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		By: Erich Hicks		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Keep history alive by telling that history:

Read the greatest &#039;historical novel&#039;, Rescue at Pine Ridge, the first generation of Buffalo Soldiers. The website is: http://www.rescueatpineridge.com  This is the greatest story of Black Military History...5 stars Amazon internationally, and  Barnes &#038; Noble.  Youtube commercials are: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iD66NUKmZPs     and     http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xEgEqgNi2Is

Rescue at Pine Ridge is the epic story of the 9th Cavalry from its Congressional conception in 1866, to the rescue of the famed 7th Cavalry by the 9th Cavalry Buffalo Soldiers, 1890. The 7th Cavalry was entrapped again, after the Little Big Horn Massacre, fourteen years later, the day after the Wounded Knee Massacre. If it wasn&#039;t for the 9th Buffalo Soldiers, there would of been a second massacre of the 7th Cavalry. This story is about, brutality, compassion, reprisal, bravery, heroism, redemption and gallantry.

You’ll enjoy the novel that embodies the Native Americans, Outlaws and African-American/Black soldiers, from the east to the west, from the south to the north, in the days of the Native American Wars with the approaching United States of America.

The novel was taken from my mini-series movie with the same title, “RaPR” to keep the story alive.  The movie so far has the interest of major actors in which we are in talks with, in starring in this epic American story.

When you get a chance, also please visit our Alpha Wolf Production website at; http://www.alphawolfprods.com and see our other productions, like Stagecoach Mary, the first Black Woman to deliver mail for the US Postal System in Montana, in the 1890&#039;s, “spread the word”, http://www.stagecoachmary.net.

Peace.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Keep history alive by telling that history:</p>
<p>Read the greatest &#8216;historical novel&#8217;, Rescue at Pine Ridge, the first generation of Buffalo Soldiers. The website is: <a href="http://www.rescueatpineridge.com" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.rescueatpineridge.com</a>  This is the greatest story of Black Military History&#8230;5 stars Amazon internationally, and  Barnes &amp; Noble.  Youtube commercials are: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iD66NUKmZPs" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iD66NUKmZPs</a>     and     <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xEgEqgNi2Is" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xEgEqgNi2Is</a></p>
<p>Rescue at Pine Ridge is the epic story of the 9th Cavalry from its Congressional conception in 1866, to the rescue of the famed 7th Cavalry by the 9th Cavalry Buffalo Soldiers, 1890. The 7th Cavalry was entrapped again, after the Little Big Horn Massacre, fourteen years later, the day after the Wounded Knee Massacre. If it wasn&#8217;t for the 9th Buffalo Soldiers, there would of been a second massacre of the 7th Cavalry. This story is about, brutality, compassion, reprisal, bravery, heroism, redemption and gallantry.</p>
<p>You’ll enjoy the novel that embodies the Native Americans, Outlaws and African-American/Black soldiers, from the east to the west, from the south to the north, in the days of the Native American Wars with the approaching United States of America.</p>
<p>The novel was taken from my mini-series movie with the same title, “RaPR” to keep the story alive.  The movie so far has the interest of major actors in which we are in talks with, in starring in this epic American story.</p>
<p>When you get a chance, also please visit our Alpha Wolf Production website at; <a href="http://www.alphawolfprods.com" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.alphawolfprods.com</a> and see our other productions, like Stagecoach Mary, the first Black Woman to deliver mail for the US Postal System in Montana, in the 1890&#8217;s, “spread the word”, <a href="http://www.stagecoachmary.net" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.stagecoachmary.net</a>.</p>
<p>Peace.</p>
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		By: Terrance Amen		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Sep 2012 07:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You can’t erase a person’s history and expect their not to be negative repercussions from it. Black people of whom I am proud to be a member of, are the original people, the first educators, doctors, architects, of the world and so many more great firsts that are not taught in the schools. White people will never fully understand the side effects of mental slavery because they look at things from a totally different point of view. From their point of view, there is no problem, which is ridiculous. Unfortunately, Black people don’t understand it either. That’s why we don’t have unity in our community like every other group. 

