And as others have said time and time again economics and education is the key.

If every black man got witha black woman, there would still be at least 1.5 million black women without a black man. Then you take into consideration the competition from other groups of women (which is heavy), then what you have is a situation in which black women are on the outside looking in. Black women are complaining now about black men getting with other women. But complaining won’t matter. It’s not in their control. I am predicting that when the Olympics in Brazil hits, and tv is flooded with the images of those women there alone, will change the game in a dramatic way, in terms of introducing American men to a new flavor of women. With globalization, everything is up for competition: including relationships.

Outside America, women are traditional. They seek marriage and family. This is critical for their identity. They don’t look at themselves as independent. They view themselves within the family construct. This is diametrically opposed to how black women view themselves (independent). We know black women are having babies, albeit irresponsibly. But are they building families is the real question and that’s an emphatic NO!!!!! So their is a generation of kids who are being born out of lust, not love. Now black women can claim independence all they want to. However, I’m sure most children will want to have a relationship with their fathers. But the identity of black women in America is grounded in being independent (although being on welfare and working a job is not independent to me).

The issue really is a wealth issue. Black women believe the only way to get money is to work jobs. Other women are smarter. They invest in men with love first, and support these men as they seek to achieve their ambitions and reap the rewards from this. Black women knowingly have babies (burdens) by men they absolutely have no idea what kind of father he would be because they don’t even discuss these things. Black women make you think about sex: other women make you think about love in terms of how they relate to their men and other men they choose to deal with. The black community is a poor community. They think poor. They don’t invest because what would they invest in? They wouldn’t know where to begin. Building starts with self, but when you hate yourself, you won’t ever start. Black women through up their hands in black power fists salutes in the 70s, with Afros. That was a joke. Black beauty was and is a fad as it pertains to women. Black women are spending in excess of 500 billion dollars on weaves and other so-called “beauty” items.

Looking like drag queens in tights and clunky, goofy heels they barely can walk in, most time looking like hookers. This is why most men, including their own, only see them as something to screw, not someone to build with. I have not seen one prominent black women, with influence, come out and condemn the behavior of the modern day lack woman. We criticize and get accused of hating black women. Other black women say nothing. What should we call them? You can’t even legitimately criticize black women as a man because it becomes a shouting match, in which women don’t want to resolve anything: they just want to be right and attempt to call you a woman hater to silence you. Classic feminists technique. Funny thing is, there is nothing feminine about a feminist. Absolutely nothing. If feminism was good for black women, why aren’t black women in stable families? Marriages? Not performing abortions?

Funny how before feminism came on the scene, black women married black men, their communities had businesses, and abortions were low. What did feminism accomplish for black women? The black woman of today is worse off than her ancestors who scrubbed floors because at least her predecessors had sense enough to put the money she made with her husband to start a business. My great granny never worked for white folks, but her husband put her in a home, and she raised his children well. I have no respect for women who put jobs (which basically amounts to her ensuring another family stays wealthy) over her own children and men. And women wonder why men cheat?

There is nothing for men to be loyal to anymore. Which is why many men have multiple women because most women are incapable of satisfying a man the way our great grandmothers used to. These women are better fit to be slaves rather than wives. You shouldn’t have to plead with women to be traditional or morally upright. Either they are or they’re not. If you’ve been exposed to years dysfunction from your mother (the woman who made the choice of getting impregnated by whoever the father is), chances are, if you’re a black female, this won’t change, especially in light of the fact that black women are rewarded for being dysfunctional (welfare, sex tapes Mimi Faust, reality shows, sex demons Rihanna). Child support is the new, legal prostitution. Fellas if you haven’t learned, you better learn fast.

The situation seems irreparable and pointless to discuss, which is why I wrote this piece to see how others felt. We’re done with each other. We butt heads too much to love each other, and both sides are bitter.

What is the point of continuing any Black Power movement, which has been futile?

