But then you turn around and tell black men to “growup,” to be more accomplished like black women.

Maybe you need to have a seat and really think about what a functioning black community would ACTUALLY look like.

It would look like a bunch of clarence Thomases, Thomas sowells, ben carsons AND barrack obamas.

For you to sit up there and double talk the way you did shows you have no god damn clue what you are talking about or advising black folks to do.

Your poor logic and the common negro’s naivete to gravitate to slick talkers is why the “community ” is where it is and why we will never progress as long as your types of negroes keep getting the soapbox.

What black folks need to do is start studying logic , math, and stop listening to stupid folks just because they black or only listening to people they agree with.

Statistically and genetically, very few people (African American, Caucasian etc) are of pure ethnicity. Evolution teaches we all came from the same things. Creation concurs, atleast in Christianity that we all came from Adam and Eve and in Islam, that we all came from one drop or clot of blood.

Our differences are largely learned behavior and based on sociological environment. Don’t be an “Ice T” who really looks bad because he picked a blow up doll like Coco. Whomever you select, let it be for the right foundational, intangible reasons, setting up a foundation strong enough to sustain a real relationship.