We have been programmed to be the most forgiving, integrating, assimilating, people on the planet. Yet we still go through all kinds of discrimination. It’s overtime the Blackman and woman start to do for themselves. Once we start taking back those hundreds of billions of dollars we spend in every community but our own, then and only then will we get the respect from all groups of people and be able to take care of ourselves by solving our own problems. Prejudice is a natural human trait, but racism is not and because whites don’t think there is a racial problem, is the reason why we have all these problems in this country.  It’s time to wake up Black people.  

Black Unity means financial independence and happiness]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can’t erase a person’s history and expect their not to be negative repercussions from it. Black people of whom I am proud to be a member of, are the original people, the first educators, doctors, architects, of the world and so many more great firsts that are not taught in the schools. White people will never fully understand the side effects of mental slavery because they look at things from a totally different point of view. From their point of view, there is no problem, which is ridiculous. Unfortunately, Black people don’t understand it either. That’s why we don’t have unity in our community like every other group. </p>
<p>We have been programmed to be the most forgiving, integrating, assimilating, people on the planet. Yet we still go through all kinds of discrimination. It’s overtime the Blackman and woman start to do for themselves. Once we start taking back those hundreds of billions of dollars we spend in every community but our own, then and only then will we get the respect from all groups of people and be able to take care of ourselves by solving our own problems. Prejudice is a natural human trait, but racism is not and because whites don’t think there is a racial problem, is the reason why we have all these problems in this country.  It’s time to wake up Black people.  </p>
<p>Black Unity means financial independence and happiness</p>
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		By: Chris		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2012 13:12:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Those past situations that might have lead to our present predicament in race relations certainly had their part in this development in my opinion. However, things might be more deep-rooted and probably impossible to extinguish. While better education and a better understanding of the past plays a huge role in making race relations better it is important that ALL OF US understand how people of different cultures interact in this time and age. Prejudice and social framing is something very human. It is almost impossible to be completely free of any prejudice or not to socially frame someone or a group just by looking at the person.

Some of this prejudice stems from fear and natural fear is an instinct to save yourself from danger or harm. It is basically a survival instinct.
As ridiculous as it sounds it is a &quot;prejudice out of fear&quot; when the heavy truck that drives a bit faster down the street we are walking on makes us fear it. All kinds of concepts come into play.. from knowing that there could be a drunk driver steering the vehicle or someone being too stupid to be careful enough, etc... 
There you have it. This is your prejudice that was aquired over quite some time. 

So respecting and acknowledging the history of African American struggles of the past (from both sides) doesn&#039;t quite cut it. 
No matter if one says &quot;oh, it&#039;s just self-loathing&quot; and no matter if one is aware that racism is still alive and holds back a whole ethnicity.. understanding each other better and being able to change perspectives requires a different social upbringing. It requires a non-xenophobic pedagogy which at the current state will just not be possible in American society.

People bring highly contingent assumptions, beliefs, and frames to their reading of their social worlds. These framing assumptions are presumably the effect of prior life experiences and learning -- this is what we can refer to as the social psychology of social perception.

(It is possible there is some degree of biology here as well; we can&#039;t exclude the possibility that there is a natural-selection basis to a neurophysiology of social perception, as argued by the sociobiologists. The case is not resolved at present. Are there any social impulses that are hard-wired through our evolutionary history?)

Another thing we know about social cognition is that human beings are great storytellers. We can take a small detail and weave it into an orderly narrative. And we are likely to tell stories that play out our expectations, fears, or hopes. We interpret the events and behavior around us in ways that go vastly beyond the slender facts that we observe.

(There is probably a developed area of research on this particular feature of social cognition, analogous to the study of reading or pattern recognition, though I am unaware of such research. But it would go something like this: assemble a set of video clips of people acting and interacting without much explicit context, and ask the subjects to briefly describe what is going on. Insert various social cues and see how that changes the stories subjects construct -- for example, change the actor&#039;s clothing or adornments slightly.)