What is the point of wanting to find a like minded partner of the same race, if the issues surmount the love. Black love is nothing but fucking anyway. If the sex is good, we’re in love. Forget the communication skills that go along with a healthy relationship.,

Forget about praying these unwanted black babies…because no one cares about them or their future. Their mothers are dumb women who fuck for affection and spend all of their money masking their insecurities. Their daddies laugh at them for not having a daddy.

Abortion is good for the black community. We are doing our own ethnic cleansing. Things will be great when we no longer exist.

So much for our forefathers community theme: Don’t air out our dirty laundry.
We’re now hoarders and scared to get the Tide.

Just let it stink. It’ll go away in due time.

This is the reason I chose adoption for my children. I didn’t want them to be unwanted.I wanted them to know more than black culture and have a better future than their peers who are raised by a single woman. These women are fools to raise children that their own community don’t want.

All in all…everything is as it should be. This hate and bitterness that we have for each other will surely separate us for good in the long run. No more tribes!

However, when we talk about the dysfunction of the black community, the blame always gets placed at the feet of black men, but not the person who was most instrumental in bringing about it’s potential demise: the black woman. See black women are like Eve in the Bible. They were convinced that their God (black women up until the 60s were more conservative and in some instances married at a higher rate than white women) and men were no good, and instead, what they needed was an education. Well let’s sit back and analyze education shall we. Education always starts out with a premise. The premise is the curriculum. Ok. Well who decides what curriculum is appropriate? Is the one designing the curriculum of a sound mind? You have curricula being designed by liberal homosexuals. There is no way a homosexual can tell me how to live as a man. Period. However, many black women get their beauty tips from gay men. Actually, black women have learned to make gay black men more credible than straight, alpha male black men. From a financial aspect, I mean the numbers speak for themselves.

Black women are the biggest consumers, yet the poorest, which is odd because collectively, black women have major purchasing power. But you know where most of black women’s money goes to? The beauty/fashion industry. Black women, as a block of consumers, are financially illiterate when it comes to wealth creation and against one of the major institutions that fosters wealth creation: marriage. So you basically have a woman exposed, in the wild, who thinks she’s capable of fending for herself, but in reality, is destroying not only herself, but her group as well, albeit slowly. When black men worked as porters on railroads and black women scrubbed white peoples’ floors, although the jobs weren’t glamorous, it allowed them to do something basic: pool resources together for future investments like opening businesses. Now instead of using money as a means of economic investment and advancement, money for black women is a tool for masking low self-esteem. Buying weaves (hell in Ferguson black women were literally caught on film running out of stores with packs of weaves in there hands). Even in the midst of this tragic event, we still couldn’t get away from black women’s low self-esteem.

That’s very powerful and cannot be lost in the emotion of the circumstance. Money and self-esteem affects spirit, and when you’re not spiritually grounded, it leads to disaster. Pimps only grew in stature the more black women turned away from ‘traditional” values. If there were no hoes to pimp, the pimp would go out of business. Black men are no different than other men: if you take away the incentive for getting married and building families, they won’t do it. I’m 35 and have had 55 year old black men ask me “do black women want to get married anymore?” This is cutting against socioeconomic backgrounds as well as age ranges. You have black women that would rather engage in the sex trade industry than marry a man with no money. Never mind he might have strong values, be willing to cherish and love her, and build a family and wealth with her. At the same time feminism was pushed to black women, you had groups like the Nation of Islam teaching black women how to be from a traditional standpoint. They chose otherwise. Now, we see the results. I remember when a dude told me his ex-girlfriend was contemplating short-selling her house, due to the stress of keeping up with all the bills in 2008. He said her aunt told her “don’t be sad about possibly giving up your home.

