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		By: LeVar Smith		</title>
		<link>https://thyblackman.com/2014/09/22/the-spare-rod-generation/comment-page-1/#comment-269660</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LeVar Smith]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 12:49:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You just keep chirping Bird..... Maybe one day you&#039;ll get your crumbs....lmao]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You just keep chirping Bird&#8230;.. Maybe one day you&#8217;ll get your crumbs&#8230;.lmao</p>
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		By: LeVar Smith		</title>
		<link>https://thyblackman.com/2014/09/22/the-spare-rod-generation/comment-page-1/#comment-269659</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LeVar Smith]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 12:46:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[@ D.Carter .....this is the time I drop the mic and walk off]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ D.Carter &#8230;..this is the time I drop the mic and walk off</p>
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		By: Netra Adams		</title>
		<link>https://thyblackman.com/2014/09/22/the-spare-rod-generation/comment-page-1/#comment-269652</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Netra Adams]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 02:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In LeVar&#039;s defense (DCarter) He Is A Great Father! Very diligent, stern, even militant. But those characteristics are what has molded him into the the productive parent he is. I took the previous comment to offense because he takes Great strides and makes ultimate and unlimited sacrifices for our boys! Are they abused?? NO! Are they well mannered, conscious, striving for excellence and success?! YES! And hopefully our two year old follows suit after his big brother. I also disagree with Mr. Amen. Why fix what isn&#039;t broken? Beating your child to a pulp is in NO WAY LeVar&#039;s testimony. Some children don&#039;t need physical correction to comply. But with disrespect and lack of selfworth at an all time high with our children; talking is NOT enough! I don&#039;t believe in time out. And punishment is ALWAYS a carry-on to an asswhooping! I know I deserved every whooping I got as a child and probably a few more. In THIS house, we spare NO rods and spoil NO children!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In LeVar&#8217;s defense (DCarter) He Is A Great Father! Very diligent, stern, even militant. But those characteristics are what has molded him into the the productive parent he is. I took the previous comment to offense because he takes Great strides and makes ultimate and unlimited sacrifices for our boys! Are they abused?? NO! Are they well mannered, conscious, striving for excellence and success?! YES! And hopefully our two year old follows suit after his big brother. I also disagree with Mr. Amen. Why fix what isn&#8217;t broken? Beating your child to a pulp is in NO WAY LeVar&#8217;s testimony. Some children don&#8217;t need physical correction to comply. But with disrespect and lack of selfworth at an all time high with our children; talking is NOT enough! I don&#8217;t believe in time out. And punishment is ALWAYS a carry-on to an asswhooping! I know I deserved every whooping I got as a child and probably a few more. In THIS house, we spare NO rods and spoil NO children!!</p>
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		By: Dcarter910		</title>
		<link>https://thyblackman.com/2014/09/22/the-spare-rod-generation/comment-page-1/#comment-269644</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dcarter910]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2014 17:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I cant believe the writer of this article is a single parent? I feel so sorry for his kids as his response to basic criticism points to someone who is thoughtless, quick tempered and short sighted. I could be wrong and I am sure the author will defend himself by saying I am wrong and then (as observed already) use childish labels to degrade my character. 

Either way, the Adrian Peterson case was child abuse. You do not beat a four year old child like that (period). You Negros that advocate such violence toward black toddlers are no different that slave masters who only believed in beating blacks because they were too dumb to be reasoned with and were not as valuable to God as white children to say that it is sinful to beat children in such an abusive manner.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cant believe the writer of this article is a single parent? I feel so sorry for his kids as his response to basic criticism points to someone who is thoughtless, quick tempered and short sighted. I could be wrong and I am sure the author will defend himself by saying I am wrong and then (as observed already) use childish labels to degrade my character. </p>
<p>Either way, the Adrian Peterson case was child abuse. You do not beat a four year old child like that (period). You Negros that advocate such violence toward black toddlers are no different that slave masters who only believed in beating blacks because they were too dumb to be reasoned with and were not as valuable to God as white children to say that it is sinful to beat children in such an abusive manner.</p>
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		By: LeVar Smith		</title>
		<link>https://thyblackman.com/2014/09/22/the-spare-rod-generation/comment-page-1/#comment-269641</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LeVar Smith]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2014 22:06:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This toomanygrandkids faggot is a troll but I can find out who and where he is]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This toomanygrandkids faggot is a troll but I can find out who and where he is</p>
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		By: toomanygrandkids		</title>
		<link>https://thyblackman.com/2014/09/22/the-spare-rod-generation/comment-page-1/#comment-269623</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[toomanygrandkids]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2014 22:18:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[NIGGA, PUH-LEEZE!  Adrian Peterson beat a 4-year old with a tree trunk.  The authorities had no choice but to be called and get involved.  That&#039;s called child abuse.  No child that young needs to be &quot;whooped&quot; in that manner.  I believe he&#039;s being accused of injuring a 2-year old.  The black community is full of bad-temper-for-nothing black males.  Where the hell you been?  Obviously, not paying attention.

