This is off the subject, but I’m gonna mention it because I haven’t seen an article about it. Not that long ago, I read about Steve McNair’s widow, Michele, kicking Steve’s mother out of the house he had built for his mother. This story was also featured on one of those ‘Sins and Secrets-‘ or ‘Who The Bleep-like programs.

Matthew should shut up and take care of his son, just like any other man. The story started when Matthew left his home, period. If the mother is no damn good, that’s the way she was when he bedded her, no surprise and he should not use that as an excuse to short change Nixon. We’ve heard Matthews story, then we here, “BUT” but what…….Nixon is here and he’s his father….But nothing.

Initially, there have been no reports of any weapons being used or anyone forced to participate in the pro-creation process. Ms. Alexander had to allow herself to be approached or else a charge of rape would have resulted. So far, no charge. The name of this game as all others is that both parties have a responsibility now as the child is an innocent victim of their actions. Pointing fingers or trying to blame one over the other is not going to alleviate the fact that the child, Nelson, is here. Now the true question one should ask is what is acceptable in providing for the needs of the child. A court should not have to decide this issue as both parents have to look out for the best interest of the child. I am Nelson is not even aware of the value of money and has no idea he has more opportunities at his disposal based on the nature of his family dna.

Ms. Alexander needs to honestly look and realize her status both prior to giving birth and after. Her monetary status should be based on what she had at the time and where she is now. Most people of status, both men and women, are opportunities waiting to happen in the eyes of predators. As a society we are accustomed to hearing about child support and dead beat parents, but regardless, the child needs to be raised. Go back to the wisdom of Solomon, the bottom line was that when death of the child was put on the table,the truth came out. The true mother would not allow her child to die. This should be the same principle applied here. It should not matter if Mr Knowles provides or not, someone in the equation has to just take the responsibility of raising the child without asking for compensation.

Oprah just evicted her former mother in law from one of her many properties and this act is not making headlines. Gold digging is being done by both men and women if the truth could be told. By outting someone or trying to make someone pay will only increase hostilities between the parties involved as emotions creep in where they do not need to be. All I know is that I would gladly share any extras I have if it would help someone who has a greater need than me. All of this keeping an eye on what Beyonce has or what her role should be is not logical. All families have some dirty laundry or else we are not meant to be here. Some are just better at flying under the radar than others. Trust me when I state that what goes around, will come around as God is not mocked and no bad deed will go unpunished. This whole situation is a private civil matter and should be treated as such. If Mr. Knowles does not give his son one dime, then he has to live with that. All the talking about and judging him is not going to change the truth from being what it is.

Unless Ms. Alexander is accustomed to sleeping with strangers, you can bet she knew Mr. Knowles and his situation of who he was married to and who his daughter was. Counting on people to accept the failings of others is absolutely insane. Beyonce is not accountable for her fathers sin or vice versa. Being married, Mr. Knowles, could have stated that he was separated at the time, or offer a number of reasons why he did what he did. Bottom line is that only God can judge him, and not us. As people we are often amused and entertained by the failings and weaknesses of others, especially those who are successful.

What we seem to forget that to whom much was given, much is required as they have more responsibilities to live up to. I do not subscribe to such Jerry Springer and Maury Povich concepts as a personal choice. This does not make me immune to problems, but at least I can sleep at night knowing that I am not contributing to the ball of confusion. In closing, be careful what you ask for, as when you get it, it may not be all that it was cracked up to be. Make it better one day at a time. Peace out, Papacool.

“…weak willed man…” Is that what men have been all these years? That’s the excuse? Being weak allows them to screw whoever. I guess “JUST SAY NO” doesn’t apply to these men because they are weak-minded. Damn.

Matthew Knowles (and other cheating spouses) are directly responsible for breaking up their marriages/families. Husbands are the closest to their wives. Not the other female.

“Who does that?” HER AND MATTHEW DID THAT!

“Women can’t do what men do and still be a lady.” Well, she was enough of a lady to be HIS whore. Married men use “ladies” reactions toward them as an excuse fot their own actions.