I apologize for saying it this way but what I am tired of is seeing a continuation of folk having these children and don’t have a clue as to what it takes to parent them, their just having them just to be having them I suppose, and John if this sounds like a downer, it is what it is.

To be a parent is a life time commitment. It takes constant and consistant, prayer, training, teaching, encouraging, protecting, providing, and this takes, wisdom that comes only with maturity, and a desire to want to parent, the operative word here is “parent”, that thing you do with a child. I have never in all my life seen such a selfish generation of “folk who have sired, children.” Not one decision they make is the child brought into the equation. It’s about how I feel, what I want, how angry I am, never thinking when you got with him or her, what wouild this person bring into the life of a child, it’s always me, me, me, me, me, and in the moment lust and eventually the offspring from these off relationships end up with the messed up end of the stick, as these sires of these children argue, fight, and create an atmosphere of bitterness and hatred that will effect most of these children for the rest of their lives.

Yes there are good men out there, doing what they need to do to father their children and some women too. Nevertheless there is that element that sister Muhammed spoke of and it falls into the majority, its sad to say.

Nevertheless hope springs eternal, each one of us who do have the knowledge must make every effort to pass it on, to those who will listen. Mother’s stop using your children as ponds in your selfish anger of revenge, you should have thought about what you were doing in the first place, allow your children if possible to have a relationship with their fathers. You all need to visit and you men to, Black and Married With Children web site, gain some knowledge and information, and lets heal and rebuild the black family, and create a more stronger generation to come.