Now let&#039;s see what the point is. I suggest that these features of human social cognition make prejudice and discriminiation a very common feature of social cognition. Take a small dimension of mistrust of strangers; add to this a slight propensity for being uncomfortable with difference; add the usual fact of the information sparsity available in most social interactions; and fold in the degree of fictionalizing and narrative construction that social cognition normally involves -- and what are you likely to get? It seems credible that the resulting stories will often enough represent the other in terms that support prejudice, discrimination and fear. And it seems credible that these internalized stories, and the actions and consequences they produce, will reinforce and proliferate the prejudicial stories and behaviors.

This suggests a basis for expecting mechanisms of social cognition that are xenophobic, racist, homophobic, and sexist. It is an unpleasant possibility.

It also suggests that when we advocate for a society based on assumptions of trust, equality, and mutual respect -- that we need to be considering as well how to create a learning environment that creates these cognitive habits. We shouldn&#039;t assume that trust and equality are &quot;natural&quot; states of mind, but rather a set of cognitive habits that need to be specifically cultivated.

If this has some credibility, it probably gives some indications of what a non-xenophobic pedagogy ought to look like. It ought to work to provide more background knowledge about human differences -- to fill in part of the data gap. It ought to work specifically to defuse the
origins of &quot;stranger anxiety&quot; -- to work against the background of fear that structures many human interactions. And it ought to affirmatively make the case for equality among persons -- to counteract a tendency for the group superiority stories to emerge.

