Comments on: Loving Our Women.

By: Terrell

Terrell — Sun, 07 Jul 2013 02:40:44 +0000

Women are just sneaky, I’m married to one and she has made me reliize that I would have rather been single. Women are just to complicated to get this serious with, they think there smarter its just most men focus on what’s important an Madonna said it best, ( girls just wanna have fun) while men ficus on more serious issues.

By: Ramses

Ramses — Mon, 31 Dec 2012 21:26:24 +0000

Natale’s post says it all….we have this nostalgic notion of “black love.” We actually try to make love into a racial concept!!!! How silly we are as men and women and quite frankly, very childish. No one owes black people anything, including black women. This notion of “The Strong Black WOman” who does no wrong is the very reason why black women are not changing their behavior. Why do we as Men have to wait for black women to get into their forties before they realize marriage is an option? If black women are so perfect, why are they the only women on tv asking the question “why we can’t find husbands?” Black women can find men to haphazardly give their wombs to, but there aren’t any viable Men out here to marry? That’s false because these same brothers get with other women and marry. So that’s a falsehood. Black women are their own worse enemy. Most black women don’t even like other black women and have been saying it for years. I’ve seen articles where they try to encourage black women to get along. Black women are selfish in general, and this is why men are not committing to them. They wear black fingernail polish and wear these weaves that make them look like witches and the shit is frankly disgusting. All of a sudden you hear black women on these blogs talking about “we” as black men and women need to come together, as if Black Men have not been trying. What planet are these black females on? Oh. I know. It’s called planet Black Woman. A place where no one else is welcomed but her. The same females I see not respecting men, wil get with a dyke female and completely submit to her!!! Let them slap em in the face and call em all types of bitches, but will call the police on a Man who does the same thing when a lot of times he’s saying it because she’s disrespecting his Manhood. This dude, like many other black men keep this crap going on. Black women act like they don’t hurt men. Keep thinking that if you want. A female pastor friend of mine said this guy who was interested in her when she was in her twenties told her years later that she teased him. She even admitted to me that she used to sleep in the bed with him naked with the expectation he wouldn’t touch her!!!! What kind of women do this type of shit? She even admitted she was wrong for doing this. When me and this same woman got into it one day, I checked her. I’m 34 and she’s 48. She later told me that she respected me for putting her in her place. And this is not a weak chick at all. She’s from Texas and I respect these females. Whether Black Men realize it or not, women like these respect men who will put them in their place. Black men who apologize for black women’s demonic behavior ususally are the ones who get their asses whipped by them. Trust me, been there at one point. I don’t care if your father wasn’t there. I didn’t create you. All I care about is are you mentally and spiritually mature enough to be in a committed relationship? That’s all that matters. All these other excuses (like absent fathers and past relationships in which you chose to be with weak men) are not my concern. Black men think they have to take bullets for black women when these same women make stupid choices in terms of choosing men based on the teaching their mothers gave them, in which their mothers taught them to prostitute themselves to men instead of how to love them. A mother, if she truly loves her daughter, will teach her daughter how to love men, being this is the only way to coexist with a Man (boys need nannies). Why do you’ll think you see so many mothers, daughters, and granddaughters with each other, but no Man? Pay attention when you go to Wal Mart or Target, or grocery stores, and notice how you see these females who are lonely, or are gonna be lonely specifically the mothers were hoes, got pregnant as hoes (instead of wives), had daughters who became hoes at 15, and by the time they reach their thirties, they had 15 year old daughters who repeat the same generational curse. I would take it even a step further. If it wasn’t for the big asses and sexual escapades, would these same dudes defend black women like this? Outside of booty and sex, what do black women offer black men in terms of a quality of life? Do they offer you the prospect of family? No (unless you want a broken one). If you have children with them, even if you want to marry them and have a family, you’re more than likely to find yourself in court at War with them. Do they embrace your manhood? Hell NO!!! If anything, they try to take it away. Are they civilized in general? Come on now. That’s an emphatic NO!!!! Black women and their sense of entitlement will run continuously them into the ground. Black women think that black men are their toys and don’t realize they have made themselves toys. Black men are wising up to the game that black women have been doing. Black women are really silly thinking that they are high and mighty because things look very bleak for them long term. Every black woman, as a single individual will have to compete for Men like they are now. However, because women are so promiscuous and loose, they are having fun. But after the party is over, and you have no Man or family, where will that leave you? EIther a dyke, Cougar, or porn star. The only thing worse than a young hoe is an old hoe. Many black women in my generation have fucked themselves into relationship oblivion and will never return from this abyss. I am not responsible for black women and their hoish ways nor is any other men. They are fucking adults. And as adults you dwell in the environments that your mind take you too. Black women want to strip? It’s because they want to exhibit hoe behavior. If they wanted marriage, then they would exhibit the behavior that would ensure them that they can reach marriage. It’s called nature. Nature forces you to compete or die and it seems black women want death because most of them, in terms of their behavior, choose decadent ways of existence. I think their are very beautiful black women physically. But this beauty is not matched by inner beauty most of the times. Most black women have nasty arrogant attitudes period. And they know this. The fact you can have a female come in church, who has slept with 50 dudes, and expect marriage is the height of arrogance. We are not in the age of Pisces anymore (belief). We are in the age of Aquarius (knowing). You can believe what you want. But you better know what information you’re operating off of is truth. Belief is dangerous, but truth is not. It’s necessary to be able to move forward. There are many black women out here who will have a hard time finding marriage with any men, including black men. And this is not based on people hating black women. It’s based on theirs negative behaviors as indiviual black women. Relationships are individual excursions. Stop making excuses for them because they damn sure don’t give you the benefit of the doubt when they treat you like shit, but some dudes are infatuated with getting abused by black women (sadomasochist relationships). Good luck with that

