the statute of limitations had long since run out on most of the claims.</p>
<p>The lawsuit he lost in Santa Monica will not be the last for him. There will be other courts and other trials, and probably equally mountainous judgements against him There are still too many women that claim he victimized them.</p>
<p>For that, many will still call him the victim of a hopelessly tainted biased legal system. Many others will applaud the legal payback against him and say he’s getting exactly what he deserves. That ensures that Cosby is destined to remain both victim and victimizer.</p>
<p>Written By <strong>Earl Ofari Hutchinson</strong></p>
<p>One can find more info about Mr. Hutchinson over at the following site; <strong><a href="http://thehutchinsonreport.net/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">TheHutchinson Report</a></strong>.</p>
<p>Also feel free to connect with him through twitter; <a href="http://twitter.com/earlhutchinson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">http://twitter.com/earlhutchins</a></p>
<p class="adgrid-ad-target">He is also an associate editor of New America Media. His forthcoming book is <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0692370714" target="_hplink" rel="noopener noreferrer">From King to Obama: Witness to a Turbulent History</a></em> (Middle Passage Press).</p>
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