You are completely missing the point and the article was to men, not to you. Furthermore it sounds like at least in part you are proving my point. And as a man who has been a mediator, counselor and life coach to THOUSANDS UPON THOUSANDS OF MEN, WOMEN AND FAMILIES, I have to ask who you have impacted. In fact, what is your relationship status now? As for your husband, how often did you listen to him? 911 is a last resort but often necessary and even then the police response is often biased in favor of women, especially fake women who are perpetrators playing the victim. Wake up and see the facts that men live every day. Your opinion is just that, an opinion with no facts, data nor experience presented to substantiate your claims. Wake up and take a look in the mirror instead of trying to tear apart an article written to MEN to help men. How are you helping men? And you are part of the solution or part of the problem, sounding like the latter. I am not angry, just tired of women trying to tell men what they should be doing. And you are trying to tell me how to write? Not here. As for control and your husband, there is a difference between control and authority as a leader.

It’s obvious this article isn’t about all women. It says “Dealing with Your Evil X”. How is that all women Mattie? As a woman, I do not even think it is appropriate to respond to the article that way when it is clearly speaking to men, not women. Why does this article trigger you so much? ?

First of all I specified YOUR EVIL X so I am talking about the women who are what? An “Evil X”. Second of all, therefore since I did not say “all women”, there is no need to say “some women” as a correction.

Third of all, do not tell me how to write my articles. Do I tell you how to wear your makeup, dress or talk to men? Fourth of all, this article is for MEN, not for women who may want to prove my point and correct me.

As for control and your late husband, there is a difference between control and authority. And while he did not listen to you (unfortunately), how often did you listen to him?

Calling 911 should be last resort but sometimes it is necessary. And no the police response is not usually balanced and fair because it generally favors women, especially those pretending to be the victim when they were the perpetrator.

Finally, it is not just my thoughts so you are wrong there too. It is my experiences, my training and my counseling and life-coaching of others (both men and women). So I have to ask how many lives you have impacted when I have conducted training, counseling, mediation and life-coaching for THOUSANDS UPON THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE? And if you think what I wrote is not the reality of what men experience making life all about that for them, you don’t have a clue. You are not a man and the article was not meant for women, but it may be inadvertently talking about you. You seem to want to pick it apart but you present NO DATA, NO EXPERIENCES and NO QUALIFICATIONS!

WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP DO YOU HAVE NOW? EXACTLY!