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By: Leah

Leah — Mon, 31 Dec 2012 03:07:37 +0000

I also agree that Yes! Black women today are more masculine. By that I mean, not in their looks, but in how they act! Some of these women are really tough, even for me and I’m a black woman! But, if you look at the environment that many of us have lived in you would understand why. The environment itself is tough and many black men are not stepping up to the plate and raising their families. So that leaves the woman to do it. Black women have become in my opinion immune to that. We have developed this hard shell. Like I said, this is just my opinion, I can’t speak for everyone…

Peace!

By: Leah

Leah — Mon, 31 Dec 2012 02:57:29 +0000

Goodness! What a horrible video to witness! Sheesh, these young men are out of control, excuse me young BLACK men! If you watch the video in it’s entirety, you can see all she did was yell for them to get out the house. How does that provoke an animalistic like attack on her? Shame on any brothas that think it was really acceptable for this jack a** (pardon my french) to beat that woman! Go, and be with your white woman, if you feel the need to! Not like you were doing much in the black community in the first place. SMH!

Peace!

By: Ramses

Ramses — Sun, 11 Nov 2012 06:05:29 +0000

And @Anisa love your comment about college because I say the same things. People come out of college dumber than what they went in. They have you so open to anything you won’t stand for something. Good analysis on that piece I would tell people to check out this documentary on youtube call the college conspiracy. For all you dumb chicks who love to throw up in a Man’s face your degree, this documentary will show you how small you are on the totem pole.

