Comments on: Stop Worshiping Women.

By: Pat

Pat — Fri, 07 May 2021 09:40:29 +0000

There is only one thing to learn and remember :

Treat people, men and women alike, as your equals. Never put anybody on a pedestal.

If you put someone on a pedestal this will happen : At the end of the day they will look down at you and lose respect for you.

By: Fred

Fred — Tue, 03 Jun 2014 10:58:40 +0000

Famous black woman quote “Your not my boss”! HA HA that’s all i have to say. Good Piece Bruh.

By: Ramses

Ramses — Sat, 22 Dec 2012 18:28:44 +0000

Bruh you went in on this one!!!! lol My comrade

By: Markos

Markos — Fri, 11 May 2012 13:59:30 +0000

Nothing on Bob @blackman.com????????????!!!!!!!!!!!

By: Mack

Mack — Wed, 09 May 2012 22:00:11 +0000

The so-called ‘black’ feminists strikes again! *sigh heavily*

Listen: I have no problem with people disagreeing with my position. We’re all free to think and discuss whatever points of view we have. That’s what makes this country somewhat great. However…I do have a problem with people conjuring up arguments against me based on things I never said.

For the black feminists: I know you sisters HATE to be criticized for your sloppy lifestyles, bad dating choices and mis-education. But part of the reason why we seem so divided…even though I don’t know of any ethnicity of people who are totally together on everything all the time…is because sisters won’t even allow a true dialogue to take place where both sides can honestly air out their issues. There can be no healing if we can’t even have honest conversation.

So lose the penis envy, go sit down and first learn how to be females before you label yourself as a feminist. There’s nothing feminine about a feminist anyway, except for maybe her vagina. So the word is actually a smokescreen.

Jo: What article were you reading? I simply encourage men to stand tall and be MEN. Perhaps you prefer the metrosexual girly men we’ve been breeding as of late. Sorry: I guess I’m cut from a different cloth. I come from a family line where men know their worth and value, and don’t hide from it just to fit in with the times. And what exactly are you talking about as it relates to my article? Maybe you commented on the wrong post by accident, but you were kinda all over the place.

As for divide and conquering black folks: There’s seems to be this myth of a unified black man that existed. Where is he? Where’s his fossils so I can go and admire his bones? Black folks have NEVER been unified across the board, not in antiquity, nor in modern times. Nor has any other people group for that matter. Black Egyptians fought and conquered Black Nubia; black tribes in Papua New Guinea fight and conquer other black tribes of the same region.

Lose that fantasy of the mythological unified black man. There’s way too many black ‘feminists’ and uncle Toms for there to ever be total unity. We can’t even agree that black men need to keep their dicks in their pants! SMH…

Instead of focusing on doing what only GOD can do, how about we just take care of our kids, love our women the RIGHT way, and love ourselves enough to demand and expect the same love and respect from others in return? Is that not the sum totality of God’s law?

By: Deeann D. Mathews

Deeann D. Mathews — Tue, 08 May 2012 01:36:43 +0000

The trouble with this article is that, while it has some valid points (I’m all for men concentrating on becoming men of substance rather than running after women), it misses 2/3 of the point: only God is to be worshipped, so if we are worshipping our mates or ourselves, we’re sunk. Men and women are flawed and imperfect; neither gender needs to be up on a pedestal, but both need love, and both, when walking as best they can in righteousness, can be admired. So, both should concentrate on developing their character; the right mates will be drawn to each other in due time!

By: Jo

Jo — Thu, 03 May 2012 18:13:46 +0000

This article is exactly why the black community will never come together as one to overcome oppression in our lifetime. The crab in a barrel mentality is old and played but since anyone can write a blog or book these days the simple minded thinking just gets regurgitated.
Anyone agreeing with this post should ask themselves the following:
Why is it black men and women are always pinned against each other By each other?
Is there a way to uplift men without putting women down?
Is there a way to uplift women without putting men down?
Why does this author make a larger point about society using women for their money without talking about society using men for their money (jordans, jerseys, cars, chains, bottle popping and lowest rate of college graduation)?
Wouldn’t that get to a larger issue of exploitation of black wealth and the collective self-worth and systemic development and collaboration that we must cultivate as a community if we’re to shift this paradigm?
And although there are multiple layers to peel back for us to effectively make that change, how about we approach it as a community that’s on the same side of the table when it comes to wanting love, security, wealth, health and so on?
Not by using the same old divide and conquer techniques that our masters use as this writer has done. That just leads to him getting more attention, sex and money from this foolishness.
Think for yourselves women! One gender doesn’t have to override the other and there’s nothing wrong in wanting to worship someone you love and recipricolly wanting to be worshiped by someone you love. But since there’s no absolute truth, do what you want without having to put the majority of the population down.

By: Mary Alice

Mary Alice — Thu, 03 May 2012 16:43:24 +0000

Women need to stop worshiping men. That worship make men think women are their supplicants. Men cannot gestate, therefore they should worship at women’s feet.

By: TheJokeIsOnYOU

TheJokeIsOnYOU — Thu, 03 May 2012 16:18:25 +0000

This is the biggest crock of mess Ive read in a LOOOONG time. Sad part of it all, is the women, actually CO-SIGNING this foolishness. LOL.

Its no wonder black women are treated the way we are.

SMDH.

By: Mack

Mack — Wed, 02 May 2012 21:35:05 +0000

Thanks!