I was speaking from a physical point of view, but I agree with you the Creator gives life. Having said that, life doesn’t begin until the sperm connects with the egg and even after that, the soil has to be fertile in order for the egg to grow. The bottom line, you need the Woman’s egg to create life which is what I meant. I also agree with you that we can’t save people who don’t want to be saved. But I do believe we need to help those who want to be helped. We need to establish an environment where we as a people can grow and blossom in. It may be too late for a lot of our Brothers and Sisters, but not all of them and the young ones. They just need a positive direction, which is what I will be doing with my organization.

@ Ramses

I heard everything you said, but as Sister Deeann said, our ancestors went through much more than we can ever imagine. It was not only physical trauma, but mental as well. What we’re going through now is on a mental level, which is a lot harder to change. But as you said, the white man is not stopping us now, we’re stopping ourselves. The good news is if we are the problem, then we are also the solution. This is why I’m not giving up on our Brothers and Sisters. The hard work has already been done in the sense of opportunities. The problem is because of the negative mental programming, the self hatred you mentioned, we took and continue to take those opportunities and support every community but our own. This is the negative seed the white man planted in us that continues to grow to this day, in many different ways like relationships. I know some of us will give up and that’s understandable, but as Brother Mack says, nothing changes if we don’t.

Black Unity means financial independence and happiness

The latter is my larger point… if Black men who have figured out where we as a people have gone wrong give up on Black women, and won’t search for the Black women who are willing to rebuild, then we must concede that the game is over

