Why? Because deep down, even though people say people haven’t been taught properly, women know deep down there is something unattractive about a woman who is regarded as a hoe. A 13 year old girl fell to her death trying to keep her boyfriend from releasing a sex tape (damn 13 year olds with sex tape). So if a 13 year old girl knows tries to prevent her sexual misdeeds from being revealed, then she knows she shouldn’t be doing the shit. So why does she do it? Because when you have a group of men (black men) who won’t hold these females accountable for their actions, then they feel their is no penalty for their prostitute ass behavior and you know it’s prostitute behavior because these chicks wear the type of clothing hookers wear (tights, fishnets, hooker boots, etc). But if i walked up to you and aksed you “how much does it cost” females will get offended. But the bitch is wearing hooker clothing!!!!! And gets offended by being propositioned for a tryst. I remember when a dude I used to be cool with had this Somalian chick at his house that he had already had sex with and used to smoke weed with. When I started talking about marrying honorable women, who weren’t loose, she was shocked. She said that “we didn’t know there were black people who thought like you did.”

I said “there are plenty of men like me who hold similar values and views. Don’t just think because we grow up in America we agree with this filth.” And you know what happened? This chick decided to go home and not smoke weed with my friend. My words hit her hard because she allowed herself to be a baby mama because she started buying into the nigger shit in America, when her culture dictates her to be married and honorable. There are people who believe that since we are considered black, that we agree with the nigger shit and judge “us” as all being the same. But this chick found out I was the opposite and ran as soon as she heard my words because when I spoke, she heard her father and the men in her culture that hold her to a different standard. I knew a Ethiopian chick who tried to date black men in my junior college years but said “they didn’t want to get married.” However she was wrong because when I had her number, she wanted to be a hoe because she bought into the American shit. So she cleaned herself up and went back home and got married. If you are not a virgin and never been married, it’s hard for a woman to make the case to me as to why I should marry her. Period. I remember in 2008 a freshman at my college (a black young man) said “if a woman is not about God, we don’t have anything in common.” 18 year olds have better sense than 35-40 year olds. But like Pastor Manning says “when I speak to you about not being honorable, you can’t take what I’m saying because you’re not used to being held accountable for your actions.”

This is so true. Liberal views on sexuality, womanhood, has turned the black woman into the national standard for whore behavior when years ago white women held that title. At the end of the day, when you admit that your own men don’t want to marry you, then you admit your own weakness as women and as an individual woman. Marriage s not a race thing. It’s a personality thing as well as values things. Most women want to marry a man to take his shit. Or because it’s a way to get material things. They don’t believe in adding value to a Man’s life. So why should a man marry you if you’re selfish like that? And that goes for any woman. It’s not a coincidence smart men are going east for wives. It’s not an accident that there are dating websites devoted to providing men wives whereas these american sites are devoted to women offering a one night stand. I think I’ll take marriage over a one night stand and I’m a Man saying this. So if you have women who value ine night stands, instead of marriage, then we have different values and our race is of no consequence. I don’t owe a black woman shit and neither does she owe me. Leave that race shit in the past and make the case as an individual woman as to why a Man should want to be with you for life and for you to have his children. That race shit is going down the drain and class is becoming more important now and with barack being in office has made the black man a much more attractive figure for all women, not just black women. So black woman, I’m trying to help you out for real. Stop debating with “us” and start trying to coexist instead because your mouth and little emotionalisms don’t matter anymore. You think your sisters will be there for you when you’re 50 with no husband? You’re gonna find yourself 50 year old roomates with one another while your men will be married with other women.

I don’t see color in women anymore. I just see woman. If you fine and wholesome, then you have a chance with men like myself. All your little emotional tirades and “being down in the struggle” soliloquies will not work in this new frame of time. Intelligent Black people are tired of weak black people. It’s class warfare right now and I love it because I do not want any heathen niggers near me. And by the way don’t tell me I can’t criticize. Black people always trying to shut people up who speak the truth. I can come on any site and say WTF I feel because I am my own man and unlike most pussy as black dudes on this site, I don’t get scared when a black woman says boo!!!! lol….. Black women have lost houses in this economy that has many of them and their families staying in shelters. I left the Hawks game last week and on the corner, it was three black women outside, with their kids in the the strollers, in the cold, begging for money. This is the future for many of you who are not commercially competent to stand on your own since you are so independent. If you are independent, then that means you have your own banks, schools, hospitals, businesses. How can you call yourself independent and don’t own a business? I own my own business that gives me the freedom to get on this site anytime i want and poke fun at you niggas.