Terrance&#039;s comment must&#039;ve struck a nerve.  You lowered yourself by referring to him disrespectfully when he simply stated his opinion about your article.  Could be you got one too many beatings.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NIGGA, PUH-LEEZE!  Adrian Peterson beat a 4-year old with a tree trunk.  The authorities had no choice but to be called and get involved.  That&#8217;s called child abuse.  No child that young needs to be &#8220;whooped&#8221; in that manner.  I believe he&#8217;s being accused of injuring a 2-year old.  The black community is full of bad-temper-for-nothing black males.  Where the hell you been?  Obviously, not paying attention.</p>
<p>Terrance&#8217;s comment must&#8217;ve struck a nerve.  You lowered yourself by referring to him disrespectfully when he simply stated his opinion about your article.  Could be you got one too many beatings.</p>
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		By: Terrance Amen		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Terrance Amen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2014 09:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[@Brother Terry

I feel you Brother Terry and I&#039;m not saying you shouldn&#039;t discipline your children, I&#039;m simply saying there are other ways like punishment, after they reach the age of knowing right from wrong. It&#039;s mental and the mental always last longer in your mind than the physical. As far as slavery, my point was the way we treat one another, even to this day is a result of the psychological effects of slavery. 

I&#039;m not talking just about beatings, although they were part of this. Please don&#039;t misunderstand me. Beatings have been going on ever since their were children, but the severity and age is what I&#039;m talking about.  Do you continue to beat them until they become adults and beat them harder because they haven&#039;t learned? When do you stop, when they become adults or do you keep beating them? 

I&#039;ll end by saying this, if you continue to do one thing because you believe it works, how will you know that you could have done it another way that works even better? I believe this is one of the biggest dilemmas in our community, based on what I said earlier. Which is one of the reasons we spend a trillion dollars in every community but our own.