But it’s true. Black women don’t listen. You know how long I’ve been out here trying to teach grown women simple stuff. Not rocket science, but basic things, which is not really my responsibility. I mean when brothers don’t have their stuff together (economics) do most black women take the time and patience with them to support them? Hell no. But when I say I don’t have the patience for black women to get their mind together (which is way more important than economics) I’m supposed to be patient. No. I do not have a lifetime to waste on black women to figure out the puzzle. If she is gullible enough to think she needs no man and can do it on her own, I say let the bitch do it on her own. I’m staying out her way. That’s real. Who has time for a weave wearing, hair blonding, contacte wearing psycho who rejects herself through her beauty standards everyday and don’t tell me it’s the white man and white woman’s fault. I’m not hearing that plantation excuse no more. I was born in the same society that attempts to strip my manhood everyday and my experience as a Man is way worse than a black woman. You don’t see me conking my damn hair. Lightning my skin with creams and all that dumb stuff. Let’s just call it what it is: black women are too weak to stand with their men. It’s easier to sell out than to walk the road with black men and I get it. Cool. It’s ok. We universal. Hip Hop culture (not this fag music) has allowed us to break down many doors globally and in places like Europe, they know who Moors are. The black man in America is the most copied man on the planet. White boys copy us. Middle eastern men try to be us. Indian dudes try to be us. And a whole host of other men, while at the same time trying to hate us. Had a Indian girl in my math class in 2002 tell me out her own mouth that Indian women love black men. I’m glad feminism came along because it revealed how shady black women really are and now I see why Moors were circumnavigating the globe: hell they were probably trying to get away from black women. Real shit. I mean why were they going into Europe the way they were dealing with all those white women. Kind of makes you wonder? Hmmm…. I’m not a hater at all. Like I said before. To those black women who operate on ancient principles and support black men, much love and respect and you don’t belong in this conversation. But to the rest, please. Your nature has been revealed for the charlatan you are. And it is not enough good black women to make me wanna go out there and search like a rat looking for food in a sewer. Nah I’m good. No thanks. Keep that. i don’t want your booty, attitude, nor weak conversations. I’ll leave these black women to the black men who don’t know any better. All these women on the planet willing to embrace black men and love them like they need it yet these dudes want to keep running back to a bitch who gets pleasure out of abusing him. Talk about child abuse. Niggas been getting abused so much they don’t even recognize it. The only thing they can spout is this beautiful black queen nonsense. Where you’ll get this shit from? What queens you’ll talking about? I ain’t seen them mofos. Point em out to me. Are they in your churches? Your mosques? Synagogues? Schools? I’m not blind and I know I haven’t seen them. let some of these black women start seeing brothers with women from other countries. That shit will have their asses hurt for real. And I don’t call these women foreign at all. Any woman who embraces culture, has integrity, respects and adores her Man, is not foreign to me. Black women are more foreign to me than women of other nationalities. Like Chris Rock said it’s not about hating black people, it’s about hating niggas. I am not throwing on a cape and trying to save black people. Too many black men gave their lives for that futile cause and I learned from that. Black people love when martyrs die for them, but they hate when martyrs hold them accountable for their behavior. When Yasheua (Jesus) talked in the scriptures, he said “I ahve come to fulfill the Law unto Moses.” He was about Law. Period. Black women follow a white man’s law, which allows them to be hoes, yet violate the God they say is their God’s law without a second thought. Now imagine me, a rational thinking man, seeing a woman violate God’s law all the time. If a Woman shows she doesn’t value God’s law, whatever God that is, then what makes you think this mofo will listen to you? Black women don’t listen to the God they go praising every Sunday in church. That’s all I need to see. Me and black women don’t vibe because I hit they asses with that law and they get to running. I remember a black chick told me that God was old. She said “you still on that.” Mind you she was a dyke. I’m good. I’m getting money, searching other to find fertile soil to place seeds in, and forming good families. that’s how I will make my contribution to humanity in a positive way. As far as sacrificing for black women the way I used to in the past, that is over with. And don’t get it twisted I can admit when I’ve been hurt. Only a bitch nigga will try to hide the fact he’s been hurt. But when you hurt, it means you care. I’ve been hurt by some black women. But I learned to stop going to a well that keeps your mouth dry. But don’t think just because I’ve been hurt I don’t know what the hell I’m talking about. Matter fact, some black women try to make you feel bad about feeling hurt!!!! Damn you can’t win for losing. When you hard, then you’re not sensitive enough. When you’re compassionate, then you’re a soft ass nigga. I’m surprised that more black men don’t have identity crises. Maybe they do and they are keeping quiet about it. All I know is this, and I want brothers to ponder this question: how many black men/Moors around you do you know or have known in your past are happy, truly happy, and are successful with black women. I posed the question to my friend today and he was like wow. He never thought about it. I have to think really hard to find anybody, especially my close friends who have had any success or are happy with their woman if they are dealing with a black woman. Matter fact, when we see a black man happy with a black woman and be successful, we are shocked, if we see it. My point is, it’s an anomaly. It doesn’t exist. It might have existed in my great grandad’s and grandmother’s generation. But in 2012, shiiiiiiit. We are so shocked, male and female, when we see a black man and woman happy together. We are like “how they do it!” Lol. it’s an exception to the rule. The rule is that shit most of the time does not work because black women are freaking crazy and you’ll know it. You’ll mental problems are at a level that I can’t even put into words. If I approach any other woman from a different ethnic group, my macking is superb. When it comes to black women, my words don’t even want to come out because I’m not really impressed by them. I mean don’t get me wrong, i look at the ass and all that, but that’s about it. Black women only appeal to my sexual side. But when it comes to my spiritual side, there’s no connection. And that’s it. The connection that I used to feel towards black woman has been replaced by other women. I’m not excited about the prospect of being with a black woman. Now give me a latina, asian, european woman then I’m all in. You put that obnoxious black woman in front of me, no response. Just an indifference now. An ambivalence. Black women have really done their job if their goal was to turn black men off from them. I mean that had to be your plan: what else could it be? I never thought I’d say this but I suggest black women find them some white men because your chances with brothers are dwindling real fast. No other men in the world will deal with that obnoxious shit and I’m surprised we’ve done it for so long but brothers are holding their balls in their hands again and becoming like wild bulls. That ponk faggot shit brothers been on, some have snapped out of that shit to realize that the white man is not his obstacle to success: it’s the black woman. Good luck

Another thing: you said the black woman gave us life. Correction: God gives us life. And he gives it through the power of the seed which flows through man. That seed carries the God-gene in it. But it also carries the essence of that man within it. Women physically speaking only provide the proper environment to grow that seed within; but only for 9 months. The bloodline always travels through the man.