A woman isn’t supposed to have a house by herself anyway.” See, black women have houses, but they don’t have homes. They don’t know how to make a house a home for a man. This girl was breaking down from trying to pay all those bills by herself, and she didn’t even have kids. My friend told me she was so stressed out, her stress level was at aneurysm level and had it not been for him pressuring her to go to the doctor, she possibly could have died. You have black women getting into $100,000 of debt, for degrees, they can barely use. Working jobs it didn’t even take a degree to do. However, since black women are constantly in competition with black men, the first thing they put in black men’s face, to justify their conceit and arrogance is this piece of paper. Not realizing, they have been suckered into debt slavery. With a 30 year mortgage, and hundreds of thousands of dollars in student debt, you’re guaranteed to be in debt slavery for the rest of your life. I always ask people, with all this freedom and money, have you ever saw a black woman pay a mortgage off? Whites have a loyal customer when it comes to home loans when it comes to black women because of their need to fill men’s role, based on feminism. And Koreans have an endless supply of money coming in as well due to black women’s undying need to wear weave. And the non-health industry has a consistent stream of bodies of black women to practice medicine on after they have worked themselves to the bone, making other people wealthy, with the ability to send their kids to Harvards and Yales, while her kids go in debt, for degrees they can’t use either. just like her. Because the community has been remade in the image of the black woman, a sad case indeed.

And it will get worse if Barack legalizes 5-10 million Hispanics because this will further make it harder, from a jobs standpoint, for blacks to compete, because if you think you seeing some troubles now in Ferguson, just wait until it becomes almost impossible, for welfare recipient black women, to get a job at McDonald’s. This will make them the majority in America much faster and whites would be the leading minority. Blacks will get squeezed out of the political process even more, being that they don’t participate anyway, and when they do, only vote democrat like the uninformed children they are. Thanks to feminism and black women ego, the black community will be a distant memory in I would say 100 years. This is why I tell brothers to jump off the titanic while they have a chance and embrace other women from other groups in terms of traditional families and women because you won’t get that here. The only thing black men will continuously get from black women is blame for their problems. This group of women is incapable of seeing the errors in their ways and coming to terms with that and the few ones with sense are too fearful of holding their so-called “sisters” accountable (black women really don’t have a sisterhood) out of fear of not being considered “real” black women.

If you read Booker T Washington’s “Up From Slavery”, he was saying some of the same things I’m saying now over a hundred years ago. He thought it was better for women to know how to set a table spread than to learn Shakespeare. Booker T was not against certain types of education: he just was against “education” that wasn’t practical. He was about building institutions: not bloviating over tired theories that have no ability to be implemented without causing disaster. Which is why he suggested blacks focus on economics (trades and businesses), over liberal arts educations that only were highly regarded in certain bourgeois classes of certain blacks. This man went from chattle slavery to meeting the Queen of England. Obviously, he knew what he was talking about. Meanwhile, in 2014, the negro is begging for jobs when Booker T was about creating jobs. But, too many blacks have followed DuBois’ model, and just like he, find themselves disillusioned, thinking moving to Africa (a notion Booker T wasn’t fond of) will solve their problems, only to find themselves more out of place.

It will take blacks in America about 1000 years to recover from feminism. In the mean time, my suggestion to men is to focus on getting money and multiple streams of income, and pluck your fruit from other parts of the world in terms of women. The black woman, of your present day, is not a viable partner in marriage, child-rearing, or wealth creation because she doesn’t care to know what nation-building is about because if you hate yourself, which most black women do, you will consciously and subconsciously destroy that which looks like you, something we see black women doing with their twerking and stripping escapades.

Me personally, I’m too civilized to get caught up in the midst of that destruction. I’m like Lot leaving Sodom and Gomorrah, I’m running for dear life and not looking back.

All cultures have experienced slavery, yet blacks seem to be the only ones constantly reliving it.

Since slavery was so long ago, I don’t think that is the reason for black men not being able to protect and nurture their people…women especially. It has to do what black men created socially and creatively.

Black men created thugs and gang banging. They created Pimps Up, Hoes Down…they created baby mamas. Black women accepted all of this. That’s a problem.

How do we get Harriet Tubman back and let them know that freedom rang long ago?

Do you not see what I write in reality?