And while you are at it, why don’t you explain to us what you as a woman want–not the generic stuff, actual concrete stuff—so that us men can “step up”.
I am sure you have more things to offer a man, based on your blog than anything we can offer.

Let me give you your 31st thought: I work fulltime. Do YOU? Own a business. And I did say OWN. Again, do YOU? Your sense of judgment is way off missy. Maybe you should reserve some of that assessment for your own self. But we know that probably won’t happen.

And trying to disown Amber Rose suits your convenience, doesn’t it? Now she’s not black. If she was on some presidential tip, you’ll be screaming “Look at Amber Rose, that beautiful, strong intelligent SISTER!”

Deflection at its finest! How about not using your anger as a defense mechanism. Even the bible warns you to be angry and sin not.

The more I read these angry feminisitic responses, the more evident it becomes: there are more of you who fit the bill then those who don’t. And if I’m wrong, then the ones who do NOT fit the bill should speak up more often. Because right now you are being grossly under-represented.

Question 1: Amber Rose is Black? When did that happen?

@Mack “But the good ones make up a very tiny minority.” Really? Based off of 1 video?? This is proof that good Black women are minorities?? I guess if you’re looking for them in strip clubs, they are Smh

@Ramses “I don’t even fault brothers anymore because the problems of the group (don’t consider blacks a community anymore because the word signifies unity which blacks don’t) lay directly at the feet of black women and feminism. This hasn’t just destroyed women, but men as well.” Here, you’re blaming women for lack of unity?? Be a leader

“You know what’s so interesting, if I was to go to a strip club right now, and flash some money in a black chick face, she would treat me like a Man. She would be accommodating, reverential, be the object of my fantasy, stroke my ego and all that. So when people say these women don’t know how to do it it’s untrue. They just use it to get money out of men hands. But after they leave the club, the facade disappears.”

THESE ARE STRIPPERS!!! If you flashed money in any race of stripper’s face, she would make you feel like a MAN. Are you serious?? A stripper is an exception to most rules in most cases?? And why would you expect anything more from a stripper?? She’s a stripper!!! You are not proving anything about normal Black women by explaining a stripper’s mentality. A stripper should not be the representative of any race of people. Period.

To the author:
“When I wrote a status about Amber Rose and what she said, I was immediately emailed by several Sisters stating that he made her a “baby mama“, once again using old faithful, aka “deflection“.”

Black women are constantly deflecting because MEN are supposed to be the leaders. THEY are supposed to lead by example, which they are NOT doing. Anything you say will be placed back MEN’S shoulders where it belongs. I was taught and most women (all races) too that the men are to be the head of the household, our communities, etc. But, OUR men are not leading. They are expecting women to be turning all types of tricks to get a man to want them/marry them. A man has to want to be a husband, but first a good man. I can’t MAKE you a good man, be one without prodding. This society is a reflection of the downfall of MEN, nothing more. We tell our children to do as we say, not do as we do, but they will emulate actions, not words. Same here.

I’m certainly not going to be led by some man who frequents strip clubs, making it rain and can barely pay his car note, which is I’m assuming why @Mack and his circle of friends are having the problems they’re having. Get YOUR mind right.

Can you imagine a chick like this bearing your seed?! Or one like Amber Rose for that matter. I know this isn’t indicative of all sisters, and thank God for that. But the good ones make up a very tiny minority. We’ve been told that a good black MAN is hard to find. But the reality is becoming more evident every day: a good black WOMAN is hard to find. And these angry black women hate to hear that truth: the truth that most are not the great catch they imagine themselves to be.