By: Ramses

Ramses — Sun, 11 Nov 2012 05:58:31 +0000

Peace @Anisa. As I said before I honor those sisters who honor themselves and their kings and from the way you talk it’s quite clear that you do these things and we applaud you. Black women have been getting away for too long with this sickness, this madness that permeates in their psyche. I know majority of the females who read what me and Mack, and Sankofa and any other men who write what we write will not agree with us and that’s fine because like I tell dudes all the time, when you agree to be Men, and and just overall good people, you’re gonna piss people off because you don’t compromise your principles. It just comes with the territory. I say what I say to those females who are straddling the fence, who think they have to be a hoe to be with men. The ones who take pole dancing classes thinking this is gonna keep a man around. I’m saying you don’t have to do this. Instead of taking a pole dancing class, take a cooking class, since we know most of you come from a generation who never taught you how to cook. This will take you further in life with men. Black women in general need to overstand and innerstand that you can’t fuck your way into a man’s heat and definitely won’t get you married. Once a Man puts you in the jump off category, you never can make it to the wife category. If you think I’m lying females, if you’re not married to your dude and you’ll are boyfriend and girlfriend, then ask this Man how does he feel about marriage and would he marry you, something you should know anyway, but I’m sure most of you never considered asking the question. A man knows in his hear the type of woman he will marry. He doesn’t have to be with you 6 months, a year or 5 years. He knows instantly. It’s animal instinct. If you haven’t attached yourself to his heart, and only to his penis, you might as well kiss marriage goodbye. You don’t have to convince him to marry you because he will emphatically want to if you are his true companion in his eyes. Most of these females on here get mad at us but here’s the problem with their thinking. Most of these females come from single parent backgrounds. Which mean no father around usually. Because of this, they don’t have a healthy respect for men which grows stronger and stronger each year. However, instead of hating fathers for not being around, why don’t these daughters ask this question: why weren’t you and my dad married when I was conceived? This is painful for a lot of children in general. No matter how bad a female wants to say a father is for not being around, and kids in general, no one is ever questioning mom’s role and she has the decisive role in the whole matter because unless the legs go up no seed is getting planted. Question is: why was mama having sex at a young age and not married to my daddy? Why was mama in the streets at a young age? Who allowed her to do this and if the rules around her counseled her against this behavior, then why did she go against this wise counsel and have me at 14, or 15, 16? When my mother and father had me, my father was 17 and mother 19 but they were married. Now you have females saying at this age I’m too young to get married. So what you gonna be then a hoe in the meantime, then drag your slimy behind to some church thinking you’re gonna find some rinky dink dude to marry you? The girl who attacked the driver was an out-of-wedlock mother (if you can call her that). What if she came across a street dude and did that and got killed? Then her child would have been more of a burden than the kid is already now. When Men like us say something, it’s for selfish reasons why? Because we want families in a structured environment. Mothers in the previous generation have raised daughters like them (whores) and we meet them and can’t do anything with them but lay pipe to them and that gets tired after awhile. At some point a Man wants a legacy and you can’t have a legacy with a hoe. Pure and simple. Now the dudes who go the clubs and screw females like it ain’t no tomorrow, they cool with it because they’re not looking to get married. However, cats like us are not feeling that at all. I blame mothers, not fathers fpr this madness because men have a nature to plant seeds. It’s natural. Like a bee pollinating in spring. The circumstances in which these seeds are being produced is the problem. Too many out of wedlock and not in a marriage/family environment. The black woman has to much of a bitch nature instead of feminine nature. When you use adjectives to describe a black woman, is feminine the first one that comes to mind? Hell no. Strong is the first one that comes. But hell a Man is strong, but he damn sure isn’t feminine. How can a word like strong be used to equally define a man and woman? It’s not because strong should not be associated with any Woman. When we use the word strong in relation to a black woman, it’s usually in reference to her being a single mom. However, being a sinlge mom does not indicate strength, it inidcates a lack of discipline and stupidity because if a woman is gonna have a man;s child she should at least have a marriage out of him first. Why have a kid with a man who has not committed to you? I dare any female challenge me on here and show me the wisdom in that shit. And I’m trying to defend the virtue of the black woman god knows I am but damn she doesn’t have one. Most of them anyway. I have to bring the pain only because i love ya and want you’ll to do better than this shit and if you can’t (or won’t) then cool but don’t get mad when brothers make other arrangements in search of a family structure. You’ll better wake up because they look like they are gonna start cutting some of this welfare stuff real soon and if they do, these chicks with four and five kids will probably have to give up your kids for adoption to gay men because you can’t afford them which is some sick shit. This shit is real. Welfare is a policy and policies can be ended at any time especially when politicians demonize them to get votes (Bill Clinton in the 90’s). I have done my part and the Creator sees my words are sincere and from the heart and at the end of the day I can say to the Creator “I tried. I tried to warn them but they didn’t take heed.” In 50 years you might not see in America what you consider black folks. Anisa spread the word to your female counterparts that the days of being sorry are over. Generational welfare are coming to an end and instead of these black women bashing black men all the time, they need to start bashing these welfare recipients who get money from working black women paycheck before they do. Look at your paycheck. Medicaid and Medicare comes out and goes to these sorry females. If I was a black woman I would start a campaign to stop having my money get taken out of my check by lazy overly-sexed brawds. This could be money used to et aside for college or used to open a business but instead it’s used to fund a dummy’s irresponsibility. Appreciate the feedback Anisa and stay up on your game. Peace

By: Anisa

Anisa — Sun, 11 Nov 2012 04:48:57 +0000

Peace… There are soo many things that I can delve into on this article….Where does one begin?? LOL

I have to start with asking Ramses- were you a part of CME debate night in Atlanta? Listening to you “speak” on this article reminds me of a gentleman with the same name that I met while I was living down in ATL. He is a deep, fascinating brother who would always shut it down during debate night…LOL but anyway…..

I must say that not all of us females agree with this dusty ass behavior that is seen running rampant throughout the black community. I’m not signing a damn petition about this. That is the dumbest thing I’ve read throughout this entire thread…A petition…LOL..It’s like a disease!! I actually ABHOR IT. It makes me sick to my stomach to see a feMALE (emphasis on the MALE) jump all in a man’s face & exude NOTHING BUT TESTOSTERONE & then get mad when you get slapped back down into reality. As a female you have NO place getting in a man’s face. Stand up like a man get beat down like a man. When you ACT LIKE A LADY & THINK LIKE A LADY (not like a MAN) guess what…you get treated as such. When will these dusty chicks learn? Probably NEVER…. But let me tell them from a female’s perspective…You will NEVER be held in high esteem…You will NEVER be treated like a QUEEN- No man worth HIS weight in salt will want you- want you to bear his seed because you ARE a PARASITE!! You make real WOMEN like MYSELF look BAD! US REAL WOMEN have to work even harder to show that we dont think that way or act that way because there is this common theme that seems to run amongst a good portion of the “sistas”.