In other words, a just and equalitarian society needs to be created. It isn&#039;t an accident.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those past situations that might have lead to our present predicament in race relations certainly had their part in this development in my opinion. However, things might be more deep-rooted and probably impossible to extinguish. While better education and a better understanding of the past plays a huge role in making race relations better it is important that ALL OF US understand how people of different cultures interact in this time and age. Prejudice and social framing is something very human. It is almost impossible to be completely free of any prejudice or not to socially frame someone or a group just by looking at the person.</p>
<p>Some of this prejudice stems from fear and natural fear is an instinct to save yourself from danger or harm. It is basically a survival instinct.<br />
As ridiculous as it sounds it is a &#8220;prejudice out of fear&#8221; when the heavy truck that drives a bit faster down the street we are walking on makes us fear it. All kinds of concepts come into play.. from knowing that there could be a drunk driver steering the vehicle or someone being too stupid to be careful enough, etc&#8230;<br />
There you have it. This is your prejudice that was aquired over quite some time. </p>
<p>So respecting and acknowledging the history of African American struggles of the past (from both sides) doesn&#8217;t quite cut it.<br />
No matter if one says &#8220;oh, it&#8217;s just self-loathing&#8221; and no matter if one is aware that racism is still alive and holds back a whole ethnicity.. understanding each other better and being able to change perspectives requires a different social upbringing. It requires a non-xenophobic pedagogy which at the current state will just not be possible in American society.</p>
<p>People bring highly contingent assumptions, beliefs, and frames to their reading of their social worlds. These framing assumptions are presumably the effect of prior life experiences and learning &#8212; this is what we can refer to as the social psychology of social perception.</p>
<p>(It is possible there is some degree of biology here as well; we can&#8217;t exclude the possibility that there is a natural-selection basis to a neurophysiology of social perception, as argued by the sociobiologists. The case is not resolved at present. Are there any social impulses that are hard-wired through our evolutionary history?)</p>
<p>Another thing we know about social cognition is that human beings are great storytellers. We can take a small detail and weave it into an orderly narrative. And we are likely to tell stories that play out our expectations, fears, or hopes. We interpret the events and behavior around us in ways that go vastly beyond the slender facts that we observe.</p>
<p>(There is probably a developed area of research on this particular feature of social cognition, analogous to the study of reading or pattern recognition, though I am unaware of such research. But it would go something like this: assemble a set of video clips of people acting and interacting without much explicit context, and ask the subjects to briefly describe what is going on. Insert various social cues and see how that changes the stories subjects construct &#8212; for example, change the actor&#8217;s clothing or adornments slightly.)</p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s see what the point is. I suggest that these features of human social cognition make prejudice and discriminiation a very common feature of social cognition. Take a small dimension of mistrust of strangers; add to this a slight propensity for being uncomfortable with difference; add the usual fact of the information sparsity available in most social interactions; and fold in the degree of fictionalizing and narrative construction that social cognition normally involves &#8212; and what are you likely to get? It seems credible that the resulting stories will often enough represent the other in terms that support prejudice, discrimination and fear. And it seems credible that these internalized stories, and the actions and consequences they produce, will reinforce and proliferate the prejudicial stories and behaviors.</p>
<p>This suggests a basis for expecting mechanisms of social cognition that are xenophobic, racist, homophobic, and sexist. It is an unpleasant possibility.</p>
<p>It also suggests that when we advocate for a society based on assumptions of trust, equality, and mutual respect &#8212; that we need to be considering as well how to create a learning environment that creates these cognitive habits. We shouldn&#8217;t assume that trust and equality are &#8220;natural&#8221; states of mind, but rather a set of cognitive habits that need to be specifically cultivated.</p>
<p>If this has some credibility, it probably gives some indications of what a non-xenophobic pedagogy ought to look like. It ought to work to provide more background knowledge about human differences &#8212; to fill in part of the data gap. It ought to work specifically to defuse the<br />
origins of &#8220;stranger anxiety&#8221; &#8212; to work against the background of fear that structures many human interactions. And it ought to affirmatively make the case for equality among persons &#8212; to counteract a tendency for the group superiority stories to emerge.</p>
<p>In other words, a just and equalitarian society needs to be created. It isn&#8217;t an accident.</p>
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		By: Jaden		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2012 06:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have no sympathy for blacks in America now adays. There are so many opportunities to learn, grow, succeed. There are many great black role models, spokes people, tvs, internet, free money ect. All the doors are open to them. Many simply refuse to walk through them. Grow thicker skin, quite blaming personal laziness on Americas slave history and I bet a lot of the racism that is felt is perceived and not true. I can&#039;t tell you how many black people have called me racist/treated me poorly when in fact I honestly didn&#039;t give two shits about color for as long as I have lived. 
Your view that blacks are not taught enough black history is invalid to me. I remember starting to learn black history as early as I was learning white. Maybe if people actually paid attention in school they would know their history, instead its cool to be dumb. That&#039;s the dumbest idea ever. 
Also to think that whites feel superior bc we trace our lineage to kings and queens is nonsense, most white in America came from the lowest classes of European society, many were slaves but the Brits having a thing about pretty words preferred to call them endentured servants. 
