The answer is very clear***(black women tend to open their legs to get a man because of his $$$$$$, his social status, and other things that a lot of misguided sista’s think is okay to do yet, the end results are STD’s, other diseases, violence against each other and within our communities, etc. etc. And to think why white folk’ continue to throw blacks under the bus???; it’s not hard to figure out why. . . . .

Due to these dynamics, the WHOLE of the black man will continue to pass sista’s by until they focus upon what I think is the most beautiful aspect of the black woman **(her mind, heart, and spirit, which creates great self-esteem, self-confidence, self-discipline, self-respect, determination, and most importantly; SELF-LOVE)** These same dynamics also apply to the black man. . . . .

Not to say that I’m the model brotha’ but, I do credit GOD for waking up my spirit from my own self-destructive—PAST—life style that had me set for a monogrammed casket. I used a lot of self-application and educational tools to learn more about how a sista’ puts it on me.

Yes the sexual approaches are just an orgasm and then what after that????….Some sista’s do have that “GOOD GOOD” to make a ‘nigga’ scream and shout but, how many have that “GOOD GOOD” other than between their legs???

So, the black womans’ mind is the key for the black man to understand, respect, and appreciate the black woman. ***(Her mind IS NOT between her legs, on her chest, or behind her; it’s in her SPIRIT)***

I used to think like a lot of stupid brotha’s still think: “Damn Dog she fine, look at that ass, lips, titties” etc. etc.

But then reality hits and is that same sista fine in her mind, heart and spirit or, just her anatomy????????

Thanks Nojma; you always hit the nail on the head, whether myself, or other posters’ agree or disagree; TRUTH IS THE ONLY FREEDOM FROM ANY LIE!!!!!!

Thanks.

James.