Some of these comments the women sound pure stupid to me. You cannot honestly think that if you stand up in a man’s face, threaten him or actually place your hands upon his person that he is going to just “walk away”. That is STUPIDITY… So as a female if someone (male or female) was in your face threatening you.. you would walk away?? RIIIIGHHHHTT I dont know who you think you are tryin to fool- us or yourself.. I say the latter!! LOL

FYI: I’m not signing a damn petition about this. That is the dumbest thing I’ve read throughout this entire thread…A petition…LOL..waste of energy

Dusty ass females tend to attract DUSTY ASS dudes. We tend to attract what we are or those who are a reflection of a part of us. I attracted a good strong BLACK man because of who I am. I would never embarrass or degrade his masculinity in front of others or even behind closed doors. I lift him up & he does the same for me. But if & when I need to give him critique it is done in a FEMININE WAY- where he thinks about what he did/said & can take his own corrective actions. I understand my role- correction i OVERstand my role in his life & his in mine & I must say we have quite a symbionic relationship. Many times strangers have come up to us as a couple & commented on how beautiful a couple we are- in our interactions..yo can see a genuine love & respect for one another- we exude it. So no one can tell me that there are no good strong black men out here!!

Its a shame that I had the pleasure of reading only ONE FEMALES comment (Deann) that actually made sense. The rest are coming from a purely EMOTIONAL stance without ANY logic attached sounding like a bunch of hystrionic NUTS (look it up if you dont know what it means LOL)…& there in lies another huge problem. We as women ARE the EMOTIONAL counterpart to what is supposed to be the STRONG OPINIONATED black man. This is not a WEAK position ladies( only speaking to the REAL ladies- not the hoodrats, dusty chicks, or the fe-MALES) if you know how to approach it PROPERLY- you actually HAVE THE POWER in playing your role (anti-feminism). But it has to be used WISELY & that is something our community is lacking as a whole..WISDOM…

Just like Ramses said…the QUEEN is the BADDEST player on the board- but her DUTY is STILL to PROTECT THE KING!! The game is OVER when he is captured! If you play chess you OVERstand each piece has a role & a position to play. Only when the positions are played PROPERLY is the GAME WON!! That is how Life is… So for those in a FOG- WAKE UP! Know your role, play your position!

There is a whole generation of grandmotherly wisdom missing in the community- due to the uprising of young girls becoming mothers too soon & making their mothers grandmothers while yet still being in their 30s. What are these grandmothers teaching their grandkids? How to twerk it in the mirror?? Its a mess out here.

I actually LOVE to see & hear educated STRONG BLACK MEN speak on a variety of topics. Talk about a turn on!! The brain is the SEXIEST ORGAN!! It doesnt matter whether or not he is “college-educated” because as a college educated female the one thing I KNOW to be true is….I’ve learned MORE about life, the REAL world, relationships etc etc OUTSIDE the confines of a classroom. If you are a TRUE LIFE STUDENT then you know that learning is a continual thing….it doesnt happen within a few short years. That is the delusional way of looking at things.

And I am really curious to know where you received your degree…umm Penn Foster?? LOL Its usually good before throwing around the “fact” that you have a “degree” that you spell check, edit & proof read your work. And lets not mention that for someone who says they have a “law degree” your arguments were quite weak, and not well articulated. I expect soo much better from someone who is soo “well-educated”.

I agree with Mack, Ramses & Sankofa… I LOVE IT BROTHERS!!! It’s wonderful to see some of my brothers able to hold it down- conversationally, in a debate… I APPLAUD ALL THREE OF YOU!! Keep speaking the truth out here!!

