Comments on: Finding My Barack: Why the Prez is Beloved by Black Women.

By: Rameses

Rameses — Tue, 09 Jul 2013 03:08:31 +0000

You’re welcome Deanne….I thought it was as well

By: Deeann D. Mathews

Deeann D. Mathews — Mon, 08 Jul 2013 20:37:37 +0000

@Rameses Just read the article about Professor Rice. Highly interesting. Thank you.

By: Rameses

Rameses — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 17:57:11 +0000

Condoleeza Rice is someone many black women can learn from. However, she will not get a lot of praise because she’s Republican. I actually like her more than Michelle because of her many accomplishments, but also of her sobering thoughts on foreign policy. Very intuitive and distinguished. Many black women tout their degrees as a barometer of success but many look silly in comparison to this woman. Her accomplishments speak for themselves. Now I don’t care how much can Michelle do the Dougie. Her policy concerns are more important to me on serious matters. But, I still respect her. But for many black women who demand a Barack type man, this woman Condi Rice is more accomplished than most of you, yet she has never demanded anything. She just has felt she as never met anyone she will feel comfortable living with. http://dailycaller.com/2011/11/18/rice-my-role-models-are-actually-white-men-as-a-matter-of-fact-old-white-men/

very interesting article….I totally agree with it

By: Andre

Andre — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 02:36:58 +0000

@Deeann D. Matthews said it best: “I wonder how many realize that the time spent looking for Barack must be spent becoming Michelle.” Nuff said!

By: Ramses

Ramses — Sat, 09 Feb 2013 06:20:10 +0000

Sankofa I have no time for dudes who get less respect from me than gay black men. I never thought I would say this but I respect gay black men more than the ones who claim they are straight but say stupid shit like Marcus and this carribean bum said. Niggas think it is sinful for you to demand respect as a black man. People have gone to war to defend their family’s honor since the dawn of mankind. But we all know how perfect women are. The same type of women who requested John the Baptist head on a silver plate. At least the gay black men show you their weakness up front with no pretense. Men like this actually hear what they want to hear based on the “bitch” in them. It’s clear I am not saying abuse women. You’ll know how I bring it on here. If that’s how I felt, I would say it directly. However, “bitches” require other means to keep them in line. Hell look at Rihanna. Most of these people will psycho-analyze her decision to get back with Chris Brown, but the truth of the matter is, there are many black women who have more respect for men who will go upside their heads than those who think like Marcus and carribean jerk chicken. How can a nigga tell me not to defend my family honor? That’s the weakest, most ponkest, simp type shit I’ve ever heard in my life. I would never attack someone’s parent (although I’m willing to be critical if I’m with someone who allows their parent to manipulate them) especially someone who is dead. Notice how these dudes didn’t even say “damn that’s messed up that someone would say something negative about your deceased parent.” They immediately jumped to a chick’s defense they didn’t know solely because it’s a female. Female can attack me physically and emotionally and yet these tampon wearing ass niggas claim that I’m a woman beater. But my woman can tell you I’ve never put my hand on her!!!! My family honor means a lot to me and I will defend that to the death. Period. Now since niggas don’t really comprehend the family structure thing anymore as a whole, this concept of defending family is foreign to niggas like these. It’s funny how when a female is disrespectful to a man, gender doesn’t come into the discussion, but when a man hits one with a taser who is attacking him on a job, the argument is all about her being a woman. How about the chick was a criminal. She was a criminal that happened to be a female. I’ve even heard gay black dudes say they understand why some females get their asses handed to them. You mean to tell me gay black men agree with me more than so-called straight dudes when it comes to someone attacking my dead relative? LOL!!! This is why I keep saying the black man, as a whole, is a coward and I understand why he keeps getting his ass handed to him and this is why you can’t have brotherhood. To be honest, for the most part, I don’t even like black dudes because of their weak ass mentality. I respect pimps more than these type of dudes because a pimp knows how to keep a hoe in line while these dudes get pimped and get put in line by females and then go onto sites like this and try to put on a cape in front of these chicks and make real men look bad because these men refuse to take disrespect. You have scrawny Chinese men who get more respect from their women than Ray Lewis size black men who actually allow women to slap them in the face and do nothing. I’ll put it to you like this: I wish a bitch would slap me in the face. It would be the last time she do it and the reason why these females think they can slap the shit out of a man in the first place is because homo type dudes like Marcus and carribean jerk chicken will allow themselves to get hit and these women think all black men are like this. Nah black woman. Please don’t put me in these niggas category because I am not. If you want weak men like them cool. Slap them all you want to. But me on the other hand it’s not going down like that with me. Period. These dudes can see females spit on and attack bus drivers, attack men working in McDonald’s and get tasered for attacking a man and calling him gay and inciting her kids to call him gay, and you have dudes like this who defend them still. LOL…. Sankof we can clear these dudes are accustomed to taking ass whippings and want company because misery loves it. LOL… I remember in 2006 my homie was dealing with this black chick and she asked him :would you ever hit a woman?” He said “as long as she doesn’t put her hands on me we cool.” She responds “so you’re saying if a woman hits you you would hit her back?” He said “if a woman kicks me in the balls or slaps or punches me in the face I will knock her ass out.” She says “oh so you’re just a woman beater huh?” He said “look, if a woman never puts her hands on me, she will never have to wrry about me hitting her, but if you’re a woman and you know you can’t control yourself from getting physical with someone you deal with, then you need to get some help first before you decide dealing with someone else.” It was as if this black chick wanted to have the right to hit a man whenever she get mad. Hell I’ve been with females who made me mad but my first instinct was not to hit them and I have the phyical strength to make them do what I want!!! Yet i am willing to talk and compromise. So if I can respect my own strength and keep it in check, and not use it to be a tyran to a female, how can someone who’s considerably weaker than I not control her emotions when she lacks the capability to physically force me to do anything at all? But these women only think like this because you have playtex dudes like these who will allow a chick to slap the shit out of them and not defend themselves and look at a Man who has every right to protect his person, no matter the gender attacking it, yet attack this type of man for being an “abuser of women.” What a bunch of dummies

