Comments on: No Scrubs: How to Know if Your New Man Has a Future. https://thyblackman.com/2013/12/28/no-scrubs-how-to-know-if-your-new-man-has-a-future/ Black News 24/7 Online for the Black Community. Wed, 11 Feb 2015 05:59:04 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Marque Anthony https://thyblackman.com/2013/12/28/no-scrubs-how-to-know-if-your-new-man-has-a-future/comment-page-1/#comment-271262 Wed, 11 Feb 2015 05:59:04 +0000 http://thyblackman.com/?p=45239#comment-271262 I am a family and relationship counselor with great results for thousands of my clients for over a decade. Your article leaves alot to be desired. So often women want the man to come ready made and on track. But our women need to learn that maybe they are the key, the “help meet” to unlock the man’s potential. AA men need lifting up, not tearing down.

Here is something else to consider. Are you exactly where you need to be? If you are not, be careful how you judge him on what he should have and by when. A woman can be part of the solution, part of the problem or simply a sideline critic.

]]> By: Julie https://thyblackman.com/2013/12/28/no-scrubs-how-to-know-if-your-new-man-has-a-future/comment-page-1/#comment-66932 Sun, 29 Dec 2013 00:57:55 +0000 http://thyblackman.com/?p=45239#comment-66932 Excellent article! Dr. Watkins, keep writing articles with substance and I am sure that the article above will help young females who do not have a father around. Do not worry if you feel that your advice fall on deaf ears regarding your daughters. Continue talk to them about these highly important issues. It will stay with them and they will pay more attention eventually to what you shared with them. This is what happened with my own father.

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