By: Ramses

Ramses — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 19:17:12 +0000

http://www.flipthegame.net i just read this bruh….enough said…they can kick rocks it ain’t even them anymore….black women are not even feminine enough to get my attention like a man would like in order to marry them. every white chick i have ever dealt with always showed reverence. I remember in the ninth grade a white chick bought me a carnation. I never forgot that. In 98 i was messing with this white chick at Emory university and she and her roommate only dealt with brothers. I asked them if they dealt with white boys and they looked at each other and laughed. There are too many women in the world to lose your existence to a chick who is not loyal to you…this article is good because it’s honest. It’s not white male or black woman bashing: it’s an honest assessment of how this white woman really feels. America doesn’t like to hear this from a white woman or black man. i approached a white girl and she was so bashful and stunned that I approached her she couldn’t even hardly speak. She was so bashful and shy it was so attractive and feminine it made me want her more. As opposed to a brawd who thinks she all that and think she’s upgrading you (Beyonce). She didn’t even want to reveal she had a boyfriend either. Black women don’t want brothers to recognize their real value in the world because if they did, it would be the death knell for the american black woman. period!!!!

By: Ramses

Ramses — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 18:39:16 +0000

You already know how i do mack….they’ve been running better game than pimps on us. I wasted my twenties trying to teach them how to be better women. That’s not our job Family. They made their choices a long time ago. I show these degenerate brawds no mercy. I used to and that’s how I got burned too. I had a professor at georgia state who fits the same characteristics as i speak on here and it was interesting to see how when i called her out for cheating on her husband and being a whore, she came to me so humble. With all her ph’d’s and all that when i judged her off the ancient principles, it broke her whole ego down. The black woman is a hoe. Period. No matter if she is in corporate america, education, the hood, etc. Then she tries to hide it by going to church that cater to her weak ass nature. With the man she met in the club the previous night cum smell on her breath. And what makes it so sad is that they expect you to marry them which means they have no shame. Shame used to keep females in line now they are so far gone shame doesn’t even work anymore. Gutter ass chicks fam. I wouldn’t marry most black women in north america to continue the human race and my ex-wife was haitian and thought she was different but the same just in a different form.

By: Mack

Mack — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 11:44:38 +0000

@Ramses: Ya dropping some gems man! I feel everything you’re saying. I was down in Atlanta for 20 years. So I know the scene you described quite well. I married a sister from there: church going girl with a kid already. Comes from a two parent household. Working. Higher educated like my girl Steph preaches. Decent looking.

But my life took a turn for the worst the day I made it official and said ‘I do’. I never knew a human could make my life that miserable. Six years, two kids, a divorce and crazy child support payments later, I have my peace of mind back. And I won’t give it up for nothing in this world. Chick didn’t want to see me happy and at peace after the divorce, even though she admitted to making my life miserable while married. She even held my kids hostage for months at a time, attempting to squeeze more money out of me; not out of need, but out of spite.

I’m not even mad at her, you know why: because I should’ve vetted the situation better before going into it. Lesson learned.

Since then I’ve dated several other sisters seriously. One was even a Caribbean female who I later found out swung from both sides of the fence, if you catch my drift. Not a dusty chick even. A college educated corporate jawn. She just liked practising her Gettysburg Address skills on another female’s body every now and then. That crap is rampant in Atlanta! They talk about down-low brothers: somebody needs to talk about all those down-low SISTERS out there! Its actually worst.

I say: if you’re going to date a black woman here in the States, best to find one who’s either from the Islands or Africa. And make damn sure she grew up with a father she actually respected, and a mother she admired. That’s huge.
Check out her friends real closely too. If any of her homegirls seem even the least bit suspect, best to let her go.

I agree with you though bruh: you gotta go with what makes you happy at the end of the day. ALL, and I mean ALL the brothers I know married to chicks of another race are happy and content. Can’t say the same for the ones married to sisters. Very disturbing.

I keep sisters at arms length now. I still date them; got one now I’m kicking it with. One of the few brothers I know who does. But I refuse to rush into marriage again with anyone: I dont’ care if its the merry damn Queen of England.

Dudes be trying to live by some bygone era rules of engagement when it comes to these females: and that’s what got me hemmed up with the biscuit I married. Listening to the older folks who grew up in an era when they had morals. Those rules ain’t working now. Now you have to think strategic about dating and marriage.

