Really, it’s our fault as men, because most of us have failed to live up to the expectations of manhood, especially as divined in the twenty-first century. And so many men have reacted to their circumstances of inequity, discrimination, social ostracism and personal trauma with undesirable results. Men, we all have our challenges. We are all facing some obstacle in life which threatens our livelihood, our sense of value and the role we play in our family and community. It is then we must seek our strength in the place of our weakness.