Comments on: MEN: Access & @ss!

By: Ramses

Ramses — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:35:20 +0000

@ nikki it’s that type of thinking that got females out here without men in longterm committed relationships…..a man wants a prize no other man has… that’s women’s problem out here…it’s not a Man’s job to be your parent when he’s with you…you should be emotionally ready to be with him…a Man guides a Woman no doubt but not in a parental way…it’s guiding her down the path he thinks will be conducive to his success….what Man wants to sit there teaching a woman her proper role as a woman while at the same time trying to be with her? trust me i do not listen to kanye west nor will i take advice from a boy who will make amber rose and kim kardashian his woman. that’s asinine…i don’t see his comments having any validity in what I choose as a Woman for me to be with…women who don’t protect their virtue (womb) are bad women in terms of possible partners because all it takes is one dude to mess up a woman for life…what man wants damaged goods? women don’t want to hear this but this is how men think…..loose females want us to confirm to their “new age” personas but but traditional men will never budge from this and furthermore women should be glad that men are not willing to make a loose woman their wives anyway. Why should a female like kim kardashian enjoy the protection of marriage when her claim to fame is as sex tape? if men marry this, they deserve the hell that ultimately these females bring. in my lifetime, the women who have exhibited crazy personalties are always the ones who have had multiple guy (sometimes girls) sexual partners. I’ve never seen a crazy virgin, have you? Most women don’t understand the science of the womb and pollute it without a second thought. You think it’s a coincidence that the most pleasurable physical act also has attached to it the reproductive capabilities of men and women? That’s not an accident dear and a woman should covet her virtue more than she covets a degree. If a woman shows me she doesn’t care about her womb (abortions, multiple sex partners, etc) then why should I?

By: Nikki Woods

Nikki Woods — Wed, 28 Nov 2012 14:11:10 +0000

Ramses you are correct on many of your points. However, there are plenty of men willing to marry women that don’t have the best reputations. I know a few. They aren’t all bad women. Poor decision makers, yes, but not bad people. They found someone that loved them enough to look beyond what they did. And if it works for that man and woman I’m happy for them.

In the words of Kanye “I never met a ***** that didn’t need a little guidance; I’ll forgive her for her past until she disappoints your highness.”

By: Nikki Woods

Nikki Woods — Wed, 28 Nov 2012 14:06:46 +0000

TLP, thanks for reading the article. Let me clarify a few of your statements.

“but you’re obviously under the impression that men have this super power that lets them pretend they’re in love when they aren’t.

-There is not one mention of “love” in the article. I didn’t mention love because I know what love is and this behavior is not it.

“I’ve been with my woman for almost 3 years AND i talk to exes. Here’s something else for you – I’ve never cheated in my life and I’m damn near 30! Real men stick by their women!”

-Great! I’m glad conversing with your exes is OK with you as well as your significant other. Let the band play! You’ve never cheated and your almost 30. I’m not sure how you’re trying to position yourself with that statement but if you are in a relationship you aren’t suppose to cheat. You don’t get “extra credit” for earning your keep. That would be the equivalent of me saying “I’m a great parent” or “I cook and I clean”. I’m suppose to.

“The point I’m trying to make is that love and respect are things that come with a relationship: if you don’t love and respect someone, you’re not in a relationship. THAT’S IT!”

-Again, nothing in the article references this behavior as a relationship. As an FYI, love and respect are subjective. One may think that talking to exes is disrespectful; you clearly do not.

If you strongly believe that you’re man is unfaithful but you’re still looking for proof, he IS being unfaithful! How will you know? Just ask your dude! Oh wait… he isn’t there

-I’m not sure why you keep referencing relationships. This article is about neither a relationship or cheating. Sorry, its just not. It’s simply about having access. No more. No less. How can a man be unfaithful if he isn’t in a relationship? One more time – this isn’t a relationship.

By: Nikki Woods

Nikki Woods — Wed, 28 Nov 2012 13:47:35 +0000

You’re welcome Michael Chester!

By: TLp

TLp — Wed, 28 Nov 2012 02:24:04 +0000

Wow! I get what you’re saying, but you’re obviously under the impression that men have this super power that lets them pretend they’re in love when they aren’t. I’ve been with my woman for almost 3 years AND i talk to exes. Here’s something else for you – I’ve never cheated in my life and I’m damn near 30! Real men stick by their women!
The point I’m trying to make is that love and respect are things that come with a relationship: if you don’t love and respect someone, you’re not in a relationship. THAT’S IT!
If you strongly believe that you’re man is unfaithful but you’re still looking for proof, he IS being unfaithful! How will you know? Just ask your dude! Oh wait… he isn’t there

By: Ramses

Ramses — Mon, 26 Nov 2012 22:57:33 +0000

I agree with this, however, let me say one thing. There are females out here who are used as test subjects. They are the type of females who allow men to hone their skills on. Not necessarily bad, unless men go overboard with this. A Woman needs to decide if she will be this type of woman or not. Once she starts down this road, she pretty much won’t ever recall from this path. I know this to be truth. Seen to many women try this path and then try to reverse midstream but your reputation is already known. Sad indeed. To give you an example, this brother was dealing with an Indian woman. He asked her “are indian men virgins when they marry you’ll?” She replied “no, that’s what the prostitutes are for.” So the brother asks amazed “you’ll know that they deal with them?” She says “of course, that’s what they’re there for. and when they’re ready to get married they come to us (virgins).” I definitely agree men shouldn’t go overboard with prostitutes or females who think and act like them, but these females serve as a springboard to men and their sexual prowess. It’s just the way it is. It’s nature. Only when females try to blur the lines is when it gets complicated. You can’t start off screwing the football team, and then when you leave college expect to be treated like a wife. That’s absurd.

By: Michael Chester

Michael Chester — Mon, 26 Nov 2012 22:43:39 +0000

Thank you for writing this, Sister.