I’m pro-African/Moor to the hilt. But I’m also a realist. We have to stop owning niggerishness and calling it ours. Some of these brothers and sisters; correction: MOST we simply can’t take with us. They’re more destructive to the greater cause than the uncle Toms and aunt Tomasinas who ran and told ‘massa’ about the slaves plotting to run away. Why try and drag them heavy sacks of burden around, when all they’re doing is slowing up everyone’s progress? They need to get with the program or get left. Period.

But few Black people, in the last 50 years, have had that. The end of segregation did not make many of the powers that be change their minds about not wanting to equip us to be strong Black men and women: integration meant primarily that we turned over our livelihood and the education of our children to those that had no concern about our becoming anything other than… well… their slaves, color it in corporate terms how we may (and only until there were enough Asians and Latinos to fill the spots they themselves could not or would not fill). So, we have three entire generations of Black people living who do not know how to be the way our forebears were, and who have taken on the worst attributes of those that have no interest in their well being. I was spared, by the grace of God and the tremendous sacrifice of my family.

The latter is my larger point… if Black men who have figured out where we as a people have gone wrong give up on Black women, and won’t search for the Black women who are willing to rebuild, then we must concede that the game is over. I will never concede; there are too many Black boys and girls who are looking on those who are in our 30s, 40s, and 50s and trying to find an alternative to the insanity rampant. They all do not have to be another generation lost, and frankly, even many of our peers are looking for alternatives in those midnight hours when pride gives way to a full sense of the emptiness of the bill of goods many of us have been sold. Somebody — and it will take a Black man and a Black woman working together, MARRIED — needs to provide leadership in every community, and train/raise additional families of leaders. It takes time to become that woman and be found by that man — and vice versa. But I refuse to believe that the process will not be worth it; I refuse to leave my students and tutees to be destroyed because the work is exceedingly hard. I refuse to concede, on marriage, and on the future of Black people right here in this country… and I do not think I am the first or last Black woman, down through the history of this country, who has had to make that stand. Must have been hard to see one’s mate and children sold away, or to be forced to give one’s body or have one’s wife’s body given to a cruel master for his lust… but if our foreparents did not give up and managed to hold enough of their families together to secure our future, I refuse to believe that we are done for yet!

Thank you for sharing your personal experience about some of our lost Sisters. I could feel the pain and hurt in your words and can understand why you feel the way you do. Based on your comment, I think we agree on most things, but I will never give up on the Black women. She gave us life and helped to make us the powerful Black men that we are because for me it sure wasn’t my father. When you give up on the Black women, you give up on yourself and our future as a people.

This is exactly what the white man wants us to do. He knows that the Black man and Woman are the most powerful beings on this planet and can only control us by keeping us divided. The only way to counter this is to work together to mend our relationships, not by going outside our community. This will not be easy, but it will be worth it. It will take strong Black men to do this, of which I believe there are many. We just need to get organized and let our Sisters know, we aren’t going anywhere.

Black Unity means financial independence and happiness

A perfect example of how far off the path of righteousness they have gone is to have the disgusting nerve to teach homosexuality in elementary schools. How sick is that. Yet we as a people continue to follow and do everything they do. The solution is to reconnect with our African traditions and values for those people looking to change our situation. Good examples of this are Kwanzza, rights of passage ceremonies, and many others. When we came to this country, we didn’t have relationship problems, but since being around these people for so long and not keeping our values and traditions we’ve succumbed to their issues. It’s time to break the mental chains of slavery and be the great people we were meant to be.

Black Unity means financial independence and happiness