By: sankofa

sankofa — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 22:52:13 +0000

So because Ramses said he would put his hand on a woman, y’all dissing him? So I take it that either one of you if you were that Cleveland bus driver, that Mall guard being confronted by that hood rat, that father with his children being confronted by another hood rat out in LA, or that young brother being slapped by those two dusty lesbians, y’all would back down?

Please put things in context. If a female get’s in my personal space and is aggressive with me, I see her as a threat and treat her like she expects me to see her, as a “badder” man than I. If you are a knee-grow believing in this fairy tale, go right ahead, but don’t force your misplace chivalry on cats who are liable to throw down. Ramses comes hard and harsh, you don’t have to agree with him and by all means no one is above being challenged. But I am tired of hearing simps talking shit about “don’t put your hand on a woman” as if all of this comes out of a vacuum. . If we can dog out the knee-grow males for their bullshit and suggest corrective measures even to corporate punishment, the same should hold for the modern “independent” female. Now I know this post isn’t about hitting females, but how it segues into that from delusional females looking for that “Mr. right”, I am unclear, but it is still instructive. Instructive in that we still can’t dialogue on the point of the moment without making shit personal.

@Pat…see the movie Hoodwink by Janks Morton, I believe the owner of this site did a review on it awhile back. Also see his previous work What black man think. Both will open up your eyes to how propaganda and stereotypes can and does screw with your own perception of yourself.

By: Marcus Vessey

Marcus Vessey — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 17:59:29 +0000

It’s in your right to defend your dead parents honor by striking a woman? That is not cool, and it is assault. And I can show you how to develop a corporate business model. That is what I do all day everyday.

Come on Ramses.

By: John

John — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 00:44:56 +0000

Ramses,

I was right! You put hands on women before! You are narrow-minded as I wrote before. I am not African even if I am proud of this continent whatever the racist things we hear all the time in the media. My roots are from the West Indies! For your information even I don’t owe you any, I have a very successful business. You are just enraged because you know you are not an Obama, you don’t arrive to his knees!!! Black is beautiful. You named Latinas who don’t age well like Whites, lol!

By: Ramses

Ramses — Thu, 07 Feb 2013 16:00:17 +0000

Be gone peasant….and for the record I have never put my hands on a woman..but I have had to lay hands on bi@#&%es….when someone mocks a dead parent it’s within your right to defend their honor….but just because you know multiple languages doesn’t mean you know how to express a complete thought that’s coherent with those languages. Show me a business model to run a corporation then you will impress me. But as long as you are someone else’s servant, don’t try to impress me with the language thing..and oh by the way..I study spanish on my own so when I go to SOuth America I can holla at those latinas with that long hair with no weave. And plan on learning a couple more. Matter fact you corny son go bakck to your hut nigga…I don’t even like you african niggas anyway

By: Pat

Pat — Thu, 07 Feb 2013 15:24:17 +0000

Sankofa,

We want your sources!!!