Black Unity means financial independence and happiness]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Brother Terry</p>
<p>I feel you Brother Terry and I&#8217;m not saying you shouldn&#8217;t discipline your children, I&#8217;m simply saying there are other ways like punishment, after they reach the age of knowing right from wrong. It&#8217;s mental and the mental always last longer in your mind than the physical. As far as slavery, my point was the way we treat one another, even to this day is a result of the psychological effects of slavery. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not talking just about beatings, although they were part of this. Please don&#8217;t misunderstand me. Beatings have been going on ever since their were children, but the severity and age is what I&#8217;m talking about.  Do you continue to beat them until they become adults and beat them harder because they haven&#8217;t learned? When do you stop, when they become adults or do you keep beating them? </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll end by saying this, if you continue to do one thing because you believe it works, how will you know that you could have done it another way that works even better? I believe this is one of the biggest dilemmas in our community, based on what I said earlier. Which is one of the reasons we spend a trillion dollars in every community but our own.</p>
<p>Black Unity means financial independence and happiness</p>
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		By: Terry A		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Terry A]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2014 14:12:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow Mr Amen! Really!!! Maybe there was just a problem that was in your family that they may have used slavery as an excuse. Cause in agreeiance with Mr Smith I don&#039;t see where the love was installed in you while you were being disciplined. I too was punished or beaten at times when I did wrong. Depending on what I&#039;ve done at the time I may have got both. But every time During those moments I was always giving a reason why I received this type of punishment during the moment and even after at times to get it installed in my head so it won&#039;t happen again &#038; before a whipping took place I always heard that famous line that every great parent in my eyes said to their children (this is going to hurt me more than its going to hurt you) WHAT!!! Is what thought at first until one day after receiving one of those ole fashion butt whipping I went into my parents room to apologize for what I&#039;ve done and there on the edge of  his bed my had his head down with my mom rubbing his back saying sometimes you have to do what you have to do to get through to your kids at times and trust me they love and later they will look back and greatful for being the parent you are. He was CRYING! The first time I ever seen my dad show emotions was because of something I did wrong and a good talking to wasn&#039;t going to cut it at that time. That&#039;s what I mean about love &#038; discipline as one. I&#039;m 36 years of age. I&#039;m married with 2 kids. No I&#039;m not rich I haven&#039;t became the greatest I can become yet but in my kids eyes and my wife&#039;s I&#039;m there hero cause I take care of my home and they have a need or want in the world. I also discipline my kids the same way I same way I was brought up &#038; it effects me the same way it effected my dad when I feels a simple lecture or punishment isn&#039;t enough but if I didn&#039;t get that type of treatment who knows how I would&#039;ve turned out growing up in a city like Washington DC in the era I was being raised. But as I always to each own do what works for you. The I was bought up works for me and still working not just for me but also for others who had similar upbringing. Mr Smith keep up the good work and keep writing]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Mr Amen! Really!!! Maybe there was just a problem that was in your family that they may have used slavery as an excuse. Cause in agreeiance with Mr Smith I don&#8217;t see where the love was installed in you while you were being disciplined. I too was punished or beaten at times when I did wrong. Depending on what I&#8217;ve done at the time I may have got both. But every time During those moments I was always giving a reason why I received this type of punishment during the moment and even after at times to get it installed in my head so it won&#8217;t happen again &amp; before a whipping took place I always heard that famous line that every great parent in my eyes said to their children (this is going to hurt me more than its going to hurt you) WHAT!!! Is what thought at first until one day after receiving one of those ole fashion butt whipping I went into my parents room to apologize for what I&#8217;ve done and there on the edge of  his bed my had his head down with my mom rubbing his back saying sometimes you have to do what you have to do to get through to your kids at times and trust me they love and later they will look back and greatful for being the parent you are. He was CRYING! The first time I ever seen my dad show emotions was because of something I did wrong and a good talking to wasn&#8217;t going to cut it at that time. That&#8217;s what I mean about love &amp; discipline as one. I&#8217;m 36 years of age. I&#8217;m married with 2 kids. No I&#8217;m not rich I haven&#8217;t became the greatest I can become yet but in my kids eyes and my wife&#8217;s I&#8217;m there hero cause I take care of my home and they have a need or want in the world. I also discipline my kids the same way I same way I was brought up &amp; it effects me the same way it effected my dad when I feels a simple lecture or punishment isn&#8217;t enough but if I didn&#8217;t get that type of treatment who knows how I would&#8217;ve turned out growing up in a city like Washington DC in the era I was being raised. But as I always to each own do what works for you. The I was bought up works for me and still working not just for me but also for others who had similar upbringing. Mr Smith keep up the good work and keep writing</p>
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		By: LeVar Smith		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[LeVar Smith]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2014 13:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Cool turns out what you need to do is research how many white supremacist have not been beat and came up in a house full of quote unquote love and non-violence but theyre quick to be violent with you. and no I didn&#039;t resort to calling you names I did exactly what was appropriate I labeled you appropriately@ Terrence Amen]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cool turns out what you need to do is research how many white supremacist have not been beat and came up in a house full of quote unquote love and non-violence but theyre quick to be violent with you. and no I didn&#8217;t resort to calling you names I did exactly what was appropriate I labeled you appropriately@ Terrence Amen</p>
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		By: Alemo		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alemo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2014 02:26:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I whipped the hell out of my stallon today! See he was buckin - you know smelling his nuts - on the high horse. I told him - the mayor that he is digging - is a dumb ass mule.  You beat them down too stand them up. The game changer for all behavior. Way to use horse sense, Vezzi!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I whipped the hell out of my stallon today! See he was buckin &#8211; you know smelling his nuts &#8211; on the high horse. I told him &#8211; the mayor that he is digging &#8211; is a dumb ass mule.  You beat them down too stand them up. The game changer for all behavior. Way to use horse sense, Vezzi!</p>
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