(ThyBlackMan.com) A picture of a child who appears to be two or three years old has been circulating all around the Internet. Some people think it’s adorable, some find it shocking. The baby is holding a can of Bud Light, and appears to be gulping it down as quickly as any other sports fan in the vicinity.
The image was posted on Webstagram by a man named John Cogar, who works for a group called Party City. The caption below the image says, “Starting early these days.”
The image was allegedly taken during the recent beating that the Cleveland Browns took from the Detroit Lions.
I’m not sure how other people feel about the image, but there are some clear
As I struggled to gain perspective on my “older brother’s” challenges with alcoholism, a relative gave me the origins of his addiction. I was told that, when Donald was an infant, his father used to take him to the bar across the street from his house. During these trips to the bar, he would give the little boy alcohol, largely because everyone in the bar thought it was adorable to see a two-year old baby staggering across the room.
Years later, Donald’s desire for alcohol was so strong that it destroyed him and cost him everything he had. He lived the last few years of his life in homeless misery and was later hit by a van in the middle of the night, dragged 80 feet down the street, destroying his spinal cord and giving him severe brain damage. After three years in a wheel chair and barely getting by on Medicaid, he died from a series of infections.
This is one of the reasons I personally have little tolerance for anyone who thinks that it’s funny to give alcohol to children.
Our kids deserve a chance to be successful and shouldn’t have their lives destroyed by ignorant adults who don’t understand the dangers of substance abuse. My 12-years teaching at Syracuse University allowed me to see what alcoholism does to ruin the lives of young people, and how horribly irresponsible we are when it comes to warning our children about the dangers of binge drinking. As a result, there are countless rapes, assaults and drunk driving deaths that could have been easily prevented if some of us were to embrace at least a tiny inkling of common sense.
So, the picture of the little boy drinking beer is not cute, it’s not funny. It’s a tragic reminder of how irresponsible parents can be inadvertently determined to do irreparable harm to their children before they even have a chance to succeed.
Our kids deserve better than this.
Staff Writer; Dr. Boyce Watkins
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition. For more information, please visit http://BoyceWatkins.com.
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The electric's going off and on because a tree fell on some wires and they are fixing it.
Anyway, I have a 40-something year old cousin who's a crackhead alcoholic. About 5-6 years ago, he told me that his maternal grandmother "got him started" by giving him alcohol. I couldn't believe it sinnce I had never seen her drink in my life. But he said she always snuck him something to drink in a coffee mug. I did see her with a coffee mug alot but I assumed it was coffee or tea not alcohol.
It shoould read: it's a terrible shame and overlooked that fact.
Just because there are/were liquor stores and bars onn every corner or wherever black neighborhoods doesn't mean that blacks HAVE to patronize them all day everyday. It's a bad choice these black folks make then place the blame on someone, anyone else.
It's a terrible when a child's first introduction to alcohol (or drugs) comes from parents or other relative. And for adults to think it's cute when the child is young is despicable and shouldn't be tolerated.
Back in the 80's, black people such as Ice Cube, John Singleton, Eazy-E, and even so-called community leaders constantly (and protested) that non-blacks opened far too many liquor stores and bars in black communities. What they should've been complaining about was the number of black parents taking underage inside these bars and allowing them to drink at a young age. This is considered being an unfit parents, at least it should be. But I guess Ice Cube and 'nem overlook that fact.