If men are not let “off the hook” then why are 70% of black families led by women alone? Black women are overburdened already, sometimes an additional child is just the straw that is going to break that family’s back. Before condemning women who have abortions or women and others that support them, how about talking about the rate at which black men abandon their responsibilities and return “home” to them just long enough to create another life they have no intention of supporting?

“So why then does the expectant father have absolutely no say so but responsibility before and after the birth?”

See the paragraph above. Because only about 30% of black men are actually stepping up to that responsibility.