I don’t have to punch no “cracker’s” clock. LOL!!!! So in the end show and prove. Sorry black people hide behind race when they can’t compete with the rest of the world. Black people showed more purpose, and usefulness in slavery, than they do as free people. Murdering each other in the streets like it’s sport. Should have stayed on the plantation if that was the case. But I do understand the infantile mentality I deal with when I speak the way I do. Most black people respond like children when scolded for their low standards of behavior. Sounds like too much liberalism and feminism in the tank. But how has these theories made you wealthy? How has feminism made any black woman wealthy? Show me the businesses that feminism created. Feminism has carved a path of destruction in this societ from baby mams, shot sons in the street, and teenage girls being strippers in clubs. But I’m harsh. i didn’t tell you stiupid idiots to be so garbage. Feminism did and the notion of being “free’ to do what you want to do. But like they say, with freedom, comes many responsibilities. So even though you say you’re “independent” yet you still blame other people for low level of production (government, Bill Cosby, etc).

So which one is it? Either you are “free” and know what you are doing or you’re incompetent, and need to shut the fuck up about what government is not doing for you, when you don’t have the decency to at least do basic things other civilized people do (like don’t be baby mamas). You got people who say black women need help from their bad situations. Other people don’t ask for shit like black people and be irresponsible at the same time. That’s stupidity. But black people justify it with “but we were in chains so you have to give us a free pass.” Did your ancestors ask for a free pass or did they get to work. Matter fact stop claiming those people as your ancestors because those people were winners in spite of their conditions. You niggas are born losers in spite for your more favorable conditions. It’s not against the law for you to read yet you wanna be “hood” like that shit is attractive. I saw college eudcated blacks embracing that hood niggas shit. Girls walking around 8 in the morning going to class with hooker outfits on. Who does that dumb shit? I’ll tell you who: losers. But I’m sure you niggas got some ready made excuse to justify your spiritual ineptitude. 2013 will not allow the nigga to justify his/her incompetence anymore and use slavery as an excuse for it.

Bill Cosby hit hard because he knows where “our” people came from and refuses to let these people be apart of that legacy. If you don’t want to be responsible that’s cool. But don’t try to claim the ancestors who did more with less when you don’t demonstrate the strength of character they displayed. I say what i say about black people men and women included out of respect for the ancestors. You think I give a fuck about niggas who can go to school and not have it against the law for them to read when ancestors could have been killed for attempting to read? You must be crazier than I thought. Black people suck because they choose to suck. Don’t tell me the white man has control over your minds because if you do then I’m gonna say you’re weak and I don’t have time for weak ass niggas. We have plenty of those already.

I’m born in the same land as you and I’m not weak. I have the discipline to read the same banking books that affluent families do to stay in a pristine position economically. When your economic policy as a woman is “child support” then I’m gonna tell you and your heathen lineage to get the fuck out my way and don’t talk to me about no black solidarity.

Black Americans are a very important component of the U.S. consumer marketplace for several reasons. They are younger than the total population, and more of them are in their prime household formation and heavy consumer spending years. Blacks also have been increasing most rapidly in major metropolitan areas and in the South and West regions where jobs are expanding and economic activity is rising.

It’s a disgrace to our ancestor’s sacrifices that we (community activists, stakeholders, religious and political leaders) continue to overlook this most important Kwanzaa component due to individual’s cowardice and self-centered mentality in our community.

We continue to talk about our individual’s achievements or failures in life. We are great talkers about nothing (the white man, African American male/female blame game and what we should or wouldn’t do as a people).

We fail as a community to unite for one common goal; that is why we continue to fail as a people. We lack courage to collectively fight together to change our blighted condition. Regardless of the fact we have the available resources in our communities (270,000 plus African Americans spending billions of dollars plus in Jacksonville annually). The number one crime in the African American community is Apathy. The lack of concern for education, healthcare prevention, entrepreneurship (that pay more than a living wages to the Executive Director – too many Non-Profits hustling off the pathologies in the African American family).

If we would only embrace education, healthcare and economic prosperity like we embrace a chicken wing, fake hair, 50” big screen TV’s, Red Lobster on Friday or use that self-inflicted fear energy most have for the white man, we could change our condition within 3 to 5 years.

The correlation of those collective goals (life education, healthcare prevention and generational economics) will have an impact on decreasing crime, single- parent female households, divorce rate and a major impact in developing personal and community self-respect and develop a progressive positive value system among our youths.

Negroes, when will you stop talking, put your personal self-serving agenda on hold, stop wearing your feelings on your shoulders and come together without worry about who or whom will get the credit, call me.

For now, as my son says “he and I are not feeling you’re Real Talk BS”.

Happy New Year to all makes it count for humanity especially for African Americans.

Stanley “Doc” Scott
Life and Business Coach
Activist for Education and Economic Empowerment
Founder of the African American Economic Recovery Think Tank
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