Comments on: 5 Reasons why women don’t want to be a Queen.

By: Solosista

Solosista — Wed, 15 Oct 2014 23:48:58 +0000

I agree Jazzie. There are misconceptions of the word Queen. You have to know who you are, first and foremost, in order to appreciate having a King or Queen in your life. So many women, are accustomed to being treated or called hoes or thots, that now the word Queen isn’t acceptable.

By: Golden

Golden — Mon, 06 Oct 2014 17:11:31 +0000

Jazzie, well spoken.

By: Tatia Dee

Tatia Dee — Sun, 05 Oct 2014 05:46:06 +0000

I feel curious to know what your friend’s response was to this theory. Did she understand this as her problem? Was she “enlightened?” What adjustments did she consider making?

By: Third Eye

Third Eye — Fri, 03 Oct 2014 13:11:42 +0000

Black Women in 2014 are too masculine minded and have become a new age hottentot venus with the help of minstrel show coons such as Nikki Minaj and Beyonce, therefore the ideology is too now accept no good simps as long as they have swagger or dick size. When that doesn’t work out then its on to their “white savior” and the Interracial campaign they have as a side venture to save them from the boogey black man.

The Black Queens of past would spit upon the Black Woman of today for her traitorous and horrendous behavior and mentality.

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By: Third Eye

Third Eye — Fri, 03 Oct 2014 13:04:22 +0000

Because they want to be hoes and they are rewarded for it by simp black men and Amerikkka.

Join up and speak on this any many of the ills that need to be fixed.

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By: tyrone

tyrone — Mon, 22 Sep 2014 22:18:47 +0000

No.5 Paragraph No.2. Case closed.

By: Mike

Mike — Sat, 20 Sep 2014 01:39:10 +0000

Most women who say they are Queens don’t have your level of understanding or commitment. It would be refreshing to know that they did, but most of them don’t. The reason I say this is because many of the ones that I have come across want a man to treat them better than they treat themselves. They say they’re a queen but they’re really someone who wants, wants, wants and no give, give, gives. Sadly this leaves a bad taste in the mouths of many men who simply want someone they can vibe with.

By: toomanygrandkids

toomanygrandkids — Sat, 20 Sep 2014 00:20:24 +0000

Jazzie, you spoke the truth. I couldn’t’ve said it better myself.

By: Jazzie Dixson

Jazzie Dixson — Thu, 18 Sep 2014 20:37:36 +0000

I am a Queen. Not because I need subjects–my friends are queens, too. Not because I can’t get my hands dirty–I can and I do in willing support to my King. Not because I don’t experience real emotions–I do, I like them, AND I also have a great sense of duty to my King, my Friends, myself, and my passions. Not only am I concerned with service to others (because God said so), I am also concerned with service to/for/with my King (again because God said so).

I understand your points. You–and women who believe such–misunderstand the true nature of a Queen. Her royalty comes not from her privileged position; but from her understanding that she must know who she is. Period. When she does, she can be the Queen to her King BECAUSE she understands WHO HE IS. She can support, encourage and build up her FRIENDS because she knows what it means to need someone. And she can roll up her sleeves and get in the dirt, even if it’s at McDonald’s, because those actions do not detract from her royalty. They don’t make her less; they make her more. She is a Queen because of the example she sets.

You–and women who believe such–are promoting the mistaken impression that a woman who wants to be treated like a Queen wants to be served. Untrue. When a woman says she wants to be treated like a queen, she is speaking of value. She, like your friend, wants the man in her life to value her, love her, treat her as something that matters. That is bigger than money and doesn’t equate to emotional bankruptcy. White collar, blue collar, or rufneck, she wants him not to believe the strong-woman-don’t-need-nobody mantra that the world believes of her. And for him to accept that in all her strength, she is most a Queen when she is with her King and following his lead. We don’t have to fight, King. When you know YOU are a KING, you should expect nothing less than a QUEEN at your side.