Brothers gotta watch out for THEMSELVES; that should be the first rule of so-called ‘Black Power’. We stand to lose too much by hooking up with the wrong chick nowadays. I’m reminded of that everytime I go online to make another CS payment…

By: Ramses

Ramses — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 09:17:17 +0000

@Mack i remember you putting something up on Tawawa House and saw some info…but damn didn’t know they were whispering the secrets of revolt in ‘Massa” ear like that but it doesn’t surprise me at all. I see them being disloyal now….south america popping like crazy I’ve seen chicks down there named Anubis fam….ancient names…..passport game is a must….and the thing about latinas they love Machismo…they revere papi chulo….the caucasian with power and the black woman in north america played cruel trick on the black man…while he was defending the race, his woman was going behind his back selling him out while they both laughed…look at tyler perry’s movie “The Family That Preys.” The dynamics in which we speak of are present in that movie. I was watching the tv show “Scandal” with Kerry Washington and the brother on the show sho wants her said I pursue you but you never tell me to stop. Do you want me to stop?” She says no I don’t want you to stop pursuing me. But I am not ready to open up to you in that way.” Now it’s interesting to note that her love interest in the show is a white male who happens to be president! You have an available brother that happens to be a Senator I might add, so it’s not like he doesn’t have status. But the sister is not ready to be with him because she is locked on a Man who is unavailable. Mind you the show was created by a black woman and the character is based off a real black woman in washington. The dynamics of the black woman and white male relationship are on ful display in this show and it also shows how the black man is on the outside looking in not knowing what’s going on. This female would rather be someone’s mistress than wife. Sounds familiar? I’m telling brothers to stop with this undying loyalty for “The Strong Black Woman.” Just love Woman. When she comes your way and presents herself to you in the proper form, noo matter pigmentation, give her chance. I’m not saying don’t give black women chances. But the ones who turned their backs on you, which is alot, don’t give the time of day. And I don’t mean the ones who dealt outside of their race cause this is not hatred. I mean the ones who sold you out for feminism. The ones who purposely chose weak dudes so they could control them, but when they came across strong men tried to break them down. The ones who sold you out for corporate America. Ask questions. If a Woman is in her thirties and has either never been married or has never been asked to be married, then a red flag should go up instantly, especially if she’s really attractive. And for all these sisters who read this who have something negative to say. I give you back your words. You all say there are no good black men out here right? Well if that’s the case you shouldn’t get mad at those who think like myself decide to go elsewhere in the world and get wives from different women of the world. You won’t be missing much anyway right? You’ll notice how the topic of marriage concerning black women didn’t come into play until the economy started going sour? Remember in then nineties when black women had good jobs and had their own houses and cars? I didn’t hear anything about getting married then from them. However, when the economy goes bust, now women all of a sudden know what a Man’s role is being that in their mind a Man’s role is to take care of a wife. No that is not his job. A man supports his wife, he takes care of kids. On an essence blog in 2009 i think, a black chick said her grandmother told her that “a black man and white woman together is nothing, but a white man and black woman together can rule the world.” While you brothers have put your lives on the line for them, look at how they were thinking behind your back!!! A gay black chick told me in 2008, when I was heavily on my pro-black stuff that when i expressed my values to her, she told me you won’t be with a black woman. I was stunned. I said why? She said ‘most black women can’t deal with a black man like you.” She said “you’re confident, you know what you want out of life, and you don’t need a black woman leading you. Most black women can’t handle a man like you. Gay chick had no reason to lie cause she knew she had no chance with me. She said to me, and I’ll never forget it, she said “I didn’t think Men like you existed anymore.” Most black females are shocked to even hear that I’ve never went to a strip club. These females expect to be exploited. When you don’t they look at you like something’s wrong with you. The scriptures talk about a remnant of people being put in a position to receive God’s blessing. There will be a few women from this group who will be saved but the rest are ashes already. Destruction is not coming, it’s already here. Brothers need to wake up. Why you think you can’t find wives? It’s not because you are worthless like your so-called woman likes you to believe just because she’s an administrative assistant (such a glorious title). You are not married because your Creator won’t allow you to wife something so degenerate as these females. You’re actually being showed mercy. When you have females who are notorious for using men’s seeds against them what’s their excuse? Don’t make excuses for them either. These females are so hateful that they will use a Man’s seed to bring him down, as if he’s wrong because he chose not to be with her because she wouldn’t respect him. Is that honorable? And I don’t want to hear a sob story either about being a single mom either because A virtuous woman would not allow herself to become a baby mama in the first place. It didn’t used to be like this in this society. Now you have a society who rewards women for irresponsibility, yet like men up for what they say is irresponsibility as well. Females who have eight kids by 5 dudes and this is what we should defend and make excuses for. If there are men as clowns in society, it’s only because their are clown women and black women are the only females i know who go to clubs, strip clubs, pimp other black women, and church all at the same time. You don’t see chines women trying to serve two masters. Or Korean women. The problem with the black women can be best explained in the game of chess. The most important piece on the chessboard is the king. However, the most powerful piece on the board is the queen because she can move in any direction. However, what the black woman attempts to do is play both sides of the chessboard, causing all types of confusion. She defends the caucasiian with power (i make the distinction because all caucasians don’t have power and think like those with it) yet gives the impression that she’s on the side of the black man. But my ex said it best a few years back. She said “it’s like we (black women) really don’t want you’ll but we don’t want you’ll to go anywhere else and be happy.” Isn’t that sick. My ex, who is a black woman said that we (black woman) don’t really want you’ll but we don’t want you’ll to be happy. Think brothers. Are you gonna be loyal to someone else over your own happiness. Hell black women don’t even do that. When they get with a white man, the first thing they say to you is “well you’ll ain’t got your shit together.” Lol. Why it can’t be the same for them? Hell i’ve even heard black females say that when they decide to turn gay. a woman understands them better. Is this joke or what? The most insulting thing for me to see is a black female who knows she’s not gay, but does it out of bitterness and then blames men for her conversion. If a brawd is gonna be gay then do your thing. But then when you try to say it’s because black men don’t have their shit together!!! You deserve to lose all your teeth for saying something like that. You gay because you just weak. To me homosexuality from them is them saying I am not woman enough to go through the battles with my men. Feminism is a backwards way of trying to get Men to be comfortable with homosexuality because the woman is essential in the family making process in terms of the traditional family and you take her out of that construct, which was a construct that kept her in line, you have a society full of imbalanced kids as the result and each generation who subsequently comes get weaker and more susceptible to these new age notions of womanhood, and manhood. And to make it worse, I see women in Atlanta who will get with a gay chick, and the same respect that Men ask for and she denies him, she will give this respect to the gay dude looking female. For you cats who are not up on game, you do not want to deal with no chicks from Atlanta like that unless you outright paying for the drawls on backpage.com. I have been here since 88 and I’m telling you I would never date, let alone marry a chick from here. They are probably the worse chicks on the planet. Good to look at and play with, but that’s about it. They are nothing but toys you discard with after they get old. Holla

