I’m neutral on this issue because I’ve been with women who play the VICTIM role but the point is that; a lot of these women have the “needy, codependent” mindset and its sad because of the socio-economic conditions in EVERY BLACK COMMUNITY in the United States; some men play the VICTIM role as well however, I can’t understand why specifically BLACK WOMEN tend to put us all in the same box. I’ve been with the VA for almost 20 years now and I see it every day from women who work here and some make a ton more $$$ than me yet, some come at a ‘BROTHA’ the same way; (with their bodies; before they come with their minds). . . . .

I don’t blame ALL black atheletes who choose white women over black women; I BLAME THE BLACK MAN & BLACK WOMAN why???: because if we get in the bed first, then the rest is drama and other issues that are current.

Chad Ocho’ just married a Hispanic woman. I don’t like it but everyone has a CHOICE and, I’m just disgusted that Chad & Terrell didn’t learn to keep their mouths shut, leave the ego//image at home, and just terrorize defenses on the field however, these 2 brothers also made their own beds so now they have to sleep in their mess. They both could’ve had awesome careers, just like Jerry Rice, Steve Smith, Tory Holt, etc. etc. etc.; the list is endless regarding black ball players however, I guess $$$$$$$ talks and bullshit walks.

WE ARE NOT ALL DOGS; there are still a lot of good black men out there; I just think women focus on what a ‘brotha’ has in his pockets, between his legs, and so on and, I think a lot of black men are tired of this nonsense so, maybe that has a bearing on why black men choose white, hispanic, asian, and other ethnic women; NOT JUST BLACK WOMEN.

Not bashing the BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN; just my take on the issue based upon my past experiences in friendships, sexships, relationships with black women; I’ve been with the same black woman for 10 years and I do look at other races however, no other race of woman can understand me as a blackman BUT!!!: the black woman.

However for all the bitter women who see African men as dogs, perhaps a better statement would be ” If you lie down with dogs, you will get up with fleas”. Trust not even a trifling knee-grow will want to be around a flea infested bitch.