Comments on: Yes Marriage: What It Is and What it Isn’t.

By: James

James — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 13:15:57 +0000

Mr. Stegman:

I applaude & salute you and your wife of 63 years; I was born in 1962 so I’m guessing I may have been 1 year old when you got married. God’s word gives the basic premise which a lot of people do not follow however, MARRIAGE IS ABOUT COMMUNICATION FIRST.

I hope to be married to my “sweetheart” for as long or longer than you’ve been married to your wife.

Great story; this gives me something to shoot for.

Thnaks,

James….

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Mon, 04 Jun 2012 20:36:27 +0000

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By: FRANCIS XAVIER STEGMAN

FRANCIS XAVIER STEGMAN — Mon, 04 Jun 2012 18:59:57 +0000

MARRIAGE IS WHAT YOU MAKE..IT IS NOT A MATTER OF GIVE AND TAKE WHO IS RIGHT AND WHO IS WRONG..WHO IS TO BE THE BOSS..MARRIAGE IS A MATTER OF GIVING..
MY WIFE AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 63 YEARS..THE LOVE IS STRONGER NOW THAN WHEN WE FIRST GOT MARRIED..WE HAVE NEVER HAD AN ARGUMENT ..I DO AS MUCH AS I CAN FOR HER AND SHE DOES THE SAME..WE DO NOT KEEP SCORE AS WHO DID WHAT AND WHO DIDN’T.
NOW PEOPLE WANT THEIR WAY,,THEY WANT TO CONTROL..THEY WANT TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO..
IF A MARRIAGE IT TO WORK THEN YOU HAVE TO WORK AT IT EVERY DAY..PROBLEMS COME,,PEOPLE BECOME ILL AS THEY GROW OLDER AND THE THING IS THAT YOU HAVE TO BE THERE DURING GOOD TIMES AND BAD TIME…
CONVERSATION IS THE KEY TO A GOOD MARRIAGE..YOU HAVE TO SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS,,THE GOOD TIMES AND THE BAD TIMES.