Comments on: Black Men: Yes WE MAKE OUR WOMEN ANGRY!

By: Sharon

Sharon — Sat, 24 Jan 2015 03:38:35 +0000

The problem is with the black community overall. In Africa, the lion is a trophy within the pride. The female lioness pulls most of the work, support the lion and shares him with the overall pride. The lion owes nothing to no one and the women exist for his well being and support. Black men have an ego problem. They don’t value black women. They think we should be grateful for any attention they give us. The world revolves around them. We hold black women to a high standard and black men to a lower standard when it should be reversed. We think well as long as Pookie ain’t in jail he’s doing ok. Then turn around and lecture educated black women what they’re doing wrong and don’t have a man (see Steve Harvey). There is little accountability for black men. And when these immature men turn 18 and go out into a society that isn’t controlled by black women they catch hell, because white society expects him to follow rules, not make excuses for failures and they lash out and call everyone racist and call black women “thirsty hoes”.

They can’t compete in white society and black women are achieving more than them so they have to tear black women down to make themselves feel good about their failures. At my job so many educated black women, nice not arrogant at all, dress well, nice shape, hair nails always done and almost all of us are single. We love our black men but they have to learn how to put others before themselves. That is what makes a real man. How can you not put your children before what you want? No one should have to even tell you this. And when they do chose a woman, its based on mostly looks. they choose women like little boys.

They don’t realize that two minimum wage jobs minus child support means your household income is BROKE. Cant afford a house, vacation, no extras. I look at White men. They know their role as men and accept it, get married, have children, open up savings investments, go to church, sports, camping on weekends. They enjoy their roles as men and Dads but black men run from it. I don’t get it. I’ve just gotten tired of trying to figure it out.

I date all races now but I still pray that my black men will step up to the plate and accept their role as men. We really do need you guys because no one understands us like you all do. We’re YOUR women and we should be the last one you take advantage of.

By: Objective Observer

Objective Observer — Tue, 18 Nov 2014 21:54:29 +0000

Others also observe that there is immaturity happening. I wonder if men raised in a two parent intact family are more mature.

By: Emmanuel Africa

Emmanuel Africa — Mon, 03 Nov 2014 02:55:29 +0000

I’m an Elder, First an foremost the male must learn to be a man to function as a man, the female must learn how to be a woman to function as a woman, so far the things in your articles just speaks of the behavior of males and females,
Who have not graduated to the position of man or woman, how can anybody execpt those males and females to behave as men and women if they lack the knowledge

By: toomanygrandkids

toomanygrandkids — Sat, 07 Jun 2014 15:35:56 +0000

above (and the subject of this article) happy or angry? Does it make them angry or happy when they approach/pay females for sex? What do they feel within? If no one can make them angry or happy within, then these types of black males have nobody to blame except themselves when their women/wives have something to say about such trifling, nigger-ish, low-down behavior.

By: toomanygrandkids

toomanygrandkids — Sat, 07 Jun 2014 15:16:12 +0000

Stop kissing up said, “Black women are angry because of their damn selves…”

While that may be true in many cases, this is not one of them. Like I stated before, black males who sleep with their woman’s/wives relatives, friends, neighbors, etc are the most trifling, ignorant, nigger-ish males on the planet. They will use any excuse for their actions. You know, there are black women who would never, ever think of sleeping with her man’s/husbands relatives, friends, neighbors, etc. It’s not in these types of women’s nature to do such a thing. It wouldn’t solve anything anyway. Black women view getting with those associating with her man/husband as being as whorish tramp slut. Black women refuse to stoop that low.

Sensible black women know how to contain their anger. No matter the reason, she will/does not take her anger out on people who have nothing to do with her anger because black women don’t allow anger to consume them. They know how to let it go. They realize that all black men are not the same.

“Things happen to men as well, does that make black women the blame?”

I know there are lots of black females who are the blame for lots of things that happen to black men. But what about when black males don’t give a damn or take responsibility for their own actions? I have an uncle (by marriage) who has slept with at least 5 of my female relatives. Yeah, these females were indeed whores for laying up with him. But he’s just as trifling and unworthy of any respect. “Men,” if that’s what you wanna call them, say things like, “we are hunters so of course we are gonna screw any/every female who’s down with it,” is something they say to excuse their own reactions/behavior/way of thinking. WOMEN ARE NOT TO BLAME! These are the types of males who have been/are raising and teaching young black males that its okay or manly to act in this manner.

“A person can’t make you happy or angry it comes from within.”

Are the black males I described

By: Stop kissing up

Stop kissing up — Thu, 05 Jun 2014 12:15:12 +0000

Black women are angry because of their damn selves .. Things happen to men as well , does that make black women the blame ? A person can’t make you happy or angry it comes from within

By: toomanygrandkids

toomanygrandkids — Mon, 27 Jan 2014 23:45:58 +0000

I’m back yet again. I was having a discussion about this very topic with a group of women. It was a conversation I’ll never forget. We agreed that men who’ll cheat on his woman/wife with her family member(s) or friends are scum. Dirtier than swamp water. But our talk went on a deeper level. Cheating, no matter who does it, is bad. But when men (or women) repeatedly cheats on his woman/wife, he’s guilty of not only causing friction between all involved but for breaking up families/marriages/relationships. No matter how much they claim ‘blood is thicker than water,’ I disagree. Any family member who sleeps with a woman’s man/husband is low down, sneaky whore. I have a label for men also. But it’s so offensive that I may get barred from this website. Anyway, these women’s stories were what I needed to hear. An older woman left a 20 year marriage because her husband and her best friend were sneakin’ around behind her back. And they were best man and maid of honor at the friend’s wedding!! Talk about scandalous. Obviously, those who cheat don’t realize how much devastation they cause.

By: Anne

Anne — Mon, 19 Aug 2013 14:49:17 +0000

Some women probably accept this kind of behavior because their upbringing among men who dogged women and women who accepted it conditioned them to do so. Others definitely have low self-esteem, which causes them to latch onto and try to stay with a man at any cost, regardless of his character. A big part of it, though, is the long-held double standard that holds that a man can do what he wants and still be a man, but a woman cannot. The problem with this attitude is that it promotes dishonesty, immaturity, and selfishness that are not conducive to healthy relationships. What’s worse is that too many folks think that men who DON’T do any of these things have something wrong with them. I commend men who have been able to avoid falling into the trap of thinking that irresponsible behavior is their right. Aside from STD’s and broken relationships, a lot of unwanted kids result. Another consequence is that women who have been hurt in this way often carry baggage into subsequent relationships and are unable to trust, which dooms THOSE relationships. What it all boil down to is that ill treatment of women, or men for that matter, in relationships has consequences that long outlast those relationships.

By: toomanygrandkids

toomanygrandkids — Fri, 26 Jul 2013 01:36:17 +0000

I’m back posting on this article b/c of Vee’s comment. I, too, walked away from a relationship last year. My ex is a selfish-immature-stab-in-the-back type. I wanna injure him so badly. I’ve come to the realization that I’m better off without him. But to forgive? Don’t think I can do that. Not sure if I know how or if I want to. But Vee says that she forgave her ex and moved on with her life. I have moved on, but is forgiving him necessary? Can’t I hate just him for what he did to me? Guess I’ll figure it out one of these days.

By: toomanygrandkids

toomanygrandkids — Thu, 04 Jul 2013 01:22:38 +0000

MASTERPIECE! Would you go on a national tour and school these brothers on respect, love, and happiness?