 I worked with a shit ton of blacks, and one was stricken with the idea to use the &quot;it&#039;s because I&#039;m black&quot; excuse, and the rest of the blacks straighten him up real quick fast and in a hurry. This was ten years ago.  Maybe the cure to the American black problem is for those who feel downtrodden/mistreated to go join the military. Instills pride and the higher ranks won&#039;t put up with &quot;it&#039;s because I&#039;m black excuse&quot;, besides the military mistreats everyone equally and it&#039;s usually about a thousand times worse then most civilian encounters. The only link I see between black and their American life is blacks perceive to be lesser bc they keep telling themselves that. I just don&#039;t see race being a valid excuse for most instances, esp regarding achieving personal success.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no sympathy for blacks in America now adays. There are so many opportunities to learn, grow, succeed. There are many great black role models, spokes people, tvs, internet, free money ect. All the doors are open to them. Many simply refuse to walk through them. Grow thicker skin, quite blaming personal laziness on Americas slave history and I bet a lot of the racism that is felt is perceived and not true. I can&#8217;t tell you how many black people have called me racist/treated me poorly when in fact I honestly didn&#8217;t give two shits about color for as long as I have lived.<br />
Your view that blacks are not taught enough black history is invalid to me. I remember starting to learn black history as early as I was learning white. Maybe if people actually paid attention in school they would know their history, instead its cool to be dumb. That&#8217;s the dumbest idea ever.<br />
Also to think that whites feel superior bc we trace our lineage to kings and queens is nonsense, most white in America came from the lowest classes of European society, many were slaves but the Brits having a thing about pretty words preferred to call them endentured servants.<br />
 I worked with a shit ton of blacks, and one was stricken with the idea to use the &#8220;it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m black&#8221; excuse, and the rest of the blacks straighten him up real quick fast and in a hurry. This was ten years ago.  Maybe the cure to the American black problem is for those who feel downtrodden/mistreated to go join the military. Instills pride and the higher ranks won&#8217;t put up with &#8220;it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m black excuse&#8221;, besides the military mistreats everyone equally and it&#8217;s usually about a thousand times worse then most civilian encounters. The only link I see between black and their American life is blacks perceive to be lesser bc they keep telling themselves that. I just don&#8217;t see race being a valid excuse for most instances, esp regarding achieving personal success.</p>
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		By: Abbe		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2012 02:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[As a teacher in a school that is 80% African American, I find that I care more about their past and future than they do. I have a rule about not using the &quot;n&quot; word in class. I remind them of the struggles their decendents went through to NOT be called that word. I can just see Malcolm, Martin, Medgar, Rosa and others turn over in their graves everytime they say it. They could care less and know even less than that. However they can tell you when Lil Wayne&#039;s next CD drops. 
We need to impress upon all our children, black, white, brown, yellow, red, the importance of HISTORY. Not white history, black history, or polka dot history. One of the biggest disparagements ever made was to name February Black History Month. It&#039;s as if to say you&#039;re not important enough to be thought of the rest of the year so just to make you happy we&#039;ll give you a few weeks in the shortest month of the year. History belongs to all of us, not just whites from April to January, blacks in February, and women in March. ALL history should be taught together so as to know how it affects ALL of us. It is only from this we shall learn from our mistakes, all races, and make this world a better place. It is from this we will learn from &quot;walking in each other&#039;s shoes&quot;.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a teacher in a school that is 80% African American, I find that I care more about their past and future than they do. I have a rule about not using the &#8220;n&#8221; word in class. I remind them of the struggles their decendents went through to NOT be called that word. I can just see Malcolm, Martin, Medgar, Rosa and others turn over in their graves everytime they say it. They could care less and know even less than that. However they can tell you when Lil Wayne&#8217;s next CD drops.<br />
We need to impress upon all our children, black, white, brown, yellow, red, the importance of HISTORY. Not white history, black history, or polka dot history. One of the biggest disparagements ever made was to name February Black History Month. It&#8217;s as if to say you&#8217;re not important enough to be thought of the rest of the year so just to make you happy we&#8217;ll give you a few weeks in the shortest month of the year. History belongs to all of us, not just whites from April to January, blacks in February, and women in March. ALL history should be taught together so as to know how it affects ALL of us. It is only from this we shall learn from our mistakes, all races, and make this world a better place. It is from this we will learn from &#8220;walking in each other&#8217;s shoes&#8221;.</p>
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		By: Missy		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2012 00:08:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think it&#039;s simple people no matter what race simply need to educate their selves and understand history for what it is. No we can&#039;t go back and change it but we can make progress towards leaving a better history for our children. Progress is forward thinking and that&#039;s what we need as a people on all levels.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s simple people no matter what race simply need to educate their selves and understand history for what it is. No we can&#8217;t go back and change it but we can make progress towards leaving a better history for our children. Progress is forward thinking and that&#8217;s what we need as a people on all levels.</p>
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		By: things that make u go hmmm		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2012 23:25:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When you go before your maker you will only be held accountable for your life. This is why you must say a serenity prayer and accept what you can and cannot change because you will stand alone at the pearly gates and hopefully you will gain entry.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you go before your maker you will only be held accountable for your life. This is why you must say a serenity prayer and accept what you can and cannot change because you will stand alone at the pearly gates and hopefully you will gain entry.</p>
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