By: Dw

Dw — Mon, 31 Dec 2012 16:51:40 +0000

How can you love a group of women that don’t love themselves? How can you love a group of women that is out for your destruction? If not to you physically, emotionally but through the government and police. I am sorry, but i can’t agree with this article, because countless of times good black men always get the short end of the stick for losers aka thugs of the community. The black women today are not the kind of black women that are from my mothers generation. These black women today ……… To much self hatred amongst them and 80% of them don’t even know their own history like seriously man? I think a lot of brothers today really just don’t have the time and patients for black women and their lack of respect towards black men in general anymore. This article is 10 years too late because alot of brothers such as myself have already moved on to who treats the other with respect and dignity. Everyday i get the most evil nasty stares from who? black women and only black women. Its 2012 going to 2013 and in honestly, i can’t roll with them. smh

By: TxSoulNorthernState

TxSoulNorthernState — Wed, 14 Nov 2012 20:45:11 +0000

I love this article.. we both men and women need to do better at showing one another respect.. instead of starting with the “They need to do better” it should be We need to do better..

By: Needa

Needa — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 01:12:12 +0000

I dont speak like this nor do I spend time with folks that do. Engage in decent, adult conversation. Immerse yourself with soulful sounds, especially jazz and these nuances will not a part of your life. Surround yourself with positive and positive things will come your way. Flood your home with vulgar music, hard core parties and filthy-mouthed company…and your children will turn out the same way. Yeah, you may have sent them upstairs but they know…trust me…..they know. Too easy.

By: edmond

edmond — Wed, 03 Oct 2012 12:20:37 +0000

to me, the problem is that black women have a sense of entitlement when it comes to black men. if black women dont start TREATING US BETTER, they are the ones really missing out. black women need to realize that black men dont BELONG to them. this aint the 60’s, and im not dating a women just because we are both black. if a women of another race treats me better, im rollin wit her.

maybe if black women were able to GIVE as much respect as they REQUIRE, black men wouldnt treat them so bad

By: Moms

Moms — Sun, 26 Aug 2012 18:19:18 +0000

@Natalie. Fantastic response.

By: J Realist

J Realist — Thu, 09 Aug 2012 14:57:50 +0000

Most of our women do not love themselves. Our women perm their hair, put on fake nails, and open their legs for marriage. How can you love and respect that? From the black video girl to the countless number of “Youtube twerkers” I’ll say that they have a ways to go. I am not saying that brothers do not have work to do; however, the topic is on loving our women. I just saying: Love Yourself First!

By: King Braswell

King Braswell — Thu, 09 Aug 2012 02:10:01 +0000

I know what impact slavery as had on us, don’t get me wrong, but at some point we are going to have to break those chains. I mean, yeah we have learned the ways of the master, but now what? We can’t keep acting like fools because we were once enslaved! I am around black males of all ages every single day, and this is the talk I hear, we have to take responsibility for our own actions. This is not the way we should be talking about women. So what, white men do it, just as well as all other, but I do not see it done so proudly as it is within our culture. Now if there is another culture that degrades their women in the way that we do, just point me in the right direction. If Im wrong, Im wrong, I have no problem with that. Im just a black man expressing my feelings! ONE

By: King Braswell

King Braswell — Thu, 09 Aug 2012 01:59:24 +0000

@Vladimir, I know that other races disrespect women brother, but what I am saying is that the disrespect towards our women are plastered all over music videos, and our music. I don’t really care about other races to a certain extent, Im dealing with how we deal with our women, and we can do better.