You need to adjust and adapt.
When you marry her, no you don’t marry them.
But you do become a part of their family.
As a good example, you need to plant the seeds of cooperation and acceptance.
If they don’t know how to, then you become the light.
Plus this is likely important to your spouse.
If you cannot be part of the solution, you become part of the problem.
In such case you cannot complain about them when you are just as lacking.
LEARN TO BE THE BIGGER PERSON – OR YOU ARE BEING SMALL LIKE THEY ARE

TC / Advanced Lifecoach