By: Mack

Mack — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 05:07:16 +0000

@ Ramses:

“Think about it: they chose feminism over race but want us to stay committed to them based on race!!! And we fell for it.”

And that right there is the crux of the matter.

I just posted something on my blog http://www.flipthegame.net where I went in on how sisters have always shared a secret relationship with white men since slavery. I mentioned something on here before about the Tawawa House Resort and such. When it was time to kick off a slave revolt, it was often the sister who shared a bed and special privileges with ‘massa’ who whispered in his ear and told about the plans.

But just to play the devil’s advocate a bit: I fault these thirstyass dudes for much of this whoredom we see today. They are the ultimate enablers of hoodrats, Aunt Tomassina’s and skuzzbucket women. Tricking off money in the strip clubs, chasing groups of hoodrats through the parking lot after the club, over-hyping them on their dating profiles and whatnot. Especially in Atlanta! A lot of these females would do better. A woman’s natural tendency is to follow the leading of the men around her; even if she ‘claims’ to be independent. But the thirsty negroes in their vicinity keep them on some low-budget thinking tip.

It might be time for upwardly thinking brothers to get their passport game on deck.

And right about now, Africa’s on and popping big time. Some of the finest women in the world are in Africa. Plus their minds are right! I’m plotting a trip to South Africa next year myself. If all goes well I’ll be hitting up S. America too. #thinkingoutsidethebox